Late Boomers

Cathy Worthington and Merry Elkins

Welcome to Late Boomers, the podcast that is your guide to creating a third act with style, power and impact! Join your hosts, Cathy Worthington and Merry Elkins, as they bring you conversations with successful artists, entrepreneurs and entertainers who have set themselves up for an amazing third act. Everyone has a story, and Cathy and Merry take you along for the ride on each interview, recounting the journey each guest has taken to get where they are, and inspiring you to create a path to success as you look toward your own third act!

  1. Find Purpose and Reinvent Yourself After Retirement: Solving the Post-Career Identity Crisis

    2d ago

    Find Purpose and Reinvent Yourself After Retirement: Solving the Post-Career Identity Crisis

    Welcome back to the Late Boomers podcast! We’re your hosts, Cathy Worthington and Merry Elkins, and today’s episode is one you won’t want to miss, especially if you’re approaching retirement or have already stepped into this exciting new chapter. We’re diving deep into the process of redefining purpose, identity, and fulfillment after leaving a long-held career, with the incredible Anne van Leynseele, founder of Rarified Life. In this powerful conversation, we explore the reality of retirement beyond the fantasy of a “permanent vacation.” Anne shares her personal journey of reinvention, her work helping individuals transition through major life changes, and the innovative tools she’s developed, including her workbook "Preferment," designed to guide you toward a meaningful post-career life. We talk candidly about the emotional stages people go through after stepping away from work, the challenge of identity loss, and the breadth of opportunities available to create connection, purpose, and joy in later life. Key TakeawaysRetirement is a Beginning, Not an End: Anne reveals how retirement can be an invitation to design a unique, fulfilling life not just a time of scaling down, but of broadening your experiences and passions.Identity Beyond Your Job: Learn why so many successful people struggle with the transition—even with strong financial planning and discover strategies to move beyond work-based identity.Emotional Milestones of Retirement: We discuss the common emotional hurdles, such as loss of structure and purpose, and how to navigate anxiety, depression, and uncertainty. You'll hear inspiring stories of transformation and resilience.Practical Tools for Reinvention: Anne’s workbook, "Preferment," offers short, engaging exercises to help you rediscover passions, define new values, and set purposeful goals.The Power of Community & Relationships: Building new friendships, intergenerational connections, and engaging in social activities from golf and mahjong to volunteering are essential for cognitive and emotional well-being.Redefining Success: We break down how to let go of the productivity guilt and embrace a broader, more rewarding definition of what accomplishment looks like after retirement.Accessible Next Steps: Whether it’s joining local groups, looking for free activities, or volunteering online, there’s something for everyone regardless of budget or mobility. If anything in today’s conversation resonated with you, we encourage you to start asking yourself: What will I do with my retirement? Not just during it. Head over to www.rarifiedlife.com to learn more about Anne van Leynseele’s work and discover her workbook, "Preferment." You can also find her resources and tips for getting on board with new interests. Don’t forget to subscribe to Late Boomers wherever you get your podcasts, and check out our YouTube channel for more insightful conversations. As always, keep dreaming, keep growing, and keep creating that next great chapter because as we learned today, it’s never too late to rethink what’s possible! Mentioned in this episode: Late Boomers is part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork. eWomenPodcastNetwork

    42 min
  2. Cultivating Joy, Energy, and Purpose: Overcoming Anxiety and Self-Doubt in Midlife and Beyond

    Jun 17

    Cultivating Joy, Energy, and Purpose: Overcoming Anxiety and Self-Doubt in Midlife and Beyond

    Welcome to another inspiring episode of Late Boomers! We’re your hosts, Cathy Worthington and Merry Elkins, and we’re thrilled you’re joining us for a powerful conversation about finding joy, energy, and purpose, especially during life’s big transitions. In this episode, we sit down with psychotherapist, speaker, and author Elke Scholz, whose book Loving Your Life empowers people to overcome anxiety and self-doubt by reconnecting with their authentic selves. Whether you’re navigating retirement, caregiving, health shifts, relationship changes, or just wondering what’s next, this episode is packed with insight and practical tools to help you thrive. Key TakeawaysSelf-awareness begins by noticing your energy where it rises and falls throughout your day. Start small and practice regularly.Your body never lies: Trust its signals, especially in uncertain times.Anxiety isn’t your enemy; it’s a messenger. Learn to “invite it in,” explore what it’s trying to tell you, and respond with self-compassion.Gratitude isn’t just something you “feel” when things go well, practice it intentionally to build happiness and resilience.You’re not alone: Even successful people (including therapists and coaches) experience self-doubt. Community and honest conversations matter.Redefine success for yourself at every stage; prioritize health, inner peace, and relationships.Practical tools and a growth mindset can help you create a life you truly love, no matter your age or stage. Grab Loving Your Life from your favorite bookseller or visit Elke Scholz’s website for free calming techniques and other resources. If you found value in this episode, please subscribe, leave us a review, and share Late Boomers with friends, family, and anyone ready to create their next exciting chapter. For more resources and to stay updated on future episodes, visit our website and follow us on social media. Your next chapter is waiting and we’re here to help you thrive! Remember: It’s never too late to create a life you truly love. Shine bright and practice every day! Mentioned in this episode: Late Boomers is part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork. eWomenPodcastNetwork

