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Here, Here we talk about life transformation here ON YOUR TERMS. My name is Wenzes, I am a life coach and transformation mentor for INFJs. You can also find me on my YouTube Channel: Wenzes or on my website: www.wenzes.com

  1. CAREER CHANGE: Why Starting A Business Feels So Hard (Especially If You’re Smart)

    1H AGO

    CAREER CHANGE: Why Starting A Business Feels So Hard (Especially If You’re Smart)

    Free Template Owner Identity Mindset:https://owner-identity.gr8.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_If starting your own business feels harder than it “should”…even though you’re capable, thoughtful, and have ideas, this is why.This isn’t about motivation.And it’s not about working harder.It’s about how you’ve learned to operate and why that stops working the moment you try to build something of your own.In this video, I break down:• Why structure disappearing feels destabilizing, not freeing• Why searching for the “right way” keeps you stuck• Why lack of time and energy quietly blocks progress• And why this is ultimately an identity shift, not a knowledge problemThis is the beginning of a new series on building something that actually fits you after self-awareness.If this resonates, I’ll continue.Website: http://www.wenzes.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wenzes_Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachWenzes

    11 min
  2. WHY THE INFJ KEEPS EXCUSING PEOPLE'S BEHAVIOR (& When It Needs To Stop)

    3D AGO

    WHY THE INFJ KEEPS EXCUSING PEOPLE'S BEHAVIOR (& When It Needs To Stop)

    INFJ EPIC RELATIONSHIPS BLUEPRINT:https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicrelationships_FREE Poster - INFJ EPIC RELATIONSHIPS CHECKLIST:👉 https://infjrelationships.gr8.com/_All INFJ EPIC LIFE Programs: 👉 https://programs.wenzes.com/collections_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_INFJ lesson: INFJs are known for their deep empathy and ability to understand others. But there’s a hidden downside to this strength. Many INFJs find themselves excusing other people’s behavior, sometimes to the point where it starts hurting them. In this video, we explore why this pattern forms, how it often connects to early coping mechanisms, and what happens when empathy turns into over-understanding. More importantly, we look at how to find a healthier balance so you can stay compassionate without abandoning yourself. If you’ve ever felt like you understand everyone else but struggle to stand up for your own needs, this will resonate deeply. You can be empathetic and still have boundaries. You can understand someone and still walk away.Free Resources: https://wenzes.com/INFJ-Free-Resource/Website: http://www.wenzes.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wenzes_Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachWenzes

    16 min
  3. WHEN THE INFJ FINALLY STOPS "OVERANALYZING" (This Is What Happens)

    MAR 25

    WHEN THE INFJ FINALLY STOPS "OVERANALYZING" (This Is What Happens)

    Next INFJ EPIC LIFE BOOTCAMP Call, this Saturday, March 28th:👉https://wenzes.thinkific.com/courses/epiclifebootcamp_Poster 5 Pillars to an INFJ EPIC LIFE:👉 https://5pillars.wenzes.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_All INFJ EPIC LIFE Programs: https://programs.wenzes.com/collectionsFree Resources: https://wenzes.com/INFJ-Free-Resource/INFJ Lesson:INFJs don’t avoid.If anything, they do the opposite.They immerse. They go deep. They try to understand everything—every emotion, every pattern, every meaning.And that’s exactly why this matters:Sometimes, you don’t gain clarity by going deeper.Sometimes, you gain clarity by stepping away.In this episode, we’re unpacking a truth that can feel uncomfortable for INFJs:The moment you’re the most enmeshed… is often the moment you’re the least clear.✨ You’ll learn:Why INFJs naturally want to lean in instead of avoidHow over-immersion can distort perceptionWhy intentional distance is not avoidance—but self-protectionHow stepping back actually allows truth to integrate naturallyThis isn’t about becoming avoidant.It’s about recognizing when depth turns into distortion—and choosing clarity instead.You don’t need to understand everything right now.Sometimes, truth only becomes visible when you stop trying to force it.#INFJ #SelfAwareness #EmotionalClarity #PersonalGrowth #INFJLifeWebsite: http://www.wenzes.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wenzes_Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachWenzes

    15 min
  4. WHEN THE INFJ FINALLY "SNAPS OUT OF IT" (This Is What Happens)

    MAR 22

    WHEN THE INFJ FINALLY "SNAPS OUT OF IT" (This Is What Happens)

    Poster 5 Pillars to an INFJ EPIC LIFE:👉 https://5pillars.wenzes.com/Join the INFJ EPIC LIFE BOOTCAMP:👉https://wenzes.thinkific.com/courses/epiclifebootcamp_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_All INFJ EPIC LIFE Programs: https://programs.wenzes.com/collectionsFree Resources: https://wenzes.com/INFJ-Free-Resource/INFJ Lesson:There is a moment many INFJs experience that changes everything.It is not loud. It is not dramatic.But something clicks.You stop investing your depth in something that never fully became real.And at first, it can feel empty.But that is not loss.That is energy becoming available again.In this episode, we explore what really happens when an INFJ pulls their energy back and why this shift often leads to momentum, clarity, and a completely different way of building life.If you have ever felt stuck in potential or caught in something that never quite materialized, this will make sense.Website: http://www.wenzes.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wenzes_Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachWenzes

