Save My Marriage Podcast

Aston and Adam Simmonds
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We’re not here just to “fix” marriages. We’re here to help high-achieving couples remember who they really are, individually and together. To shed the roles, the resentment, the silent suffering and rise into a relationship that’s deeply connected, passionately alive, and built on truth, trust, and team. We’ve lived the disconnect. We’ve hit rock bottom. We’ve sat on the edge of “too late.” But we also know what’s possible when two people choose to rise, together. This isn’t therapy. This is transformation. This is the new paradigm of marriage. This is the Save My Marriage Podcast. Hosted by Aston & Adam Simmonds, relationship coaches and founders of Save My Marriage School, this show delivers weekly real-talk episodes packed with stories, strategies, and step-by-step frameworks to help you: Rebuild trustRekindle connectionCommunicate without conflictOvercome resentmentAnd recreate a marriage you both love being inNew episodes every Tuesday . Submit your question: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com/podcast Learn more: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com Start listening now and discover what’s possible when you Recreate Your Relationship.

  1. 2d ago

    Why Intimacy Dies in Long-Term Marriages

    Most high-achieving couples aren't failing to communicate because they lack intelligence. They're failing because they carry deep childhood trauma patterns that taught them having needs is weakness, asking for help means failure, and their partner should "just know." In this episode: Why your needs feel unmet — and why it's usually the story you're telling, not your partner Why "no" doesn't mean your need is invalid The myth that your partner should "just know" How to move from hyper-independent or co-dependent to interdependent READY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

    24 min

  2. Jun 15

    Why Your Needs Aren't Being Met in Your Marriage (And How to Get Them Met)

    Most high-achieving couples aren't failing to communicate because they lack intelligence. They're failing because they carry deep childhood trauma patterns that taught them having needs is weakness, asking for help means failure, and their partner should "just know." In this episode: Why your needs feel unmet — and why it's usually the story you're telling, not your partner Why "no" doesn't mean your need is invalid The myth that your partner should "just know" How to move from hyper-independent or co-dependent to interdependent READY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

    26 min

  3. Jun 8

    Why High-Achieving Couples Have the Worst Marriages

    You've handled the career, the business, the money. So why does your marriage feel like the one problem you can't crack? Adam and Aston Simmonds dig into something most successful people don't want to hear: the habits that got you here are the same ones pushing your partner away. If your life looks great from the outside and still feels hollow at home, listen to this one. In this episode: High standards, fix-it mode, efficiency. Brilliant at work. Quietly corrosive in a marriageThere's a "science of achievement" and an "art of fulfilment." Nailing the first one teaches you nothing about the second"Dirty fuel" is fear, proving yourself, the dread of sliding backwards. It keeps you producing and it keeps you disconnected. Adam and Aston explain how to run on clean fuel insteadPut the marriage first and the rest tends to fall into place. They walk through how that reorder actually worksREADY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

    24 min

  4. Jun 1

    Your relationship doesn’t have a communication problem… it has a boundary problem.

    Most couples struggling with marriage communication think they just need to get better at talking to each other. But what's really driving the arguments, the withdrawal, and the resentment is a lack of shared agreements. In this episode, Adam and Aston break down what boundaries actually are, why couples conflict keeps repeating without them, and how to build a boundary agreement that creates safety, respect, and real connection. In this episode: Why most relationship disconnection is a boundary problem, not a communication problemThe game analogy that reframes boundaries as structure rather than walls or controlHow to create a shared boundary agreement that both partners actually buy intoWhy self abandonment masquerading as unconditional love is quietly destroying your marriageREADY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

    12 min

  5. May 25

    Hidden Reason You Feel Disconnected (You Haven't Chosen Your Relationship)

    If you've been telling yourself "I just feel disconnected" and pointing at your partner, this episode will redirect that conversation back to the one place real change starts: you. In this episode: Why disconnection is more common than couples admit What "fully choosing the relationship" actually means Acceptance is the first step, not a sign you're settling How rejection shows up without a single word being spoken Story first, evidence second - why you keep finding what you don't want The two pathways and why you have to choose one ———— READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session ———— LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds ———— LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. ———— CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsimmonds  → Facebook (Adam): https://www.facebook.com/AdamSimmonds11 → Website: https://savemymarriageschool.com/ READY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