    46 min
  3. Secrets of Storytelling: Michael Mandaville on Film, Fiction, and the Power of Reinvention

    Jun 10

    Secrets of Storytelling: Michael Mandaville on Film, Fiction, and the Power of Reinvention

    Welcome back to Late Boomers! We’re your hosts, Cathy Worthington and Mery Elkins, and on this episode, we dive deep into the world of creativity, reinvention, and storytelling with our remarkable guest, Michael Mandaville. In our conversation, we celebrate the art and perseverance behind storytelling—whether through film, fiction, or personal reinvention. Our guest, Michael Mandaville, is a best-selling novelist (with Murder in the City of Light reaching #1 on Amazon), filmmaker, martial artist, entrepreneur, and a true champion of creative exploration. Together, we discuss the realities of making movies, the evolving landscape of the entertainment industry, the powerful influence of AI, and how reinvention is possible at any stage of life. Key TakeawaysThe Power of Perseverance: Michael Mandaville shares how creating stories, whether novels or films, requires years of dedication, resilience, and the ability to push through rejection and obstacles. Hitting #1 on Amazon in four categories was a meaningful marker of authenticity and effort 02:32.Creativity Across Disciplines: From sorting script pages as a child on Hollywood sets to directing Liam Neeson, Michael’s journey shows that creative talent can span industries and forms, including martial arts, which taught him discipline and adaptability 25:03.The Changing Face of Film: We explore how streaming, AI, and new technology have transformed movie-making and storytelling, allowing indie creators and boomers with rich life experiences unprecedented access and influence 17:51.Resourcefulness in Action: Michael reveals how he directed a feature film on a $10,000 budget by leveraging available resources and thinking outside the box, reminding us that starting imperfectly is better than not starting at all 34:24.Reinvention is Vital: Whether learning prompt engineering for AI or using YouTube to master new skills, Michael’s story is a testament to lifelong learning, adaptability, and the importance of jumping into projects before “perfect circumstances” arrive 41:24.Relationships & The Human Side of Hollywood: Michael’s anecdotes about working with stars like Liam Neeson reveal the importance of respect, communication, and understanding different working styles in creating magic on set 28:20.Advice for Aspiring Creatives: Don’t wait for everything to be perfect; take action, adapt, and let momentum drive your creative journey—whether you want to write a book, make a film, or embark on something new 39:43. Connect with Michael MandavilleFind his books on AmazonVisit his website: www.creativeexplorer-michaelmandaville.com/ Inspired to start your next creative project or ready to reinvent yourself? Hit subscribe, rate, and leave us a review on your favorite podcast app! Don’t forget to share this episode with your friends, family, and anyone dreaming of their “next chapter.” For more stories of creativity, resilience, and reinvention, keep tuning in to Late Boomers—because it’s never too late to begin your best chapter yet! Stay curious, stay creative, and see you next time on Late Boomers! Cathy and Merry Mentioned in this episode: Late Boomers is part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork. eWomenPodcastNetwork

    48 min
  4. Fix the Foundation First: Practical AI Tips for Business Owners Over 50

