Spiritual Sexual Shamanic Podcast

International School of Temple Arts

Welcome to the Spiritual Sexual Shamanic Podcast. Exploring sacred sexuality, activating Life Force, and empowered transformation, these intimate conversations take you 'under the sheets' with Faculty from ISTA, the International School of Temple Arts.

  1. JAN 30

    Repair in relationships: the key to living in integrity with Mischa Byruck

    In this episode, men’s coach Mischa Byruck shares how we can use our biggest mistakes as catalysts for profound personal transformation.  For Mischa, coming to terms with our mistakes leads to a deeper understanding of what true integrity means. Integrity is not just about following rules, but about aligning your actions with your foundational values and being in wholeness with yourself. It is a nuanced, lifelong practice, not a state of perfection. And there are many life-enhancing benefits of this inner work: a sense of calm, satisfaction, and the ability to walk through the world with pride in how you're living.  But this process cannot be completed alone. Mischa underscores the importance of having accountability structures and being open to feedback from others to maintain this integrity. Whether you're looking to deepen your own self-awareness and authenticity, or seeking to support others in this journey, this episode offers valuable insights. Mischa’s expertise as a men's integrity coach, combined with his humble, relational approach, make this a must-listen for anyone interested in personal transformation and building a more whole, integrated life. About Mischa:  Mischa Byruck is a men's integrity coach who supports his clients to turn their biggest mistakes into their greatest opportunities for transformation. He also consults organizations to bring accountability, power awareness, and trauma-informed practices into leadership. Mischa is certified in somatic trauma therapy with extensive training in harm reduction, counseling, sexuality, and anti-racism. His clients include Sacred Sons, ISTA, kink.com, and DanceSafe.

    1h 11m
  2. JAN 8

    Magick: listening to the current of life with Dane Tomas

    There are moments when effort ceases to have the effect it once did. When pushing, planning, and deciding create more tension than less. At these junctures, we can sense that the next step won’t come from thinking harder, but from listening more deeply. In this episode, Simon Marvell is joined by artist, creator, and transformational guide, Dane Tomas, for an exploration of how we can each embrace magick, release ourselves into sensitivity, and learn to listen to the current of life. Dane shares his understanding of magick not as spectacle or superstition, but as intentional action aligned with the deepest layers of self, cosmos, and consciousness. He guides us through the relationship between will and surrender, and the surprising overlap between the path of the magician and the path of the mystic. The conversation weaves through themes of cultural lineage and spiritual inheritance, questioning where our practices come from and what it means to work with traditions that genuinely fit our bodies, nervous systems, and lived realities. Dane reflects on his journey through Western esotericism, sex magic, shadow work, and non-dual practice, and on the moments where letting go of identity became a doorway to profound change. A central thread of the episode is listening to the current: learning to attune not just intellectually, but somatically and energetically, to what wants to move through us — in ritual, creativity, sexuality, and major life decisions. This episode invites a shift in orientation away from forcing clarity, and toward trusting the subtle movements already shaping our lives.    To learn more about Dane’s work, visit his links: 👉 https://www.danetomas.com/ 👉Instagram: @dane.tomas If you loved this episode, please rate the podcast and share it with your friends — it helps this work reach more people. To learn more about ISTA, visit our links: 👉 https://ista.life/ 👉 Instagram: @ista.community

    1h 17m
  3. 12/17/2025

    The joy of others: unlocking compersion in relationships with Marie Thouin

    Does it genuinely make you happy when your partner is enjoying themselves on a trip with their other lover?  Or perhaps you’ve felt a sense of elation when a friend or colleague receives a well-deserved promotion or prestigious award?  If you’ve ever been uplifted by someone else’s positive experience, even when it doesn’t directly involve you, then you’ve encountered "compersion". In today’s episode, Usha Rose delves into the intriguing concept of compersion with guest Dr. Marie Thouin, the author of What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships, the first comprehensive scholarly work on this topic. While compersion is often associated with non-monogamous relationships, it’s clear that anyone can benefit from understanding and embracing this experience. You might be wondering: Is compersion an innate trait, or can it be cultivated?Can you feel jealousy and compersion simultaneously?Is compersion a requirement in non-monogamous relationships?We address these questions and explore: The six factors that enhance compersionHow compersion manifests differently across contexts and situations, and strategies for navigating these variationsCommon barriers to experiencing compersion and techniques for overcoming themHow compersion can serve as a guiding principle in relationships, fostering growth, connection, and intimacy You can learn more about Dr Marie Thouin on her website:  https://mariethouin.com/ Or follow her on IG:  @drmariethouin To learn more about ISTA visit our website:  https://ista.life/ Or follow us on social media:  @ista.community

    1h 8m
  4. 12/02/2025

    How will your genius appear?: Robbie Griffin

    The tales of old tell us about the cruels of fate and great heroes following their destiny. Often, overcoming our fate is exactly how a fictional hero is made.  But, as ISTA facilitator Robbie Griffin explains, these are not just myths to be left in fantasy worlds. Fate and destiny are lodged in the DNA of human experience and reflecting on them helps us understand our very human lives.  Fate refers to the cards we are dealt in life, both good and bad. It encompasses our family make-up, our upbringing, the culture we’re from, and the opportunities we’ve had.  Destiny is both what we choose to do with those cards, and how we go about doing it.  As Robbie explains, it's important to take care of those parts of ourselves that feel hurt by fate. Likewise, we can connect to our destiny and find our genius, that inner spirit which is uniquely our own.  Through a beautifully spontaneous conversation, Robbie and Simon Marvell explore the tender feelings and vulnerable experiences that we often need to integrate in order to tap into our greatest potential, whatever that may look like.  We hope it brings inspiration and insight you can apply to your own journey.    Robbie Griffin is a founding member and facilitator of Emergence Brotherhood, the founder of Temple of Alchemy London, and supports people 1-on-1 to embrace their unique gifts.  https://www.robbiegriffin.life @robbiegriffinalchemy    To learn more about ISTA, visit our website: https://ista.life Or follow us on Instagram: @ista.community

