The Tao of Self-Confidence

Sheena Yap Chan
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The Tao of Self-Confidence is a podcast created for you, the woman embarking on her inner journey toward self-confidence, no matter what stage you're at. Whether you're seeking inspirational stories and advice during your daily commute, workout, or "me" time, Wall Street Journal bestselling author Sheena Yap Chan delivers the goods. Each episode features an amazing woman who shares her journey: her life before the discovery, the "AHA" moment, life after her discovery, and the advice she offers to listeners to apply in their own lives. The journey to self-confidence starts with a single step—are you ready to take that first step? Check out our website - https://thetaoofselfconfidence.com

  1. 933: Be Brave, Not Perfect With Moonlit Beshimov

    12H AGO

    933: Be Brave, Not Perfect With Moonlit Beshimov

    BioMoonlit Beshimov is the  Head of Gaming & Apps, Strategic Partnerships and Industry Solutions for Google. Cultural Background Moonlit is of Chinese descent. Favorite Self Be brave, not perfect. Definition of Self Confidence Self-confidence starts with self acceptance and self love. Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence Moonlit used to be afraid to speak up or speak in public due to her accent.  In middle school, one of her friends told her they could not be friends anymore due to her accent which led to this fear. The “AHA” Moment Moonlit fell in love with gaming in college and never left.  She realizes that half of the people who play games are women and wants to be the voice for it which led her to this career path. Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence Life is great for Moonlit.  She is also focused on utilizing AI for good in gaming. The One Self Confidence Tip for the Listener If you are thinking of something to say, just say it.  Your voice matters. Interview Links LinkedInIf you would like to connect with Sheena, here is the following: Connect with me: Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Tiktok | LinkedIn | YouTube | Website P.S. If you are looking for ways to help women in your company increase their self-confidence to become effective leaders, you can contact me as I hold workshops and talks on this subject. You can contact me here. P.P.S. Order my latest book Bridging the Confidence Gap. Click here to order your copy of the book P.P.P.S. Order my book Wiley, The Tao of Self-Confidence, today. Click here to order your copy of the book.   Land more speaking gigs?  Get 88+ hot leads each month delivered to you.  Subscribe today. Get your free VISIBILITY Framework ToolKit.  Click here to download it today. Want to manifest like a queen?  Click here to learn how. "Let’s Build Your Queendom With A.I!" Click here to get on the waiting list.

    19 min
  2. 932: Always Learning Something New With Deborah Liu

    FEB 3

    932: Always Learning Something New With Deborah Liu

    Bio Deborah Liu is a tech executive, advisor, and board member. Cultural Background Deborah is of Chinese descent. Favorite Self Confidence Quote Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% what you choose to do about it. Definition of Self Confidence Self-confidence is about owning who you are. Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence Deborah went through major imposter syndrome especially growing up in a small town. The “AHA” Moment Deborah decided that she would learn something new which helped her confidence and be able to sit in the leadership positions.  She shares that in the beginning of 2025, she knew nothing about AI but decided to go into deep learning about AI.  Her desire to learning about AI led to having her AI startup. Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence Deborah is worried about AI being male centric and that there is gap with women utilizing it.  She wants to encourage more women to use AI to become better. The One Self Confidence Tip for the Listener  Self-confidence builds when you take action.  You get better at what you do by doing. Interview Links Deborah's WebsiteSubstackFacebookTwitterInstagramLinkedInIf you would like to connect with Sheena, here is the following: Connect with me: Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Tiktok | LinkedIn | YouTube | Website P.S. If you are looking for ways to help women in your company increase their self-confidence to become effective leaders, you can contact me as I hold workshops and talks on this subject. You can contact me here. P.P.S. Order my latest book Bridging the Confidence Gap. Click here to order your copy of the book P.P.P.S. Order my book Wiley, The Tao of Self-Confidence, today. Click here to order your copy of the book. Land more speaking gigs?  Get 88+ hot leads each month delivered to you.  Subscribe today. Get your free VISIBILITY Framework ToolKit.  Click here to download it today. Want to manifest like a queen?  Click here to learn how. "Let’s Build Your Queendom With A.I!" Click here to get on the waiting list.

