Besties with Breasties Podcast

Besties with Breasties Podcast
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Besties with Breasties is for anyone facing breast cancer who feels isolated, overwhelmed, or simply in need of a friend who understands. Hosted by Beth Wilmes, founder of Faith Through Fire, along with survivors Jess Anderson and Jamie Grieshaber, this podcast offers honest conversations, heartfelt validation, and a healthy dose of humor. Together, the hosts share their personal experiences with breast cancer, motherhood, and life after treatment — reminding listeners they’re not alone and that thriving after diagnosis is possible. Whether you’re newly diagnosed or years into survivorship, you’ll find connection, hope, and the kind of friendship that heals. Podcast Website: https://www.bestieswithbreastiespodcast.com

  1. Oct 14

    S6E19: I Survived Cancer. Can We Survive Betrayal? A Conversation About Rebuilding Intimacy

    Trigger warning: This episode discusses infidelity, depression, and the emotional impact of a cancer diagnosis on relationships. Can a relationship really recover after an affair? And what happens when infidelity collides with a breast cancer diagnosis? In this episode, the Besties sit down for a second time with Angela Skurtu — licensed marriage and family therapist, certified sex therapist, and author of Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity — to tackle one of the hardest questions a relationship can face: can you rebuild trust after it's been broken? The conversation goes deep into the root causes of infidelity, challenging the assumption that cheating is simply about a partner's unavailability or a changing body after cancer. Angela unpacks how burnout, hustle culture, and our society's inability to talk about sex honestly create the conditions where affairs take root — often in midlife, often after a brush with death, and often when two people's identities have quietly diverged. Along the way, the hosts and Angela get real about why intimacy feels so much harder as we age (it's not just hormones), how the parasympathetic nervous system affects everything from your sex life to your digestion, and why couples who do the raw, honest work after an affair can come out stronger — even if they can never go back to the marriage they had before. Plus: a very unhinged "Boobs in the News" segment involving a camper, a pair of sunglasses, and a vault toilet. Learn more or support Faith Through Fire at: faiththroughfire.org Connect with Angela Skurtu: https://www.openbedroomdoors.com/contactyoutube.com/openbedroomdoorsinstagram.com/openbedroomdoors Companies mentioned in this episode: Faith Through FireThrivent Gateway Financial Group

  2. Sep 24

    S6E18: Your Desire Changed After Cancer. Now What?

    When cancer treatment ends, the emotional and physical toll on a relationship is just beginning — and almost nobody is talking about what comes next in the bedroom. In this episode, Beth and Jes sit down with Angela Skurtu, a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified sex therapist, and founder of Open Bedroom Doors, to unpack one of the most quietly painful topics facing survivors: rebuilding intimacy after a major health crisis. The conversation goes far beyond "schedule a date night." Angela makes the case that hustle culture is quietly destroying relationships — that couples running on empty can't access the play, creativity, and presence needed for a fulfilling sex life. She introduces her "Built to Last" framework, challenging and inviting couples to embrace creative sexuality where intimacy doesn't have to look one specific way to count. The hosts get deeply personal. Beth opens up about the exhaustion of midlife and Jes speaks to the body image struggles survivors face and the difficulty of slowing down when your whole life runs on a regimented to-do list. Angela reframes the guilt so many women carry, explaining that a lost libido isn't a personal failure — it's a nervous system in shutdown, protecting itself from burnout. Whether you're navigating post-cancer intimacy, midlife hormonal changes, or simply feeling disconnected from your partner and your own body, this episode offers compassion, practical tools, and the permission to not have it all figured out. Learn more or support Faith Through Fire at: faiththroughfire.org Connect with Angela Skurtu: https://www.openbedroomdoors.com/contact Companies mentioned in this episode: Faith Through FireThrivent Gateway Financial Group

  3. Sep 9

    S6E17: Why Is It So Hard to Let Our Kids Struggle?

