Becoming Bridge Builders

Becoming Bridge Builders is a faith-centered podcast hosted by Rev. Dr. Keith Haney, created for believers who sense God’s call to lead with wisdom, courage, and compassion in a deeply divided world. In an age of cultural confusion, outrage, and fractured relationships, this podcast exists to replace societal absurdity with biblical common sense and Christ-centered clarity. Each episode explores how God is raising up modern-day bridge builders—men and women equipped to stand firm in truth while extending grace, listening well, and leading with conviction. Through biblical teaching, cultural commentary, and practical application, Becoming Bridge Builders offers fearless yet thoughtful guidance for navigating today’s toughest issues without sacrificing faith or integrity. Listeners will be encouraged and equipped with: Scripture-rooted wisdom for understanding today’s cultural challenges Practical strategies for bridging divides in families, churches, workplaces, and communities Faith-filled leadership principles that move beyond talk into action Bold encouragement to live out your calling with humility, courage, and purpose Whether you are a Christian leader, a concerned believer, or someone longing for truth and unity in a broken world, Becoming Bridge Builders will challenge you to rise above fear, reject cultural chaos, and become an agent of reconciliation and transformation—right where God has placed you. This is more than a podcast. It’s a call to become the bridge.

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  1. 5h ago

    Radical Compassion in Leadership: Lessons from a Near-Fatal Journey

    What if I told you that the biggest hurdle to your organization's success might just be a blind spot lurking in plain sight? Today, we’re diving into that very idea with Hacia Atherton, the trailblazing first female CEO of a major plumbing company in Australia. Hacia’s journey—one that includes surviving a near-fatal accident—has fueled her mission to transform workplace cultures into safer, more inclusive spaces that genuinely unlock human potential. We’ll explore how the cultures we create can either propel us forward or quietly drain resources, costing businesses billions. Stick around, because this conversation might just flip your perspective on leadership, psychological safety, and the hidden costs of exclusion. Takeaways: The greatest threat to an organization's growth might just be the blind spots we overlook, often hiding in plain sight.Creating a workplace culture that unlocks human potential can save businesses billions, so it’s worth the effort.Our guest, Hacia Atherton, shattered industry barriers as the first female CEO of a major plumbing company in Australia, talk about trailblazing!Hacia’s near-fatal accident transformed her perspective on resilience and leadership, leading to a movement for safer, inclusive workplaces.This episode challenges conventional leadership views by emphasizing the importance of psychological safety and inclusion, which are often ignored.Real success in leadership is about valuing people as humans, not just cogs in a machine, and recognizing their contributions at every level. Links referenced in this episode: haciaatherton.combarnesandnoble.comamazon.com

    Radical Compassion in Leadership: Lessons from a Near-Fatal Journey
  2. 3d ago

    Who Do Pastors Turn To When Times Get Tough?

    Ever thought about the lonely life of a pastor? Well, today we’re diving headfirst into the isolation that often comes with leadership. We’ve got Rev. Jeff Meyer, a seasoned executive coach and pastor, sharing some serious wisdom on this not-so-glamorous side of leading. You’ll hear about why many leaders struggle to ask for help and how forming trusted relationships can be a total game changer. We’ll explore insights from Jeff's book, "Your Internal Board of Directors," which helps leaders navigate their personal challenges while staying grounded in their core values. If you’re a leader or know one, this chat might just be the lifeline you didn’t know you needed! Leadership often shines bright in the public eye, but behind the glamor lies a less glamorous truth: many leaders, especially pastors and executives, grapple with isolation. In this conversation with Rev. Jeff Meyer, we dive deep into the hidden struggles leaders face and the importance of trusted relationships. Rev. Meyer, a seasoned pastor and executive coach, sheds light on why leadership can feel lonely. He highlights the pressure to always have the answers, a burden that can lead to ‘accidental isolation,’ where leaders inadvertently distance themselves from those who could offer support. The discussion emphasizes that it’s not just about seeking help—it's about creating a culture where vulnerability is welcomed. Through personal anecdotes and insightful reflections, Rev. Meyer shares practical strategies for cultivating a supportive network, encouraging leaders to embrace their humanity and seek out safe spaces where they can express their struggles without fear of judgment. His insights are particularly valuable for anyone in a leadership position, reminding us that even the shepherds need to be shepherded. Takeaways: Leadership can feel glamorous, but many leaders carry heavy burdens alone, often unseen.The concept of 'accidental isolation' explains why leaders struggle to seek help when they need it.Trusted relationships are crucial for leaders to thrive; they transform isolation into community support.Recognizing the voices in our heads can help leaders understand their internal narratives better.To combat loneliness, leaders should actively seek spaces where they can be vulnerable and authentic.Clarity in personal values is essential for leaders to navigate competing expectations without losing themselves. Links referenced in this episode: jeffmeyercoaching.com

