The Heartlifter Way

Janell Rardon
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Welcome to The Heartlifter Way—a gentle path back to yourself. Hosted by award-winning author Janell Rardon, this podcast is a calm, reflective space where healing begins not with pressure or perfection, but with presence, awareness, and grace. Rooted in a somatic, mind-body approach, each episode invites you to reconnect your thoughts, feelings, and body—learning to move from overwhelm and anxiety into a steadier, more grounded way of living. Through gentle teachings on nervous system regulation, emotional healing, and embodied awareness, you’ll begin to live The Heartlifter Way.

  1. 4d ago

    21. What If God Heals More Gently Than We Imagine?

    Pendulation, Titration & the Pace of Love "The Theology of Gentleness believes that God does not heal us by overwhelming us with truth. He heals us by accompanying us into truth at the pace that love can faithfully carry." What if healing isn't about pushing harder—but about slowing down enough to discover the gentle pace of God's love? In this episode of The Heartlifter Way, Janell explores two fascinating concepts from trauma therapist Peter Levine—pendulation and titration—and reflects on how they beautifully echo the way God often leads us through healing. Rather than overwhelming us with more than we can bear, God meets us in manageable moments of grace, inviting us to move gently between challenge and rest, courage and comfort, truth and safety. Through Scripture, personal stories, the quiet wisdom of the Green Heron, and a compassionate understanding of the nervous system, you'll discover that healing isn't measured by how quickly you move beyond your pain—but by how faithfully you learn to walk with God through it. In this episode, you'll discover: What pendulation teaches us about moving between distress and safety.How titration helps us grow without becoming overwhelmed.Why Jesus often healed through relationship rather than urgency.How the Green Heron became an unexpected teacher of patience and gentle adaptation.A simple Heartlifter practice for returning to safety when life feels overwhelming.If you've ever wondered why healing seems slower than you hoped—or why your heart longs for a gentler way—this episode is for you. 1 Kings 19:11–13 • Psalm 23 • Matthew 11:28–30 • John 21:9–19 • Romans 12:2

    21. What If God Heals More Gently Than We Imagine?

  2. Jul 29

    20. What If Healing Is a Renegotiation? How Your Nervous System Learns Safety Again

    What if healing isn't about becoming someone new—but about gently discovering a new relationship with your story? In this episode of The Heartlifter Way, Janell explores trauma therapist Peter Levine's beautiful concept of renegotiation and reflects on how true healing unfolds through small, compassionate shifts rather than dramatic breakthroughs. Drawing from neuroscience, Christian spiritual formation, and the metaphorical mirror of a vase with Black-Eyed Susans and Basil leaves, You'll discover: What Peter Levine means by renegotiationWhy healing doesn't require reliving your painHow your nervous system can learn that yesterday's danger is no longer today's realityWhat the Green Heron teaches about patience, presence, and gentle adaptationA simple Heartlifter practice for responding differently instead of reacting automatically. If you've ever felt like you're failing because your healing isn't happening fast enough, this episode offers a hopeful reminder: Healing isn't a finish line to cross. It's a relationship we're continually renegotiating—with ourselves, with others, with our story, and with God. Join Janell as she continues The Birth Season series and discovers that perhaps God's deepest work isn't to rush our transformation—but to accompany us into freedom, one gentle step at a time. Scripture: Romans 12:2 • Psalm 23 • 2 Corinthians 3:18 🌿 Connect with Janell Rardon & The Heartlifter Way on Substack Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠janellrardon.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@janellrardon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@theheartlifterway⁠⁠⁠Listen to E.145, ⁠"Reimagining How Healthy Detachment Works"⁠YouTube: ⁠Heartlift Wellness⁠Download the "Principles of Discernment" PDF: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Trust What is Taking Shape⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Download the "Discernment Prayer" to use during our Birth Season: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Prayer PDF⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Download ⁠The Healthy Center Infographic⁠Download ⁠The Anxious vs Healthy Center⁠Download ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠"The G.E.N.T.L.E. Path"⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ PDF