    17 min
  3. 931: From Tragedy to Confidence With Kristina Corpin-Moser

    JAN 20

    931: From Tragedy to Confidence With Kristina Corpin-Moser

    BioKristina Corpin-Moser is the Executive Director of Filipino BC. Cultural Background Kristina is of FIlipino, Canadian, Austrian and Jewish descent. Favorite Self Confidence Quote Transitions, big or small, are rarely straightforward. They require abandoning the parts of ourselves that feel safe and familiar. It is a massive task to intentionally choose change over comfort. But it taught me to trust myself more and embrace the shifts. Definition of Self Confidence Self-confidence is having the knowledge or assurance of your ability mixed with humility and curiousity. Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence Kristina mentioned that ignorance can be bliss—it’s easier to ignore being told you don’t belong when you don’t know any better or aren’t aware that you’ve been excluded from those spaces. The “AHA” Moment Kristina had more than one AHA moment. The first one was when she had the first Lapu Lapu festival in Vancouver and it became a success.  This was proof of how capable she was in creating something and turning it into a success.  The second AHA moment was when a tragedy happened during the 2nd Lapu Lapu Festival.  This gave another kind of confidence and it also showed her that through her struggles from this tragic event, she was able to stumble into her strength. Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence Kristina still feels some hardships from the tragic event but she also felt the Filipino term Kapwa which means shared identity, oneness with others, and fellow humanity.  She witness people taking care of each other and making sure that everyone was okay after the tragedy.  Kristina is also more vulnerable and more principled as well. The One Self Confidence Tip for the Listener You are enough. Borrow courage: join rooms that stretch you; mentors and peers are force multipliers. Do one brave thing daily: a pitch, a boundary, a request. Confidence compounds. Own your lens: your background is not a detour; it’s your differentiation. Regulate your body: sleep, hydration, and whole foods make courage sustainable. Interview Links Kristina's WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInIf you would like to connect with Sheena, here is the following: Connect with me: Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Tiktok | LinkedIn | YouTube | Website P.S. If you are looking for ways to help women in your company increase their self-confidence to become effective leaders, you can contact me as I hold workshops and talks on this subject. You can contact me here. P.P.S. Order my latest book Bridging the Confidence Gap. Click here to order your copy of the book P.P.P.S. Order my book Wiley, The Tao of Self-Confidence, today. Click here to order your copy of the book. Land more speaking gigs?  Get 88+ hot leads each month delivered to you.  Subscribe today. Get your free VISIBILITY Framework ToolKit.  Click here to download it today. Want to manifest like a queen?  Click here to learn how. "Let’s Build Your Queendom With A.I!" Click here to get on the waiting list.

    16 min
  4. 930: Why the VISIBLE™ Framework Is a Leadership Must in 2026

    JAN 6

    930: Why the VISIBLE™ Framework Is a Leadership Must in 2026

    As we move into 2026, leadership is being redefined. Confidence alone is no longer enough. Talent alone is no longer enough. In a world shaped by hybrid work, digital visibility, and perception-driven influence, leaders must know how to be seen, heard, and trusted—intentionally. In this solo episode, Wall Street Journal bestselling author and TEDx speaker Sheena Yap Chan breaks down why visibility has become a core leadership competency and why the VISIBLE™ Framework is no longer optional for leaders and organizations. Drawing from her work and insights from her book Bridging the Confidence Gap, Sheena explains why so many capable leaders are still being overlooked—and how visibility bridges the gap between confidence, credibility, and influence. This episode explores the seven pillars of the VISIBLE™ Framework—Voice, Identity, Spotlight, Inner Work, Belief, Leverage, and Elevation—and how each one shows up in real leadership environments today. You’ll also hear a powerful reframe on self-promotion, why it’s not ego but responsibility, and what leaders must unlearn to lead effectively in 2026 and beyond. Whether you’re an executive, founder, emerging leader, or part of an organization thinking about the future of leadership, this episode will challenge how you think about confidence, presence, and what it truly means to lead in a visible world. Reflection question: Where in your leadership are you confident—but not visible? If you would like to connect with Sheena, here is the following: Connect with me: Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Tiktok | LinkedIn | YouTube | Website P.S. If you are looking for ways to help women in your company increase their self-confidence to become effective leaders, you can contact me as I hold workshops and talks on this subject. You can contact me here. P.P.S. Order my latest book Bridging the Confidence Gap. Click here to order your copy of the book P.P.P.S. Order my book Wiley, The Tao of Self-Confidence, today. Click here to order your copy of the book. Land more speaking gigs?  Get 88+ hot leads each month delivered to you.  Subscribe today. Get your free VISIBILITY Framework ToolKit.  Click here to download it today. Want to manifest like a queen?  Click here to learn how. "Let’s Build Your Queendom With A.I!" Click here to get on the waiting list.

