42 episodes

Join close friends Charla Lauriston and Lauren Domino on their hunt for the ‘secrets’ that have helped black women flourish through the bullsh*t. They connect with guests over shared experiences by wading through everything from sex and self-care to rage and anxiety. Each conversation centers on creating a space for joy with some newfound besties while asking: how do the black women we admire stay incredibly phenomenal?

The Secret Lives of Black Women Stitcher

    • Personal Journals
    • 4.6, 1.4K Ratings

Join close friends Charla Lauriston and Lauren Domino on their hunt for the ‘secrets’ that have helped black women flourish through the bullsh*t. They connect with guests over shared experiences by wading through everything from sex and self-care to rage and anxiety. Each conversation centers on creating a space for joy with some newfound besties while asking: how do the black women we admire stay incredibly phenomenal?

    Introducing Imani State of Mind

    Introducing Imani State of Mind

    Imani State of Mind is a new podcast from Stitcher that demystifies mental health and wellness in an accessible and approachable way. Dr. Imani Walker (Bravo’s Married to Medicine) equips listeners with the right language and tools to normalize this stigmatized topic, in addition to finding laughter and light in navigating these struggles. Listen now in your favorite podcast app!

    • 6 min
    36. We Interview: Each other!

    36. We Interview: Each other!

    In this very special season finale episode we’ve got some personal news for you all that we’ve been getting ready to share for some time. Let’s get into it.

     

    • 42 min
    35. Making Your Own Podcast With Stephanie Kariuki

    35. Making Your Own Podcast With Stephanie Kariuki

    Charla and Lauren get a lot of questions from listeners about how to sell a podcast. They might not have all the answers, but in this episode Stitcher Senior Producer Stephanie Kariuki comes on to share her words of wisdom for getting a project off the ground. She also throws in tips on finding work life balance and finessing all aspects of life with a self-starter attitude. 

     

    You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/

    Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

    Follow Stephanie Kariuki on Twitter @StephKariuki or Instagram @steph.kariuki

    • 42 min
    34. Learning The Real Meaning of Our Clothes With Tanisha Ford

    34. Learning The Real Meaning of Our Clothes With Tanisha Ford

    We may recognize the political symbolism of an afro or a “future is female” shirt, but cultural historian Tanisha Ford sees a political meaning in nearly everything Black women wear--whether they’re trying to make a statement or not.  In this episode, she takes a step back to explain the origin stories of some of the most popular fashion items for Black women and girls. And she breaks down the little-known ways that “high fashion” gatekeepers have been apropriating Black aesthetics from slavery to today. You’re not going to want to miss this. 

     

    You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/

    Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

    Follow Tanisha Ford on Twitter @SoulistaPhD and buy her book 'Dressed In Dreams: A Black Girl’s Love Letter to the Power of Fashion.'

    • 54 min
    33. Rethinking Gender With Raquel Willis

    33. Rethinking Gender With Raquel Willis

    Growing up in Agusta County Georgia, Raquel Willis didn’t find the language for what was so different about her gender experience until young adulthood. But in just a few years since her gender transition, she’s become a leading thinker on gender politics and feminism with her journalism and non-profit work. In this episode, Raquel fills us in on how she became a key player in the movement for LGBTQ rights, where she thinks it’s going, and why she thinks Black womanhood is inherently gender non-conforming. 

     

    You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/

    Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

    Follow Raquel Willis on Twitter @RaquelWillis_

    • 45 min
    32. Decolonizing Climate Activism with Elsa Mengistu

    32. Decolonizing Climate Activism with Elsa Mengistu

    Charla and Lauren are tired of environmentalism constantly being associated with white activists. This week 18-year-old climate justice organizer Elsa Mengistu (our future president) fills us in on what it’s been like to fight for the environment at Howard University and bring her race-conscious approach to the national stage. Her insights show there are big divides between the youth movement and adult organizers. But like a true future president, she outlines a way for each of us to fight climate justice like the function of white supremacy that it is. 

     

    You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/

    Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

    Follow Elsa Mengistu on Twitter @elsamengistu and Instagram @elsamengistu

    • 47 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
1.4K Ratings

1.4K Ratings

Mahrahem ,

🌟

This show is so special! I was catching up on episodes and was so sad to hear the season finale announcement. So excited for your future projects, despite the bittersweet feelings. Thank you both for your voices. 💛

chicago 13 ,

Please do not end

I have this show . It’s nice to hear positive thoughts from black woman. We need more shows like this. I can not wait to see your new project. Thank you

kareykareylou ,

This is EVERYTHING

Wish the season hadn’t ended during this pandemic/BLM but I’m listening to back episodes to keep me going. This is EVERYTHING particularly as a black woman who just moved from Atlanta to a new predominantly white city. I desperately needed to hear black women’s voices. Thank you!

Top Podcasts In Personal Journals

Listeners Also Subscribed To

More by Stitcher