The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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  • Self-Improvement
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The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.

  1. 18h ago ·  Video

    Revitalizing Relationships: Leadership, Polarity, and Personal Growth

    Episode #1168 What does polarity actually mean in a relationship? Is it about taking control, or is it something much simpler? In this episode of The TPM Show, Tim Matthews sits down with Lawrence Davis to unpack one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships. They explore why so many men confuse leadership with control, how being the nice guy can quietly weaken connection, and what it really looks like to create trust, attraction, and emotional safety. Through honest stories from Lawrence's own marriage and personal growth, you'll hear how small shifts like making decisions, initiating conversations, speaking up when something feels off, and staying present can completely change the dynamic of a relationship. The conversation also dives into why knowing yourself is the foundation of leadership, how to stop avoiding difficult conversations, and why enjoying being yourself creates far more connection than trying to be the man you think someone else wants. If you've ever wondered how to bring more confidence, presence, and authenticity into your relationship without pretending to be someone you're not, this episode gives you practical insights you can start applying today. Get your free book today at https://thepowerfulman.com/free-book-bundle and discover practical tools to strengthen your relationship, become a more grounded man, and create lasting connection starting now.

  2. 2d ago ·  Video

    The Journey to Authentic Manhood: Challenges and Triumphs [Revisit]

    Episode #1167 This is a revisit of one of our most important conversations because shame is something almost every man deals with, whether he realizes it or not. It can quietly shape the way you think, the way you lead, and the way you show up in your marriage, your business, and your life. In this episode, Tim Matthews and Lawrence Davis take a deeper look at where shame comes from, how it develops over time, and why it often hides beneath the surface of success. They explain the difference between guilt and shame, why so many men carry beliefs like "I'm not good enough," and how those beliefs affect relationships, confidence, and decision making. You'll also hear practical ways to begin breaking free from shame, including setting healthy boundaries, finding the right community, having honest conversations, and learning to accept yourself instead of constantly chasing validation from other people. Tim shares his own story of confronting childhood beliefs and the powerful conversation with his father that helped change the direction of his life. If you've ever felt like you're carrying a weight you can't explain or you've worked hard but still don't feel like it's enough, this episode will help you understand why and give you practical steps to start moving forward. If you're ready to take the next step toward rebuilding your marriage and becoming the man your family needs, get your free copy of A Man's Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It. Just cover the shipping and we'll send you the book. Get your free copy here: https://thepowerfulman.com/free-book-bundle. It gives you practical actions you can start using right away to create real change.

  3. 5d ago ·  Video

    Breaking Free from Shame: A Journey of Acceptance

    Episode #1166 Shame has a way of shaping how you see yourself without you even realizing it. It can show up as feeling like you're not good enough, constantly chasing success to prove your worth, avoiding difficult conversations, or believing you have to keep everything bottled up. In this episode, Tim Matthews and Lawrence Davis unpack where shame comes from, why it quietly drives so many men, and what it actually takes to move past it. They talk about the difference between shame and guilt, how childhood experiences influence the way we show up in relationships, why acceptance is the first step toward lasting change, and how surrounding yourself with the right people can completely change your perspective. They also share personal stories about difficult conversations with family, setting healthy boundaries, letting go of old beliefs, and finding the courage to be seen for who you really are. If you've ever felt like you're carrying something that's keeping you stuck, this conversation will help you understand where it comes from and give you practical ways to start moving forward. If you're ready to understand what's really holding your relationship back and learn practical steps to rebuild connection, get the free training at https://thepowerfulman.com/scales. It's designed to help you identify what's not working and show you what to do next so you can create lasting change in your marriage.

  4. Jul 23 ·  Video

    Roommates with Rings: Navigating Marriage Without Losing the Spark

    Episode #1165 Has your marriage started to feel more like a partnership built around schedules, kids, and responsibilities than a real relationship? If you feel like you and your wife are simply roommates with rings, you're not the only one. In this episode, Doug Holt and Christopher Hansen break down what happens when couples lose connection, intimacy, and the spark that once brought them together. They talk about the resentment that quietly builds over time, why so many men avoid coming home, how unspoken expectations create distance, and what it really takes to turn things around. You'll also hear why trying to win arguments only pushes you further apart, how covert contracts damage relationships without either person realizing it, and why working on yourself is often the first step toward rebuilding your marriage. If you've been wondering whether your relationship can get back to where it used to be, this conversation offers practical insights and a clear path forward. If this episode hit home, get your free copy of A Man's Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It. Just cover shipping and we'll send you the book. Get your free copy here: https://thepowerfulman.com/free-book-bundle. It gives you practical steps you can start applying right away to rebuild connection and strengthen your marriage.

