Slightly off Script with Andy and Bethany Needham

Andy & Bethany Needham
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The marriage show with Andy & Bethany Needham where we remind you that marriage can be stupid good and wicked fun!

  1. FEB 2

    Transform Your Family: The Power of a Family Mission Statement

    In this episode of 'Slightly Off Script,' hosts Bethany and Andy Needham discuss the transformative impact of family mission statements with Jamie and Joelle Zimmerman. Sharing their journey from busy professionals to family mission statement pioneers, the Zimmermans reveal how their faith and intentional family planning have created a lasting legacy. Listen as they detail their unique three-part process: recognizing the urgency, appreciating family origins, and defining the family's future. Discover how these principles can offer clarity and purpose for your own family, and learn more about the Zimmermans' ministry, Mission Family. For more information on Mission Family, visit: http://mission-family.org 00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script 01:02 Introducing the Zimmermans 03:14 A Journey of Faith and Family 04:18 The Story of Jamie and Joelle 13:33 Building a Family Mission Statement 16:23 Family Mission Statement: The Zimmerman Approach 17:02 Key Elements of the Mission Statement 17:39 Challenges and Compromises 18:50 Teaching Self-Reliance and Responsibility 19:54 Parenting Strategies and Role Modeling 23:34 The Importance of a Weekly Meeting 25:03 From Family Practice to Community Impact 27:56 The Three-Part Process for Building a Family Mission 33:10 Expanding the Mission Family Vision 35:47 How to Get Involved with Mission Family

    38 min

  2. JAN 26

    Staying Together in the Storm: Lessons from a Challenging Season

    In this heartfelt episode of Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show, hosts Bethany and Andy Needham share their recent experiences with tremendous loss and grief. From the sudden deaths of loved ones to the passing of their beloved dog, they open up about the emotional rollercoaster they've been on. Despite the hardships, they reflect on the importance of community, the power of presence, and how their marriage has provided a foundation of support and strength. Join them as they discuss their journey through these challenging times and offer insights on communication, resilience, and the enduring power of love. 00:00 Introduction and Hosts 00:35 Podcast Recording While Sick 01:44 Reflecting on Camp Spofford Episode 03:09 Recent Personal Losses and Challenges 06:44 Importance of Rest and Reconnection 12:32 Support and Community During Hard Times 22:52 Navigating a Family Crisis 23:36 Pride in Our Children's Strength 26:44 Communication in Marriage 29:11 Balancing Responsibilities and Expectations 31:38 Remembering a Friend's Legacy 36:47 Coping with Pet Loss 40:55 The Ministry of Presence 43:42 Upcoming Events and Closing Remarks

    44 min

  3. JAN 19

    Live at Camp Spofford: Marriage, Challenges, and Triumphs

    In this special live episode, join hosts Andy and Bethany Needham at Camp Spofford in Spofford, New Hampshire, as they kick off the new season of the Slightly Off Script Marriage Podcast. Recorded with a live audience, Andy and Bethany dive into real-life topics, including maintaining strong marital bonds amidst parenting, navigating mental health challenges with children, managing technology use within the family, and addressing unhealthy patterns in friendships. The episode is filled with candid conversations, practical advice, and personal anecdotes aimed at helping you navigate the complexities of marriage and parenting. 00:00 Introduction and New Year Greetings 00:32 Special Episode at Camp Spofford 01:37 Live Podcast and Audience Interaction 02:27 Marriage Milestones and Cruise Adventure 06:12 Marker 06:24 Prioritizing Spouse Over Children 11:53 Mental Health Challenges in Children 19:20 Communication and Expectations in Marriage 21:40 Navigating Marital Conversations 23:21 The Power of Storytelling in Conflict 24:16 Personal Experiences and Reflections 26:08 Addressing Mismatched Expectations 26:49 Helping Friends in Unhealthy Patterns 28:06 Parenting and Convictions 34:46 Technology and Family Dynamics 42:23 Humor and Hardships 44:05 Concluding Thoughts and Farewell

    45 min

  4. 11/17/2025

    Navigating Depression in Marriage: Practical Tips and Personal Experiences

    Welcome to Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show! In this episode, hosts Bethany Needham and Andy delve into a candid discussion about managing depression within marriage. From personal experiences with postpartum depression to the importance of community, medical help, and self-care, this episode provides a genuine look at how couples can navigate difficult seasons together. Bethany shares her journey and practical tips, while Andy offers insights from supporting a spouse through tough times. Tune in for an honest conversation about the highs and lows of marriage and how to love each other through it all. 00:00 Intro 00:40 Life Updates and Weekend Recap 03:16 Holiday Plans and Christmas Lights 05:56 Discussing Depression in Marriage 10:19 Personal Experiences with Depression 15:52 Seeking Help and Community Support 21:43 Building Trust with Medical Professionals 22:34 The Importance of Researching Medications 23:28 Balancing Research and Discernment 23:50 Holistic Approaches and Personal Stories 24:39 Non-Medical Strategies for Mental Health 26:02 The Power of Movement and Small Steps 27:39 Supporting a Depressed Spouse 33:18 Mutual Support in Marriage 36:01 Practical Tips for Couples 40:51 Concluding Thoughts and Prayer

