No Alcohol Needed: The Podcast

Julie Miller & Steve Knapp
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Hanging out at the intersection of emotional wellness, personal growth, and living an alcohol-free life. No Alcohol Needed (formerly Through the Glass Recovery) is a podcast for anyone who is considering or has chosen an alcohol-free life and wanting more from life than just “not drinking.” Hosted by Julie Miller and Steve Knapp, certified alcohol-free life coaches, the show features honest, thoughtful conversations about the inner work that actually makes life feel better. Together, they explore topics like shame, anxiety, difficult relationships, emotional regulation, identity, and the patterns that  keep people stuck in a life that feels empty. These are conversations about building emotional skills, self-trust, and a life that feels meaningful and fulfilling without alcohol. Whether you are sober-curious, newly alcohol-free, or years into sobriety and still asking “now what?”, this sobriety podcast offers honest conversation and real life lessons learned, mixed with expert insights and perspective shifts to help you move beyond coping and toward thriving in a life that feels genuinely good. How to be happy. No alcohol needed. -- Find all of our free resources at https://noalcoholneeded.net --- Julie Miller is the founder of Create a Life So Full, a coaching practice focused on emotional resilience and living alcohol-free. Learn more at https://createalifesofull.com Steve Knapp is a sobriety and men's mental health advocate. Get to know him at https://www.facebook.com/steve.knapp.39

  1. 23h ago

    202 | How To Trust People Again After You've Been Hurt

    What happens when past hurt makes connection feel dangerous? It is possible to want close friendships and honest relationships while also feeling determined never to be vulnerable enough to get hurt again. Keeping everyone at a distance can feel safer - but it can also become painfully lonely. In this episode of No Alcohol Needed: the Podcast, Julie Miller and Steve Knapp are joined by therapists Teresa McLellan and Crystal Hamilton to explore how to trust people again after betrayal, rejection, or repeated disappointment. Together, they discuss: How early experiences shape the ability to trust Why some people overshare while others reveal almost nothing How alcohol can create a temporary feeling of connection without real intimacy Why trusting other people often begins with trusting oneself How to share gradually and allow trust to build through evidence Why different relationships can hold different levels of vulnerability What to do when someone responds badly or breaks trust How boundaries, curiosity, accountability, and honest communication make repair possible Why resilience matters more than finding people who will never cause hurt Learning to trust again does not require believing that everyone is safe. It means becoming more confident in the ability to notice what is happening, respond to it, and remain okay - even when another person disappoints or rejects us. The conversation offers a more realistic path toward connection: share in small pieces, pay attention to how those pieces are handled, let people earn deeper trust over time, and build confidence in the ability to handle whatever follows. Learn more about No Alcohol Needed, meet the voices from the podcast, and find the free Monday Zoom gathering at noalcoholneeded.net

  2. Sep 28

    201 | Stop Waiting for Life to Make You Happy

    What if taking responsibility didn’t mean blaming yourself - but taking your power back so you can find real joy? It’s easy to believe life would finally feel better if another person changed, work became less stressful, the kids behaved differently, or circumstances simply stopped going wrong. But when happiness depends on everything around us cooperating, we can end up feeling powerless. In this episode of No Alcohol Needed, Julie and Steve are joined by Dave and David for a candid conversation about radical responsibility: recognizing what belongs to you, allowing other people to carry what belongs to them, and making intentional choices even when life is difficult or unfair. Together, they explore: What it looks like to live in a constant state of reaction Why removing alcohol doesn’t automatically remove anger, resentment, or unhappiness The difference between responsibility, blame, and shame How to stop letting other people’s moods control your day Why saying “you made me feel this way” gives away your power How people-pleasing can prevent others from taking responsibility Finding the pause between what happens and how you respond Taking responsibility for healing without accepting fault for the original hurt Creating happiness before every part of life is perfectly resolved Radical responsibility does not mean that everything that happened to you was your fault. It means recognizing the choices that are still available to you - and deciding that what happened will not have complete control over what you do next. Learn more about the podcast and meet the voices at https://noalcoholneeded.net

