Bare Marriage

Sheila Gregoire

Tired of Christian pat answers about marriage? The podcast that goes in-depth into marriage, parenting, and even sex--to see how we can live the passionate life we were meant for. Paired with Bare Marriage--the blog!

  1. 18h ago

    Episode 347: Uniquely Us—Neurodivergence and Marriage with Dr. Stephanie Holmes

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when one spouse is neurotypical and the other is neurodivergent, or when both spouses have different neurodivergent needs? Rebecca sits down with Dr. Stephanie Holmes, co-author of Uniquely Us, to explore the realities of neurodiverse marriage, including emotional regulation, mental load, accommodations, gender expectations, and why traditional Christian marriage advice can sometimes make things harder. Together, they unpack how couples can extend grace without enabling, take responsibility without sacrificing themselves, and build a marriage that works for the actual people in it—not some imaginary version of Christian marital perfection! BARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book Our Spanish Site is live! TO SUPPORT US:  Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko FoundationJoin our email list!LINKS MENTIONED:  Dr. Stephanie Holmes’ professional bio & websiteStephanie & Dan’s bioStephanie & Dan’s book, “Uniquely Us”Stephanie & Dan’s Website & Podcast “NeuroDiverse Christian Couples”Support the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too! Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

    Episode 347: Uniquely Us—Neurodivergence and Marriage with Dr. Stephanie Holmes
  2. Oct 29

    Episode 346: Carl Lentz Has a New Book on Overcoming Infidelity. Should He Have a Platform?

    Send us Fan Mail Can a pastor bounce back from scandal and reclaim the spotlight? Sheila and Rebecca unpack Carl & Laura Lentz’s book Overcoming Infidelity, exploring the difference between forgiveness and accountability, the privilege of celebrity pastors, and what genuine healing after betrayal requires. We also ask some bigger questions about evangelical celebrity culture, who deserves a platform, and why supporting the betrayed partner matters just as much as believing in redemption. BARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book Our Spanish Site is live! TO SUPPORT US:  Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko FoundationJoin our email list!LINKS MENTIONED:  People Magazine article on Carl LentzCarl & Laura Lentz’s book, “Overcoming Infidelity”The Whole Story puberty courseDaniel Silliman’s book analysis article on Roy’s ReportJay Mallow substack article Carl's convo with Lauren DeMossSupport the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too! Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

    Episode 346: Carl Lentz Has a New Book on Overcoming Infidelity. Should He Have a Platform?
  3. Oct 22

    Episode 345: Why is the Old Testament So Cavalier about Abuse of Women? feat. Dr. Helen Paynter

    Send us Fan Mail What do we do with Bible passages that seem to portray God as indifferent to violence against women? Sheila sits down with Dr. Helen Paynter of the Centre for the Study of Bible and Violence to explore disturbing Old Testament stories, the historical context of biblical laws, and the difference between describing violence and endorsing it. Together, they consider how reading Scripture through the lens of Jesus can help us wrestle honestly with difficult questions, take survivors' experiences seriously, and rediscover God's care for the vulnerable. BARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book Our Spanish Site is live! TO SUPPORT US:  Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko FoundationJoin our email list!LINKS MENTIONED:  Journal for the Study of Bible & ViolenceRev. Dr. Helen Paynter’s bioDr. Helen’s book on Judges 19Dr. Helen’s blog post on Judges 19Bare Marriage Podcast Episode 299 with Dr. Helen PaynterThe Miss.Judged study on marginalized women of the BibleSupport the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too! Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

    Episode 345: Why is the Old Testament So Cavalier about Abuse of Women? feat. Dr. Helen Paynter
  4. Oct 15

    Episode 344: Do Only Wives Have to Act Like Jesus in Marriage? (A Look at Kathy Keller)

    Send us Fan Mail Is Philippians 2 a biblical argument for male headship, or is it a call for ALL Christians to give up status and power in the way Jesus did? In this episode we unpack Kathy Keller’s teaching in “The Meaning of Marriage,” examining the assumptions behind complementarianism, the difference between sacrificial love and unequal authority, and what it really means to take Scripture seriously. Join us as we ask whether our ideas about gender roles reflect the upside-down kingdom of Jesus - or preserve the very power structures He came to challenge. BARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book Our Spanish Site is live! TO SUPPORT US:  Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko FoundationJoin our email list!LINKS MENTIONED:  CBE International PaperN.T. Wright podcastMr. Jambo reelThe Marriage You Want, our book with a study guide, small group resources, premarital curriculum, and more!Support the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too! Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

    Episode 344: Do Only Wives Have to Act Like Jesus in Marriage? (A Look at Kathy Keller)
  5. Oct 8

    Episode 343: Called to Serve - Are We Burying Women's Talents in the Ground?