    Jun 3

    Fix the Foundation First: Practical AI Tips for Business Owners Over 50

    Welcome to another episode of Late Boomers, the podcast for those of us who are redefining what it means to age, work, and thrive in this fast-changing world. We’re Cathy and Merry, and in this week’s episode, we dive deep into one of the most talked-about topics in business today: artificial intelligence (AI), especially how it can help boomers like us not just keep up, but lead the way. Are you still personally handling every task in your business? Do you feel buried in emails, invoices, and social media posts, all while wondering if AI is only for the tech giants? This episode is for you! We sit down with the incredible Antonio Thornton, founder of Aixios and a systems expert who’s generated over $113 million in revenue for clients across 19 industries. Antonio brings 27 years of systems engineering and 30 years of direct response marketing to the table, and today he shares his actionable, real-world strategies to help boomers leverage AI without getting lost in tech jargon. This episode is packed with honest stories, practical frameworks, and a fresh perspective on how AI can rescue (not replace) seasoned business owners, consultants, and entrepreneurs. Key TakeawaysAI is for all of us not just techies: Antonio debunks the myth that AI is out of reach for boomers and small businesses. In fact, now is the perfect time to embrace it (35:08).The $15/hr trap: If you’re stuck juggling endless low-value tasks, you’re limiting your own growth. Learn how to get out of the “CEO bottleneck” and focus on high-value, revenue-generating activities (04:24).Fix the foundation first: Don’t automate dysfunction! Discover why building solid operational systems before implementing AI is crucial for success (10:41).Practical frameworks: Simple exercises like Antonio’s “Time Bank” can quickly reveal where your time (and money) are leaking and help you identify what to automate or delegate immediately (28:57).AI as a business partner: Real-world examples of custom AI operating systems that drastically cut down on busywork, prevent burnout, and even enable owners to finally take vacations without their companies grinding to a halt (22:05).You’re not too late: AI moves fast, but plenty of the early obstacles have been worked out. It’s not about being replaced by AI, it's about leveraging it to outpace your competition (34:22).The best tools to focus on: Out of hundreds launching daily, Antonio recommends prioritizing useful, ethical, and powerful platforms, such as Claude AI, for tangible business results (37:35). Are you ready to see where your time and revenue are leaking? Start today by trying Antonio’s Time Bank exercise: set a timer for every 15 minutes, write down what you’re doing, and categorize each task as revenue-generating or not. You’ll be amazed at what you discover! Want to learn more and get practical resources to kickstart your own AI-powered reinvention? Head over to aixios.ai/boomers for a free AI quick-start guide just for our listeners! If today’s conversation energized you, don’t forget to subscribe, leave us a review, and share this episode with a fellow business owner or entrepreneur in your circle. It’s never too late to reinvent your business or yourself. Let’s keep thriving, Cathy & Merry Mentioned in this episode: Late Boomers is part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork. eWomenPodcastNetwork

    53 min
  5. Redefining Relationships After 50: Marriage, Independence, and Modern Love for Late Boomers

    May 27

    Redefining Relationships After 50: Marriage, Independence, and Modern Love for Late Boomers

    Welcome to another episode of Late Boomers, our new reality where we, Cathy and Merry, dive into what life looks like after 50, 60, and beyond! In this episode, we’re talking all about modern love, late-in-life relationships, and the big question: Should you get married later in life, or is companionship enough? Inspired by a fascinating AARP magazine article, we explore everything from dating apps and living apart together to estate planning, finances, and finding purpose and joy in relationships as mature adults. Navigating relationships in your later years brings unique questions: Should you remarry or simply enjoy companionship? How important are legal commitments like marriage, especially when finances, family, and independence are at play? We open up about widowhood, the desire for independence, the realities of estate planning, and the dynamics of blending families after 50. Plus, we share our honest thoughts on dating apps, common red flags, and what commitment really looks like today. Key TakeawaysRedefining Relationships: Love and relationships after 50 are less about traditional expectations and more about comfort, independence, and honesty. Many boomers are discovering that “living apart together” offers both romance and breathing room for personal growth 03:03.Finances & Family: Marriage later in life has important financial and legal implications, including taxes, Social Security, inheritance, and healthcare 05:23. Estate planning is crucial—especially when children from previous relationships are involved.Commitment Without Marriage: A deep, committed relationship doesn’t always need a legal contract. Emotional support, exclusivity, and shared life experiences can define partnership at this stage 24:18.Caregiving Concerns: Health issues and caregiving responsibilities weigh heavily on relationship decisions later in life 17:16. Discussing medical directives and power of attorney is essential even outside of marriage 18:14.Modern Dating: Dating apps are increasingly popular, even among people in their 70s and 80s! But they require dedication and can bring new challenges like love bombing, ghosting, and financial scams 11:07.Red Flags & Emotional Availability: Be aware of manipulative behaviors, financial exploitation, and emotional unavailability. Mature dating comes with its own set of risks and benefits 21:09. Are you navigating love and relationships after 50? Have you chosen to remarry, live apart together, or skip marriage entirely? We want to hear YOUR story and insights! Leave a comment on our YouTube channel, share your experiences, or suggest topics you’d like Cathy and Merry to discuss on future episodes. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review Late Boomers wherever you listen and help us redefine what life, love, and happiness can be later in life. Thank you for tuning in to Late Boomers, our new reality, your new inspiration! Cathy & Merry Mentioned in this episode: Late Boomers is part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork. eWomenPodcastNetwork

