Heal The Hurt

Kenny Weiss

Welcome to the Heal the Hurt podcast. As a Relationship, Communication & Trauma Recovery Specialist. I help you turn your relationship misery into relationship mastery by calming the communication chaos and resolving the root cause that others can't see. Through my Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, & Emotional Authenticity Method™, you'll be able to communicate with clarity and rebuild your connection, break free from codependency, resolve old emotional wounds, and stop toxic patterns for good. Restoring the trust, intimacy, connection, and closeness your relationship is missing.

  1. 3D AGO

    Why You Shut Down During Conflict — The Real Reason It’s Not Your Fault

    If you go quiet, blank, or distant during conflict, this video is for you. When tension rises and the words disappear… when your chest tightens or your throat closes… that isn’t avoidance. It’s your nervous system trying to keep you safe. Shutting down isn’t a flaw. It’s something your body learned when conflict felt dangerous. In this video, we gently explore: ✓ Why freezing in conflict is a survival response ✓ What’s happening in your body when you shut down ✓ How childhood experiences teach the rule “silence = safety” ✓ Why shame makes your voice disappear ✓ How healing can start without forcing yourself to talk If you’ve ever wondered, “What’s wrong with me?” — there’s nothing wrong with you. You’re not broken. You’re not avoidant. You’re overwhelmed — and that can be healed. This is a soft reminder that your reactions make sense, and your voice can return when it feels safe again. 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern wIth Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or quietly exhausted by the war inside your own heart, mind, and body, I help you map and heal the childhood emotional blueprint that’s been training your Survival Persona. So your relationships—and your relationship with yourself—can finally feel emotionally safe, and you can live from your authentic self instead of old programming. If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. shutting down in conflict, freeze response trauma, nervous system shutdown, childhood emotional trauma, conflict avoidance trauma response, shame and nervous system, dissociation in relationships, emotional neglect childhood, trauma informed communication, dorsal vagal shutdown #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #nervoussystemhealing #whyishutdowninconflict #howchildhoodaffectscommunication #whysilencefeelssafer #howshameimpactsrelationships #whyifreezeemotionally #howtohealemotionalshutdown

    27 min
  2. FEB 3

    Why You Chase Love (and They Pull Away)

    🔥 It’s your childhood emotional blueprint replaying itself. In this video, I explain why chasing love doesn’t start in adulthood—and why boundaries, willpower, and “just stop texting” advice don’t work when your nervous system is hijacked. You’ll learn: ✓ Why emotionally unavailable people feel magnetic ✓ How inconsistent or conditional love wires your nervous system ✓ What trauma bonding actually is ✓ How the Worst Day Cycle™ keeps repeating ✓ Why chasing is a survival persona, not a flaw ✓ And how to begin healing this pattern using Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle™ If you grew up feeling unseen, unchosen, or loved only when you performed, then of course your body panics when love feels like it’s disappearing. This video breaks down—at the nervous-system level—why distance feels intoxicating, stability feels boring, and how to finally stop chasing love by healing the original wound. You deserve to be chosen—by others and by yourself. 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/singl... 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 / kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern wIth Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or quietly exhausted by the war inside your own heart, mind, and body, I help you map and heal the childhood emotional blueprint that’s been training your Survival Persona. So your relationships—and your relationship with yourself—can finally feel emotionally safe, and you can live from your authentic self instead of old programming. If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #AttachmentHealing, #WhyIChaseLove, #WhyEmotionallyUnavailablePartnersAttractMe, #HowTraumaBondingWorks, #WhyDistanceFeelsAttractive, #HowChildhoodTraumaAffectsRelationships, #HowToStopChasingLove

    29 min
  3. JAN 27

    Why You Keep Having The Same Fight with Every Partner

    🔥 Are you tired of having the same fight in every relationship? The tone is different, the face is different, and the moment is different… but the feeling is always the same. That’s because the fight isn’t about dishes, tone, timing, or responsibilities. It’s about your childhood emotional blueprint and the Worst Day Cycle™ running the show. In this video, you’ll learn: ✔ Why you repeat the same argument with every partner ✔ Why pursuers escalate and distancers shut down ✔ How fear, shame, and old wounds get triggered in the moment ✔ Why communication skills don’t work when the blueprint is activated ✔ Why the fight feels so big (your child self vs their child self) ✔ How Emotional Authenticity reveals the real root of the conflict ✔ How the Authentic Self Cycle™ breaks the old patterns ✔ And how to finally experience repair, connection, and emotional safety If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who keeps repeating relationship patterns, this video will finally make everything make sense. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewritten 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern wIth Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or quietly exhausted by the war inside your own heart, mind, and body, I help you map and heal the childhood emotional blueprint that’s been training your Survival Persona. So your relationships—and your relationship with yourself—can finally feel emotionally safe, and you can live from your authentic self instead of old programming. If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. relationship conflict patterns, pursuer distancer cycle, anxious avoidant attachment, childhood trauma in relationships, emotional triggers in relationships, repeating relationship patterns, emotional authenticity method, healing childhood wounds #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #EmotionalAuthenticityMethod #RelationshipHealing #WhyWeRepeatPatterns #HowChildhoodShapesLove #WhyConflictFeelsSoBig #HowEmotionsDriveReactions #WhyAttachmentPatternsForm #HowToBreakRelationshipCycles