    Are we protecting our kids — or preparing them for adulthood? Beth and Jamie unpack the epidemic of young adults who can't manage their own lives — from the 25-year-old who still gets chauffeured by mom to the son who went no-contact after his parents sold the house they bought him. Spoiler alert: the hosts aren't blaming the kids. The Besties swap hilarious personal stories (Beth letting her son sleep through his alarm and face his furious boss), debate whether "follow your passion" is terrible advice, and remind us that confidence doesn't come from being protected — it comes from failing, getting back up, and maybe doing a few chores along the way. They also dig into the harder questions: How do we support our kids' mental health without removing every challenge? And how do we raise young people who are confident enough to make decisions, handle disappointment, work hard, and find their own sense of purpose? Learn more or support Faith Through Fire at faiththroughfire.org Companies mentioned in this episode: Faith Through FireThrivent Gateway Financial Group

  4. Aug 26

    S6E16: Cancer Changes Everything—So What Do You Believe?

    When you've faced a life-altering cancer diagnosis, the big questions become impossible to ignore: What's the meaning of all this? What happens after we die? Does any of it matter? In this episode, Beth and Jamie dive headfirst into the conversation that makes some people uncomfortable — faith. Not faith as a set of rules or Sunday performances, but faith as a living, breathing relationship with someone they believe is actively present today. They get honest about what it feels like when people think you're “crazy" for claiming to hear from God, why Jesus demands a response instead of offering a comfortable middle ground, and how the desire for autonomy keeps so many people from exploring something that could change everything. Beth opens up about her own surrender moment — the instant she stopped trying to carry the weight alone and let her life shift into what she calls "Technicolor." They also explore the surprising data: Christianity is exploding globally — while American affiliation has been shrinking. But there's a twist. Younger generations, drowning in unprecedented anxiety and skeptical of institutions, are showing a renewed hunger for spiritual meaning. Jamie shares what she's seeing in her own community, with her kids and their peers gravitating toward faith in growing numbers. Whether you're a devout believer, a skeptic, or somewhere in between, this episode is an open invitation to ask the hard questions and keep seeking. As Jamie says: "Keep listening to your gut. Keep seeking, and you will find Him." Learn more or support Faith Through Fire at faiththroughfire.org Companies mentioned in this episode: Faith Through FireThrivent Gateway Financial Group

  5. Aug 12

    S6E15: Still Hot After Kids: Keeping the Spark Alive in Midlife

    Midlife can quietly pull couples apart—kids, careers, aging parents, health scares—until you’re roommates managing a life instead of partners living one. In this episode, Beth and Jes sit down with Chris and Jodi Gibbs of Still Hot After Kids, a couple married 30+ years who almost lost each other in that grind… and fought their way back. Chris’s body hit a wall after 40: anxiety, panic attacks, an ER/ICU scare, and a lifestyle built on 60–70-hour weeks and gas-station food. Jodi was raising four girls (including twins), carrying the emotional load, and feeling alone even when he thought he was “husband of the year.” They name what so many midlife couples feel but rarely say out loud—depletion, resentment, fear of change—and how fear can keep people stuck in a life that no longer fits. They share the pivots that saved them: selling the dream home, changing jobs, building a business together in real estate, choosing health side by side (yes, including morning hot-tub biohacking), and rebuilding connection through small, consistent habits—shared routines, non-sexual touch, real compliments, and time that isn’t only logistics. If you’re in the thick of “survival mode” and wondering whether the spark can come back, this conversation is honest, practical, and hopeful. You don’t need a perfect past to build a stronger next chapter—you need both people willing to try. Connect with Chris & Jodi: Still Hot After Kids on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook stillhotafterkids@gmail.com stillhotafterkids.com Learn more or support Faith Through Fire at faiththroughfire.org Companies mentioned in this episode: Faith Through FireThrivent Gateway Financial Group

