Slightly off Script with Andy and Bethany Needham

Andy & Bethany Needham
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A marriage show with Andy & Bethany Needham where we remind you that marriage can be stupid good and wicked fun!

  1. SEP 29

    Supporting Dreams and Side Hustles in Marriage - Episode 30

    In this episode of 'Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show,' hosts Bethany and Andy Needham explore the importance of supporting each other's dreams and aspirations within a marriage. They discuss a variety of dreams ranging from big life-changing decisions, such as Andy going full-time with his band, to smaller everyday ambitions like Bethany's passion for home decor. The conversation highlights the importance of communication, mutual support, and balancing one’s ambition with the needs of the marriage. With humorous anecdotes and insightful reflections, they delve into how they navigate these waters together, even touching on their personal experiences and upcoming dreams. Tune in for a heartfelt and entertaining discussion that proves marriage can indeed be 'stupid good and wicked fun.' Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band) 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:30 Meet the Hosts: Bethany and Andy 01:10 Soup Talk and Studio Upgrades 03:11 Life Updates and Busy Seasons 03:51 Late Night Softball Adventures 06:09 Supporting Each Other's Dreams 08:52 Podcast Beginnings: The Story of 'Hey Girl' 12:37 Going Full-Time with the Band 15:53 Balancing Marriage and Individual Dreams 18:12 Reflecting on New England and Passion 20:12 Balancing Everyday Aspirations in Marriage 21:16 Navigating Support and Materialism 24:20 Finding Joy in Shared and Individual Interests 26:49 Communicating and Balancing Commitments 32:01 Dreams and Future Aspirations 35:51 Concluding Thoughts and Appreciations

    38 min

  2. SEP 22

    Navigating Busy Seasons: Keeping Marriage Afloat in the Deep End of Life - Episode 29

    In this week's episode of Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show, hosts Bethany and Andy Needham dive into the topic of maintaining a deep connection in marriage, especially during life’s busiest seasons. From sharing personal anecdotes and discussing their own routines, to providing practical tips for intentionality, meal prep, and managing commitments, this episode offers valuable insights on keeping the marital fire alive amidst the chaos. Join Bethany and Andy as they share their experiences, humorous moments, and actionable advice to help ensure that your marriage remains 'stupid good and wicked fun,' even when life gets hectic. Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band) 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:41 Meet the Hosts: Bethany and Andy 01:52 Family Updates and Weekend Recap 02:17 Navigating School and Student Teaching 04:34 Preaching at Loon Mountain Ministries 05:05 Debate Over Common Phrases 08:07 Maintaining Marital Connection 09:56 ‌ 10:56 Intentional Planning and Scheduling 14:35 Short-term Solutions for Busy Seasons 17:13 Balancing Commitments and Saying No 17:55 Balancing Commitments and Avoiding Burnout 18:22 Outsourcing and Setting Boundaries 19:51 Saying No to Non-Essential Tasks 20:30 Guarding Your Marriage 21:13 Auditing Your Commitments 22:08 Work-Life Balance Strategies 27:12 Involving Family in Daily Routines 29:56 The Importance of Getaways 33:10 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    35 min

  3. SEP 15

    Back on Track: Kicking Off Season Two - Episode 28

    Welcome to Season 2 of the Slightly Off Script podcast! In this episode, hosts Bethany and Andy Needham share their summer adventures, including hilarious moments, vacation highlights, and their favorite new hobbies. Listen as they discuss their cooking quests, powerlifting competitions, and their experience seeing Nate Bargatze and Ben Rector. The couple also delves into how they balanced work, life, and faith while fostering community and play. Don't miss the heartwarming story of them performing at Bethany's workplace and much more. Tune in for a fun and relatable discussion on marriage and life! Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band) 00:00 Welcome to Season Two! 00:15 Audio-Only Format Explained 00:34 Summer Recap and Fun Moments 05:14 Pizza Oven Adventures 09:58 Powerlifting and Achievements 13:25 Invisalign Journey 14:50 Summer Vacation Highlights 15:40 Memorable Moments at the Cottage 16:11 Foggy Morning Moose Encounter 18:32 Summer Adventures and City Escapades 19:53 Dining Experiences in Boston 20:56 Concerts and Community 24:19 Ministry and Music at the Recovery Center 30:09 Looking Ahead: New Rhythms and Challenges 31:50 Wrapping Up and Future Plans

    33 min

  4. JUN 16

    Summer Special - On the Road with A & E

    Join Bethany and Andy Needham for a special Road Trip Edition of Slightly Off Script! In this episode, they share their summer adventures, including road trips, family vacations, and a few unexpected moments on the road. Hear about Andy's solo travels with their kids, Bethany's summer activities, and their personal reflections on marriage and life's challenges. Plus, they discuss what's on their summer bucket list and what God has been teaching them lately. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, laughs, and a glimpse into their busy lives!00:00 Introduction and Road Trip Edition00:00 Introduction and Road Trip Edition00:45 Marriage Dynamics and Driving Habits00:45 Marriage Dynamics and Driving Habits02:20 Funny Stories and Traffic Stops02:20 Funny Stories and Traffic Stops04:09 Summer Activities and Family Trips04:09 Summer Activities and Family Trips10:10 Lessons from God and Personal Growth10:10 Lessons from God and Personal Growth15:03 Balancing Work and Marriage15:03 Balancing Work and Marriage19:12 Summer Bucket List and Vacation Plans19:12 Summer Bucket List and Vacation Plans23:11 Conclusion and Upcoming Events23:11 Conclusion and Upcoming Events

