Back To Happy: The Breakup Recovery Podcast

Angie Day- Breakup Recovery Strategist
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Welcome to *Back to Happy: The Breakup Recovery Podcast*, your essential guide to reclaiming joy and happiness while navigating the emotional landscape of a breakup or divorce. Hosted by Angie Day, a certified Life and Relationship Coach, Breakup Recovery Expert, and Positive Psychology Practitioner, this transformative space is designed to empower you on your journey to healing. Drawing from her extensive training in relationship psychology and her own experiences with love, loss, and heartbreak, Angie delves deep into the complex emotions that surface during and after a breakup. Each episode offers a compassionate environment for listeners to acknowledge their feelings, explore the intricacies of their emotional landscape, and find the closure they need to rebuild their lives. Whether you're navigating the aftermath of a breakup or seeking to understand the dynamics of your past relationships, "Back to Happy" is your go-to resource for healing, growth, and rediscovery. Tune in to embark on a journey toward emotional resilience and a happier, healthier and brighter future. Take the free quiz to discover your Relationship Attachment Style visit: https://www.angieday.com/free-quiz/ If you think you or someone you love may be struggling after a breakup or divorce and you'd like help with this or any other topic, feel free to drop me a voicemail here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheBacktoHappyPodcast

  1. 6d ago

    Delayed Grief During Breakup Recovery

    Just when you think you've turned the corner—when the daily panic has subsided, your routines are back on track, and you feel like you're finally "over it"—a sudden, heavy wave of sadness hits out of nowhere. This is the phenomenon of Delayed Grief. In this episode, we address why your mind and body delay heavy emotional processing until your nervous system feels safe enough to drop its guard. We examine how each Default Emotional Operating System reacts to an unexpected surge of grief, and use Thought Exploration and Override framework to process the wave without believing you've lost your progress. Ready to Fast-Track Your Breakup Recovery? Stop waiting for "time" to heal you and start your journey back to happy with a personalized roadmap. I am now accepting a limited number of 1:1 coaching clients. Let's turn your heartbreak into a catalyst for your greatest transformation. Claim your Free 30-Minute Strategy Call here: https://www.angieday.com/join/ Discover your Unique Breakup Style (Diagnose Your DEOS): This is a crucial first step to taking back your power. Your emotional reactions are driven by a subconscious operating system (your attachment style). By identifying your DEOS, you gain a clear blueprint for your behavior. This transforms your healing from a frustrating, chaotic storm into a strategic, predictable, and conquerable process. Take the quiz here: https://www.angieday.com/free-quiz/ Connect with Angie: If you or someone you love is struggling after a breakup or divorce and you'd like professional support to navigate the aftermath, I'm here to help. Email me at: angie@contactangieday.com Leave a Voicemail: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheBacktoHappyPodcast

  2. Sep 3

    The Identity Recode: Rebuilding Yourself in the Blank Space

    Once the panic settles after a breakup, the rumination stops, and you learn how to handle setbacks with self-compassion, a quiet, disorienting realization often surfaces: "I don't know who I am when I'm not managing a relationship or recovering from one." In this episode, we execute The Identity Recode. Learn how to navigate the "identity void" that appears after a long-term connection ends, examine how each Default Emotional Operating System (Anxious DEOS, Dismissive-Avoidant DEOS, and Fearful-Avoidant DEOS) reacts to the empty space, and use our Thought Exploration and Override framework to stop forcing answers and start discovering what actually brings you peace. Ready to Fast-Track Your Breakup Recovery? Stop waiting for "time" to heal you and start your journey back to happy with a personalized roadmap. I am now accepting a limited number of 1:1 coaching clients. Let's turn your heartbreak into a catalyst for your greatest transformation. Claim your Free 30-Minute Strategy Call here: https://www.angieday.com/join/ Discover your Unique Breakup Style (Diagnose Your DEOS): This is a crucial first step to taking back your power. Your emotional reactions are driven by a subconscious operating system (your attachment style). By identifying your DEOS, you gain a clear blueprint for your behavior. This transforms your healing from a frustrating, chaotic storm into a strategic, predictable, and conquerable process. Take the quiz here: https://www.angieday.com/free-quiz/ Connect with Angie: If you or someone you love is struggling after a breakup or divorce and you'd like professional support to navigate the aftermath, I'm here to help. Email me at: angie@contactangieday.com Leave a Voicemail: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheBacktoHappyPodcas

