The Obedient Rebel

Allyson Chavez

You’ve been told success means hustle, pressure, and self-sacrifice. But if that version of success has left you exhausted, disconnected, and wondering if it’s even worth it—you’ve been following the wrong model. Welcome to The Obedient Rebel Podcast with Allyson Chavez. This is where faith-driven leaders come to trade the grind for God and create success that restores instead of drains. Each short, punchy episode gives you: ✨ One simple tool you can use right away. ✨ A clear reframe that shifts exhaustion into peace. ✨ Real stories of leaders who learned that obedience isn’t self-betrayal—it’s power. This isn’t more self-help with tips and tricks. This is a movement redefining success for faith-driven leaders worldwide. Because you’re not broken—the model is. And together, we rise as Obedient Rebels.

  1. 22H AGO

    Exhaustion vs. Revelation — Why God Feels Silent in Busy Seasons

    Most people think God is being quiet. But for high-capacity leaders, the truth is usually simpler: You’re exhausted — and exhaustion blocks revelation. In this episode, Allyson Chavez breaks down why burnout, overwhelm, and constant mental noise make it nearly impossible to hear the whisperings of the Spirit… and what to do when your body and soul have nothing left to give. You’ll learn: • The difference between survival mode and spiritual clarity • Why God doesn’t shout over your exhaustion • What happens to revelation when your nervous system is overwhelmed • How the Obedient Rebel reconnects to God through rest, not pressure • The shift that helps you feel God again — without trying harder If you crave clarity, peace, and a deeper connection with God, this episode will feel like a breath of fresh air. FREE RESOURCE: 👉 Get The Obedient Rebel Way at theobedientrebel.com/way __ Key Takeaways:   00:08 — Stop Performing, Hear God Again 00:39 — Exhaustion Blocks Revelation 01:26 — Exhaustion Creates Static: Fogged Thoughts & Numbed Intuition 01:42 — Not a Spiritual Failing, It’s a Capacity Issue 03:01 — Burnout Affects Intuition & Decision-Making 11:30 — God Won’t Shout Over Your Exhaustion 12:00 — Slowing Down is Part of Receiving Revelation __ Additional Resources: Learn more about Allyson’s work: Website: https://allysonchavez.com/   Reach out to me on social media: 🔹 Instagram:   / allysonchavez_   🔹 Facebook:   / allyson.a.chavez   🔹 LinkedIn:   / allysonchavez15   🎧 Follow the podcast on your favorite app, so you never miss an episode: https://link.chtbl.com/tpapodcast   ✨ I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to leave a rating and review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... #ObedientRebel #FaithAndLeadership #ChristianEntrepreneur #FaithBasedSuccess #HearGodsVoice #SpiritualClarity #RevelationAndRest #HighCapacityLeader #PeaceNotPressure #FaithOverHustle #ExhaustionIsNotYourIdentity #LeadershipGodsWay #ScriptureStudy #LDSLife #SpiritualRestoration #NervousSystemRegulation