    25 min
  4. JAN 21

    It’s Not Too Late Why Couples Lose Hope — And How to Rebuild Real Connection

    If your relationship feels like it’s falling apart, this video will show you the real reason: you’re not fighting each other — you’re fighting your childhood emotional blueprints. The shutdowns, distance, resentment, and repeated arguments aren’t signs your relationship is broken. They’re signs your emotional wiring is running the show. In this video, you’ll learn: 🔥Why couples lose hope even when they still love each other 🔥How childhood emotional survival patterns shape adult fights 🔥Why communication tools and therapy haven’t worked 🔥How the Worst Day Cycle™ keeps you repeating the past 🔥How Emotional Authenticity™ reveals the real injury 🔥The path back using the Authentic Self Cycle™ If you and your partner are on the edge but still want to try, this root-cause explanation canchange everything. Your relationship isn’t over. Your blueprint is just unhealed — and it can be rewritten. 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern wIth Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or quietly exhausted by the war inside your own heart, mind, and body, I help you map and heal the childhood emotional blueprint that’s been training your Survival Persona. So your relationships—and your relationship with yourself—can finally feel emotionally safe, and you can live from your authentic self instead of old programming. If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. emotional safety in relationships, relationship disconnection, childhood trauma relationships, couples emotional intimacy, relationship healing #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #emotionalsafetyinrelationships #relationshipdisconnection #childhoodtraumarelationships #couplesemotionalintimacy #relationshiphealing

    26 min
  5. JAN 17

    Neuroscience: The 'Spark' Is Actually Trauma (Not Chemistry)

    The “spark” isn’t always love. Sometimes it’s your nervous system recognizing an old emotional environment and calling it chemistry. If you keep feeling intense butterflies with the wrong person—then later feeling fear, confusion, powerlessness, or that stomach-drop “they’re not fully in this” sensation—this video will help you finally understand what’s happening underneath the surface. You’ll learn: ✓ Why chemistry feels intense but often leads to anxiety, confusion, or heartbreak ✓ How early emotional experiences shape adult attraction ✓ What the “worst day cycle” is and why it keeps repeating ✓ Why chasing or pulling away are survival responses—not personality flaws ✓ How emotional authenticity helps rewire your emotional blueprint ✓ The difference between trauma-based attraction and adult love You’ll also learn why butterflies often activate your Worst Day Cycle™ (Trauma → Fear → Shame → Denial), why chasing or shutting down isn’t “who you are,” and how to begin rewiring your emotional blueprint with the Authentic Self Cycle™ (Truth → Responsibility → Healing → Forgiveness). And no—this doesn’t automatically mean you should run away from someone just because they activate your wounds. The deciding factor is simple: are you both willing to develop Emotional Authenticity so that the relationship becomes a place of healing rather than a cycle of repetition? 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern wIth Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or quietly exhausted by the war inside your own heart, mind, and body, I help you map and heal the childhood emotional blueprint that’s been training your Survival Persona. So your relationships—and your relationship with yourself—can finally feel emotionally safe, and you can live from your authentic self instead of old programming. If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #ChemistryVsLove #TraumaBonding #RelationshipPsychology #AttachmentHealing #EmotionalAuthenticity #HealingRelationships #NervousSystem #EmotionalHealing #SelfAwareness #InnerWork #NeuroscienceOfAttraction #EmotionalBlueprint #BrainScience #PsychologyOfLove #AttachmentTrauma #SurvivalBrain #Neuroplasticity #TraumaResponse #WhyWeRepeatPatterns #ToxicAttraction #RelationshipPatterns #TraumaAttraction #WhyLoveHurts #DatingPatterns #RelationshipCycles #WorstDayCycle

    45 min
  6. JAN 3

    Why High Achievers Fail At Love

    Ever wonder why high-achieving, successful people fail at love and struggle in relationships? This video reveals the root cause: your childhood emotional blueprint. If you shut down, disconnect, or feel like you can fix everything except your relationship, this explains why. You’ll learn Why and How: • High achievers repeat the same relationship patterns • Childhood programming shapes conflict and shutdown • The Worst Day Cycle™ drives your reactions • Emotional Authenticity™ rewrites your blueprint This is the root-cause relationship solution for high performers who want real connection—not surface tools. 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach

