Tired But Wired? How to Regulate Your Nervous System and Calm Anxiety Are you exhausted, bone-tired, and yet the moment your head touches the pillow, your mind lifts off? If you are feeling "tired but wired," unable to switch off, and living with a body that is constantly braced for a danger that never arrives, you are not failing at rest. You are experiencing a dysregulated nervous system stuck in a chronic fight or flight response. In this episode of Calming Anxiety, host Martin Hewlett guides you through a powerful 10-minute guided meditation for anxiety. Together, we will practice deep breathing techniques designed for nervous system regulation, helping you send a clear signal to your body that it is finally safe to relax and let go of stress.📱 Exciting News: The Anchored App is Coming Next Month! We are thrilled to announce that our companion app, Anchored, is launching next month! Built to support your mental wellness journey, Anchored features over 3,000 of our guided sessions, fully searchable by exactly how you feel. Best of all, you can download your favorite tracks for offline use—giving you instant, buffer-free access to calm on a plane, a train, or in the middle of the night with absolutely no signal. Keep an eye out for its release!🎧 Episode Chapters00:00 – The "Tired but Wired" State: Understanding a Dysregulated Nervous System01:04 – Welcome to Calming Anxiety & Big News About the Anchored App02:02 – Getting Settled: Breath Awareness and Tuning In02:45 – Deep Breathing Practice: The 4-2-6 Release Technique04:50 – Letting Go: Sending the Signal to Relax05:30 – Affirmations for Calming Your Nervous System08:23 – 3 Daily Caring Tips for a Happier Life10:09 – Returning to the Present & Special Calls to Action🧘 Affirmations for Nervous System RegulationVisualize these gentle words as you repeat them internally, letting them settle deep within your soul:"My body is not my enemy, my body has been trying to protect me.""I am learning to calm my nervous system, gently, one breath at a time.""The alarm may be loud, but there is no fire.""I do not have to be stuck in fight or flight, there is a way out and I am walking it.""I am allowed to be tired without also being afraid.""I have been tired but wired for a long time, tonight I put one of those down.""My long, slow exhale is a message, my body is receiving it.""I am practicing nervous system regulation and my body is learning to trust the quiet.""I do not need a reason to rest, being tired is reason enough.""Anxiety relief is not something I have to earn, it is something I am allowed."🌱 3 Daily Caring Tips for a Happier LifeHarness these simple, powerful habits to anchor peace throughout your busy day:The Doorway Sigh: Tomorrow, every time you walk through any doorway, take a physiological sigh—two quick breaths in through the nose, followed by one long, slow exhale. Instead of adding a complicated practice to your day, you are simply anchoring a tiny reset to a habit you already do dozens of times.Name the Alarm, Not the Fire: When that sudden lurch, hum, or "on-the-edge" dread arrives tomorrow, say quietly to yourself: "This is my alarm, this is not a fire." You aren't dismissing your feelings; you are simply refusing to go looking for a fire that doesn't exist, instantly taking the heat out of the emotion.Give the Day a Landing Strip: Just like a plane, you cannot go from cruising altitude directly to parked without a runway. Ten minutes before bed, put away all screens, scrolling, and news. Dim the lights and allow your mind and body to understand that the day is coming in to land.🔗 Connect & Go DeeperWebsite: Read the latest blog posts and find more resources at calminganxiety.org.Online Course: Ready to break the cycle? Take the Anxiety Circuit Breaker Course at calminganxiety.fm.💙 Share the CalmIf today's session brought you peace, please share this episode with a loved one who is feeling tired but wired and might not have the words to describe it.Taking just 30 seconds to leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify genuinely helps other anxious souls find our community in the quiet hours of the night. It's a small action, but it makes the world of difference.Until tomorrow, in everything my friend, be kind. 👉 Click to subscribe and unlock ad-free episodes now! Support the Show:Ad-Free Listening: Enjoy Calming Anxiety without ads at https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/calming-anxiety--4110266/support Buy Me a Coffee: Support hosting costs at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/calminganxiety https://calminganxietypodcast.substack.com/?r=6zm0sc&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklist Rate & Review: Leave a 5-star review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts to help us reach more listeners! 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