    13 min
  2. NOV 27

    Stop Earning Your Rest: The Silent Rule Making You Exhausted

    You’ve been told you have to earn your rest. That you can rest when things slow down, when everything’s done, when you’ve finally “earned it.” In this episode of The Obedient Rebel Podcast, we expose one of the most common silent rules high achievers obey without realizing it: “I must earn my right to rest.” We’ll walk through: How this rule shows up as “I’ll rest when things slow down” (and why they never do)  Why you feel guilty, anxious, or “behind” any time you try to slow down  How God actually designed rest into creation through Sabbath, sacred pauses, and nature’s own rhythms  Why rest isn’t the absence of work—it’s the presence of God  A simple Obedient Rebel practice to start breaking this rule gently, starting today  If you’ve ever felt irresponsible for slowing down, this episode will feel like someone finally turned the light on. 🎁 Free Resource Mentioned in This Episode: Grab The Obedient Rebel Way—a simple, powerful roadmap to live in clarity and alignment without running yourself ragged: 👉 https://theobedientrebel.com/way 🎧 Listen, share with a fellow high-capacity friend, and let this be your permission to rest in the way you were actually designed __ Key Takeaways: 00:10 – The Hidden Rule 01:10 – Collapse vs. True Rest 02:50 – How the Rule Shows Up 05:30 – The Emotional Cost 10:30 – God’s Design for Rest 17:55 – Rest as Presence 22:00 – How to Break the Rule __ Additional Resources: Learn more about Allyson’s work: Website: https://allysonchavez.com/ Reach out to me on social media:  🔹 Instagram:   / allysonchavez_    🔹 Facebook:   / allyson.a.chavez    🔹 LinkedIn:   / allysonchavez15  🎧 Follow the podcast on your favorite app, so you never miss an episode: https://link.chtbl.com/tpapodcast  ✨ I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to leave a rating and review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... #TheObedientRebel #ObedientRebelPodcast #SuccessWithoutStriving #RestWithoutGuilt #FaithAndWork #HighAchieverLife #GodAndGoals #SabbathRest #SacredPause #NervousSystemRest #PeaceOverPressure

    20 min
  3. NOV 20

    Your How-To for Breaking the Rules That Break You

    Most high achievers are exhausted—and it’s not because they’re weak. It’s because they’re obeying rules they never agreed to. In this episode, Allyson Chavez reveals the silent rules that shape your pace, pressure, peace, and identity—often without you realizing it. These inherited expectations feel responsible or holy… but they’re actually survival strategies dressed as obedience. You’ll learn the top four hidden rules: driving burnout, how to tell if a rule is not from God, and a powerful 30-second practice to return to peace and reconnect with divine direction. If life feels heavy even though you’re doing everything “right,” this conversation will show you why—and what you can do today to lighten the load. DM Allyson the word PEACE for a free next step. __ Key Takeaways: 00:00 — What silent rules are 05:47 — Silent Rule #1: “If I don’t hold everything together…” 11:12 — Silent Rule #2: “Peace comes after the to-do list.” 15:43 — Silent Rule #3: Self-pressure & self-judgment (“murdering yourself” line) 17:05 — Silent Rule #4: “My success is measured by what I can endure.” 20:48 — How to return to peace __ Additional Resources: Learn more about Allyson’s work: Website: https://allysonchavez.com/ Reach out to me on social media: 🔹 Instagram:   / allysonchavez_   🔹 Facebook:   / allyson.a.chavez   🔹 LinkedIn:   / allysonchavez15   🎧 Follow the podcast on your favorite app, so you never miss an episode: https://link.chtbl.com/tpapodcast   ✨ I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to leave a rating and review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... #SilentRules #FaithAndLeadership #ChristianMindset #StopTheHustle #PeaceFromGod #ChristianPodcast #WomenInLeadership #LeadershipBurnout #EmotionalHealingJourney #HealingWithGod #HolySpiritLed #ObedientRebelPodcast