    10 min
  5. 929: Confidence Through Culture With Angela Zeng

    12/23/2025

    929: Confidence Through Culture With Angela Zeng

    BioDr. Angela Zeng is the founder and CEO of Karviva Wellness Beverages and co-founder of Fulfill Food & Beverages. Cultural Background Angela is of Chinese descent. Favorite Self Confidence Quote Courage is not the absence of fear, but the decision that something else is more important. Definition of Self Confidence Self-confidence is a quiet trust in your values and the skills you’ve earned, allowing you to act with clarity even when outcomes are uncertain. It’s not loud—it’s steady, teachable, and renewed through disciplined action and lifelong learning. Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence Like many highly educated women, Angela chased perfection: publications, protocols, external validation. As a new immigrant woman in science and business, she often minimized her voice, waited for permission, and believed she had to be flawless before she moved. The “AHA” Moment Angela's turning point came during a painful family mental-health crisis that reminded her: healing requires patience and presence, not perfection. She stopped trying to please everyone and started truly serving. She also overcame the fear of honoring Traditional Eastern Healing Wisdom in a society where many still hesitate to trust other cultures. Angela built Karviva around real needs—gentle, low-sugar nourishment—and leaned into my cross-cultural lens.  Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence Since then, Angela has led with more courage, set boundaries confidently, and measured success by impact: customers who feel better, employees who grow, and communities we educate. The One Self Confidence Tip for the Listener  Collect evidence: keep a “wins” log: data builds belief. Borrow courage: join rooms that stretch you; mentors and peers are force multipliers. Do one brave thing daily: a pitch, a boundary, a request. Confidence compounds. Own your lens: your background is not a detour; it’s your differentiation. Regulate your body: sleep, hydration, and whole foods make courage sustainable. Interview Links Angela's WebsiteFacebookTwitterInstagramLinkedInYoutubeTiktokIf you would like to connect with Sheena, here is the following: Connect with me: Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Tiktok | LinkedIn | YouTube | Website P.S. If you are looking for ways to help women in your company increase their self-confidence to become effective leaders, you can contact me as I hold workshops and talks on this subject. You can contact me here. P.P.S. Order my latest book Bridging the Confidence Gap. Click here to order your copy of the book P.P.P.S. Order my book Wiley, The Tao of Self-Confidence, today. Click here to order your copy of the book.   Land more speaking gigs?  Get 88+ hot leads each month delivered to you.  Subscribe today. Get your free VISIBILITY Framework ToolKit.  Click here to download it today. Want to manifest like a queen?  Click here to learn how. "Let’s Build Your Queendom With A.I!" Click here to get on the waiting list.

    25 min
  6. 928: Why Visibility Matters With Tara Parsons

    12/09/2025

    928: Why Visibility Matters With Tara Parsons

    BioTara Parsons is the Vice President, Deputy Publisher for the East Coast imprints of the HarperOne Group at HarperCollins Publishers, including Amistad, HarperCollins Español, and HarperVia. Cultural Background Tara is of Japanese descent. Favorite Self Confidence Quote To be beautiful means to be yourself.  You don't need to be accepted by others, you need to accept yourself. Definition of Self Confidence Self-confidence is knowing who you truly are and accepting your vulnerabilities while being able to bring it out visibly. Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence Tara grew up learning to be confident since she played violin at an early age and used to complete as well.  She did go through moments where her confidence was tested which was related to being visible. The “AHA” Moment Tara got her first taste of editing in college when her professor asked her to edit one of his writings.  She fell in love with editing and was able to secure an internship at Penguin.  Her love for reading books started when her mother gave her an English version of a Japanese author's books which led to her passion for reading.   Tara wasn't able to highlight Asian authors at first because the industry believed there was no market for it so she started doing it little by little to get to where she is today.  She can now choose the authors she wants to work it and create the inclusion we deserve. Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence Tara gets to do what she loves while elevating the Asian community through traditional publishing. The One Self Confidence Tip for the Listener  Really know your stuff. Interview Links TwitterInstagramLinkedInIf you would like to connect with Sheena, here is the following: Connect with me: Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Tiktok | LinkedIn | YouTube | Website P.S. If you are looking for ways to help women in your company increase their self-confidence to become effective leaders, you can contact me as I hold workshops and talks on this subject. You can contact me here. P.P.S. Order my latest book Bridging the Confidence Gap. Click here to order your copy of the book P.P.P.S. Order my book Wiley, The Tao of Self-Confidence, today. Click here to order your copy of the book. Land more speaking gigs?  Get 88+ hot leads each month delivered to you.  Subscribe today. Get your free VISIBILITY Framework ToolKit.  Click here to download it today. Want to manifest like a queen?  Click here to learn how. "Let’s Build Your Queendom With A.I!" Click here to get on the waiting list.

