Slightly off Script with Andy and Bethany Needham

Andy & Bethany Needham
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A marriage show with Andy & Bethany Needham where we remind you that marriage can be stupid good and wicked fun!

  1. JUN 16

    Summer Series - On the Road with A & B E1

    Join Bethany and Andy Needham for a special Road Trip Edition of Slightly Off Script! In this episode, they share their summer adventures, including road trips, family vacations, and a few unexpected moments on the road. Hear about Andy's solo travels with their kids, Bethany's summer activities, and their personal reflections on marriage and life's challenges. Plus, they discuss what's on their summer bucket list and what God has been teaching them lately. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, laughs, and a glimpse into their busy lives!00:00 Introduction and Road Trip Edition00:00 Introduction and Road Trip Edition00:45 Marriage Dynamics and Driving Habits00:45 Marriage Dynamics and Driving Habits02:20 Funny Stories and Traffic Stops02:20 Funny Stories and Traffic Stops04:09 Summer Activities and Family Trips04:09 Summer Activities and Family Trips10:10 Lessons from God and Personal Growth10:10 Lessons from God and Personal Growth15:03 Balancing Work and Marriage15:03 Balancing Work and Marriage19:12 Summer Bucket List and Vacation Plans19:12 Summer Bucket List and Vacation Plans23:11 Conclusion and Upcoming Events23:11 Conclusion and Upcoming Events

    25 min

  2. MAY 19

    Feels Like Summer - Episode 27

    In this week's episode of Slightly Off Script, Bethany and Andy Needham dive into their recent trip to Texas, sharing stories about Texas pride and their culinary adventures with BBQ and tacos. They also discuss their upcoming summer plans, including a special 'Summer Road Trip' podcast series and a family vacation to Maine. Tune in for a light-hearted reflection on their podcast journey, anecdotes from their travels, and what to expect in the upcoming months! Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band) 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:22 Meet the Hosts: Bethany and Andy 02:01 Travel Tales: Texas Adventures 04:19 Exploring Meow Wolf: An Immersive Experience 06:33 Texas Cuisine: BBQ and Tacos 08:26 Podcast Retrospective and Future Plans 10:54 Focusing on Community 11:36 Summer Plans and Outdoor Adventures 12:09 Popular Podcast Episodes and Listener Engagement 14:09 Memorable Moments and Surprises 15:50 Summer Road Trip Series Announcement 18:27 Summer Activities and Personal Goals 20:34 Family Trips and Personal Time 23:34 Gratitude and Apologies

    25 min

  3. MAY 12

    Maintaining Boundaries & Margin in Marriage: Episode 26

    Join Bethany and Andy Needham on this engaging episode of 'Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show' as they tackle the importance of boundaries in marriage. They begin with a playful acknowledgment of their own off-script moments, seamlessly transitioning into a deep dive on the concept of boundaries across four significant aspects: community, authenticity, mission, and play. They share personal insights, practical advice, and some humorous anecdotes on how maintaining boundaries can lead to a healthier, more balanced married life. From discussing intentional and interruptible quiet times, to the importance of margin in relationships, to setting realistic goals for play and restorative rest, this episode has it all. Don't miss out on their valuable tips and reflections to help foster a thriving marital life. Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band) 00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script 00:48 Boy Bands and Pop Culture 02:29 Hair and Health Updates 04:35 Boundaries in Marriage 08:16 Community and Relationships 20:15 Authenticity and Efficiency 24:19 Embracing Interruptions in Spiritual Life 25:07 Creating Margin in Busy Seasons 25:53 The Importance of Setting Boundaries 27:25 The Power of Self-Inventory and Questions 28:39 Navigating Resistance in Relationships 29:55 Balancing Mission and Personal Walk with God 30:42 The Trap of Works-Based Faith 36:18 Restorative Play and Its Importance 42:15 Practical Tips for Intentional Fun 46:14 Conclusion and Listener Engagement

    48 min

  4. MAY 5

    Marital Drift Happens : Preventing Your Marriage from Coming Apart - Episode 25

    In this episode of Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show, hosts Bethany and Andy Needham navigate the lighter and more profound aspects of marriage. They humorously discuss a typical day of yard work that led to reflections on communication and mutual understanding. The conversation delves into the serious topic of marital drift, examining its causes, signs, and preventive measures. They emphasize the importance of regular maintenance, setting guardrails, and sometimes seeking emergency help to maintain a healthy and fulfilling marriage. The episode offers insights into recognizing emotional, physical, intellectual, and spiritual indicators of drifting and provides practical advice on how to address and prevent these issues. Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band) 00:00 Introduction and Mulching Mishaps 01:31 Mansplaining to Manslaughter 05:28 Marriage Conversations and Divorce 08:26 The Drift in Marriages 10:56 Causes of Drift 22:03 Unhealed Wounds and Therapy 26:10 Understanding Dashboard Indicators in Marriage 28:42 Mind: Intellectual Health in Marriage 34:07 Body: Physical Affection and Intimacy 36:14 Soul: Emotional Health and Vulnerability 39:34 Spirit: Spiritual Health and Connection 41:01 Maintenance, Guardrails, and Emergency Measures 50:33 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    53 min