  5. Jul 21 ·  Video

    The Art of Engaged Indifference: Strengthening Relationships [Revisit]

    Episode #1164 This is a revisit episode of one of our most important conversations because the message is just as relevant today as when we first recorded it. Do you keep telling yourself you'll focus on your marriage once work settles down? Many successful men believe they don't have the time or energy to work on their relationship, but the real issue often runs much deeper. In this episode, Doug Holt and Christopher Hansen talk about why so many businessmen throw themselves into work while their marriage slowly drifts apart. They discuss the fear of rejection, the pressure of tying your identity to success, and why avoiding the hard conversations at home comes at a much bigger cost than most men realize. You'll also hear why compartmentalizing your work and personal life isn't as effective as you think, how the health of your marriage affects your leadership and business performance, and what it looks like to start making your relationship a priority without sacrificing your ambition. If you've been feeling disconnected from your wife, spending more time at work than you want to admit, or wondering why success doesn't feel as satisfying as it used to, this episode will give you a different perspective and practical steps you can start applying today. If you're ready to understand what's really keeping your marriage stuck, get the free training at https://thepowerfulman.com/scales. You'll learn a practical framework to help you rebuild connection and start creating positive change at home.

  6. Jul 18 ·  Video

    Reclaiming Your Identity: The Path to Fulfillment in Marriage and Business

    Episode #1163 Do you keep telling yourself you'll work on your marriage when life slows down? If so, you're not alone. Many successful businessmen pour everything they have into growing their business while convincing themselves there's no time left to improve their relationship. In this episode, Doug Holt and Christopher Hansen unpack what's really behind that mindset. They explore why so many men avoid working on their marriage, how fear of rejection and identity can keep you stuck, and why hiding in your business never solves the problem at home. You'll also hear why trying to compartmentalize your work and marriage doesn't actually work, how the quality of your relationship impacts your performance as a leader, and what happens when you start making your family a real priority instead of something you'll get to later. If you've been feeling disconnected at home, questioning where your energy is going, or wondering why success at work doesn't feel as fulfilling as it should, this conversation will give you practical insights and a clear place to start. Want to understand what's really keeping your marriage stuck and learn the first steps to rebuilding connection? Get the free training at https://thepowerfulman.com/scales and discover a practical framework you can start using today.

  7. Jul 16 ·  Video

    Navigating Marital Challenges: Staying or Leaving

    Episode #1162 How do you know when it's time to leave your marriage? Or when it's time to fight for it? It's one of the hardest questions a man can ask himself, especially when the connection is gone, communication feels impossible, and you've started wondering if life would be easier with someone else. In this episode, Doug Holt and Christopher Hansen have an honest conversation about what really happens when a marriage reaches this point. They share personal experiences, lessons from coaching thousands of married businessmen, and the two simple questions every man should answer before making a decision he can't take back. You'll hear why the grass isn't always greener, how emotional distance slowly builds over time, what women are often looking for in a relationship, and why working on yourself first can completely change the direction of your marriage. They also talk about why doing the work is worth it, whether your marriage is restored or you ultimately decide to move on. If you've been asking yourself, "Should I stay or should I leave?" this episode will give you practical guidance to help you make that decision with confidence instead of emotion. Get your free copy of A Man's Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It and discover practical steps you can start using today to rebuild connection and become the man your family needs. Just cover the shipping, and we'll send you the book.

  8. Jul 14 ·  Video

    Redefining Wellness: A Conversation on Body, Mind, and Life [Revisit]

    Episode #1161 Wellness isn't just about losing weight, eating better, or spending more time in the gym. Real wellness is about building a life that gives you the energy, focus, and resilience to show up as your best every day. In this conversation, Doug sits down with wellness coach and gerontologist Kate Abate to talk about what actually creates lasting health. They explore why so many high performing men struggle to prioritize themselves, how stress impacts every part of life, and why small, consistent habits always beat chasing perfection. Kate also shares what she's learned from coaching men through physical transformations and why improving your health starts with understanding what's really getting in your way. In this episode you'll learn: • Why wellness is about more than fitness and nutrition • How stress and decision fatigue quietly sabotage healthy habits • Why perfection keeps so many men stuck • Simple ways to build routines that actually fit your life • The connection between physical health, confidence, and leadership • Why community and support make lasting change possible • How to create a healthier lifestyle without making it feel overwhelming If you've been trying to improve your health but keep falling back into old habits, this conversation will give you a different way to think about wellness and practical ideas you can start using today. Get the free training and learn the proven framework thousands of men have used to rebuild their confidence, strengthen their relationships, and create lasting change. Get instant access at https://thepowerfulman.com/scales.

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The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.

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  • Creator
    Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    999
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    The Powerful Man Show