The Rebuilt Man

Coach Frank Rich

Welcome to The Rebuilt Man, I’m Coach Frank, founder of Rebuilt Recovery and we exist here to help you become a better man, by quitting porn, and rebuilding your life. My life changed in 2019 when I finally found freedom from a 20+ year addiction to pornography, and I’ve made it my mission since that day to help other men, just like me & you, find the freedom you deserve. Join us and jump onboard as we provide daily tips and insights to build the necessary mindset to achieve greatness, as well as practical steps to get to the root of our addiction and build a life where pornography is no longer an option. I believe men are called to greatness in this life, and it starts with learning to control our sexual desires. Gentlemen, let’s get ready to Rebuild Your LIfe and become the man God has called you to be. Welcome to The Rebuilt Man Let’s get in to today’s episode

  1. 3D AGO

    2,420 Days Porn Free: The 3 Pillars That Transformed My Life | Ep. 283

    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   It’s been 2,420 days since the last time I looked at porn. That single decision didn’t just change my life, it gave me peace, clarity, focus, and freedom I never thought possible.   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, I’m pulling back the curtain on exactly what shifted in me, and the same frameworks that have helped over 1,700 men break free and rebuild their lives. Here’s what you’ll learn today:   Why trying to “just quit” never works and the real shift that leads to lasting freedom. How surrounding yourself with the right men will pull you up to a higher standard. Why fulfillment is never found in getting, but in giving. The handful of daily habits that will rewire your brain and transform your life. If you’re tired of relapsing, sick of shame, and ready to step into the man God created you to be, this is for you.   Key Takeaways You don’t beat porn by quitting a behavior—you beat it by becoming a new man. Brotherhood and accountability are non-negotiable. Alone, you’ll stay stuck. Porn makes men selfish. Freedom makes you a man of service. My Daily Five habits are the backbone of lasting change: gratitude, reflection, outdoor connection, no snooze, and growth. True peace comes when you’re no longer carrying secrets.   📢 Call to Action  Join the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset today and get a complimentary week inside The Brotherhood — your community of men committed to walking this journey with you.   ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    11 min
  2. 5D AGO

    5 Proven Steps to Beat Porn Urges Before They Beat You | Ep. 282

    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   Every relapse starts the same way, with an urge you didn’t know how to handle. The truth is, over 80% of relapses happen not because your urges are too strong, but because you didn’t have a plan.   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich shares a proven 5-step playbook to help you crush urges in the moment, retrain your brain, and start living as the man God created you to be.   You’ll learn how to: ✅ Create a predefined plan that sets you up for victory ✅ Identify your real triggers (it’s not just lust—it’s your state of mind) ✅ Build powerful self-regulation tools to calm stress & anxiety ✅ Change your environment so you stop losing in the same old places ✅ Use breathwork to reframe urges and restore rational thought     These aren’t just “tips”—they’re proven strategies backed by science, discipline, and the real-world transformations of men who’ve walked this path. Every small victory stacks, builds momentum, and rewires your identity as a man of freedom.   📢 Call to Action    Join the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset today and get a complimentary week inside The Brotherhood — your community of men committed to walking this journey with you.   ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    13 min
  3. SEP 24

    Porn Is the Enemy’s Greatest Weapon Against Men | Ep. 280

    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank exposes the war being waged against men and how pornography is one of the enemy’s most powerful weapons.   From early exposure and addiction cycles to cultural confusion and weakened masculinity, porn is systematically destroying men, families, and communities. But there’s hope. Coach Frank outlines practical, proven steps from his Reboot Your Life program to help men reclaim their identity, break free from addiction, and rise as leaders in their homes, churches, and society.   If you’ve ever felt stuck, ashamed, or powerless in the fight against porn, this episode will equip you with the mindset, habits, and brotherhood needed to win.   🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why every man is created with three core desires: a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue.   How pornography is weaponized to weaken masculinity and create a crisis of manhood.   The shocking average age of first porn exposure (8–11 years old) and its long-term impact.   The science: why porn use is tied to ED, anxiety, depression, and disconnection.   Why weak men don’t build legacies or protect their families.   The crucial role of fathers in leading children into truth.   5 proven action steps from the Reboot Your Life program to fight back: Identity over behavior Daily habits and structure (The Daily 5) Accountability and brotherhood Training discomfort Casting a vision for your future   📌 Takeaways: Porn isn’t harmless… It's a weapon.   Isolation breeds addiction; accountability breeds freedom.   Freedom starts when you stop labeling yourself an addict and start living by a new identity.   Weak men collapse under shame. Strong men rise by embracing discipline and brotherhood.   📢 Call to Action    Join the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset today and get a complimentary week inside The Brotherhood — your community of men committed to walking this journey with you.   ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    10 min
  4. SEP 22

    The 5 Stages of Porn Addiction (And How to Break Free Before It’s Too Late) | Ep. 279

