We Chat Divorce Podcast My Divorce Solution

In today’s episode of the "We Chat Divorce" podcast, we delve into the complex and often turbulent journey of Dads Managing the Emotional Roller Coaster of Divorce. Join us as we explore strategies to navigate this challenging chapter with resilience, intention, and a clear sense of purpose.

Our special guest for this episode is Ralph, the Founder of Dad Starting Over. Ralph is a prolific author with four books under his belt, including the widely acclaimed "The Dead Bedroom Fix." He has created a supportive community for men called The DSO Fraternity, where individuals can find guidance and connection during their life transitions.

Throughout our conversation with Ralph, we'll uncover valuable insights on how to stay composed amid the emotional whirlwind of divorce, ensuring that you don't become entangled in the web of emotional distractions. Whether you're a dad going through a divorce or simply seeking wisdom on managing life's toughest challenges, this episode promises to be an enlightening and empowering discussion.
Connect with us on social media:

Facebook

Instagram


TikTok 

Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com.
The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL’S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST.
If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you!


Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special episode of the "We Chat Divorce" podcast, we delve into the complex world of divorcing a narcissist, with a focus on the financial abuse that often accompanies such relationships. Join us as we welcome Amy Goff, a renowned narcissistic abuse and trauma specialist, who specializes in helping women, especially single moms, heal, set boundaries, regain control, and move forward after dealing with narcissistic partners.

Divorcing a narcissist can feel like an uphill battle, but Amy brings her expertise to the table, offering invaluable insights and practical advice. Throughout the episode, we explore:

✔️Recognizing the telltale signs of narcissistic behavior in a partner.

✔️Strategies to break free from the narcissistic trap during divorce proceedings, including dealing with financial abuse.

✔️The importance of setting and maintaining healthy boundaries to protect your financial future.

✔️Empowering stories of women who have successfully overcome narcissistic abuse and rebuilt their lives while setting good examples for their children.

✔️We also discuss the vital role of setting positive examples for our children during and after divorce, demonstrating resilience, strength, and self-worth. If you're facing the daunting prospect of divorcing a narcissist or know someone who is, this episode is a must-listen. 
Amy Goff and our hosts will equip you with the knowledge and tools you need to navigate this challenging journey, protect your financial well-being, and emerge stronger on the other side.

Tune in to discover how to regain control, heal, and move forward with your life after divorcing a narcissist while setting a positive example for your children. 
Connect with us on social media:

Facebook

Instagram


TikTok 

Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com.
The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL’S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST.
If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you!


Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we are shining a spotlight on a crucial issue as we recognize October as Domestic Violence Awareness Month. It's a time to raise our voices and stand together against all forms of domestic violence, including one of the most insidious yet often overlooked aspects: financial abuse.
Join us as we delve into the shadows of domestic abuse and one of its forms, financial abuse. We start by unpacking the fundamental question: What is Financial Abuse? By definition financial abuse is the use of a person's money or finances without their knowledge or consent in order to gain power and control over them. This type of abuse is a less commonly understood form of domestic abuse. We believe in the power of knowledge, awareness, and community support to make a difference.
So, whether you're tuning in to learn more about financial abuse, seeking help for yourself or someone you care about, or simply standing in solidarity with survivors, this episode is for you. Together, let's break the cycle of abuse and create a safer, more empowered future for all."
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233
In this episodes we discuss:

What is Financial Abuse?

How does Financial Abuse reveal itself

What can you do about it?

Connect with us on social media:

Facebook

Instagram


Tik tok 

Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com.
The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL’S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST.
If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you!


Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, we welcome Lisa Johnson, co-founder of Been There Got Out. 

As Co-Founder of Been There Got Out, Lisa is a high conflict divorce coach and certified domestic violence advocate who has successfully represented herself through scores of court appearances. Her case, published in the Connecticut Law Journal, is being used as legal precedent. Her live testimony helped pass Jennifer's Law in Connecticut, the third state in America to expand its legal definition of domestic violence to include “coercive control.” She and her partner, Chris, the male half of Been There Got Out, coach people in high-conflict relationships, divorce, custody battles, and co-parenting hell so they have the chance of the best outcome in family court and beyond. They also offer a weekly Legal Abuse Support Group for those dealing with narcissistic opponents in legal matters. Their book, "Been There Got Out: Toxic Relationships, High-Conflict Divorce, and How to Stay Sane Under Insane Circumstances'' was released in March 2023.
 
Our episode today is all about Navigating Legal Representation in High Conflict Divorces – How to Stay Sane and Smart.  

In this episode we will discuss:


Forms of legal abuse and what you can do about it

How to find the right support resources for yourself

Why a high-conflict person doesn’t just move on after divorce

What trauma can look like after a high-conflict divorce

Connect with Lisa on social media: 

Been There Got Out 

Instagram

Facebook

Connect with us on social media:

Our website

Facebook

Instagram


Tik tok 

LinkedIn

Join our MDS Online Community!

Sign up to receive our newsletter!

Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com.
The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL’S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST.
If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you!


Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we sit down with Beverly Price, host of the Her Empowered Divorce Podcast, which focuses on a woman’s divorce journey. 
She has a personal history with divorce, co-parenting, domestic violence and more. Combining this personal experience with her training, professional certifications and business knowledge, she helps women by supporting them along their grief journey, helping them to work through resentments, fear, sadness and shock.  
Our episode today is all about the importance of where you start when thinking divorce.
In this episode we discuss:

How to begin the divorce process right away – and even before the first conversation.

The difference between a Therapist and Divorce Coach.

The importance of compassionate communication between you and your spouse

Why women are more susceptible to financial abuse than men.

The most important conversation you can have in divorce.

Connect with Beverly on social media: 

Beverly’s Website

LinkedIn

Instagram

Facebook

Connect with us on social media:

Our website

Facebook

Instagram


Tik tok 

LinkedIn

Join our MDS Online Community!

Sign up to receive our newsletter!

Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com.
The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL’S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST.
If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we chat about the importance of preparing for financial discovery in divorce. This preparation is essential to achieve a fair and equitable resolution and ultimately leads to a smoother divorce process and better post-divorce financial stability. 
Now let’s get to it!
In this episodes we discuss:

What discovery is in the divorce process

How the MDS Financial Portrait is different than what your attorney will do for you in discovery

Preparing for discovery and choosing an attorney that recognizes the benefit of an informed client and team approach

How the MDS Financial Portrait will add value to your divorce process and save you time and money  

Connect with us on social media:

Facebook

Instagram


Tik tok 

Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com.
The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL’S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST.
If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you!


Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices