The Art Of Coaching

Brett Bartholomew

Hosted by best-selling author, speaker and performance coach Brett Bartholomew, the Art of Coaching Podcast is a weekly show aimed at getting to the core of what it takes to change attitudes & behaviors in the weight-room, boardroom and everywhere in between.

  1. 1d ago

    E429 | Most Listened to E296 | Lisa Feldman Barrett: Rethinking Emotions in Leadership and Life

    The job of scientists is a tough one - to take complex, multifaceted, messy concepts, and do their best to simplify them in a way that is understandable and digestible to the general public. However, today’s guest, Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett,  warns that if something is too simple, we probably shouldn’t believe it.  Especially when it comes to human behavior and emotions, there’s nothing simple about it - because variation is the norm - not averages.  And in today’s episode, Dr. Barrett explains exactly why that is and how it should change the way we view and approach our interactions. Dr. Barrett is among the top 1% most cited scientists in the world for her revolutionary research in psychology and neuroscience. She is a University Distinguished Professor of Psychology at Northeastern University, and she holds appointments at Harvard Medical School and Massachusetts General Hospital, where she serves as Chief Science Officer for the Center of Law, Brain and Behavior. In addition to the books 7 ½ Lessons About the Brain and How Emotions Are Made, Dr. Barrett has published over 260 peer reviewed scientific papers. Not only do we dive into the scientific research that disproves the way many of us have been led to view emotions, Dr. Barrett also does a phenomenal job of speaking to these concepts in a way that helps us apply it to our daily lives. Specifically, we address “The Great Man Theory” - why there is no one-size fits all approach to emotions and what they mean How understanding emotional constructs on a deeper level can make people more adept at navigating social situations The physiological and psychological processes of how we give meaning to our emotions Specific instances where knowing this information can directly influence life outcomes for you and those you impact daily Referenced Resources: Website: Lisafeldmanbarrett.com Book: How Emotions Are Made Book:  7 ½ Lessons About the Brain  TED Talk: You Aren’t At the Mercy of Your Emotions Research Article: Knowing what you’re feeling and knowing what to do about it   Resources & Links: Art of Coaching for coaching programs and resources: https://artofcoaching.com/mentoring My Latest Book (Link to upcoming or referenced publication): https://amzn.to/4rZknhs Connect with Brett Bartholomew: LinkedIn Twitter   Follow Us: Website: ArtofCoaching.com Instagram: @coach_brettb X: @coach_brettb

    1h 17m
  2. May 18

    E426 | The Hidden Pattern That Sabotages Your Relationships

    In this episode, we explore the importance of maintaining meaningful connections and breaking the cycle of neglecting relationships during the busy middle months of the year. We dive into practical strategies and mindset shifts to stay connected, productive, and intentional in both personal and professional life. We discuss the significance of midyear reflection and recalibration, and how busy seasons can lead to neglecting relationships. You'll learn practical tips for consistent relationship maintenance and how to live by the principle: “do the common things in an uncommon way.” We also cover the importance of boundaries, managing accessibility, and overcoming the "tyranny of now" with small, consistent actions. This episode emphasizes the urgency of taking action now instead of waiting, and embracing complexity and realistic expectations in life and goals. If you've ever struggled with maintaining connections during hectic times, this episode will provide you with the insights and tools to break those patterns and strengthen your relationships.   What You’ll Learn:   •⁠ ⁠ Strategies for strengthening relationships during your busiest seasons •⁠ ⁠ How to stop defaulting into the same excuses and neglect patterns as everyone else •⁠ ⁠ Practical strategies for staying connected when life gets chaotic •⁠ ⁠ Simple habits that keep you connected, present, and intentional year-round ____________________     Follow Us: Website: ArtofCoaching.com Instagram: @coach_brettb X: @coach_brettb

    17 min
  3. May 4

    E424 | My Best Tips for When You Feel Behind, Overwhelmed, or Like You're Not Doing Enough

    In this episode, Brett breaks down why so many driven people feel behind, overwhelmed, or like they’re never doing enough — even when they’re already working hard, carrying responsibility, and trying to do things the right way. He talks about how easy it is to get pulled into the performative b******t people post online, start comparing your real life to someone else’s curated season, and let your attention get hijacked by things that have nothing to do with your actual priorities. This episode is not about lowering your standards or giving yourself an excuse to coast. It’s about getting honest about what matters most right now, protecting your attention, killing the noise, and making sure your energy is going toward the things that can actually move your life, business, relationships, health, or purpose forward. Brett walks through seven practical reminders for getting back on track when you feel overloaded: 1.⁠ ⁠Audit your inputs 2.⁠ ⁠Stop turning other people’s seasons into your standards 3.⁠ ⁠Find the real needle mover 4.⁠ ⁠Create more selfish moments 5.⁠ ⁠Kill more low-value obligations 6.⁠ ⁠Lower the scope without lowering the standard 7.⁠ ⁠Get back into your own life If you’ve been overthinking, comparing, carrying too many open loops, or feeling like everyone else has it more figured out than you do, this episode is a direct reminder to return to your own priorities and stop letting everything act like it deserves equal access to you.   What You’ll Learn:   •⁠ ⁠ How to filter what deserves your attention •⁠ ⁠ How to shield yourself from distracting noise •⁠ ⁠ Tips for creating stronger boundaries •⁠ ⁠ Why more selfish moments are a good thing   ____________________     Follow Us: Website: ArtofCoaching.com Instagram: @coach_brettb X: @coach_brettb

    26 min
  4. Apr 27

    E423 | Common Mistakes Presenters Make and How to Avoid Them

    In this episode, Brett breaks down some of the most common mistakes speakers and presenters make—and why those mistakes usually have nothing to do with intelligence or expertise. Most people don’t struggle because they’re unprepared or because they don’t know their material. They struggle because communication is more nuanced than that. Human attention is limited. Interpretation is messy. And if your message isn’t clear, structured, and relevant, even good ideas get lost. Brett walks through practical ways to distill your message, flesh out your core concept without rambling, and avoid the kinds of mistakes that make audiences tune out. He also shares several exercises to help you stop overthinking, get clearer on what you actually want to say, and communicate in a way that better connects with the people in front of you—whether you’re speaking to athletes, executives, students, clients, or a general audience. You’ll also hear how many speakers unintentionally self-sabotage through overexplaining, trying to say too much, or assuming that because something makes sense in their head, it’ll automatically land with others. If you want to become a more effective speaker, presenter, coach, or communicator—this episode gives you practical tools you can use right away. For more on this—and to actually practice these skills with real-time coaching and feedback—join us for Art of Coaching Speaker School on May 16–17 in Phoenix, Arizona. Go to artofcoaching.com/speaker for details.   What You’ll Learn:   •⁠  ⁠How to distill your message so you can actually connect with your audience •⁠ ⁠ How to flesh out your idea so you feel like you got your knowledge across •⁠ ⁠ Exercises to help you stop overthinking and get more clarity •⁠ ⁠ How to avoid self-sabotaging when you speak or present   ____________________     Follow Us: Website: ArtofCoaching.com Instagram: @coach_brettb X: @coach_brettb

    32 min
4.9
out of 5
616 Ratings

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Hosted by best-selling author, speaker and performance coach Brett Bartholomew, the Art of Coaching Podcast is a weekly show aimed at getting to the core of what it takes to change attitudes & behaviors in the weight-room, boardroom and everywhere in between.

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