  3. Aug 27

    The Setback Reset

    What happens when you break No Contact, check your ex's social media, or reach out in a moment of panic? Setbacks often trigger a heavy shame spiral where you feel like you've reset your recovery all the way back to zero. In this episode, we perform The Setback Reset. Learn how your Default Emotional Operating System (DEOS) reacts to a slip, why a setback is valuable system data rather than a personal failure, and how to use our Thought Download and Override framework to stop the guilt spiral and rebuild self-trust immediately. Ready to Fast-Track Your Breakup Recovery? Stop waiting for "time" to heal you and start your journey back to happy with a personalized roadmap. I am now accepting a limited number of 1:1 coaching clients. Let's turn your heartbreak into a catalyst for your greatest transformation. Claim your Free 30-Minute Strategy Call here: https://www.angieday.com/join/ Discover your Unique Breakup Style (Diagnose Your DEOS): This is a crucial first step to taking back your power. Your emotional reactions are driven by a subconscious operating system (your attachment style). By identifying your DEOS, you gain a clear blueprint for your behavior. This transforms your healing from a frustrating, chaotic storm into a strategic, predictable, and conquerable process. Take the quiz here: https://www.angieday.com/free-quiz/ Connect with Angie: If you or someone you love is struggling after a breakup or divorce and you'd like professional support to navigate the aftermath, I'm here to help. Email me at: angie@contactangieday.com Leave a Voicemail: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheBacktoHappyPodcast

  4. Aug 20

    The Rumination Trap

    Once you learn how to regulate your nervous system when it gets hijacked, a subtle mental trap often emerges: you start using your psychological knowledge to endlessly analyze your ex. In this episode, we deconstruct the "Detective Trap"—why your brain uses analysis as a defense mechanism to stay mentally tethered to the past. Building on our Body Audit framework, learn how your own DEOS style fuels your rumination habits, how a Secure DEOS uses data for boundaries rather than analysis, and how to use our Thought Exploration and Override framework to escape the Rumination Trap and close the case file for good. Ready to Fast-Track Your Breakup Recovery? Stop waiting for "time" to heal you and start your journey back to happy with a personalized roadmap. I am now accepting a limited number of 1:1 coaching clients. Let's turn your heartbreak into a catalyst for your greatest transformation. Claim your Free 30-Minute Strategy Call here: https://www.angieday.com/join/   Discover your Unique Breakup Style: Discover your Unique Breakup Style (Diagnose Your DEOS): This is a crucial first step to taking back your power. Your emotional reactions are driven by a subconscious operating system (your attachment style). By identifying your DEOS, you gain a clear blueprint for your behavior. This transforms your healing from a frustrating, chaotic storm into a strategic, predictable, and conquerable process. Take the quiz here: https://www.angieday.com/free-quiz/ Connect with Angie: If you or someone you love is struggling after a breakup or divorce and you'd like professional support to navigate the aftermath, I'm here to help. Email me at: angie@contactangieday.com Leave a Voicemail: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheBacktoHappyPodcast

  5. Aug 13

    The Body Audit: Regulating Your Nervous System During a Breakup

    When you decide to step off the emotional rollercoaster and detox from relationship drama, your nervous system experiences physical withdrawal. Your brain doesn't pause to reason—it immediately boots up your DEOS: your Default Emotional Operating System. In this episode, building on our work in The Drama Detox, we explore why you can't always "think" your way out of a physical panic response or somatic shutdown. Learn how each DEOS style (Anxious, Dismissive-Avoidant, Fearful-Avoidant, and Secure) stores stress in the body during withdrawal, how to perform a Somatic Body Audit, and how to use body-based physical overrides to regulate your nervous system back to safety. Ready to Fast-Track Your Breakup Recovery? Stop waiting for "time" to heal you and start your journey back to happy with a personalized roadmap. I am now accepting a limited number of 1:1 coaching clients. Let's turn your heartbreak into a catalyst for your greatest transformation. Claim your Free 30-Minute Strategy Call here: https://www.angieday.com/join/ Discover your Unique Breakup Style (Diagnose Your DEOS): This is a crucial first step to taking back your power. Your emotional reactions are driven by a subconscious operating system (your attachment style). By identifying your DEOS, you gain a clear blueprint for your behavior. This transforms your healing from a frustrating, chaotic storm into a strategic, predictable, and conquerable process. Take the quiz here: https://www.angieday.com/free-quiz/ Connect with Angie: If you or someone you love is struggling after a breakup or divorce and you'd like professional support to navigate the aftermath, I'm here to help. Email me at: angie@contactangieday.com Leave a Voicemail: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheBacktoHappyPodcast

  6. Aug 6

    The Drama Detox: Breaking the Addiction to Relational Chaos

    Have you ever wondered why you can't seem to stop checking up on your ex, replaying old arguments, or wanting them back—even when you know the relationship was chaotic and painful? In this episode, we build on our work in Guarding Your Peace by turning the lens inward. We expose the hidden culprit keeping you stuck: a neurochemical addiction to relationship drama. Explore why our brains crave drama much like we get hooked on reality TV, how each Default Emotional Operating System (Anxious DEOS, Dismissive-Avoidant DEOS, and Fearful-Avoidant DEOS) gets trapped in the chaos, and how to use our Thought Exploration and Override framework to detox from relational volatility and make peace feel safe again. Ready to Fast-Track Your Breakup Recovery? Stop waiting for "time" to heal you and start your journey back to happy with a personalized roadmap. I am now accepting a limited number of 1:1 coaching clients. Let's turn your heartbreak into a catalyst for your greatest transformation. Claim your Free 30-Minute Strategy Call here: https://www.angieday.com/join/ Discover your Unique Breakup Style (Diagnose Your DEOS): This is a crucial first step to taking back your power. Your emotional reactions are driven by a subconscious operating system (your attachment style). By identifying your DEOS, you gain a clear blueprint for your behavior. This transforms your healing from a frustrating, chaotic storm into a strategic, predictable, and conquerable process. Take the quiz here: https://www.angieday.com/free-quiz/ Connect with Angie: If you or someone you love is struggling after a breakup or divorce and you'd like professional support to navigate the aftermath, I'm here to help. Email me at: angie@contactangieday.com Leave a Voicemail: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheBacktoHappyPodcast

