The Wholehearted Enneagram Podcast

Amy Wicks
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Honest stories, sacred rhythms, and wholehearted identity for every Enneagram Type. What if the Enneagram wasn’t just a personality tool, but an invitation to transformation? Welcome to The Wholehearted Enneagram Podcast: The Enneagram for Real Life with your host, Amy Wicks, a certified Enneagram coach, author, and “guide by the side.” Each week, you’ll find faith-based conversations, personal stories, and practical wisdom to help you live with more clarity, compassion, and courage. Together, we’ll explore how understanding your Enneagram Type can transform your relationships, strengthen your family rhythms, and deepen your walk with God. Whether you’re new to the Enneagram or ready to go beyond the basics, this podcast will remind you that your starting point doesn’t have to be your stuck point.  Because the Enneagram shines the light, but Christ is the transformation. 💛 Subscribe for episodes that blend faith + story + strategy and discover what wholehearted living looks like in your real, everyday life.

  1. 3D AGO

    The Nine's Courage | Peace, Fairness & Finding Your Voice with Deanna Sudom

    Send a text Wholehearted Enneagram: A Year Through the Types | Type Nine, Episode 1 of 4 What if the most peaceful person in the room is also the one most in need of courage? This month, we begin with Enneagram Type Nine, and Amy kicks off the conversation with her co-teacher and spiritual director, Deanna Sudom. Together, they explore what makes Nines so uniquely gifted (that rare ability to bring calm, see every side, and hold space for everyone) and what keeps them stuck. You'll hear about: The Nine's core fear of being overlooked, fragmented, or disconnected, and how it quietly shapes their choicesWhy Nines aren't lazy, they're numb, and the difference mattersHow Nines experience God (hint: it's often felt more than figured out)The surprising stubbornness that hides underneath all that easygoing presenceA Joshua 1 practice for the Nine who is ready to stop staying smallWhether you're a Nine yourself or you love one, this conversation is an invitation: God isn't asking you to stay quiet. He's asking you to wake up, speak up, and trust that your voice doesn't disrupt the peace; it creates it. Your presence brings peace. You don't have to go along to belong. Support the show RESOURCES FOR YOU: Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wicks https://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicks Not sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquiz Ennea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram (free course + printables) https://bit.ly/Enneagram101Guide The Real History of the Enneagram Course (use code AMY for 40% OFF) https://bit.ly/EnneagramHistory Should Christians Use the Enneagram? (Amy's book) https://amzn.to/3VB9Prx Connect with Amy: IG Website

    25 min

  2. MAR 3

    The Sidekick | When "helping" becomes hiding

    Send a text Wholehearted Storywork BONUS Episode (part 5) Before we move into our Type-specific series, there's one more pattern we need to talk about, a place where many women get stuck BEFORE they ever step into their Hero moment. In this bonus episode of the Wholehearted Storywork series, Amy explores the Sidekick stuck point, not as a lesser role, but as a protective pattern in which we use service, support, and "being helpful" to avoid claiming our own agency and stepping into our own story. This conversation gently names how "I'm just here to help" can become a hiding place rather than a calling, and why recognizing this pattern is essential before you can truly awaken Hero energy. You'll explore: Why the Sidekick pattern often forms before the Hero awakening, not after.How serving others can become a way to avoid your own calling.The difference between faithful service and hiding behind helpfulness.When Sidekick energy is a stuck point versus when it's a mature, faithful season.Why this pattern is especially common among Christian women.How Type Nine energy illustrates this stuck point (and why we're starting there next month).This episode isn't about stopping your service or diminishing the value of supporting others. It's about asking: Am I serving from wholeness, or am I serving to stay safe? If you've ever felt invisible while being incredibly useful, if you've championed everyone else's dreams while dismissing your own, or if the idea of pursuing your own calling feels selfish, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are. Sometimes the most courageous act is stepping out of the wings and into your own story. Support the show RESOURCES FOR YOU: Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wicks https://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicks Not sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquiz Ennea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram (free course + printables) https://bit.ly/Enneagram101Guide The Real History of the Enneagram Course (use code AMY for 40% OFF) https://bit.ly/EnneagramHistory Should Christians Use the Enneagram? (Amy's book) https://amzn.to/3VB9Prx Connect with Amy: IG Website