  3. Sep 21

    200 | Comparing Yourself to Others: How to Stop Letting It Control You

    Why does someone else’s success so quickly become evidence that you’re failing? Comparing yourself to others is deeply human. We use comparison to understand where we fit, whether we belong, and whether we’re doing okay. But when comparison becomes tied to shame and self-worth, it can leave us feeling like everyone else is doing life - or sobriety - better than we are. In this episode, Julie and Steve are joined by Matt and Sean for an honest conversation about comparison, confidence, and recovery. They discuss feeling behind because of years spent drinking, comparing sober time and recovery progress, and the pressure to measure personal growth against someone who began with entirely different circumstances. They also challenge the idea that comparison is always harmful. Sometimes it can offer useful information, show us what is possible, and help us recognize what we genuinely want. The difference is whether someone else’s progress inspires curiosity - or becomes a verdict about our own worth. Together, they explore: Why comparison is connected to belonging and emotional safety How comparison can keep us from showing up or taking risks Feeling behind in life after quitting drinking The danger of measuring one person’s sobriety against another’s How confidence develops through action Turning envy into information and inspiration Defining success according to personal values Comparing current progress with a former version of ourselves What to do when comparison triggers a shame spiral You may never stop comparing yourself to others completely - and you may not need to. The goal is to stop using someone else’s life as proof that yours isn’t good enough. What does comparison sound like inside your head? What helps you return to your own definition of success? Find more support and resources from No Alcohol Needed at noalcoholneeded.net.

  4. Sep 14

    199 | Why Marriage Feels Harder After You Quit Drinking

    Why does marriage sometimes feel harder after quitting drinking - even though sobriety was supposed to make everything better? Removing alcohol from a relationship doesn’t automatically remove the problems surrounding it. Sobriety can expose loneliness, resentment, damaged trust, unmet emotional needs, and unhealthy roles that both partners have learned to play. It can also introduce an entirely new version of the person who quit drinking - one who is learning to speak up, set boundaries, and show up more honestly. In Episode 199 of the No Alcohol Needed podcast, Julie Miller and Steve Knapp are joined by Kara and Corina for an honest conversation about marriage after quitting drinking. They share experiences from relationships that ended, as well as a marriage that survived, changed, and ultimately became stronger. Together, they discuss: Why quitting drinking changes the established rules of a relationship How alcohol can conceal loneliness, resentment, and incompatibility Why the person who drank may not be the only partner who needs to change What rebuilding trust and making a mutual effort can look like How to protect sobriety when the future of a relationship feels uncertain A difficult season after quitting drinking does not automatically mean the marriage is doomed - or that getting sober was a mistake. What matters is how both people approach the changes and whether they are willing to move through them with honesty, accountability, curiosity, patience, and compassion. Learn more about No Alcohol Needed and find additional recovery resources: https://noalcoholneeded.net/ Join our free weekly Monday Zoom gathering: https://noalcoholneeded.net/meeting-faqs/ If this episode helped, follow the podcast and share it with someone who may need to know they aren’t alone.

  5. Sep 7

    198 | The Conversations We Avoid Are Costing Us

    Why is it so hard to say what needs to be said - even when staying silent is eating away at us? Vulnerability in sobriety can feel terrifying. Speaking honestly means risking judgment, rejection, conflict, or being misunderstood. But the things that go unsaid rarely disappear. They often become shame, resentment, loneliness, and another reason to numb. In the Season 5 premiere, Julie and Steve are joined by Amber and Barclay for a candid conversation about finding the courage to speak up. They share the subjects that carry the most shame, what their families taught them about expressing emotions, and real-life experiences of finally having conversations they had been avoiding. Together, they explore: Why vulnerability can feel genuinely dangerous How alcohol helps people avoid difficult feelings and unmet needs The difference between honest vulnerability and blame How sharing shame with a safe person can loosen its grip What it means to ask for what is needed and let go of the outcome How to respond when honesty is met with judgment or used as a weapon Why real connection requires the risk of being seen This conversation is a reminder that vulnerability does not guarantee the response someone hopes for. Sometimes it creates closeness, sometimes it reveals who is safe, and sometimes it simply allows a person to stop bearing the weight of their truth alone. What is something that was terrifying to say out loud - and what happened when it was finally said? Learn more about No Alcohol Needed, coaching, and our recovery community at https://noalcoholneeded.net.   --- Chapters 00:00:00 Speaking Up to Family 00:02:05 Why Vulnerability Feels Risky 00:14:44 Childhood Lessons About Emotion 00:29:29 Courageous Conversations 00:46:11 Vulnerability Versus Blame 00:57:48 When Honesty Gets Weaponized 01:03:23 Self-Worth and Safe People