    18 min
  7. 927: Have the Courage to Show Up With Samantha Ong

    11/25/2025

    927: Have the Courage to Show Up With Samantha Ong

    BioSamantha Ong is the founder of Joeydolls, a toy company on a mission to celebrate culture, identity, and inclusivity through play. Cultural Background Samantha is of Malaysian and Chinese descent. Favorite Self Confidence Quote Your story may not have such a happy beginning, but that doesn't make you who you are. It is the rest of your story, who you choose to be. Definition of Self Confidence Self-confidence is about embracing who you are fully — your culture, your story, your voice — without feeling like you need to hide or shrink yourself. It’s the freedom to be proud of your identity and to know that you belong exactly as you are. Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence Samantha was shy and timid.  She didn't believe in herself and was worried of what others thought of her. The “AHA” Moment Samatha first started a photography business which helped her learn to speak her voice, command presence and become the expert in her field.  Her realization was that you can do something that you once thought you can't do. Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence Today, Samatha lives with a stronger sense of purpose. Creating Joeydolls has allowed her to reclaim the parts of her identity she once tried to minimize. She feels proud not only of her culture, but of building something that helps thousands of families celebrate theirs. She has sold 13,000 dolls around the world, and each one is a little reminder that she is making a difference. That gives Samantha more confidence than she ever thought possible. The One Self Confidence Tip for the Listener  Don't wait for the perfect moment.  Have the courage to show up and take the opportunities in front of you. Interview Links Samantha's WebsiteFacebookTwitterInstagramLinkedInYoutubeTiktokIf you would like to connect with Sheena, here is the following: Connect with me: Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Tiktok | LinkedIn | YouTube | Website P.S. If you are looking for ways to help women in your company increase their self-confidence to become effective leaders, you can contact me as I hold workshops and talks on this subject. You can contact me here. P.P.S. Order my latest book Bridging the Confidence Gap. Click here to order your copy of the book P.P.P.S. Order my book Wiley, The Tao of Self-Confidence, today. Click here to order your copy of the book.   Land more speaking gigs?  Get 88+ hot leads each month delivered to you.  Subscribe today. Get your free VISIBILITY Framework ToolKit.  Click here to download it today. Want to manifest like a queen?  Click here to learn how. "Let’s Build Your Queendom With A.I!" Click here to get on the waiting list.

    14 min
  8. 926: Jump Into Confidence With Jenna Ushkowitz

    11/11/2025

    926: Jump Into Confidence With Jenna Ushkowitz

    BioJenna Ushkowitz is an actress, podcaster and producer. Cultural Background Jenna is of Korean descent. Favorite Self Confidence Quote Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. Definition of Self Confidence Self-confidence stems from self worth and learning to love your true self.  It's also walking in the world with the belief in yourself. Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence Jenna started acting at a young age which help her have confidence or even fake the confidence.  She still had moments where she lacked confidence. The “AHA” Moment Because Jenna was able to practice her confidence at such a young age, even faking it at times, it helped her learn to jump into new ventures even if she wasn't 100 percent confident.  Having an arsenal of confidence tools, helped her push through even in the toughest times of her life. Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence It's built more doors of opportunity for Jenna. The One Self Confidence Tip for the Listener  Look inward to working on the hard things.  Interview Links Asian American GirlFacebookTwitterInstagramLinkedInTiktokIf you would like to connect with Sheena, here is the following: Connect with me: Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Tiktok | LinkedIn | YouTube | Website P.S. If you are looking for ways to help women in your company increase their self-confidence to become effective leaders, you can contact me as I hold workshops and talks on this subject. You can contact me here. P.P.S. Order my latest book Bridging the Confidence Gap. Click here to order your copy of the book P.P.P.S. Order my book Wiley, The Tao of Self-Confidence, today. Click here to order your copy of the book. Land more speaking gigs?  Get 88+ hot leads each month delivered to you.  Subscribe today. Get your free VISIBILITY Framework ToolKit.  Click here to download it today. Want to manifest like a queen?  Click here to learn how. "Let’s Build Your Queendom With A.I!" Click here to get on the waiting list.

    16 min
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The Tao of Self-Confidence is a podcast created for you, the woman embarking on her inner journey toward self-confidence, no matter what stage you're at. Whether you're seeking inspirational stories and advice during your daily commute, workout, or "me" time, Wall Street Journal bestselling author Sheena Yap Chan delivers the goods. Each episode features an amazing woman who shares her journey: her life before the discovery, the "AHA" moment, life after her discovery, and the advice she offers to listeners to apply in their own lives. The journey to self-confidence starts with a single step—are you ready to take that first step? Check out our website - https://thetaoofselfconfidence.com

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  • Creator
    Sheena Yap Chan
  • Years Active
    2015 - 2026
  • Episodes
    919
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © The Tao of Self-Confidence 2015
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    The Tao of Self-Confidence