  5. APR 28

    Empowerment is a Superpower: Make Your Spouses Dreams Come True - Episode 24

    Welcome to another episode of 'Slightly Off Script: The Marriage Show' with your hosts Bethany and Andy Needham. In this episode, we explore the concept of empowerment in marriage, discussing how couples can support each other's dreams, navigate failures, and celebrate successes. We also delve into the practicalities of managing household responsibilities, shared financial decisions, and balancing personal interests like powerlifting and baseball park visits with family priorities. Tune in to hear real-life stories of how communication, appreciation, and mutual support contribute to a thriving partnership. Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band) 00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter 00:55 Middle Age Musings and Health 01:30 Spring Activities and Tattoos 05:57 Empowering Each Other in Marriage 08:15 Marriage on Mission 12:03 Shared Responsibilities at Home 16:18 Empowerment in Vocation and Ministry 25:10 Balancing Passion Projects and Primary Ministry 25:42 Navigating Challenges and Learning Together 27:02 Supporting Each Other's Dreams and Failures 30:29 Defining Success and Enjoying the Process 32:22 Celebrating Wins and Verbal Affirmations 34:26 Checking In and Serving Each Other 35:38 Family Memories and Supportive Relationships 37:39 Powerlifting and Mutual Support 39:53 Home Investments and Unexpected Challenges 45:18 Empowerment and Mutual Sacrifice in Marriage

    48 min

  6. APR 21

    Lament & Laughter when Life Feels Overwhelming - Episode 23

    In this episode of Slightly Off Script, hosts Bethany and Andy Needham discuss the ups and downs of marriage while tackling personal and health challenges. Join them as they navigate through emotional detachment, frustration, and mismatched expectations, sharing their experiences with honesty, humor, and love. With anecdotes about Pilates classes, doctor visits, and unexpected connections, Bethany and Andy emphasize the importance of communication, small moments of affection, and staying united as a team in difficult times. Tune in for a heartfelt and insightful conversation that reminds us all that marriage, while sometimes stupid, can be profoundly rewarding and wickedly fun. Order Slightly Off Script Merch (incluidng the Bethany Needham Band>) 00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter 00:58 Andy’s Pastoral Encounter 02:26 Bethany’s Pilates Experience 06:57 Medical Challenges and Frustrations 12:56 Navigating Weariness in Marriage 21:22 Emotional Detachment in Relationships 21:52 Guilt and Guarding in Marriage 22:50 Sharing Discomfort Unequally 23:23 Resentment and Victim Mode 25:15 Healthy Communication and Boundaries 31:46 Balancing Checking In and Giving Space 34:54 Micro Moments of Connection 38:39 Lament and Joy Mingled Together 41:47 Sticking Together Through Challenges 45:10 Final Thoughts and Farewell

    46 min

  7. APR 14

    Navigating Unmatched Expectations: Episode 22

    Join hosts Bethany and Andy Needham on this episode of 'Slightly Off Script: The Marriage Show' as they dive into the complexities of new season and expectations around sex. They delve into sensitive yet essential topics like intimacy, God's design for marriage, and the importance of open, honest communication. Expect practical advice, heartfelt stories, and lots of humor. Don't forget to check out their new merchandise and stay tuned for an exciting giveaway announcement! Order Slightly Off Script Merch (incluidng the Bethany Needham Band>) 00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script 00:27 Playful Banter and Mr. Universe 01:31 Weather Woes and Live Podcast Questions 03:03 Dream Destinations and Fun Activities 03:54 Emoji Descriptions and Daily Joys 07:22 Memories and Parenting Phases 13:40 Empty Nest and Relationship Dynamics 23:41 Balancing Ministry and Personal Time 24:29 Recalibrating Relational Rhythms 24:35 Embracing New Opportunities in Marriage 25:40 The Importance of Open Communication 26:14 Defining Marriage Values 27:30 Navigating Intimacy in an Empty Nest 29:29 The Role of Intimacy in Marriage 32:26 Honest Conversations About Intimacy 38:11 Humor and Flexibility in Marriage 38:52 Managing Expectations and Health in Intimacy 47:55 Merchandise and Podcast Wrap-Up

    51 min

  8. APR 7

    Rethinking Rest (with a Rest Expert, Dr. Sandra Dalton-Smith) - Episode 21

    In this episode Bethany and Andy share a series of unexpected events from their daily lives, including a shattered car window mishap that leads to an intriguing police investigation. Bethany interviews Dr. Sandra Dalton-Smith, a rest expert, who provides an in-depth look into the seven types of rest and how they impact our lives, marriages, and families. This conversation offers valuable insights into identifying and addressing various rest deficits, making it a must-listen for anyone feeling overwhelmed by life's demands. Order Slightly Off Script Merch (incluidng the Bethany Needham Band>) Connect with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith: https://www.drdaltonsmith.com/ Take the Rest Quiz: https://www.restquiz.com/ Buy Dr. Saundra's Books 00:00 Introduction to the Marriage Show 01:47 Bethany's Pilates Adventure 02:36 The Mystery of the Smashed Window 04:33 Dealing with the Aftermath 11:23 A Favor Gone Wrong 14:45 Special Episode on Rest 15:55 Interview with Dr. Sandra Dalton Smith 17:13 Introduction to Rest and Burnout 17:51 The Seven Types of Rest 18:13 Physical and Mental Rest Explained 19:40 Spiritual and Emotional Rest 21:14 Social, Sensory, and Creative Rest 25:27 Rest Strategies for Families and Couples 32:15 Practical Tips for Identifying and Addressing Rest Deficits 38:03 Conclusion and Final Thoughts 42:10 Podcast Outro and Personal Anecdotes

    48 min
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A marriage show with Andy & Bethany Needham where we remind you that marriage can be stupid good and wicked fun!

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