    25 min

  5. MAY 19

    Feels Like Summer - Episode 27

    In this week's episode of Slightly Off Script, Bethany and Andy Needham dive into their recent trip to Texas, sharing stories about Texas pride and their culinary adventures with BBQ and tacos. They also discuss their upcoming summer plans, including a special 'Summer Road Trip' podcast series and a family vacation to Maine. Tune in for a light-hearted reflection on their podcast journey, anecdotes from their travels, and what to expect in the upcoming months! Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band) 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:22 Meet the Hosts: Bethany and Andy 02:01 Travel Tales: Texas Adventures 04:19 Exploring Meow Wolf: An Immersive Experience 06:33 Texas Cuisine: BBQ and Tacos 08:26 Podcast Retrospective and Future Plans 10:54 Focusing on Community 11:36 Summer Plans and Outdoor Adventures 12:09 Popular Podcast Episodes and Listener Engagement 14:09 Memorable Moments and Surprises 15:50 Summer Road Trip Series Announcement 18:27 Summer Activities and Personal Goals 20:34 Family Trips and Personal Time 23:34 Gratitude and Apologies

    25 min

  6. MAY 12

    Maintaining Boundaries & Margin in Marriage: Episode 26

    Join Bethany and Andy Needham on this engaging episode of 'Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show' as they tackle the importance of boundaries in marriage. They begin with a playful acknowledgment of their own off-script moments, seamlessly transitioning into a deep dive on the concept of boundaries across four significant aspects: community, authenticity, mission, and play. They share personal insights, practical advice, and some humorous anecdotes on how maintaining boundaries can lead to a healthier, more balanced married life. From discussing intentional and interruptible quiet times, to the importance of margin in relationships, to setting realistic goals for play and restorative rest, this episode has it all. Don't miss out on their valuable tips and reflections to help foster a thriving marital life. Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band) 00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script 00:48 Boy Bands and Pop Culture 02:29 Hair and Health Updates 04:35 Boundaries in Marriage 08:16 Community and Relationships 20:15 Authenticity and Efficiency 24:19 Embracing Interruptions in Spiritual Life 25:07 Creating Margin in Busy Seasons 25:53 The Importance of Setting Boundaries 27:25 The Power of Self-Inventory and Questions 28:39 Navigating Resistance in Relationships 29:55 Balancing Mission and Personal Walk with God 30:42 The Trap of Works-Based Faith 36:18 Restorative Play and Its Importance 42:15 Practical Tips for Intentional Fun 46:14 Conclusion and Listener Engagement

    48 min

  7. MAY 5

    Marital Drift Happens : Preventing Your Marriage from Coming Apart - Episode 25

    In this episode of Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show, hosts Bethany and Andy Needham navigate the lighter and more profound aspects of marriage. They humorously discuss a typical day of yard work that led to reflections on communication and mutual understanding. The conversation delves into the serious topic of marital drift, examining its causes, signs, and preventive measures. They emphasize the importance of regular maintenance, setting guardrails, and sometimes seeking emergency help to maintain a healthy and fulfilling marriage. The episode offers insights into recognizing emotional, physical, intellectual, and spiritual indicators of drifting and provides practical advice on how to address and prevent these issues. Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band) 00:00 Introduction and Mulching Mishaps 01:31 Mansplaining to Manslaughter 05:28 Marriage Conversations and Divorce 08:26 The Drift in Marriages 10:56 Causes of Drift 22:03 Unhealed Wounds and Therapy 26:10 Understanding Dashboard Indicators in Marriage 28:42 Mind: Intellectual Health in Marriage 34:07 Body: Physical Affection and Intimacy 36:14 Soul: Emotional Health and Vulnerability 39:34 Spirit: Spiritual Health and Connection 41:01 Maintenance, Guardrails, and Emergency Measures 50:33 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    53 min

  8. APR 28

    Empowerment is a Superpower: Make Your Spouses Dreams Come True - Episode 24

    Welcome to another episode of 'Slightly Off Script: The Marriage Show' with your hosts Bethany and Andy Needham. In this episode, we explore the concept of empowerment in marriage, discussing how couples can support each other's dreams, navigate failures, and celebrate successes. We also delve into the practicalities of managing household responsibilities, shared financial decisions, and balancing personal interests like powerlifting and baseball park visits with family priorities. Tune in to hear real-life stories of how communication, appreciation, and mutual support contribute to a thriving partnership. Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band) 00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter 00:55 Middle Age Musings and Health 01:30 Spring Activities and Tattoos 05:57 Empowering Each Other in Marriage 08:15 Marriage on Mission 12:03 Shared Responsibilities at Home 16:18 Empowerment in Vocation and Ministry 25:10 Balancing Passion Projects and Primary Ministry 25:42 Navigating Challenges and Learning Together 27:02 Supporting Each Other's Dreams and Failures 30:29 Defining Success and Enjoying the Process 32:22 Celebrating Wins and Verbal Affirmations 34:26 Checking In and Serving Each Other 35:38 Family Memories and Supportive Relationships 37:39 Powerlifting and Mutual Support 39:53 Home Investments and Unexpected Challenges 45:18 Empowerment and Mutual Sacrifice in Marriage

    48 min
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