    20 min

  3. FEB 24

    The Guide | When Wisdom Sustains the Journey

    Send a text Wholehearted Storywork Part 4  After you've named the pain, let go of control, and stepped into agency, a question emerges: How do I sustain this? In this final episode of the Wholehearted Storywork series, Amy explores the Guide role, not as someone who has arrived or finished their own story, but as someone who has stayed with their healing long enough to walk alongside others without needing to control the outcome. This conversation reframes what it means to guide and be guided, and why formation is a lifelong journey that requires wisdom, presence, and ongoing support. You'll explore:  What a Guide is (and isn't) in wholehearted formation.Why Guides still need guidance and haven't "graduated" from their own healing.How Hero energy becomes sustainable through wisdom over time. The Holy Spirit as the true Guide in your life.Why you don't have to have it all together to walk with othersThis episode isn't about becoming an authority or arriving at spiritual maturity. It's about learning how to stay present with your own story so you can offer that same presence to others. If you've been on this wholehearted journey and are wondering what comes next, or if you've realized that even good changes need support to last, this conversation offers a vision of formation that doesn't end but deepens. Guides don't guide because they're finished; they guide because they've learned how to stay. Support the show RESOURCES FOR YOU: Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wicks https://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicks Not sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquiz Ennea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram (free course + printables) https://bit.ly/Enneagram101Guide The Real History of the Enneagram Course (use code AMY for 40% OFF) https://bit.ly/EnneagramHistory Should Christians Use the Enneagram? (Amy's book) https://amzn.to/3VB9Prx Connect with Amy: IG Website

    10 min

  4. FEB 17

    The Hero | When Agency Awakens

    Send a text Wholehearted Storywork Part 3 When you've named the pain and released the need to control, something powerful awakens. A choice. In this third episode of the Wholehearted Storywork series, Amy explores the Hero role, not as hustle or self-reliance, but as the moment you realize you have agency in your own story. This conversation honors the courage it takes to step forward while gently exploring why even your best efforts can become exhausting when carried alone. You'll explore:  What it means to awaken agency without falling into self-reliance.Why Hero energy is necessary for healing to move forward.The difference between choosing courageously and carrying everything alone. How effort and insight can start transformation, but wisdom helps it last.Why you were never meant to be the hero in everyone else's story.This episode isn't about doing more or trying harder. It's about recognizing the moments when you realize: "I don't have to stay here. I can choose differently." If you've ever taken a brave step forward only to find yourself exhausted months later, or if you're wondering how to sustain the changes you've courageously made, this conversation offers clarity and compassion for the journey ahead. Your Hero moments matter. Support the show RESOURCES FOR YOU: Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wicks https://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicks Not sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquiz Ennea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram (free course + printables) https://bit.ly/Enneagram101Guide The Real History of the Enneagram Course (use code AMY for 40% OFF) https://bit.ly/EnneagramHistory Should Christians Use the Enneagram? (Amy's book) https://amzn.to/3VB9Prx Connect with Amy: IG Website

    9 min

  5. FEB 10

    The Villain | When Protection Turns into Control

    Send a text Wholehearted Storywork – Part 2 When pain goes unhealed, it doesn’t disappear. It often turns into protection. In this second episode of the Wholehearted Storywork series, Amy explores the Villain role, not as a label for bad people, but as a pattern that forms when fear, self-protection, or unresolved hurt begins to shape our choices. This conversation gently reframes villain energy as a response to pain rather than a moral failure, and invites you to notice where control, defensiveness, or blame may have quietly replaced trust. You’ll explore: How unprocessed pain can harden the heart over timeWhy the Villain role is often about protection, not crueltyThe difference between repentance and self-condemnationHow fear and control can quietly rewrite the story you’re livingWhy awareness (not shame) is the first step toward freedomThis episode isn’t about diagnosing yourself or others.  It’s about noticing the ways we try to stay safe when healing feels risky. If you’ve ever recognized patterns you don’t like in yourself, or wondered how pain can slowly distort the way you relate to God and others, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and a more hopeful way forward. Awareness doesn’t make you the villain. It helps you choose a better story. Support the show RESOURCES FOR YOU: Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wicks https://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicks Not sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquiz Ennea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram (free course + printables) https://bit.ly/Enneagram101Guide The Real History of the Enneagram Course (use code AMY for 40% OFF) https://bit.ly/EnneagramHistory Should Christians Use the Enneagram? (Amy's book) https://amzn.to/3VB9Prx Connect with Amy: IG Website