    27 min
  7. 12/27/2025

    Why You Keep Having The Same Fight With Every Partner

    🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Why do small relationship issues trigger such big emotional reactions? This video explains how unresolved emotional experiences from childhood shape adult nervous system responses and why certain moments feel overwhelming or threatening. In this video, you’ll learn: ✓ Why emotional triggers feel automatic and intense ✓ How childhood experiences condition emotional reactions ✓ What’s happening in your body during conflict ✓ Why awareness reduces emotional overwhelm ✓ How to slow down reactive patterns These insights offer a practical way to understand your emotional responses without suppressing them. Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndRelationships #HealthyRelationships #CommunicationInRelationships #EmotionalAwareness #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #RelationshipPatterns #BreakTheCycle #ToxicCycles #SameFightAgain #RelationshipStruggles #WhyWeFight #LoveProblems #CouplesIssues #HealingJourney #InnerWork #KnowYourPatterns #DoTheWork #RelationshipCoach #RelationshipTips #MentalHealthAwareness #EmotionalIntelligence #TraumaResponses #AttachmentStyles #CouplesTherapy #ConflictResolution #SelfDevelopment #LearnAndGrow #relationships #love #healing #couples #growth #selfawareness #toxicpatterns #breakthecycle #mentalhealth #communication

    24 min
  8. 12/25/2025

    Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Partner No Matter What You Promise Yourself

    🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Why you keep choosing the wrong partner has nothing to do with you being broken. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint and Worst Day Cycle quietly choosing for you. In this video, I show you why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable, toxic, inconsistent partners—no matter how many times you say, “Never again.” We’ll break down how your nervous system confuses familiarity with love, how trauma chemistry feels like attraction, and why calm, stable, healthy people feel “boring” compared to the chaos you’re addicted to. You’ll see how your childhood wound, fear, shame, and denial have been running your love life on autopilot—and what it actually takes to finally choose from your Authentic Self, not your past. 👉 In this video you’ll learn: Why you keep choosing the same toxic or emotionally unavailable partners What your childhood emotional blueprint really is (and how it runs your relationships) How trauma bonding, chemistry, and anxiety get mistaken for love How the Worst Day Cycle™ secretly picks your partners for you The 4 steps of Emotional Authenticity to finally break the pattern 🔹 Ready to stop repeating this in your relationships? Start your healing here: 📚 Kenny’s books – Your Journey to Success & Your Journey to Being Yourself 🎓 Classes & programs – Learn Emotional Authenticity and break your Worst Day Cycle 🧭 1:1 work with Kenny – For those ready for deep, personalized transformation #relationships #toxicrelationships #codependency #emotionallyunavailable #traumabonding #attachment #childhoodtrauma #datingadvice #selfworth #kennyweiss Hi, I'm Kenny Weiss A Relationship, Communication & Trauma Recovery Specialist I created this channel to help you break repeating relationship patterns, fix communication problems, and heal unresolved childhood trauma. If you struggle with conflict, emotional triggers, shutdowns, anxious–avoidant cycles, codependency, or feeling unseen, you’ll learn trauma-informed tools to repair relationships and rebuild emotional safety. My videos focus on relationship repair, communication skills, emotional regulation, attachment styles, nervous-system healing, trauma recovery, conflict de-escalation, intimacy issues, and emotional blueprint rewiring. They are designed for high-functioning adults who want healthier relationships, stronger communication, attachment healing, pursuer–distancer solutions, codependency recovery, and intimacy rebuilding and real emotional healing. This channel gives you step-by-step guidance to understand your patterns, change them, and create secure, connected love. I help you turn your relationship misery into relationship mastery by calming the communication chaos and resolving the root cause that others can't see. Through my Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, & Emotional Authenticity Method™, you'll be able to communicate with clarity and rebuild your connection, break free from codependency, resolve old emotional wounds, and stop toxic patterns for good. Restoring the trust, intimacy, connection, and closeness your relationship is missing. If you’ve tried everything & still feel stuck, it’s not your fault— the real root issue simply hasn’t been uncovered. Uncovering, resolving & repairing the root issues are my specialities. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach

    24 min
4.7
out of 5
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Welcome to the Heal the Hurt podcast. As a Relationship, Communication & Trauma Recovery Specialist. I help you turn your relationship misery into relationship mastery by calming the communication chaos and resolving the root cause that others can't see. Through my Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, & Emotional Authenticity Method™, you'll be able to communicate with clarity and rebuild your connection, break free from codependency, resolve old emotional wounds, and stop toxic patterns for good. Restoring the trust, intimacy, connection, and closeness your relationship is missing.

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