    29 min
  6. Leading With Presence: Lessons in Resilience and Integrity After 50

    May 20

    Leading With Presence: Lessons in Resilience and Integrity After 50

    Welcome back to Late Boomers! We’re Cathy and Merry, your co-hosts, and we’re thrilled to have you join us for another powerful episode focused on reinventing, redefining, and reimagining life after 50. In this episode, we dive deep into the meaning of real leadership, especially in uncertain and emotionally charged environments. Our guest, Jay Jacobson, brings decades of experience leading through crises, grief, and transitions, having represented funeral directors before the US Senate and having written the insightful book, Lead by Legendary Example. We talk about what it means to be present as a leader, how to mentor effectively, and why adaptability, faith, and resilience are crucial. Jay’s insights are not only vital for anyone in a leadership position, but especially for boomers stepping into new roles as mentors, caregivers, business owners, or the emotional anchors of their families. Episode OverviewDefining real leadership today: beyond titles and charismaThe importance of presence and integrity in high-stakes situationsJay’s behind-the-scenes experience testifying before the US SenateRegulation challenges in the funeral industry amid changing timesLessons from major crises, including the United Flight 232 tragedyHow faith anchors leaders and provides resilience in griefWhy mentorship is essential to long-lasting leadershipThe impact of COVID-19 on grief rituals, funeral practices, and business adaptationPractical steps for leading yourself and others through uncertainty and reinvention Key TakeawaysPresence matters: True leadership is about being present, actively listening, and understanding both spoken and unspoken cues.Integrity comes first: Trust and accountability are non-negotiable without them, nothing else matters.Adaptability is essential: Life throws curveballs, and strong leaders know how to pivot, adapt, and find opportunities in adversity.Mentorship is a legacy: Passing on wisdom to the next generation is how we ensure continuity and growth in every arena.Rituals and community have meaning: Marking endings and beginnings, especially in times of loss, matters deeply for healing.Faith (in any form) can be an anchor: A sense of purpose and meaning helps sustain leaders through the toughest times.Self-care is not optional: Step back, reconnect with your mission, and allow yourself room to rest and recharge. If today’s conversation resonated with you, we invite you to: Subscribe to Late Boomers so you never miss an inspiring episodeShare this episode with friends or family who are navigating leadership or reinventionLeave us a review tell us what leadership challenges you’re facing or what topics you’d love for us to explore next Remember, it’s never too late to lead with intention and to become the kind of leader the world (and your life) needs. Thanks for listening and being a part of our community! With gratitude, Cathy & Merry Mentioned in this episode: Late Boomers is part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork. eWomenPodcastNetwork

    38 min
  7. Unlocking Home Equity: The Truth About Reverse Mortgages for Baby Boomers

    May 13

    Unlocking Home Equity: The Truth About Reverse Mortgages for Baby Boomers

    Welcome back to Late Boomers! We’re Cathy and Merry, your guides to creating your next chapter with passion, purpose, and possibilities. In this insightful episode, we dive deep into a topic that’s high on the minds of many Baby Boomers and their families: reverse mortgages, what they are, how they work, and whether they could be the financial solution you’ve been looking for. Our special guest is Kevin Guttman, a senior mortgage broker, reverse mortgage specialist, and three-time Amazon bestselling author, with over 21 years of experience. As one of only a small number of certified Reverse Mortgage Professionals in the country, Kevin brings a wealth of knowledge, a transparent approach, and a passion for educating seniors and their families. In this episode, we cover: What makes a reverse mortgage different from a traditional mortgageThe top misconceptions and myths about reverse mortgagesHow reverse mortgages can provide financial flexibility without requiring you to leave your homeWho makes an ideal candidate (and who doesn’t)Creative ways retirees are using reverse mortgages to improve their livesKey protections and recent regulatory changes that make reverse mortgages saferImpact on heirs and estate planning considerationsCommon mistakes to avoid and how to start the conversation with your familY Whether you’re thinking about tapping into your home equity, seeking greater financial security in retirement, or simply want to learn about every option available, this episode is packed with actionable insights and compelling real-world stories. Key TakeawaysReverse mortgages offer flexibility: you can access your home’s equity as a lump sum, monthly payments, or via a line of credit, with no monthly mortgage payment required.You do NOT lose ownership of your home, you remain on the title, and the only way the loan is repaid is through sale or refinance when you leave the home.Reverse mortgages are highly regulated and now much safer thanks to government reforms, mandatory counseling, and protections for non-borrowing spouses.This financial tool isn’t for everyone: It’s best for those planning to remain in their home long-term and can manage property expenses.Your heirs have options: they can pay off the loan, sell the home, or request extensions if needed, and there’s rarely pressure for a rushed decision.Education is key, don't fall for myths and misinformation, and always work with a trusted, experienced reverse mortgage professional.Start the family conversation early, and use the “toolbox” approach. Getting informed now means you'll be ready, even if you never need it. If you’re a homeowner approaching or in retirement, or if you have aging parents, this episode is a must-listen. Listen now, subscribe, and share this episode with friends and family who can benefit from understanding their financial options. For more resources, visit reversemortgagerevolution.com for Kevin’s free consumer guide, short educational videos, and to learn more about his Amazon bestselling book, “A Reverse Mortgage Changed My Life.” Subscribe to Late Boomers so you never miss an episode filled with expert advice and inspiring stories. Remember, it’s never too late to create the life you want start exploring your next chapter today! — Cathy & Merry Mentioned in this episode: Late Boomers is part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork. eWomenPodcastNetwork

