Wake Her Up

Marcella Hill and Sharon Johnson
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Wake Her Up is the unfiltered midlife podcast for women who feel like something's missing—and are realizing that what's missing is THEM! Hosted by Marcella Hill and her little sister Sharon Johnson, raw, real, and often hilarious journey of waking up in midlife. This is where we stop numbing out and start tuning in. From sex to faith, hormones to psychedelics, we’re cracking open the conversations women have been too afraid—or too exhausted—to have. It’s not about burning it all down. It’s about finally claiming space for the woman inside who’s been waiting to rise. Time to Wake HER Up

  1. 1D AGO

    Episode 55: The Bedroom Gap with Dr. Mariah Sophocles

    Why are so many women feeling disconnected—from their partners, their desire, and even themselves? In this powerful episode of the Wake Her Up Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Mariah Sophocles, gynecologist and author of The Bedroom Gap, to talk about a topic that so many women experience but few openly discuss: the growing disconnect in intimacy during midlife and long-term relationships. We dive into the real reasons this “bedroom gap” is happening and why it’s not just about libido. Dr. Sophocles shares the physical, emotional, and relational factors that impact desire, connection, and confidence for women—especially in midlife. In this conversation, we explore:• Why so many women feel disconnected from intimacy• The surprising biological and emotional contributors to the “bedroom gap”• How communication, curiosity, and self-awareness can rebuild connection• Why this conversation is so important for women in midlife This episode is honest, eye-opening, and incredibly validating for any woman who has ever wondered, “Is it just me?” 📖 Get Dr. Sophocles’ book The Bedroom Gap:https://a.co/d/06TlKlQb 💬 Join the Wake Her Up free community of 60,000+ women having real conversations about midlife:https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18L58RHEVk/ 🔥For the fun TOYS we talked about, shop at Oboo.love https://oboo.love/discount/WAKEHERUP If this episode resonates with you, share it with a friend and continue the conversation inside our community. You are not alone in this journey—and together, we’re waking up to what’s possible in midlife.

    1h 16m

  2. FEB 17

    Episode 54: From Betrayal to Wholeness with Jessica Frew

    In this episode, I sit down with Jessica Frew, life coach, author, and bold decision maker, to talk about her remarkable journey through betrayal, healing, and self-rediscovery. Jessica shares the deeply personal story of her first marriage and the life-altering discovery that her husband was gay and had an affair with a man. Instead of allowing the experience to break her, she chose a path of compassion, growth, and radical acceptance. Today, they are close friends and co-parents, offering a powerful example of what healing and emotional maturity can look like. Through her journey, Jessica came to a profound realization: other people do not complete us. We become whole by reconnecting with ourselves. She opens up about releasing expectations, trusting her inner voice, and rebuilding her sense of identity and self-worth. Now, she helps other women do the same by guiding them through betrayal, divorce, and major life transitions. Jessica is also the author of Shove Your Shoulds, a transformative book about letting go of external pressures and making courageous decisions. You can download the book for free on her website. Connect with Jessica: Website: https://heyjessicafrew.com/ Instagram & TikTok: @heyjessicafrew This conversation is honest, empowering, and deeply validating for any woman navigating heartbreak, reinvention, or the journey back to herself.