    Who Do Pastors Turn To When Times Get Tough?
  3. Sep 10

    Thriveology Unplugged: How to Go Beyond Surviving and Start Thriving

    Today, we’re diving into the world of thriving with Dr. Lee Baucom, the man behind the Thrive 15 Strategies to Building a Thriving Life. With over three decades of experience helping folks break free from just surviving to genuinely thriving, he’s got the goods on building meaningful relationships and finding purpose. We’re talking real talk about what it means to create a life filled with resilience and fulfillment, not just a checklist of accomplishments. Dr. Lee shares some golden nuggets on how to cultivate that thriving mindset, emphasizing that it’s all about connection and intentional growth. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the grind, this episode is your ticket to a fresh perspective on life—so grab your favorite beverage and settle in for some enlightening banter! Dr. Lee Baucom, who cheekily calls himself the world's first "thriveologist," gives us a no-nonsense, warm-hearted masterclass on what it actually means to thrive—versus the treadmill of chasing hollow success. You get straight talk about how happiness is often a byproduct, not the target: I push us to aim for meaning, connection, and clear principles instead of hunting the next dopamine hit. We hear the neat little reframes that stick—fear as an "importance indicator" instead of just an alarm, and forgiveness as the invisible anchor that either frees you or keeps you hostage. I even confess my own history (magician kid turned therapist—because yeah, that taught me way more about people than half my grad classes) and how those early lessons shaped my thinking. Beyond philosophy, Lee lays out practical scaffolding: be a team with your partner, nurture the connection, and treat thriving like a skillset you can learn. He explains Snyder's three-part hope formula (know where you’re headed, be willing to get there, and use a roadmap) and compares it to GPS—pick the beach, tell the device, and then actually drive. You’ll walk away with sharp phrases you can use immediately—"be a we," "curiosity beat empathy"—and an invitation to stop settling. If you want a blend of humor, humility, and real tools for life and relationships, I think you'll like this one. Takeaways: Dr. Baucom emphasizes the importance of maintaining a team mindset in relationships, where both partners support each other like a well-oiled pickleball duo, ensuring they thrive together rather than letting their connection fester in discontent.The conversation highlights that thriving in life is not just about chasing happiness; it's about cultivating meaningful relationships and finding purpose, which ultimately leads to happiness naturally following.Forgiveness is a crucial principle for thriving, but many struggle with it because they see it as an obligation rather than an opportunity for personal liberation from past hurts.Dr. Baucom's unique take on thriving includes the idea that fear can be a valuable indicator of what matters to us, transforming it from a paralyzing force into a guiding light for personal growth.We learn that thriving requires clarity about our goals and a willingness to travel the road less taken, which often means embracing challenges rather than avoiding them for comfort.The episode serves as a reminder that our relationships mirror our individual journeys of growth; when we focus on our own thriving, we build stronger connections with those around us. Links referenced in this episode: savethemarriage.comthriveology.com