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when women who simply want to serve Jesus keep running into barriers to ministry? First, Hannah Hunt joins us as we hear the remarkable stories behind Called to Serve. Then we talk with Dr. Adam Harbaugh about what it actually takes for churches to rethink theology, history, bylaws, and leadership structures around women in ministry. It's an episode about calling, courage, disruption, and the hopeful possibility of a church where women and men can serve side by side - with Jesus at the center. BARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book Our Spanish Site is live! TO SUPPORT US:  Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko FoundationJoin our email list!LINKS MENTIONED:  Called to Serve bookCalled to Serve websiteCalled to Serve stories & podcastThe Whole Story Sex and Puberty CourseDr. Adam Harbaugh’s dissertationDr. Adam Harbaugh’s websiteSupport the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too! Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

    Episode 343: Called to Serve - Are We Burying Women's Talents in the Ground?
  6. Sep 24

    Episode 341: What’s the Dignity Line? Feat. Dawn from The Minimal Mom

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we sit down with Dawn from The Minimal Mom to talk about the “dignity line,” a simple framework for recognizing if our relationships are characterized by respect, accountability, trust, and safety - and why patterns matter more than labels. We also dig into the complicated reality of marriage advice, boundaries, divorce, and the pressure Christian women can feel to keep trying no matter what. Then Rebecca joins in for a fiery discussion of a pastor’s sermon on sex and asking whether Christian conversations about sexual generosity actually account for women’s experiences. This week is a wide-ranging conversation about dignity, discernment, healthy relationships, and why sometimes the most important question isn’t “How do we save this marriage?” but “How do we help people become safe and whole?” This is one you don’t want to miss! OUR SPONSOR Thanks to Brazos Press for sponsoring this podcast, so we could tell everyone about the amazing book Look Like a Lady! Listen to our podcast with Elissa BARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book Our Spanish Site is live! CHECK OUT OUR OCTOBER SIMULCAST EVENT We're doing our sex talk and a one-day marriage conference! Check it out for more information. Find the church info page here! TO SUPPORT US:  Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko FoundationJoin our email list!LINKS MENTIONED:  Dawn’s Website, “The Minimal Mom”Dawn’s Dignity Line ResourcesThe Big Reasons For Divorce - Podcast Episode 212The Power of a Praying Wife Review - Podcast Episode 197 Our Love & Respect Deep Dive Series Elissa Yukiko Weichbrodt’s book, “Look Like a Lady”Friday Roundup on Ryan ViscontiRyan Visconti full sermonSupport the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too! Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

    Episode 341: What’s the Dignity Line? Feat. Dawn from The Minimal Mom
  7. Sep 17

    Episode 340: Live, Laugh, Love with Kristin Du Mez

    Send us Fan Mail What if many of the ideas we’ve been taught about “biblical womanhood” have a much stranger history than we realized? We sit down with historian & author Kristin Du Mez to unpack the fascinating—and sometimes surprising—story behind Christian womanhood, from Hannah Whittall Smith and Elisabeth Elliot to Christian fiction, publishing, blogging, and today’s influencer culture. What happens when we stop sanitizing the past, let go of formulas that promise happiness, and make room for a faith that can actually grapple with reality? Let’s find out together! BARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book Our Spanish Site is live! CHECK OUT OUR OCTOBER SIMULCAST EVENT We're doing our sex talk and a one-day marriage conference! Check it out for more information. Find the church info page here! TO SUPPORT US:  Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko FoundationJoin our email list!LINKS MENTIONED:  Kristin Du Mez’s book, "Live, Laugh, Love"Kristin’s WebsiteKristin’s SubstackElissa Yukiko Weichbrodt’s websiteElissa’s book, “Look Like a Lady”The Whole StoryHolding It Together: How Women Became America’s Safety Net Episode 104: Jesus & John WayneKatharine Bushnell EpisodeSupport the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too! Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

    Episode 340: Live, Laugh, Love with Kristin Du Mez
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Tired of Christian pat answers about marriage? The podcast that goes in-depth into marriage, parenting, and even sex--to see how we can live the passionate life we were meant for. Paired with Bare Marriage--the blog!

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