    20. What If Healing Is a Renegotiation? How Your Nervous System Learns Safety Again

  3. Jul 22

    19. What Are You Carrying That Was Never Yours?

    What if loving others doesn’t require living in the middle of their emotions, conflicts, and responsibilities? "Have you ever noticed that you can be physically safe but your body still reacts as though danger is present?" In this episode, Janell explores the difference between an anxious center and a healthy center, introduces the Three Basket Practice—Mine, Theirs, and God’s—and connects healthy compartmentalization with the EMDR Container Exercise. Discover how to remain compassionate and present without carrying what was never yours to hold. A Heartlifter stands beside, not between. P. S. If someone came to mind while you were listening today, would you text this episode to just one person? Podcasts grow because one friend tells another. 🌿 Connect with Janell Rardon & The Heartlifter Way on Substack Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠janellrardon.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@janellrardon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@theheartlifterway⁠⁠Listen to E.145, "Reimagining How Healthy Detachment Works"YouTube: Heartlift WellnessDownload the "Principles of Discernment" PDF: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Trust What is Taking Shape⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Download the "Discernment Prayer" to use during our Birth Season: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Prayer PDF⁠⁠⁠⁠Download ⁠⁠⁠⁠"The Three Baskets"⁠ ⁠Graphic to use during the meditative exercise.Download The Healthy Center InfographicDownload The Anxious vs Healthy CenterDownload ⁠⁠⁠⁠"The G.E.N.T.L.E. Path"⁠⁠⁠⁠ PDF

    19. What Are You Carrying That Was Never Yours?

  4. Jul 18

    18. What If You Didn't Have to Carry it All?

    After weeks of asking four simple questions for discernment, we arrive at the final question in A Birth Season: What's becoming clearer? Clarity doesn't always arrive as a dramatic answer or a detailed roadmap. More often, it emerges quietly—one faithful step, one gentle nudge, one ordinary moment at a time. In this episode, we'll reflect on how clarity grows through attentiveness rather than urgency, why discernment is often more about becoming than certainty, and how God gently forms us as we learn to notice His quiet work in everyday life. If you're longing for direction, perhaps the invitation isn't to hurry toward answers, but to trust what is slowly becoming clear. Because discernment isn't simply about finding the right path—it's about becoming the kind of person who can faithfully walk it. 🌿 Connect with Janell Rardon & The Heartlifter Way on Substack Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠janellrardon.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@janellrardon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@theheartlifterway⁠YouTube: Heartlift WellnessDownload the "Principles of Discernment" PDF: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Trust What is Taking Shape⁠⁠⁠⁠Download the "Discernment Prayer" to use during our Birth Season: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Prayer PDF⁠⁠⁠Download ⁠⁠⁠"The Three Baskets" ⁠Graphic to use during the meditative exercise.Download ⁠⁠⁠"The G.E.N.T.L.E. Path"⁠⁠⁠ PDF

    18. What If You Didn't Have to Carry it All?

  5. Jul 8

    17. Love Has a Walking Speed: How Gentle Acceptance Helps Us Recognize God's Gentle Nudges

    A Question to Carry: How do we discern God's gentle nudges when our emotions are loud? What if God's guidance is more often a gentle nudge than a dramatic sign? In this episode, Janell explores how discernment grows through quiet attentiveness, gentle acceptance, and learning to walk at the unhurried pace of love. Discover how God accompanies us—not with pressure, but with presence—as we take one faithful step at a time. 🌿 Connect with Janell Rardon & The Heartlifter Way on Substack Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠janellrardon.com⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@janellrardon⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@theheartlifterwayYouTube: Heartlift WellnessDownload the "Principles of Discernment" PDF: ⁠⁠⁠Trust What is Taking Shape⁠⁠⁠Download the "Discernment Prayer" to use during our Birth Season: ⁠⁠⁠Prayer PDF⁠⁠Download ⁠⁠"The Three Pots" Graphic to use during the meditative exercise.Download ⁠⁠"The G.E.N.T.L.E. Path"⁠⁠ PDF

    17. Love Has a Walking Speed: How Gentle Acceptance Helps Us Recognize God's Gentle Nudges

  6. Jul 1

    16. What Keeps Returning? Freedom, Discernment, and The Gentle Invitations of God

    As we celebrate the Fourth of July and America's 250th anniversary, what if we paused to ask a different kind of question? What keeps returning? In this episode of The Heartlifter Way, Janell explores how God often speaks not through dramatic explanations but through gentle repetition—a recurring longing, a meaningful metaphor, a tiny oak tree with its acorn still attached. Discover how paying attention to what keeps returning can deepen your discernment, expand your capacity to notice God's invitations, and gently shape who you are becoming. Because sometimes the invitation that keeps returning is the one your heart has been preparing to receive all along. 🌿 Connect with Janell Rardon & Heartlift Wellness on Substack Website: ⁠⁠⁠janellrardon.com⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@janellrardon⁠⁠⁠Substack: ⁠⁠⁠@heartliftwellness⁠⁠⁠YouTube: Heartlift WellnessDownload the "Principles of Discernment" PDF: ⁠⁠Trust What is Taking Shape⁠⁠Download the "Discernment Prayer" to use during our Birth Season: ⁠⁠Prayer PDF⁠Download ⁠"The Three Pots"⁠ Graphic to use during the meditative exercise.Download ⁠"The G.E.N.T.L.E. Path"⁠ PDF