    Thriveology Unplugged: How to Go Beyond Surviving and Start Thriving
  4. Aug 31

    Designing Learning with Love: Unpacking Empathy in Education

    Imagine if the way we design learning could shift from just delivering content to genuinely connecting with learners on a personal level. That’s the essence of our chat with Jackie Pelegrin, a passionate instructional designer who believes in the power of empathy and intention in education. Instead of merely focusing on what students need to know, Jackie encourages us to think about how we can make them feel valued and empowered. It’s a thought-provoking discussion that dives into the emotional aspects of learning, and trust me, it’s a game changer for anyone involved in education. Jackie takes us through her journey of writing her book, 'Designing with Love,' which is steeped in her experiences and insights from years in instructional design. She highlights various models and theories that serve as the backbone of effective curriculum development, such as the well-known ADDIE model. But what sets her apart is her advocacy for blending different instructional strategies to meet diverse learner needs. This isn’t just theory—she provides practical examples of how to implement these ideas in real-world scenarios, making it accessible for educators at every level. As we wrap up, Jackie shares her thoughts on the importance of assessment and revision in curriculum design, emphasizing that education is a dynamic process that must evolve with the times. The conversation is peppered with light-hearted moments that keep things engaging while driving home the point that education should be about connection, growth, and purpose. If you're eager to rethink how you approach teaching or instructional design, this episode is packed with wisdom and warmth that’ll inspire you to design learning with love. Takeaways: Transforming the way we design learning can deeply impact how people feel valued and capable.Great instruction isn't just about information; it's rooted in empathy, intention, and love.Jackie Pelegrin encourages educators to rethink learning experiences that foster genuine connections.The upcoming book, 'Designing with Love', emphasizes a human-centered approach to instructional design.Using cognitive load theory helps in creating clear, manageable learning experiences for students.Designing with intention means understanding that true learning goes beyond mere content delivery. Links referenced in this episode: designingwithloveblog.combuzzsprout.com

    Designing Learning with Love: Unpacking Empathy in Education
  5. Aug 27

    The ADE Process: Your Roadmap to Meaningful Change

    The essence of growth isn’t always about what happens to us; often, it’s about how we interpret those experiences. That's the heart of today’s discussion with Federico Malatesta, who transitioned from leading a massive investment portfolio to becoming a transformational coach. He challenges us to consider whether the stories we tell ourselves about our circumstances are the true obstacles to our growth. We delve into the importance of reframing our identities and understanding that transformation is less about doing more and more about seeing things differently. Federico shares his ADE process—Assess, Define, Execute—which provides a structured approach for individuals seeking to navigate the complexities of change. This episode is rich with insights that can help you break free from limiting beliefs and step into a more authentic version of yourself. Federico’s journey from finance to coaching is a testament to the power of self-discovery and reinvention. He poignantly illustrates how our identities are often tied to our professions and the fear that comes with leaving those identities behind. The conversation highlights the differences between coaching and therapy, emphasizing the role of a coach in fostering clarity and encouraging clients to define their own paths. We discuss the phenomenon of success inflation, where high achievers may find their accomplishments increasingly unfulfilling. This serves as a reminder that true fulfillment comes from aligning our actions with our authentic selves, a theme that resonates throughout our dialogue. As we explore the unique Artha Ranch experience, we learn how working with horses can facilitate profound personal insights. Federico explains that horses reflect back to us the authenticity of our communications and behaviors, allowing for rapid self-awareness and growth. By stepping out of the usual environments and into the ranch, clients confront their stories and the fears that tether them to the past. This episode is not just about theoretical concepts; it’s about practical applications and real-world transformations. If you’re feeling stuck or uncertain about your next steps, this conversation offers a wealth of wisdom and practical tools to help you navigate your journey with intention and faith. Takeaways: The biggest hurdle to your growth often lies in the narrative you tell yourself, not your circumstances.Transformation is less about doing more and more about perceiving things differently and evolving your mindset.Embracing change means sometimes you have to let go of who you used to be to become who you're meant to be.Good coaching empowers clients to define their own paths rather than dictating what they should do; it's all about autonomy.Identifying and reframing your story is crucial, especially when transitioning to a new season of life; it can unlock new possibilities.The ADE process—Assess, Define, Execute—helps individuals navigate change effectively, ensuring they know where they are and where they want to go. Links referenced in this episode: federicomalatesta.com