    1h 5m

  3. FEB 9

    Episode 53: Leaving Mormonism Part 2

    Leaving Mormonism, Part 2: Marriage, Motherhood, and Reclaiming Our Bodies In Part 2 of our conversation on leaving Mormonism, I’m joined again by my sister, Sharon Johnson, as we go deeper into what it actually looked like to unravel our beliefs—and rebuild our lives—from the inside out. We talk honestly about our past and present views on marriage, motherhood, and our roles as wives, and how much of who we thought we were was shaped by obedience, fear, and the constant sense of being watched… and corrected. We share what surprised us most after leaving: Realizing how sacred garments kept us hidden, disconnected from our bodies, and numb to ourselves How we lived feeling like children who were always in trouble, never quite trusted to make our own decisions The deep conditioning of not trusting our own minds—because we were taught they could be hijacked and deceived The disorienting realization that many things we were taught were “bad”… actually aren’t bad at all And the strange, sometimes funny, sometimes painful experience of learning how to be normal adults—like not knowing how to act at a bar, or navigating everyday things that were once forbidden This episode isn’t about bashing a religion. It’s about waking up. About grieving what we lost, questioning what we were taught, and slowly learning how to trust ourselves—our bodies, our instincts, our desires—again. If you’ve ever felt disconnected from yourself, afraid of your own thoughts, or unsure how to live outside the rules you were given… this conversation is for you. You’re not broken.You were trained not to trust yourself.And you can learn how to come home.

    1h 1m

  4. FEB 2

    Episode 52: Pelvic Floor Therapy with Jana Danielson

    So many women are living with pelvic floor dysfunction and have no idea help even exists. In this episode of Wake Her Up, I’m joined by pelvic floor specialist Jana Danielson, founder of Coochball and co owner of Bloom Better Supplements, for a conversation every woman deserves to hear. We talk about the deep frustration of women being dismissed, ignored, or never offered guidance when it comes to pelvic floor health. Jana breaks down why the pelvic floor matters far beyond bladder leaks or postpartum recovery and how a healthy pelvic floor impacts confidence, pleasure, posture, core strength, and overall quality of life. This conversation is about reclaiming power in a part of the body women are rarely taught to understand, let alone care for. If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body, struggled with pain, pressure, or intimacy, or sensed that something wasn’t right but didn’t know where to turn, this episode is for you. Because when women are supported, informed, and embodied, everything changes. 🎧 Listen now and learn what’s possible when you prioritize pelvic floor health. Support your pelvic floor and whole body wellness with Bloom Better Supplements: https://bloombetter.life/znw3jq Save 10% with code WAKEHERUP Find more resources and support for Perimenopause at www.WAKEHERUP.CO

    38 min

  5. JAN 27

    Episode 51: Low Libido- is it Menopause or Shame with Andrea Donsky

    What happens to women’s desire during perimenopause—and why are so many women being dismissed, shamed, or told to accept it? In this episode of Wake Her Up, I sit down with Andrea Donsky, a 7-time published menopause researcher and co-owner of Morphus Women’s Nutritional & Supplement Brand, to unpack newly published research on women’s libido during perimenopause and menopause—and the findings demand our attention. 📊 The research shows: 91% of menopausal women report a noticeable decrease in libido 67% report a decreased ability to reach orgasm These numbers aren’t abstract. They reflect the lived reality of millions of women who feel disconnected from desire, intimacy, and themselves—often while being told by doctors things like: “You’re just getting old.” “This is normal—take one for the team.” In this conversation, we explore: What actually happens to libido during perimenopause How hormonal shifts affect desire, arousal, and orgasm The real-life impact libido loss has on women’s identity, confidence, and relationships How medical gaslighting keeps women silent and stuck The role of spiritual trauma and limiting beliefs in suppressing women’s desire Why libido is not just physical—it’s emotional, psychological, and spiritual And most importantly, we talk about what women can do. Because if you feel like something’s missing… it is you. You are the answer. This episode is about helping women reconnect to themselves—not fixing something “wrong,” but remembering what’s been ignored, dismissed, or shut down. We also talk about Andrea’s new book, Nourishing Menopause: Powerful Nutrition and Lifestyle Strategies to Feel Your Best, which offers research-backed, practical guidance for women navigating perimenopause and menopause. 👉 Pre-order here: https://amzn.to/4rkWikL This episode is for the woman who: Feels disconnected from her desire or vitality Has been dismissed or minimized by medical professionals Knows something feels missing—but hasn’t been given language or direction Is ready to reclaim herself, her body, and her truth If you feel like something’s missing, it is you. And you are more powerful than you’ve been led to believe.

