The Homeschool How To

Cheryl - Host

I don't claim to know anything about homeschooling, so I set out on a journey to ask the people who do! Join me as I chat with homeschoolers to discuss; "why are people homeschooling," "what are all the ways people are using to homeschool today," and ultimately, "should I homeschool my kids?"

  1. #158: A “Good Education” Might Be a Lie… Here’s What Actually Matters

    5D AGO

    #158: A “Good Education” Might Be a Lie… Here’s What Actually Matters

    What happens when you stop measuring “success” by convenience—and start building your family life around your deepest values? In this episode of The Homeschool How To Podcast, Cheryl sits down with homeschool dad Todd Marchand, founder of Be Whole Do Good, to talk about what it really looks like to raise kids with resilience, emotional tools, and a strong sense of identity—without turning your home into a lecture hall. Todd shares how their family found a hybrid homeschool rhythm, why “a good education” often just means “what we’ve always known,” and how he made the leap from software sales to entrepreneurship so his work could align with his family’s mission. You’ll also hear about the new text-message-based program Todd is launching—designed to help parents teach skills like emotional regulation, gratitude, growth mindset, and resilience in tiny daily moments (without adding more to your plate). In this episode, we cover: Why “good schooling” isn’t always the same as a meaningful educationHybrid homeschooling: how it works and why it fits some families bestValues over convenience (and why that changes everything)Teaching emotional skills before the meltdown happensSimple gratitude practices that actually rewire perspectiveFrom corporate ladder to calling: building a life with autonomyWhat Todd wants his kids to know by age 18 (hint: it’s not just academics)Resources & Links Be Whole Do Good: bewholedogood.com (spelled: be whole do good)Night Zookeeper (free trial + 50% off yearly subscription)Cheryl’s eBook- The Homeschool How To: Complete Starter Guide- a compilation of everything she's learned from interviewing 150+ homeschool families Cheryl’s FREE 30-Day Homeschool Quick Start Guide: thehomeschoolhowto.comIf this episode encouraged you, follow the show and leave a review—it’s the best way to support the podcast. Support the show Instagram: TheHomeschoolHowToPodcast Facebook: The Homeschool How To Podcast

    43 min
  2. #157: Standardized Testing Starts at 4? A Former Teacher Explains What Parents Should Know

    FEB 14

    #157: Standardized Testing Starts at 4? A Former Teacher Explains What Parents Should Know

    Cheryl sits down with Katie Vieira — a former 4th grade teacher turned homeschool mom — to talk about what surprised her most when she stepped outside the traditional school system. They unpack how early academic pressure has changed, why many kids feel burnout younger than ever, and how standardized testing and school accountability can shape what happens in the classroom (and the stress teachers carry). They also dive into the real-life side of homeschooling: finding community, handling seasons where screens sneak in more than you planned, keeping reading and learning positive when kids resist “lessons,” and the ongoing challenge of balancing motherhood with creative work and personal goals. Katie shares about her children’s book “Into the Field: Tennessee Summer,” inspired by shifting away from screen-heavy days and toward outdoor adventures, confidence-building, and learning through experience — plus what’s next in her planned series. In this episode, we cover: Katie’s path from certified teacher to homeschool momWhy kindergarten/early elementary standards feel so intense nowStandardized testing pressure (and how it can impact teachers)Lockdown drills, school anxiety, and what parents weigh in their choicesScreen time seasons, outdoor resets, and the “thousand hours outside” ideaHomeschool balance: work, creativity, and family rhythmsColorado homeschool options and one-day-a-week enrichment programsHow to keep learning positive when kids push backLinks & resources mentioned: Katie Vieira + Into the Field: Tennessee Summer Katie's Instagram  🎹  Have your kiddos learn piano from this amazing resource, check out: Simply Piano. We love it!  🎶  Cheryl's ebook: The Homeschool How To: Complete Starter Guide 🎁 Free resource: Grab my free 30-day homeschool quick start guide at thehomeschoolhowto.com Cheryl's book:🚨 Let's Talk, Emergencies! 🚨on Amazon! Support the show Instagram: TheHomeschoolHowToPodcast Facebook: The Homeschool How To Podcast

    42 min
  3. Done Homeschooling, Looking Back: What Matters Most Over 25 Years of Home Education

    FEB 7

    Done Homeschooling, Looking Back: What Matters Most Over 25 Years of Home Education

    What does homeschooling look like after the kids are grown — and what advice actually holds up over 25 years? This week, I bring back a favorite episode of mine to help remind me what's really important while taking this homeschooling journey.  In this episode of The Homeschool How To Podcast, I talk with Rosemary, a New Jersey mom of four who homeschooled all the way through high school and is now on the other side: kids launched, college decisions made, careers started, and the long view finally clear. Rosemary shares the approach that shaped her homeschool—part structure, part freedom—with a few non-negotiables (like math facts and early reading), plus a powerful reminder: you’re replaceable at work… but irreplaceable in your child’s life. You’ll also hear: Why agency is one of the biggest gifts homeschooling can giveHow she balanced academics + interests + sports as kids got olderWhen and why she started testing (and what she learned)How her kids handled the culture shock of college environmentsA practical framework every family can use: Dojo • Cafeteria • LibraryA “well-kept secret” resource: Learning Unlimited (Saturday classes taught by graduate students)If you’re new to homeschooling—or you’re deep in the weeds—this conversation will help you zoom out and build a homeschool that’s less about checklists and more about raising capable, grounded kids who know how to learn.  🎹  Have your kiddos learn piano from this amazing resource, check out: Simply Piano. We love it!  🎶  Cheryl's ebook: The Homeschool How To: Complete Starter Guide 🎁 Free resource: Grab my free 30-day homeschool quick start guide at thehomeschoolhowto.com Support the show Instagram: TheHomeschoolHowToPodcast Facebook: The Homeschool How To Podcast