    The ADE Process: Your Roadmap to Meaningful Change
  6. Aug 20

    From Awkward to Awesome: Turning Difficult Conversations into Opportunities

    Leadership isn't just about strutting around like you own the place; it's more about having the guts to jump into the deep end when you're not even sure if there's water in the pool. In a world where tough conversations often feel like navigating a minefield, Tess Fialka, a leadership coach and author, joins us to spill the beans on her new book, "Walking the Leadership Ledge." We dive into the nitty-gritty of why those awkward chats you've been dodging might just be the secret sauce for leveling up your leadership game. Seriously, if you’ve ever found yourself fumbling for the right words or sweating bullets before a crucial talk, this episode is your lifeline. Tess unpacks her six essential steps that every leader needs in their toolkit to tackle those conversations head-on with confidence and grace. And believe me, after hearing this, you’ll be feeling less like a deer in headlights and more like the cool, calm leader you aspire to be. We start off with Tess Fyalka sharing the golden nugget of wisdom she lives by: bring more questions than answers. It’s a game changer, folks! Instead of marching into a meeting with a rigid agenda, she encourages us to adopt a mindset of curiosity. Imagine walking into a conversation ready to explore the issue instead of just laying down the law. We get into the emotional rollercoaster that can come with difficult dialogues, and Tess emphasizes how recognizing our feelings is not just helpful but essential for successful communication. If you think leadership is all about having the right answers, you might be missing the bigger picture of fostering genuine dialogue and understanding. By the end of our chat, you’ll not only have a clearer idea of how to navigate those prickly discussions, but you’ll also feel empowered to embrace the discomfort. Tess's insights remind us that every difficult conversation is a chance to build bridges, not walls. So, grab your notepad and get ready to transform your approach to leadership. After this episode, you might just find yourself looking forward to those tough talks! Takeaways: Leadership is not just about confidence; it's about embracing uncertainty and engaging in tough conversations.Difficult conversations might be the key to unlocking your potential as a leader, so don't dodge them.Tess Fyalka's book, 'Walking the Leadership Ledge', outlines essential steps for navigating challenging dialogues effectively.Preparation is vital for difficult conversations; know your emotions and clarify your intent beforehand. Links referenced in this episode: anglecoaching.comwalkingtheleadershipledge.comamazon.com

    From Awkward to Awesome: Turning Difficult Conversations into Opportunities

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Becoming Bridge Builders is a faith-centered podcast hosted by Rev. Dr. Keith Haney, created for believers who sense God’s call to lead with wisdom, courage, and compassion in a deeply divided world. In an age of cultural confusion, outrage, and fractured relationships, this podcast exists to replace societal absurdity with biblical common sense and Christ-centered clarity. Each episode explores how God is raising up modern-day bridge builders—men and women equipped to stand firm in truth while extending grace, listening well, and leading with conviction. Through biblical teaching, cultural commentary, and practical application, Becoming Bridge Builders offers fearless yet thoughtful guidance for navigating today’s toughest issues without sacrificing faith or integrity. Listeners will be encouraged and equipped with: Scripture-rooted wisdom for understanding today’s cultural challenges Practical strategies for bridging divides in families, churches, workplaces, and communities Faith-filled leadership principles that move beyond talk into action Bold encouragement to live out your calling with humility, courage, and purpose Whether you are a Christian leader, a concerned believer, or someone longing for truth and unity in a broken world, Becoming Bridge Builders will challenge you to rise above fear, reject cultural chaos, and become an agent of reconciliation and transformation—right where God has placed you. This is more than a podcast. It’s a call to become the bridge.

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