    29 min
  4. NOV 13

    Finding peace in rhythm, not performance

    You’ve been told the key to success is balance—balance between work and home, ambition and faith, serving others and saving something for yourself. But balance feels impossible, doesn’t it? No matter how hard you try, one area always wins at the expense of another. In this episode of The Obedient Rebel Podcast, Allyson Chavez reveals why balance is a cultural myth that leaves women exhausted—and how God designed us to live in rhythm instead. Through her story and a practical tool called the Rhythm Reset, you’ll learn how to stop chasing balance and start aligning with the season God has you in. Because true peace doesn’t come from juggling everything perfectly—it comes from walking in His flow. Get your free copy of The Obedient Rebel Way,  It’s a 10-minute reset to help you trade the grind for God and reclaim your peace. 👉 Get it at theobedientrebel.com/way or scan the QR code. __ Key Takeaways: 00:00 — Why “balance” is a myth that leaves women exhausted 01:00 — Obedient Rebels obey God’s laws, not society’s rules 02:00 — Balance creates guilt; rhythm brings peace 03:30 — God designed life in seasons, not constant busyness 06:00 — How to ask: “Lord, what’s the rhythm for this season?” 08:40 — Move from performance to presence and hear God more clearly 09:00 — The Rhythm Reset: align your pace with God’s timing 12:10 — Go back to church—find stillness to hear God’s voice 13:00 — Honor your current season instead of chasing balance 15:00 — Trust God to fill the gaps when you slow down 16:00 — True success isn’t balance—it’s peace in His rhythm __ Additional Resources: Learn more about Allyson’s work: Website: https://allysonchavez.com/ Reach out to me on social media:  🔹 Instagram:   / allysonchavez_    🔹 Facebook:   / allyson.a.chavez    🔹 LinkedIn:   / allysonchavez15  🎧 Follow the podcast on your favorite app, so you never miss an episode: https://link.chtbl.com/tpapodcast  ✨ I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to leave a rating and review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...  #ObedientRebel #FaithDrivenSuccess #PeaceOverPressure #BalanceIsAMyth #GodsRhythm #WorkLifeRhythm #ChristianLeadership #SuccessWithoutBurnout #SeasonsOfLife

    18 min
  5. NOV 7

    Why peace—not perfection—is the proof of alignment

    You’ve followed the rules. You’ve checked the boxes. You’ve hustled and stayed faithful. And yet—peace still feels out of reach. You’re drained, wondering why doing everything ‘right’ still leaves you exhausted.  In this episode of The Obedient Rebel Podcast with Allyson Chavez, we’re rebelling against the lie that perfection and rule-keeping prove your worth—and obeying peace as the true proof of alignment with God. Allyson shares her own story of chasing perfection, the moment she realized peace isn’t weakness but alignment, and how Jesus’ words—‘My yoke is easy, and my burden is light’—transform the way we work and lead. You’ll walk away with a practical tool called The Peace Check that helps you shift from pressure to peace in minutes, and the reminder that you were never meant to carry this weight alone. If success has left you exhausted, it’s because you’ve been following the wrong version of it. That’s why I created The Obedient Rebel Way. It’s a free resource to help you trade the grind for God and take your peace back in just a few minutes. Think of it as your first step into a different kind of success—one that restores instead of drains. 👉 Get it at theobedientrebel.com/way or scan the QR code.” __ Key Takeaways: 00:00 — When “doing right” feels heavy 01:57 — God’s laws bring calm, not pressure 06:47 — Aligning with peace over perfection 12:48 — The Peace Check: pause, breathe, realign 21:07 — Rebel against pressure, rest in grace __ Additional Resources: Learn more about Allyson’s work: Website: https://allysonchavez.com/ Reach out to me on social media:  🔹 Instagram:   / allysonchavez_    🔹 Facebook:   / allyson.a.chavez    🔹 LinkedIn:   / allysonchavez15  #TheObedientRebel #FaithDrivenSuccess #ChristianLeader #SuccessWithoutBurnout #PerfectionismToPeace #KingdomBusiness #WomenOfFaithLeadership #ObedienceNotExhaustion #PeaceIsProof #FaithOverHustle

    23 min
  6. OCT 31

    Why the chase leaves you empty—and how obedience fills you instead.