    58 min
  5. 10/15/2025

    Stop Shaking the Snow Globe: Integration with Aaron Mandelbaum

    In this episode, Simon Marvell speaks with ISTA Facilitator Aaron Mandelbaum about the importance of integration after transformational experiences.  Going to a retreat for spiritual growth or personal development can be like shaking a snow globe. It can send flurries of emotions, thoughts, and experiences wildly into the air. At some point you need to let the snow settle into its new place.  Only then can sustainable shifts in how you live your life begin to establish themselves. Aaron reveals the different ways that ISTA teachers suggest people integrate and explains why each of them are so supportive.  He and Simon also discuss Aaron's unique approach to facilitation, his transition from the business world to spiritual work, and the significance of community and connection in personal growth.  They address the challenges that may arise after intense experiences, especially when shamanic practices are involved, and the power of navigating these emotions alongside other people. They also discuss:  How Aaron is like a cross between George Carlin and Mr RogersHow patience, presence, and process infuses all he doesThe perils of being a “shamasochist”What your loved ones might be experiencing when you’re awayThe ISTA Integration portal for graduatesThe global online groups accessible to graduates To connect with Aaron, visit his website: https://aaronmandelbaum.com/ ISTA offerings many trainings each month, all around the world. To learn more, visit our website: https://ista.life/ Or follow us on social media: @ista.community

    1h 11m
  6. 09/26/2025

    Beyond Aphrodisiacs: 5 Herbal Approaches to Enhancing Pleasure

    In this episode, Usha Rose sits down with her longtime friend and colleague Kay’aleya Hunnybee, a clinical herbalist and integrative health coach, to explore the true power of herbs as aphrodisiacs, not just for boosting libido, but for supporting whole-body vitality, nourishing the nervous system, and enhancing pleasure from the inside out. Rather than offering a generic list of aphrodisiac herbs, Kay’aleya guides us through a holistic, nuanced approach to understanding our sensuality and sexual well-being. Together, we dive into how herbs work, why not all aphrodisiacs are the same, and how to choose the right plants for your unique body, lifestyle, and needs. Kay’aleya shares 5 core areas for enhancing pleasure from an herbal perspective, along with practical insights and examples of herbs that support each one. You’ll also learn how to develop an intimate relationship with herbs and plants as allies for long-term sexual vitality, not just quick fixes. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why aphrodisiac is an oversimplified term and what actually matters The importance of understanding your individual needs 5 key areas for using herbs to enhance pleasure and arousal Examples of herbs in each of those categories Creative, unexpected ways to work with herbs for sexual well-being If you’ve ever wondered which herbs might actually help you feel more alive, nourished, and sensually vibrant, this episode will give you a rich foundation to start your own herbal pleasure journey. About Kay’aleya Hunnybee   Kay’aleya is a clinical herbalist, bodyworker, and integrative health coach specializing in menstrual, hormonal, and sexual health. Her work supports everything from menstrual cycle care and breast health to postpartum healing and navigating menopause. She teaches an online Natural Contraception program, offers pelvic and abdominal bodywork & herbal care in midcoast Maine, and hosts the Herbal Womb Wisdom podcast. Her greatest wish is for others to experience the healing potential of their bodies and cultivate deep kinship with the earth and its plants. Learn more at: https://www.herbalwomb.com/ To learn more about ISTA, visit our website: https://ista.life/

    1h 2m
  7. 09/12/2025

    Techniques for Releasing Stuck Emotions: Jeff Delone

    In this episode, Jeff DeLone shares his journey from a conventional, yet emotionally suppressed, upbringing in the United States to discovering the power of feeling and releasing emotions. Growing up in a large Catholic family, Jeff was surrounded by people but often felt alone. Looking back, he recognizes signs of inherited depression and the impact of unexpressed emotions. After excelling in school and sports, he entered the corporate world, only to find it unfulfilling. His turning point came when he began attending transformational workshops, where he encountered tools that helped him navigate life’s challenges without relying on old patterns like drinking. This exploration eventually led him to become a teacher of the Release Technique, a method that helps people fully feel and then let go of difficult emotions instead of repressing them. As Jeff emphasizes, the technique is less about intellectual understanding and more about direct experience. In the episode, he guides listeners through simple yet powerful exercises for noticing and releasing stuck feelings. One of his key insights is about working with fear: rather than resisting it, we can meet fear with love and allow it to move through us. He also explains how the ego resists letting go, preferring to stay in the mind. In contrast, this practice opens the door to truly living, not just thinking or doing. Jeff also touches on: The history of the Release Technique What lies beneath our most difficult feelings How to release the grip of the mind Relating to emotions like musical notes Transforming fear into courage Heart-centered meditation practices It’s a rich and inspiring conversation with a down-to-earth teacher exploring some pretty “out there” ideas. Links from the episode: Release Technique Healing the Heart of America If you enjoyed this episode, please rate it and share it with friends! Learn more about ISTA at ista.life

    1h 11m
4.6
out of 5
31 Ratings

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Welcome to the Spiritual Sexual Shamanic Podcast. Exploring sacred sexuality, activating Life Force, and empowered transformation, these intimate conversations take you 'under the sheets' with Faculty from ISTA, the International School of Temple Arts.

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