    16. What Keeps Returning? Freedom, Discernment, and The Gentle Invitations of God

  7. Jun 24

    15. Feeling Stuck? You May Be in a Season of Formation

    Meditative Exercise: The Three Pots Metaphor for Discernment and Growth Have you ever felt stuck, overlooked, or frustrated by a season that seems to lack visible progress? In this episode of The Heartlifter Way, Janell explores the wisdom of three simple terracotta pots—one empty, one sprouting, and one blooming—and how each stage reveals something essential about spiritual growth, discernment, and becoming. Building on Episodes 13 and 14, you'll discover why discernment is the practice of paying attention to God's invitations and how becoming is what happens as we respond to them over time. Through the lens of The Theology of Gentleness, Janell offers a refreshing perspective: what feels like being stuck may actually be a sacred season of preparation and formation. Because the gardener does not love the bloom more than the seed. And every stage belongs. 🌿 Connect with Janell Rardon & Heartlift Wellness on Substack Website: ⁠⁠janellrardon.com⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠@janellrardon⁠⁠Substack: ⁠⁠@heartliftwellness⁠⁠YouTube: Heartlift WellnessDownload the "Principles of Discernment" PDF: ⁠Trust What is Taking Shape⁠Download the "Discernment Prayer" to use during our Birth Season: ⁠Prayer PDFDownload "The Three Pots" Graphic to use during the meditative exercise.Download "The G.E.N.T.L.E. Path" PDF

    15. Feeling Stuck? You May Be in a Season of Formation

  8. Jun 17

    14. When God Speaks in Metaphors

    What if God's invitations rarely arrive as explanations? What if they come as images, stirrings, symbols, recurring questions, and living metaphors that quietly ask us to pay attention? In this episode of The Heartlifter Way, Janell Rardon explores why discernment begins not with certainty, but with noticing. Drawing from the unexpected wisdom of a moonflower vine growing in her backyard garden, Janell reflects on the difference between explanation and metaphor—and why the soul often learns through symbols long before it understands through words. Together we'll explore: • Why discernment starts with noticing• The difference between explanation and metaphor• How God often speaks through recurring images, invitations, and patterns The Four Birth Season Questions for spiritual discernment: What keeps returning?What gentle nudges am I experiencing?What sensations and feelings am I noticing in my body?What is becoming clearer?If you've sensed something stirring beneath the surface of your life but can't quite explain it yet, this conversation is for you. Because sometimes the sacred arrives as a metaphor before it becomes a direction. And sometimes God's clearest invitations begin as a quiet stirring that becomes impossible to ignore. Take a deep breath. Slow down. Notice what is taking shape. The moonflower may have more to teach us than we realize. 🌿 Connect with Janell Rardon & Heartlift Wellness on Substack Website: ⁠janellrardon.com⁠Instagram: ⁠@janellrardon⁠Substack: ⁠@heartliftwellness⁠YouTube: Heartlift WellnessDownload the "Principles of Discernment" PDF: Trust What is Taking ShapeDownload the "Discernment Prayer" to use during our Birth Season: Prayer PDF

    14. When God Speaks in Metaphors
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Welcome to The Heartlifter Way—a gentle path back to yourself. Hosted by award-winning author Janell Rardon, this podcast is a calm, reflective space where healing begins not with pressure or perfection, but with presence, awareness, and grace. Rooted in a somatic, mind-body approach, each episode invites you to reconnect your thoughts, feelings, and body—learning to move from overwhelm and anxiety into a steadier, more grounded way of living. Through gentle teachings on nervous system regulation, emotional healing, and embodied awareness, you’ll begin to live The Heartlifter Way.

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  • Creator
    Janell Rardon
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    389
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Janell Rardon
  • Show Website
    The Heartlifter Way

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