    19 min

  6. May 18

    Why Your Partner Won’t Take Accountability (And What Actually Works)

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ "I thought I was helping. I was actually making it worse." In this episode, we're getting real about one of the most common patterns we see in struggling relationships: The one who tries harder. The one who over-functions. The one who holds everyone accountable — except themselves. "You cannot control someone into accountability. And the moment I stopped trying, everything started to shift." If you're the one doing all the work and your partner just won't meet you there… This episode will change the way you see that dynamic forever. Save this for the next time you feel like you're carrying it all alone. Share it with the partner who says "I just want them to step up." Full episode: "Why Your Partner Won't Take Accountability (And What Actually Works)" is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #accountability #marriagetalk #couplesdynamics #realtalk #workingonus #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshipstruggles #truthbomb #podcastclip #emotionalconnection #loveafterpain READY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

    22 min

  7. May 11

    How to Inspire a Man to Step Up (Without Pushing Him Away)

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ "Why won't he just step up?" If you've said this out loud or just thought it quietly, exhausted and frustrated… This episode is for you. Because the truth is, the harder you push, the further he pulls away. The more you do, the less space he has to rise. And none of it is working. Not the initiating. Not the withdrawing. Not the silence you call "giving him space." "Men don't step up when they feel like they're failing. They step up when they believe they can win." If your man is disappearing into work, going quiet, or just fading into the background… He's not lazy. He's losing. And the shift that changes everything? It's not a conversation you need to have with him. It's the one you need to have with yourself. Save this. Because the next time you feel that pull to push harder, come back here. Share it with the woman in your life who's exhausted from carrying it all. Full episode: "How to Inspire a Man to Step Up (Without Pushing Him Away)" is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshipstruggles #viralreel #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #loveafterpain #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast  READY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

    26 min

  8. May 4

    The Mental Load Is Not the Problem (And Why Most Conversations Make It Worse)

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ "I realised if something happened to me… I wouldn't trust he could look after our kids." That was the wake-up call. Not a fight. Not a breakdown. Just a quiet, terrifying moment in the kitchen. And instead of blaming him… She asked herself: How did I create this? Because the mental load isn't just about tasks. It's about the dynamic you've both quietly built. Without even realising it. "It's not that he doesn't care. It's that you've made it so he doesn't need to." And that's the hardest truth to hear. But also the most freeing one. Because if you created it… You can change it. Not by doing more. By finally doing less.  Save this for the next time you feel like you're carrying it all alone. Share it with the woman who needs to hear this today. Full episode: "The Mental Load Is Not the Problem — And Why Most Conversations Make It Worse" is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #mentalload #marriagetalk #healingjourney #defaultparent #relationshipstruggles #viralreel #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #modernmarriage #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #marriagecoach #relationshipcoach #highperformers #powercouple #perthcouples #goldcoastcouples #australiacouples #couplesretreat #emotionalintimacy #fixyourmarriage #marriageproblems #loveafterpain #realconnection READY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

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We’re not here just to “fix” marriages. We’re here to help high-achieving couples remember who they really are, individually and together. To shed the roles, the resentment, the silent suffering and rise into a relationship that’s deeply connected, passionately alive, and built on truth, trust, and team. We’ve lived the disconnect. We’ve hit rock bottom. We’ve sat on the edge of “too late.” But we also know what’s possible when two people choose to rise, together. This isn’t therapy. This is transformation. This is the new paradigm of marriage. This is the Save My Marriage Podcast. Hosted by Aston & Adam Simmonds, relationship coaches and founders of Save My Marriage School, this show delivers weekly real-talk episodes packed with stories, strategies, and step-by-step frameworks to help you: Rebuild trustRekindle connectionCommunicate without conflictOvercome resentmentAnd recreate a marriage you both love being inNew episodes every Tuesday . Submit your question: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com/podcast Learn more: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com Start listening now and discover what’s possible when you Recreate Your Relationship.

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  • Creator
    Aston and Adam Simmonds
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    172
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Save My Marriage Podcast
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    Save My Marriage Podcast

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