    8 min

  6. FEB 3

    The Victim | When Pain Shapes the Story

    Send a text Wholehearted Storywork Part 1 Pain changes you. Loss, disappointment, betrayal, or suffering can quietly shape how you see yourself, God, and the world. In this first episode of the Wholehearted Storywork series, Amy introduces the Victim role, not as an identity to reject or a mentality to shame, but as a place in the story where real pain is named and honored. This conversation explores the difference between acknowledging harm and becoming stuck in it, and how Scripture invites you into holy lament rather than denial, blame, or self-erasure. You'll explore:  Why being a victim of pain is not a failure of faith.How unprocessed hurt can shape your story.The difference between telling the truth about what happened and living from a victim mentality.Why lament is a faithful and biblical response to suffering.How healing begins with paying attention, not pressure or quick resolutionThis episode is not about fixing your pain or rushing your healing. It's about creating space for honesty, compassion, and the slow work of formation. If you've been carrying a story that hurts (and aren't sure what to do with it), this conversation offers language and a way forward that doesn't bypass your humanity. Being in the Victim role doesn't mean you stay there; it simply means you're telling the truth about where you are. Healing begins when the truth is told in the presence of God's unconditional love. Support the show RESOURCES FOR YOU: Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wicks https://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicks Not sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquiz Ennea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram (free course + printables) https://bit.ly/Enneagram101Guide The Real History of the Enneagram Course (use code AMY for 40% OFF) https://bit.ly/EnneagramHistory Should Christians Use the Enneagram? (Amy's book) https://amzn.to/3VB9Prx Connect with Amy: IG Website

    9 min

  7. JAN 29

    *Bonus* What Story Are You Living? |Wholehearted Storywork Series Introduction

    Send a text What story are you living right now? Not the one you wish you were in. Not the polished version you post about. The real one. The one where you feel stuck, tired, or uncertain about what comes next. In this series introduction, Amy invites you into a new way of understanding your spiritual formation journey through four key roles we all move through: the Victim, the Villain, the Hero, and the Guide. This isn't about labeling yourself or fixing what's broken. It's about recognizing where you are in your story so you can respond with wisdom instead of shame. If you've been exhausted by trying harder, spiritual intensity that burns you out, or quick fixes that don't last, this series offers something different: a slower, steadier, more compassionate path toward wholeness. Your starting point doesn't have to be your stuck point. This is just the beginning.  Support the show RESOURCES FOR YOU: Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wicks https://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicks Not sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquiz Ennea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram (free course + printables) https://bit.ly/Enneagram101Guide The Real History of the Enneagram Course (use code AMY for 40% OFF) https://bit.ly/EnneagramHistory Should Christians Use the Enneagram? (Amy's book) https://amzn.to/3VB9Prx Connect with Amy: IG Website

    6 min

  8. JAN 27

    Why Insight Doesn’t Change You (And What Actually Does)

    Send a text You've had insight before. The clarity, conviction, and even real momentum. And yet, somehow, it didn't last. If you've ever wondered why meaningful change feels so hard to sustain, this episode is for you. In this conversation, Amy explores why insight alone—no matter how true or powerful—rarely leads to lasting transformation. Not because you failed, but because insight was never meant to carry the full weight of change on its own. This episode gently reframes skepticism as wisdom-in-the-making and invites you to consider a different path forward & one rooted in formation rather than intensity. You'll explore: Why insight often sparks change but can't sustain itHow intensity-based growth struggles to survive real lifeWhy seasons of disappointment don't mean you're resistantThe difference between performance-driven change and formation that lastsWhat it means to stay with your story long enough for wisdom to take rootThis isn't a call to try harder or hope faster. It's an invitation to slow down, notice patterns, and consider what kind of change can actually be carried over time. If you've been protecting yourself from false hope (or wondering why past breakthroughs faded), this episode offers language, clarity, and a steadier way forward. Not through reinvention. Through spiritual formation. Support the show RESOURCES FOR YOU: Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wicks https://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicks Not sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquiz Ennea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram (free course + printables) https://bit.ly/Enneagram101Guide The Real History of the Enneagram Course (use code AMY for 40% OFF) https://bit.ly/EnneagramHistory Should Christians Use the Enneagram? (Amy's book) https://amzn.to/3VB9Prx Connect with Amy: IG Website

    15 min
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Honest stories, sacred rhythms, and wholehearted identity for every Enneagram Type. What if the Enneagram wasn’t just a personality tool, but an invitation to transformation? Welcome to The Wholehearted Enneagram Podcast: The Enneagram for Real Life with your host, Amy Wicks, a certified Enneagram coach, author, and “guide by the side.” Each week, you’ll find faith-based conversations, personal stories, and practical wisdom to help you live with more clarity, compassion, and courage. Together, we’ll explore how understanding your Enneagram Type can transform your relationships, strengthen your family rhythms, and deepen your walk with God. Whether you’re new to the Enneagram or ready to go beyond the basics, this podcast will remind you that your starting point doesn’t have to be your stuck point.  Because the Enneagram shines the light, but Christ is the transformation. 💛 Subscribe for episodes that blend faith + story + strategy and discover what wholehearted living looks like in your real, everyday life.

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