  7. Jul 30

    Guarding Your Healing : Spotting Insecure EOS In Other People

    As you do the deep internal work of understanding your Emotional Operating System, releasing shame, and rebuilding self-trust, your awareness naturally expands. You begin to notice the emotional dynamics of the people around you—friends, family members, acquaintances, and even your ex. In this episode, we focus strictly on protecting your personal recovery space. Learn how Anxious, Avoidant, and Fearful attachment styles present in others, how to spot when someone else's unmanaged chaos is threatening your progress, and how to use our Thought Download and Override method to stay firmly anchored in your own healing without falling into the "rescuer trap." Ready to Fast-Track Your Breakup Recovery? Stop waiting for "time" to heal you and start your journey back to happy with a personalized roadmap. I am now accepting a limited number of 1:1 coaching clients. Let's turn your heartbreak into a catalyst for your greatest transformation. ·                  Claim your Free 30-Minute Strategy Call here: https://www.angieday.com/join/ Discover your Unique Breakup Style: This is a crucial first step to taking back your power. Your emotional reactions are driven by a subconscious operating system (your attachment style). By identifying your unique style, you gain a clear blueprint for your behavior. This transforms your healing from a frustrating, chaotic storm into a strategic, predictable, and conquerable process. ·                  Take the quiz here: https://www.angieday.com/free-quiz/ Connect with Angie: If you or someone you love is struggling after a breakup or divorce and you'd like professional support to navigate the aftermath, I'm here to help. ·                  Email me at: angie@contactangieday.com ·                  Leave a Voicemail: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheBacktoHappyPodcast

  8. Jul 23

    The Shame Reset: Unpacking the Hidden Guilt

    Now that we've explored the four Emotional Operating Systems (Anxious, Avoidant, Fearful, and Secure), many listeners hit a quiet, heavy wall: subconscious shame. You might find yourself thinking, "If only I had been less needy," "If only I hadn't brought up that argument," or "If I were better, they would have stayed." In this episode, we deconstruct the difference between toxic shame and healthy accountability. Learn how to perform a "Shame Audit" using our Thought Download process to rewrite the narrative that you were "not enough," so you can forgive your past self and step into authentic self-trust. Ready to Fast-Track Your Breakup Recovery? Stop waiting for "time" to heal you and start your journey back to happy with a personalized roadmap. I am now accepting a limited number of 1:1 coaching clients. Let's turn your heartbreak into a catalyst for your greatest transformation. Claim your Free 30-Minute Strategy Call here: https://www.angieday.com/join/ Discover your Unique Breakup Style: This is a crucial first step to taking back your power. Your emotional reactions right now are not random; they are driven by a subconscious operating system (your attachment style). By identifying your unique style, you gain a clear blueprint for your behavior. This transforms your healing from a frustrating, chaotic storm into a strategic, predictable, and conquerable process. Take the quiz here: https://www.angieday.com/free-quiz/ Connect with Angie: If you or someone you love is struggling after a breakup or divorce and you'd like professional support to navigate the aftermath, I'm here to help. Email me at: angie@contactangieday.com Leave a Voicemail: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheBacktoHappyPodcast

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Welcome to *Back to Happy: The Breakup Recovery Podcast*, your essential guide to reclaiming joy and happiness while navigating the emotional landscape of a breakup or divorce. Hosted by Angie Day, a certified Life and Relationship Coach, Breakup Recovery Expert, and Positive Psychology Practitioner, this transformative space is designed to empower you on your journey to healing. Drawing from her extensive training in relationship psychology and her own experiences with love, loss, and heartbreak, Angie delves deep into the complex emotions that surface during and after a breakup. Each episode offers a compassionate environment for listeners to acknowledge their feelings, explore the intricacies of their emotional landscape, and find the closure they need to rebuild their lives. Whether you're navigating the aftermath of a breakup or seeking to understand the dynamics of your past relationships, "Back to Happy" is your go-to resource for healing, growth, and rediscovery. Tune in to embark on a journey toward emotional resilience and a happier, healthier and brighter future. Take the free quiz to discover your Relationship Attachment Style visit: https://www.angieday.com/free-quiz/ If you think you or someone you love may be struggling after a breakup or divorce and you'd like help with this or any other topic, feel free to drop me a voicemail here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheBacktoHappyPodcast

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  • Creator
    Angie Day- Breakup Recovery Strategist
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    174
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    Copyright 2026© Angie Day Coaching, LLC. All rights reserved
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    Back To Happy: The Breakup Recovery Podcast

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