  6. Jul 21

    S6E14: The Truth Exposed 13 Years Later- Lisa’s Story

    In this episode of the Besties with Breasties podcast, hosts Beth Wilmes and Jes sit down with Lisa, a member of the Faith Through Fire community, for a raw conversation in their relationship series. Lisa shares the story of falling in love in college, building what looked like an idyllic marriage, and then facing breast cancer in 2007 — a diagnosis that, thirteen years later, she'd come to see as the moment that quietly exposed cracks in her relationship that had been there all along. She walks through the slow unraveling that followed: a husband who shut down instead of opening up, a move that stripped away their support system, a hidden past, and eventually a betrayal that led to divorce in 2020. Lisa gets honest about starting over after decades of security, the isolation of losing friends and community, and the daily, deliberate choice to forgive — even when she didn't want to. She credits a DivorceCare class, her faith, and a commitment to doing the "contrary" thing (choosing peace over bitterness) for helping her rebuild a life she's genuinely proud of today. A candid, hopeful episode for anyone who has questioned a relationship in the wake of a health crisis — or anyone navigating divorce and wondering how to come out the other side whole. Learn more or support Faith Through Fire at faiththroughfire.org Companies mentioned in this episode: Faith Through FireThrivent Gateway Financial Group

  7. Jul 8

    S6E13: Can You Share Too Much During Breast Cancer?

    Hosts Beth Wilmes and Jamie dive into the surprisingly tricky topic of oversharing — both in everyday life and in the middle of a breast cancer journey. Beth (more traditional) and Jamie (a "recovering over-sharer") swap stories about where they each draw the line with their husbands, from farting etiquette to who gets to see medical drains and incisions, and debate whether keeping a little mystery in a marriage makes it stronger or just creates distance. The conversation turns more personal as they unpack a listener's message from a husband who says he misses "the mystery" after years together, and Jamie opens up about the tension between vulnerability and protecting her own privacy after treatment. Beth also shares a moving story about her sister's decade-long struggle with chronic illness dominating her family life, and the hard conversation she had about it. Along the way: practical communication tips for couples navigating medical stress — setting time limits on health talk, using check-in cues, and being honest about each partner's needs. The episode closes on the idea that whether you're an oversharer or a keep-it-close type, good communication is what makes a relationship work. Learn more or support Faith Through Fire at faiththroughfire.org Companies mentioned in this episode: Faith Through FireThrivent Gateway Financial Group

  8. Jun 23

    S6E12: "Less Pity, More Power": A Conversation About Real Survivorship

    What does it really mean to survive breast cancer? Beth sits down with Amy Brace and Jenna Sartorius — co-founders of the Pink Power Hour podcast — for an honest, unfiltered conversation about life after a diagnosis. Amy is navigating the long-term side effects of treatment, including reconstruction that failed and hormone-induced hair loss. Jenna has been living with stage IV metastatic breast cancer — including a brain tumor she had surgically removed — for over three years, carrying a weight most people around her would never guess. Together, they're proof that survivorship looks nothing like the pink ribbon suggests. In this episode, the group digs into why society softens breast cancer, the "forced vulnerability" of looking visibly ill, and the very real identity crisis that follows treatment. They also share how they found each other through a documentary, built a podcast from scratch, and are now co-authoring a children's book — Love Stays — written from the perspective of their kids about a mom with metastatic breast cancer. Plus: a Boobs in the News segment that goes somewhere none of us expected (trust us), and a conversation about what "less pity, more power" actually looks like in everyday life. Learn more or support Faith Through Fire at faiththroughfire.org Companies mentioned in this episode: Faith Through FireThrivent Gateway Financial Group Find Amy and Jenna: pinkpowerhour.org Book launch: Love Stays — available NOW!

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Besties with Breasties is for anyone facing breast cancer who feels isolated, overwhelmed, or simply in need of a friend who understands. Hosted by Beth Wilmes, founder of Faith Through Fire, along with survivors Jess Anderson and Jamie Grieshaber, this podcast offers honest conversations, heartfelt validation, and a healthy dose of humor. Together, the hosts share their personal experiences with breast cancer, motherhood, and life after treatment — reminding listeners they’re not alone and that thriving after diagnosis is possible. Whether you’re newly diagnosed or years into survivorship, you’ll find connection, hope, and the kind of friendship that heals. Podcast Website: https://www.bestieswithbreastiespodcast.com

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    Besties with Breasties Podcast
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    149
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