    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich breaks down the 5 stages of porn addiction (exposure, habituation, addiction, escalation, and destruction). He reveals how porn follows a predictable cycle that traps men in secrecy and shame, and more importantly, how you can recognize where you are in that cycle and begin to rebuild your life.   Frank shares practical steps from his Reboot Your Life program, including accountability, the Daily 5, training in discomfort, and creating a vision for your future to help men quit porn and step into true freedom.   If you’re tired of relapsing, hiding, and losing ground to porn, this episode will show you the exact roadmap to reclaim your integrity, confidence, and purpose.   🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why every man thinks he’s in control, until he isn’t   The 5 stages of porn addiction and how to recognize where you are   Why your addiction may not be your fault  but it is your responsibility   Why you must replace porn with disciplines that rebuild your life   The Daily 5 habits every man needs to live porn-free   How to train yourself in discomfort and resilience   Why awareness without action changes nothing   The importance of real accountability (porn thrives in secrecy)   Why you need a clear vision of your future bigger than quitting porn   🚨 Key Takeaways: Porn addiction follows a predictable cycle but you can interrupt it.   Freedom is possible, but the longer you wait, the harder it gets.   Accountability is non-negotiable, you can’t do this alone.   Train discomfort daily to weaken porn’s grip.   You need a vision for your future that pulls you forward     📢 Call to Action  Join the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset today and get a complimentary week inside The Brotherhood — your community of men committed to walking this journey with you.   ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset     – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    14 min
  5. SEP 19

    Breaking the Porn Novelty Loop: How Escalation Traps Men in Addiction | Ep. 278

    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   You started with “soft stuff.” Now you’re watching things you swore you’d never touch.   That’s not who you are, it's the novelty loop hijacking your brain.   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank exposes how porn escalation works & why your brain is wired to crave novelty, how endless clicks and categories hijack your dopamine system, and why this leads so many men into darker content, erectile dysfunction, and mental health struggles.   But this isn’t just theory. I’ll give you the proven system we use inside The Brotherhood to break the novelty loop for good. You’ll learn how to cut off access, reset your brain chemistry, and replace counterfeit novelty with real adventure, accountability, and purpose.   If you’ve felt yourself escalating into content that makes you ashamed, if you’ve noticed intimacy becoming harder, or if you’ve tried to quit only to relapse again… this episode is your roadmap out.     🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why escalation in porn consumption is a brain chemistry issue, not a moral defect   How the novelty loop hijacks dopamine and drives tolerance   The connection between porn addiction, erectile dysfunction, and mental health issues   Why real-life adventure (fitness, purpose, new challenges) can rewire your brain   The power of accountability and brotherhood to break secrecy and shame   Why cutting supply lines is the first non-negotiable step to freedom   How daily habits like journaling, nutrition, and faith practices reset your brain   Why confession heals and diminishes the grip of addiction   How discomfort disciplines dopamine (cold showers, hard choices, discipline)   Why serving others fills the void porn leaves behind       📢 Call to Action   Don’t let synthetic novelty enslave your mind. Join the movement of men who are choosing faith, freedom, and real connection over fake intimacy.    Join the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset today and get a complimentary week inside The Brotherhood — your community of men committed to walking this journey with you.   ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset     – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    10 min
  6. SEP 17

    Why AI Porn Is More Dangerous Than Regular Porn (Deepfakes, Dopamine & Shame)| Ep. 277

    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   AI porn and deepfakes aren’t harmless “curiosities.” They’re traps. Synthetic novelty is hijacking men’s brains, searing consciences, and destroying integrity at a faster rate than traditional porn ever could.   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank exposes the dark reality of AI porn and deepfakes. He breaks down the science of how your brain’s reward system is wired for novelty, why synthetic content creates infinite dopamine spikes, and how this leads to rapid desensitization, shame, and addiction.   But this conversation isn’t just a warning, it’s a roadmap. Frank introduces his proven Reboot Your Life framework, showing men how to guard their gates, rebuild identity, and walk in true freedom. With practical tools like the Daily 5 habits, radical accountability, discomfort training, and a renewed vision for the future, you’ll discover how to break the cycle of counterfeit intimacy and pursue the real connection God designed you for.   If you’ve ever told yourself AI porn is “harmless,” this episode will dismantle that lie and challenge you to step into your calling as a man of integrity, discipline, and faith.     🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why AI porn is more dangerous and deceptive than traditional porn.   How your brain is wired for novelty and how AI hijacks that system.   The devastating impact of desensitization on real intimacy, motivation, and joy.   The ethical truth: deepfakes = stolen consent and moral compromise.   Frank’s framework: Guard your gates; no compromise, no shortcuts.   Why focusing on identity over behavior is the key to lasting change.   How the Daily 5 habits rewire your brain for discipline and freedom.   The role of brotherhood and accountability in real recovery.   How discomfort training builds resilience and breaks the comfort cycle.   Why having a clear vision and purpose is essential for transformation.   📢 Call to Action Don’t let synthetic novelty enslave your mind. Join the movement of men who are choosing faith, freedom, and real connection over fake intimacy.    Join the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset today and get a complimentary week inside The Brotherhood — your community of men committed to walking this journey with you.   ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset     – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    9 min
5
out of 5
19 Ratings

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Welcome to The Rebuilt Man, I’m Coach Frank, founder of Rebuilt Recovery and we exist here to help you become a better man, by quitting porn, and rebuilding your life. My life changed in 2019 when I finally found freedom from a 20+ year addiction to pornography, and I’ve made it my mission since that day to help other men, just like me & you, find the freedom you deserve. Join us and jump onboard as we provide daily tips and insights to build the necessary mindset to achieve greatness, as well as practical steps to get to the root of our addiction and build a life where pornography is no longer an option. I believe men are called to greatness in this life, and it starts with learning to control our sexual desires. Gentlemen, let’s get ready to Rebuild Your LIfe and become the man God has called you to be. Welcome to The Rebuilt Man Let’s get in to today’s episode

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