    44 min

  5. 11/10/2025

    Marriage Questions, Quirks, and Quality Time

    Join Bethany and Andy Needham as they discuss the ups and downs of marriage, including hilarious arguments, significant milestones, and the use of AI for brainstorming. Bethany shares her recent success in a powerlifting competition. The couple tackles 20 fun and sincere questions about their relationship —from love languages to survival skills —showcasing their sense of humor and deep connection. Tune in for an engaging conversation that is both entertaining and insightful, reminding us all that marriage can indeed be stupid good and wicked fun. 00:00 Introduction and Banter 01:12 Powerlifting Competition Highlights 05:52 Upcoming Events and Busy Schedules 06:49 AI Tools in Daily Life 07:48 Fun and Serious Questions 20:00 Discussing Pain Tolerance 20:34 Signature Moves in Arguments 22:18 Funny Marriage Moments 25:15 Heartfelt and Hopeful Moments 28:54 Dreams and Future Plans 37:52 Holiday Traditions and Reflections 40:55 Conclusion and Farewell

    41 min

  6. 11/03/2025

    Date Night Hacks: Budget-Friendly Ideas for Awesome Dates

    Join Andy and Bethany Needham on this hilarious and insightful episode of the Slightly Off Script podcast as they share their best tips for having amazing date nights on a budget. From creative at-home date ideas to discounted dining hacks, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you maintain fun and romance in your marriage without breaking the bank. Plus, stay tuned for the ultimate date night hack that could transform your evening plans. Don't miss out on these fun and affordable date ideas! 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:46 Meet the Hosts: Bethany and Andy01:26 Upcoming Plans and Date Night Hacks Introduction02:17 Challenges in Planning Date Nights06:09 Creative Solutions for Childcare09:29 At-Home Date Night Ideas12:51 Fun and Unconventional Date Night Activities14:11 Creative Movie Nights and Blanket Forts15:12 Hacks for Eating Out on a Budget15:18 Saving Money on Meals: Lunch and Appetizers16:41 Grocery Store Sushi and Prepared Foods19:19 Thrifting Adventures: Finding Hidden Gems22:22 Exploring the Outdoors with AllTrails23:19 Discounts and Membership Perks26:18 Creating Fun and Unique Date Quests29:24 The Ultimate Date Night Hack31:25 Wrapping Up: Final Thoughts and Farewells

    32 min

  7. 10/27/2025

    Managing Money in Marriage: Skips, Saves, Spends, and Splurges

    Join Andy and Bethany Needham in this episode as they dive into the topic of money in marriage. They discuss the categories of expenses they choose to skip, save on, spend moderately on, and splurge on for themselves and their family. Learn about their strategies for managing finances, including investing in vacations, health, and the occasional indulgence. With humor and personal anecdotes, they aim to provide insights and tips for couples navigating financial decisions together. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview01:28 First Jobs and Early Money Memories05:21 Marriage and Money: Skipping the Big Expenses13:07 Frugal Living: Saving Strategies17:55 Teaching Kids Negotiation Skills at Yard Sales18:34 Prioritizing Family Vacations21:02 Spending on Date Nights and Entertainment22:06 Choosing Reliable Cars24:35 Investing in Health and Wellness27:28 Splurging on Gifts and Seasonal Help30:15 Enjoying Extravagant Meals34:04 Aligning Financial Values in Marriage38:04 Concluding Thoughts on Spending and Saving

    39 min

  8. 10/19/2025

    25 Years of Ministry: Lessons, Highs, Lows, and Wisdom - Episode 32

    In this special episode of 'Slightly Off Script,' Andy Needham celebrates 25 years in vocational ministry by being interviewed by his wife, Bethany. The duo discusses Andy's journey from starting ministry at 18 to his current milestones, covering the lessons learned, highs, lows, and personal growth that come with such a long tenure in ministry. They delve into the commitment needed to sustain a ministry career, balancing personal and professional life, and share humorous and humbling stories from Andy’s vast experience. A must-listen for anyone full of valuable insights for a fulfilling life. Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band) 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:38 Bethany Interviews Andy 02:01 Starting in Ministry at 18 03:57 Affirmation and Early Ministry Experiences 06:50 Highs and Lows of Ministry 12:43 Cringe-Worthy Moments 15:55 Sustaining Faith and Calling 18:43 Understanding Calling vs. Assignment 19:03 Spiritual Life as a Garden 20:28 Redefining Success in Ministry 23:26 Advice for Young People Considering Ministry 27:06 Balancing Ministry and Family Life 32:16 Maintaining a Healthy Marriage in Ministry 38:08 Final Thoughts and Reflections

    39 min
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