    You hit the milestone, check the box, celebrate for five minutes—and then the emptiness creeps back in. The finish line just keeps moving farther away. If success has left you exhausted, it’s because you’ve been chasing the wrong version of it.   In this episode of The Obedient Rebel Podcast, Allyson Chavez unpacks what it means to be an Obedient Rebel: Obey God’s laws. Break your rules. Calm, clarity, and confidence. You’ll hear the unspoken rules that keep leaders trapped in exhaustion—and the simple shift that breaks the cycle. Walk away with a practical tool you can use today to stop chasing and start receiving, and the reminder that God’s version of success restores instead of drains. __ Key Takeaways 00:00 Intro 00:20 Are you exhausted from chasing success that never satisfies? 01:10 What it means to be an Obedient Rebel 02:05 The unspoken rules that wear you out 03:10 Breaking fear-driven rules and anchoring in God’s truth 04:25 The difference between God’s laws and the world’s chase 05:40 Real-life story: when success didn’t satisfy 07:10 The moving finish line of achievement 08:20 Why chasing success always leaves you empty 09:15 What happens when success is built on obedience 10:00 The lie that “more is always the answer” 11:10 Tool: Switch the Chase – Step 1 (Identify what you’re chasing) 12:00 Step 2 (Stop chasing, start receiving) 12:40 Step 3 (One small shift today from chasing to receiving) 13:20 Obedience isn’t passive—it’s alignment 14:15 Rest isn’t laziness—it’s obedience in action 15:10 Redefining success through peace, not pressure __ Additional Resources: Learn more about Allyson’s work: Website: https://allysonchavez.com/ freebie: theobedientrebel.com/way __ Reach out to me on social media: 🔹 Instagram:   / allysonchavez_   🔹 Facebook:   / allyson.a.chavez  🔹 LinkedIn:   / allysonchavez15   #TheObedientRebel #ExhaustedSuccess #FaithDrivenSuccess #TradeTheGrindForGod #PeaceOverPressure #OverflowWithGod #ChristianLeadership #ObedienceIsPower

    16 min
  7. AUG 28

    Change Your World (For the Better) With The 3HQ™ Method (ft. Hilary DeCesare)

    Some days, everything feels heavy and you just want to hide under a blanket and disappear for a bit. You want to forget about your worries, and you might even be willing to go through unhealthy roads to do that. Have you ever been there? Because I have, and it's exactly why I'm sharing this beautiful discussion with you today. This episode is for those of you who are tired of pretending that everything is all right when it ISN'T. It’s for the ones who feel stuck in a fog and kind of numb but still hopeful enough to believe there has to be more to life. My guest on the podcast today, the brilliant Hilary DeCesare, gets it. She’s been in the mess too, she's gone through the heartbreak and the burnout, and out of all of that, she created The 3HQ™ and ReLaunch Method: head, heart, and highest self. And she shares all about it today! Together, Hilary and I talk about how to shift your energy for a better life, why saying “I’m done” might be the most important thing you say all year, and how small moments (like singing in the car with your teenager) can become the spark that changes everything. Tune in now to start your own ReLaunch. — ✨ Effortless success for the ambitious & god-centered woman begins here. Learn more about The Prosperity Approach here: https://allysonchavez.com/ — Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro  00:56 Meet Hilary 03:18 What is The 3HQ™ Method? 10:57 What are you done with? 20:57 What to do when you want to escape 33:22 We have something to share with you! 40:42 Hilary’s courses — Additional Resources: - Learn more about Hilary’s work: The ReLaunch: https://therelaunch.com/The ReLaunch to a Rich Life podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relaunch-to-a-rich-life/id1510506747- Reach out to me on social media: InstagramFacebookLinkedInThe Prosperity Approach is a podcast showing ambitious, God-centered women how to master their inner game so they can lay down the struggle, manifest their dreams, and LOVE life as they go. - Follow the podcast on your favorite app, so you never miss an episode! Click HERE. - I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to leave a rating and review.

    44 min
4.8
out of 5
71 Ratings

About

You’ve been told success means hustle, pressure, and self-sacrifice. But if that version of success has left you exhausted, disconnected, and wondering if it’s even worth it—you’ve been following the wrong model. Welcome to The Obedient Rebel Podcast with Allyson Chavez. This is where faith-driven leaders come to trade the grind for God and create success that restores instead of drains. Each short, punchy episode gives you: ✨ One simple tool you can use right away. ✨ A clear reframe that shifts exhaustion into peace. ✨ Real stories of leaders who learned that obedience isn’t self-betrayal—it’s power. This isn’t more self-help with tips and tricks. This is a movement redefining success for faith-driven leaders worldwide. Because you’re not broken—the model is. And together, we rise as Obedient Rebels.

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