24 episodes

A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 30 years experience working with those surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups Counsellor A.J. Mahari

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    • 4.4 • 14 Ratings

A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 30 years experience working with those surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.

    BPD Parents Partners Family Members Randi Kreger Interview on BPD and BPD NPD Co Morbidity and More

    BPD Parents Partners Family Members Randi Kreger Interview on BPD and BPD NPD Co Morbidity and More

    A.J. Mahari Interview with Author and BPD Expert Randi Kreger who co-authored Stop Waking on Eggshells - Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Love Has Borderline Personality Disorder. Randi's books are in the podcast intro and she has 2 new books coming in 2022. Randi talks about BPD, what she has termed Conventional and Unconventional BPD, and BPD/NPD trait or Personality Disorder Co-Morbidity. Everyone can learn from Randi Kreger and in this interview no matter the relationship type you have or had with someone with BPD. Randi's website is https://stopwalkingoneggshells.com

    • 1 hr 50 min
    BPD and Codependent Trauma Bonds Not Rooted in Addiction Rooted in Trauma

    BPD and Codependent Trauma Bonds Not Rooted in Addiction Rooted in Trauma

    Borderline Personality and Codependent's Trauma Bonds are Not Rooted in Addiction But are rooted in Trauma - A Deep Dive to help you understand the Trauma Bond, it's underpinnings for those with BPD and for those with Codependency. It's not addiction that makes a trauma bond so difficult to break yet it can feel like that.

    • 1 hr 24 min
    What Is Codependency And Why Do you Need To Know

    What Is Codependency And Why Do you Need To Know

    Counsellor and Trauma Recovery Coach, A.J. Mahari, answers the question: "What is Codependent"

    What is Codependency and why is it so important to understand more about Codependency for those who have are in a relationship with someone with Borderline Personality or Narcissistic Personality or who is in the pain of Surviving the BPD or NPD Relationship Breakup? Follow A.J. Mahari's Codependency Recovery Podcast as well as this one.

    • 1 hr 1 min
    Part 2 My BPD NPD Co-Morbid Alcoholic Ex A.J. Mahari's Experience

    Part 2 My BPD NPD Co-Morbid Alcoholic Ex A.J. Mahari's Experience

    BPD NPD Co-Morbid Alcoholic My Ex Part 2 A.J. Mahari's Experience
    I am out here to work with you if I resonate with you. I have lived experience with this Ex a
    BPD NPD Comorbid Mother and a Dark Triad Father both of whom were alcoholics.
    BPD or NPD relationship recovery and Codependency recovery. Breaking the trauma bond.

    • 41 min
    A.J. Mahari on Her BPD NPD Co-Morbid Ex How The Relationship Began

    A.J. Mahari on Her BPD NPD Co-Morbid Ex How The Relationship Began

    A.J. Mahari on Her BPD NPD Co-Morbid Ex - How The Relationship Began Groomed By a BPD/NPD social worker.

    • 40 min
    BPD Relationships BPD Ex Carlos On His Experience Dating and Breaking Up

    BPD Relationships BPD Ex Carlos On His Experience Dating and Breaking Up

    Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups - BPD Ex Carlos On His Experience Dating and Breaking Up with a woman with Borderline Personality. Carolos has some very empowering and positive experience to share near the end of this episode. If you want to be interviewed and/or share your story please go to https://ajmahari.ca/contact and email A.J. Mahari.

    • 1 hr 12 min

Customer Reviews

4.4 out of 5
14 Ratings

14 Ratings

Lowkey Leek ,

Healing in a time of crisis

This podcast has been the catalyst to much needed inner healing that I have been unaware of for a long time. Thank you for helping me

Case-bob ,

PLEASE don’t “fade out”

The host is amazingly knowledgeable about borderline. I’ve been married to a borderline wife for 21 years and I am a bit of a codependent. EVERYTHING she says in EVERY episode so far has resonated with me. I’ve listened to a lot of podcasts who claim to know a lot about borderline but it’s like she’s been watching our entire marriage and taking extensive notes, although I do hope she eventually looks into marijuana and alcohol use with borderlines.

TacoSantiago ,

Spreads Stigma & Factual Misinformation

This person needs to talk to a professional about borderline and learn that there is no “cure” for Borderline so you can’t expect us to magically treat ourselves. You’re also convincing people our prognosis is not good when the prognosis for Borderline is actually very good with therapy and meds and we each need a unique treatment and that takes a Lot of time to figure out. Telling people it’s “impossible to achieve intimacy or get closure about an episode from someone with untreated BPD” is a bad thing to say and I think someone with BPD upset you tbh :/ you should really have more empathy and understanding for other people. You’re painting us as purely selfish manipulative sociopaths but spreading hurtful misinformation like this is actually really sociopathic in my observation and contributes to mental health stigma and misunderstanding and hatred. I highly advise people avoid this podcast if you’re actually trying to understand and manage borderline instead of just focusing on everything that’s horrible about it. No mental disorder doesn’t have horrible symptoms that make people do horrible things. This is not fun and I’ve had it all my life as well as have experience with multiple therapists and psychologists . I know about this disorder and this podcast Is a very unhelpful podcast to the entire cause of mental health .

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