    19 min
  5. INFJ, JUST BECAUSE YOU SEE DEPTH, THAT DOESN’T MEAN IT’S REAL YET

    MAR 18

    INFJ, JUST BECAUSE YOU SEE DEPTH, THAT DOESN’T MEAN IT’S REAL YET

    Poster 5 Pillars to an EPIC LIFE: 👉 https://5pillars.wenzes.com/ Join the INFJ EPIC LIFE BOOTCAMP:👉https://wenzes.thinkific.com/courses/epiclifebootcamp_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_All INFJ EPIC LIFE Programs: https://programs.wenzes.com/collections Free Resources: https://wenzes.com/INFJ-Free-Resource/ INFJ Lesson: One of the hardest lessons for INFJs is realizing that just because you see the depth in someone or something, it does not mean it is real yet.INFJs naturally notice what is beneath the surface. You see the potential in conversations, relationships, and people. You notice emotions, contradictions, and possibilities. But real depth only happens when both people are walking the same path. This episode explores why INFJs get stuck, how to protect your energy, and the shift that helps you stop over-investing while still honoring your insight.Website: http://www.wenzes.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wenzes_Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachWenzes

    22 min
  6. INFJ - WHEN YOUR ENERGY ISN'T LANDING (This Is Why)

    MAR 15

    INFJ - WHEN YOUR ENERGY ISN'T LANDING (This Is Why)

    Relationships Course LAUNCHED:https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicrelationships _ FREE Poster - INFJ EPIC RELATIONSHIPS CHECKLIST:👉 https://infjrelationships.gr8.com/ _ All INFJ EPIC LIFE Programs: 👉 https://programs.wenzes.com/collections_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support: 👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/ _ INFJ lesson: Many INFJs feel very clear internally about who they are and what they see in situations. But when they interact with people, that clarity often doesn’t land the way they expect. In this episode, we explore the difference between magnetism and charge.INFJs naturally operate through magnetism. You inhabit an internal state, a vision, a perspective. But magnetism alone often stays invisible. Charge is what allows that inner clarity to move outward through expression. When magnetism and charge work together, people can finally orient themselves to what you actually mean. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood despite feeling very clear inside, this dynamic might explain why. Free Resources: https://wenzes.com/INFJ-Free-Resource/ Website: http://www.wenzes.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wenzes_Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachWenzes

    16 min
  7. INFJ | THE REAL REASON WE SHOULD BE MORE "SUPERFICIAL"

    MAR 11

    INFJ | THE REAL REASON WE SHOULD BE MORE "SUPERFICIAL"

    Relationships Course LAUNCHED:https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicrelationships_FREE Poster - INFJ EPIC RELATIONSHIPS CHECKLIST:👉 https://infjrelationships.gr8.com/_All INFJ EPIC LIFE Programs: 👉 https://programs.wenzes.com/collections_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_INFJ lesson: INFJs are known for going deep.Deep conversations. Deep analysis. Deep emotional insight.But there is a hidden challenge that comes with this strength.Many INFJs skip the surface entirely.Instead of first observing what is actually happening, the mind immediately begins interpreting. It starts asking what something means, what the deeper motivation is, and what the hidden pattern might be.Sometimes that insight is accurate.But sometimes it creates meaning where there was nothing to decode in the first place.In this episdoe we explore why INFJs can actually benefit from being a little more superficial at the beginning.Not shallow.Not disconnected.Simply observing first.When INFJs learn to pause and look at what people consistently do, what patterns actually appear, and how situations unfold in reality, something powerful happens.Clarity.Depth becomes more precise.Energy is not wasted analyzing things that never deserved deeper interpretation.And the INFJ mind can focus its insight where it truly matters.Depth is one of the greatest INFJ strengths.The key is learning where that depth belongs.If this resonates with you, you are probably not the only INFJ who has experienced this pattern.Free Resources: https://wenzes.com/INFJ-Free-Resource/Website: http://www.wenzes.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wenzes_Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachWenzes

    17 min
  8. THE INFJ WHO “JUST OBSERVES” IS STILL PART OF THE DRAMA

    MAR 8

    THE INFJ WHO “JUST OBSERVES” IS STILL PART OF THE DRAMA

    INFJs often pride themselves on being observers. Calm. Detached. Above the chaos. But there is a truth many INFJs do not want to face. Watching is still participating. Your nervous system does not care whether you are in the center of the drama or quietly observing it from the sidelines. If your body is tracking tension, scanning emotions, and anticipating impact, you are already part ofthe dynamic. In this episode we explore the spectator illusion that many INFJs fall into. The belief that staying silent or neutral means staying untouched. In reality, observation can become a form of controlled involvement that quietly drainsyour energy.   You will learn: • Why INFJs often choose the observer seat • How “neutrality” can mask hidden emotional participation • The nervous system cost of watching chaos for too long • The difference between true detachment and restrained engagement   Sometimes maturity is not about analyzing the circus better. Sometimes the real power move is leaving the tent. If this resonates, you may start noticing something important about your own energy and where it actually goes. Subscribe for more insights on INFJ psychology, intuition, and nervoussystem awareness.   All INFJ EPIC LIFE Programs: https://programs.wenzes.com/collections Free Resources: https://wenzes.com/INFJ-Free-Resource/   Website: http://www.wenzes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wenzes_ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachWenzes

    15 min
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Here, Here we talk about life transformation here ON YOUR TERMS. My name is Wenzes, I am a life coach and transformation mentor for INFJs. You can also find me on my YouTube Channel: Wenzes or on my website: www.wenzes.com

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  • Creator
    Wenzeslawa
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    684
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Wenzeslawa
  • Show Website
    Wenzes

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