    44 min

  6. JAN 24

    Episode 50: Smelling Different, Living Different: Confidence, Sacrifice & the Courage to Build Your Life with Dr. Shannon Klingman

    What happens when your body starts changing—and it wakes you up to the life you’ve been living? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Shannon Klingman, OB-GYN and founder of Lume Deodorant, for a conversation that starts with perimenopause, body odor, and the “why do I smell like onions?” question so many women are quietly asking… and unfolds into something far deeper. We talk about how women’s bodies change in midlife, why those changes can impact our confidence, and how feeling good in your body is often the first step to chasing the life you actually want. But we also go beyond the science. Dr. Klingman shares her experience of profound grief after the loss of a child, the sacrifices required to build a dream, and what it really means to believe in yourself when the path forward is uncertain. We explore the truth that every life direction comes with trade-offs—and that choosing yourself doesn’t mean it’s easy, but it can be worth it. This episode is for the woman who: Feels disconnected from her body or confidence in midlife Is navigating perimenopause and wondering what the hell is happening Is grieving something she never expected to lose Knows there’s more for her—but isn’t sure she’s brave enough yet This isn’t just a conversation about deodorant. It’s about self-trust, confidence, grief, and the courage to go after your dreams anyway. Shop my favorite Lume Deodorant HERE Join our free community and browse more Perimenopause products at WakeHerUp.co

    53 min

  7. 10/22/2025

    Episode 49: Have Some Grace — Finding Yourself in the Crash Outs with Caycie

    In this heart-to-heart episode of Wake Her Up, we sit down with Caycie — the hilarious and deeply honest creator behind @black_belt_in_mom on TikTok. As two midlife women navigating perimenopause, we connected instantly with her raw stories of caretaking for her mom in a nursing home, juggling life’s chaos, and still finding moments to laugh through it all. Caycie opens up about her “crash outs” — those moments when everything feels like too much — and how humor, honesty, and her life motto, “have some grace,” keep her grounded. This is real talk, girlfriend to girlfriend — the kind of conversation that reminds you that you’re not alone, even when life feels heavy. Tune in for a dose of laughter, hope, and solidarity. Because yes — there are still friends to be found, your body can feel good again, and crashing out will not kill you. ✨ Listen now for connection, compassion, and a few good laughs along the way. As always find more support and community at WakeHerUp.co Find me, Marcella Hill on social media @BeingMarcellaHill

    34 min

  8. 09/30/2025

    Episode 48: From Survival Mode to a Magical Life with Elizabeth Webb

    What if creating a magical life isn’t about adding more — but about tuning into what’s already here? In this week’s episode of Wake Her Up, I sit down with Elizabeth Webb, author of Made for Magic, to explore how each of us can step into the extraordinary by embracing the simple. We dive into: The surprising power of nothingness and why stillness creates space for transformation. How awareness shifts everything — from daily choices to big life decisions. The role of intuition in building a life that feels aligned, expansive, and magical. Elizabeth’s wisdom is both grounding and inspiring, reminding us that magic isn’t out there — it’s in us, waiting to be remembered. 🎧 Tune in and discover how to awaken to the magic of your own life. READ MADE FOR MAGIC HERE

    1h 7m
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Wake Her Up is the unfiltered midlife podcast for women who feel like something's missing—and are realizing that what's missing is THEM! Hosted by Marcella Hill and her little sister Sharon Johnson, raw, real, and often hilarious journey of waking up in midlife. This is where we stop numbing out and start tuning in. From sex to faith, hormones to psychedelics, we’re cracking open the conversations women have been too afraid—or too exhausted—to have. It’s not about burning it all down. It’s about finally claiming space for the woman inside who’s been waiting to rise. Time to Wake HER Up

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  • Creator
    Marcella Hill and Sharon Johnson
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    45
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Marcella Hill and Sharon Johnson
  • Show Website
    Wake Her Up

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