  6. Jun 15

    197 | Practicing Life: What We're Still Figuring Out

    We're doing something a little different for this season finale. Before we take our annual summer break, Julie and Steve sit down for an honest conversation about what's been happening behind the scenes, the lessons life has been teaching lately, and what it means to truly practice life instead of just moving through it. In this episode, we talk about: What "practicing life" means to us • Major life changes, including divorce and empty nesting • What sobriety made possible this year • Fear, growth, and doing things before you feel ready • Why connection matters more than almost anything else • Healing, happiness, and the lessons we're still learning • Public speaking, self-doubt, and personal growth • The adventures we're looking forward to this summer • Why we're taking a break and what's coming next One of the biggest themes that kept showing up throughout this conversation was this: You don't have to have life figured out to fully participate in it. Thank you for spending another season with us. Whether you've listened to one episode or all of them, we're grateful you're here. We'll be taking a break from releasing new episodes over the summer, but you can still connect with us through our Monday night Zoom meetings, newsletters, and social media. Stay in touch with us: 👉 Join our free weekly Zoom support group (safe, supportive, not AA): https://noalcoholneeded.net/meeting-faqs/ 👉 Private, individual coaching: https://createalifesofull.com/online-sober-coaching/

  7. Jun 8

    196 | Signs of Codependency: Why You’re Still Miserable After You Quit Drinking

    Why do some of us feel responsible for everyone else’s emotions? Why can’t we relax unless everyone around us is okay first? In this episode, we’re talking about codependency, people pleasing, emotional exhaustion, self-worth, and the hidden ways many of us lose ourselves trying to keep everyone else comfortable. We discuss: what codependency actually is (and what it isn’t) why so many people mistake it for “being caring” how these patterns develop in childhood the connection between codependency and alcohol use why sobriety often exposes unhealthy relationship dynamics resentment, self-abandonment, and losing your identity how boundaries and self-worth begin healing these patterns If you’ve ever struggled with guilt, conflict, people pleasing, overthinking, or feeling emotionally drained all the time, this conversation will likely feel very familiar. This episode features Julie Miller, Steve Knapp, Sean Rollinson, and Janice Dowd. — Resources we offer: 👉 Join our free weekly Zoom support group (safe, supportive, not AA): https://noalcoholneeded.net/meeting-faqs/ 👉 Get to know the people behind the voices of No Alcohol Needed: https://noalcoholneeded.net/meet-the-voices/ 👉 Private, individual coaching: https://createalifesofull.com/online-sober-coaching/

  8. Jun 1

    195 | The Hidden Shame Behind A Drinking Problem

    Why does struggling with alcohol feel so shameful? In this episode, we talk honestly about alcohol and shame, the stigma surrounding alcohol addiction, and why so many people stay silent far longer than they need to. Julie, Steve, Matt, and Kristyna share personal experiences with hiding their drinking, fearing judgment, and believing they should be able to “just stop” on their own. They explore how secrecy keeps people stuck, why hearing “I’ve been there too” can be life-changing, and what actually helps people feel safe enough to ask for support. We also talk about: Why alcohol problems feel uniquely embarrassing The stereotypes society still holds about addiction The emotional exhaustion of hiding How shame fuels more drinking The fear of opening up about sobriety Why visibility and honesty matter in recovery Small ways everyday people can help reduce stigma What a less shame-filled culture around alcohol could look like If you’ve ever felt alone in your struggle with alcohol, this episode is a reminder that you are far from the only one. — Resources we offer: 👉 Join our free weekly Zoom support group (safe, supportive, not AA): https://noalcoholneeded.net/meeting-faqs/ 👉 Get to know the people behind the voices of No Alcohol Needed: https://noalcoholneeded.net/meet-the-voices/ 👉 Private, individual coaching: https://createalifesofull.com/online-sober-coaching/

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Hanging out at the intersection of emotional wellness, personal growth, and living an alcohol-free life. No Alcohol Needed (formerly Through the Glass Recovery) is a podcast for anyone who is considering or has chosen an alcohol-free life and wanting more from life than just “not drinking.” Hosted by Julie Miller and Steve Knapp, certified alcohol-free life coaches, the show features honest, thoughtful conversations about the inner work that actually makes life feel better. Together, they explore topics like shame, anxiety, difficult relationships, emotional regulation, identity, and the patterns that  keep people stuck in a life that feels empty. These are conversations about building emotional skills, self-trust, and a life that feels meaningful and fulfilling without alcohol. Whether you are sober-curious, newly alcohol-free, or years into sobriety and still asking “now what?”, this sobriety podcast offers honest conversation and real life lessons learned, mixed with expert insights and perspective shifts to help you move beyond coping and toward thriving in a life that feels genuinely good. How to be happy. No alcohol needed. -- Find all of our free resources at https://noalcoholneeded.net --- Julie Miller is the founder of Create a Life So Full, a coaching practice focused on emotional resilience and living alcohol-free. Learn more at https://createalifesofull.com Steve Knapp is a sobriety and men's mental health advocate. Get to know him at https://www.facebook.com/steve.knapp.39

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  • Creator
    Julie Miller & Steve Knapp
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    179
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2022 All rights reserved.
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    No Alcohol Needed: The Podcast

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