    44 min
  8. Finding Belonging and Creativity in Irish Music Sessions After 50

    May 6

    Finding Belonging and Creativity in Irish Music Sessions After 50

    Welcome back to Late Boomers! We’re your hosts, Host Cathy Worthington and Merry Elkins. In this episode, we’re thrilled to sit down with Tara Conahan, founder of Obsessionediquette.com, to unpack the world of Irish traditional music sessions and the universal lessons they offer about belonging, creativity, and venturing into new communities especially after 50. Whether you’re a seasoned musician, a curious listener, or simply someone eager to embrace new experiences, this conversation is for you. Tara Connaghan joins us all the way from Donegal, Ireland, to share her wisdom on “session etiquette”—the unspoken social codes that help us connect and thrive, not only in music circles but everywhere in life. We dive into what makes music sessions in Ireland (and beyond) both inviting and intimidating, how newcomers can read a room and ease their anxiety, and why it’s okay to be a beginner at any age. Tara Conahan highlights how etiquette isn’t about rigid rules but about bringing positive, collaborative energy to any group setting. We also explore: The surprising origins and evolution of Irish music sessionsWhy it’s normal to feel anxious joining an established group (and how to get past it)The role of elders in passing on music, wisdom, and confidenceListening as an underrated and essential way to participateHow to gracefully navigate awkward first encountersWhy real belonging means being valued and heard Key TakeawaysSession Etiquette is Universal: It applies not just to music, but to jobs, social circles, and any situation where you’re joining something that existed before you (02:43).You’re Not Alone in Feeling Anxious: Everyone from beginners to professionals faces uncertainty when entering new spaces. A little reconnaissance helps reduce the pressure (06:37).Reading the Room: Adjust your energy by thinking about how you’ll affect others, not just how they’ll affect you (10:12).Belonging is About Value: Authentic inclusion happens when everyone feels valued and heard (12:45).Start Small, Get Comfortable: Visit sessions a few times before joining in, and start with those that suit your skill level (18:10).It’s Okay to Walk Away: If a group isn’t welcoming, don’t force it find a community where you feel genuine belonging (25:29).Music Connects Generations: Sessions can bring together everyone from young kids to elders, fostering intergenerational bonds and wisdom (21:35).Bring Music Into Your Life: Make a list of 10 songs or albums that shaped your life and revisit your own soundtrack (25:50). We invite you to reflect on your own life’s soundtrack! Take a few minutes this week to list ten tracks, albums or genres that marked major chapters or memories for you. See where the music takes you and let it inspire creativity and connection in your life. If you’re intrigued by the world of Irish sessions, check out Tara Conahan’s work at obsessionediquette.com for more resources and inspiration. Finally, don’t forget to subscribe to Late Boomers on your favorite podcast platform so you never miss an episode designed to empower your journey of reinvention, creativity, and meaningful connection. Be bold. Stay curious. Find your session. — Cathy & Merry Mentioned in this episode: Late Boomers is part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork. eWomenPodcastNetwork

    30 min
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Welcome to Late Boomers, the podcast that is your guide to creating a third act with style, power and impact! Join your hosts, Cathy Worthington and Merry Elkins, as they bring you conversations with successful artists, entrepreneurs and entertainers who have set themselves up for an amazing third act. Everyone has a story, and Cathy and Merry take you along for the ride on each interview, recounting the journey each guest has taken to get where they are, and inspiring you to create a path to success as you look toward your own third act!

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