    39 min
  4. Why So Many Teachers Are Choosing to Homeschool

    JAN 31

    Why So Many Teachers Are Choosing to Homeschool

    I’m re-releasing this episode because it’s still one of my all-time favorites—and honestly, one of the conversations that stayed with me long after we hit stop on the recording.  In this episode, I’m joined by Kiri Jorgensen, a former public school teacher in rural Montana and mom of four. Kiri shares what she saw changing inside the school system—from Common Core and high-stakes testing to increasing bureaucracy—and why her family chose to homeschool their youngest child after experiencing both public school and homeschooling. We also get practical: Kiri explains a simple framework that helps parents homeschool with confidence—separating “learning” (reading, writing, math) from “learning about” (curiosity-led unit studies). She shares her favorite strategy (the “curiosity jar”) to turn your child’s questions into meaningful learning without recreating school at home. Finally, Kiri talks about her work as the founder of Chicken Scratch Books, a publisher creating clean, traditional middle grade fiction for families who want books they can trust. In this episode, we cover: Why Kiri left teaching and what she noticed shifting in schoolsCommon Core, testing pressure, and how it affects classroomsWhy homeschooling can take less time and lead to deeper learningThe “curiosity jar” method for interest-led homeschoolingBuilding lifelong learners and confident, capable kidsChicken Scratch Books and choosing better middle grade readsGuest: Kiri Jorgensen Website: chickenscratchbooks.com Follow the show, leave a review, and share this episode with a parent who needs reassurance today. Mentioned in today’s episode:  🎹  Have your kiddos learn piano from this amazing resource, check out: Simply Piano. We love it!  🎶  Cheryl's ebook: The Homeschool How To: Complete Starter Guide 🎁 Free resource: Grab my free 30-day homeschool quick start guide at thehomeschoolhowto.com Support the show Instagram: TheHomeschoolHowToPodcast Facebook: The Homeschool How To Podcast

    47 min
  5. #156: I Tried to Recreate School at Home… Everyone Cried (This Fixed It)

    JAN 24

    #156: I Tried to Recreate School at Home… Everyone Cried (This Fixed It)

    A former public school teacher never planned to homeschool — until COVID forced a hard reset. In this episode, Cheryl talks with Janae Daniels from the School to Homeschool Podcast about the moment everything changed: the “magical” 2020 shutdown, the surprising nudge to homeschool, and the first day that completely fell apart… until a piano tuner accidentally delivered the best real-life science lesson her kids had ever experienced. Janae shares what deschooling actually looks like (and why it’s harder for parents than kids), how she stopped trying to replicate school at home, and what happened when her children finally had room for boredom, curiosity, and real learning: guitar skills built through YouTube lessons, reading for meaning (not grades), embroidery that turned into paid work, early jobs, business books, conferences, and a senior year centered on debate, confidence, and entrepreneurship. If you’re thinking, “I’m not smart enough,” “My kids will fight me,” or “Is it too late to start homeschooling — especially for middle and high school?” this conversation will give you clarity, encouragement, and a new definition of education. Connect with Janae: Instagram Facebook YouTube Website Follow the show, leave a review, and share this episode with a parent who needs reassurance today. Mentioned in today’s episode:  🎹  Have your kiddos learn piano from this amazing resource, check out: Simply Piano. We love it!  🎶  Cheryl's ebook: https://thehomeschoolhowto.com/ebook 🎁 Free resource: Grab my free 30-day homeschool quick start guide at thehomeschoolhowto.com Support the show Instagram: TheHomeschoolHowToPodcast Facebook: The Homeschool How To Podcast

    48 min
  6. #155: Why This School Psychologist Won’t Send Her Child to School (and Skips Curriculum Too)

    JAN 17

    #155: Why This School Psychologist Won’t Send Her Child to School (and Skips Curriculum Too)

    You’ve heard it a thousand times: “But what about socialization?” “What if my kid falls behind?” “What if they only want screens?” In this episode, I’m joined by Courtney (former teacher + school psychologist, now a private evaluator/advocate) to break down what unschooling actually is — and what it looks like in real life. We talk about the fear parents carry when they step outside the school system, and why so many families need to deschool themselves first. Courtney shares what she’s seen from inside education and why forcing kids to meet grade-level standards can backfire — especially when kids develop at different rates. We also get into: What unschooling really means (and why it’s not “kids watching TV all day”)Why school “socialization” can be toxic and what healthy socialization looks likeHow to handle screen time without power struggles (and why curiosity matters)The link between anxiety, nervous system regulation, and learningWhy many kids are labeled too early — and what parents can do insteadHow to spark learning naturally through real life, nature, conversation, and connectionA fascinating look at Human Design as a tool for understanding how your child learnsIf you’re a parent who’s trying to homeschool without recreating school at home — and you want your child to grow in confidence, curiosity, and love of learning — this episode will help you breathe again.  📌 Links to Courtney’s work: https://linktr.ee/courtney_shakti Follow the show, leave a review, and share this episode with a parent who needs reassurance today. Mentioned in today’s episode: My ebook: https://thehomeschoolhowto.com/ebook My children’s safety book Let’s Talk, Emergencies!: grab it on Amazon!🎁 Free resource: Grab my free 30-day homeschool quick start guide at thehomeschoolhowto.com Support the show Instagram: TheHomeschoolHowToPodcast Facebook: The Homeschool How To Podcast

    46 min
  7. #153: Prom, Friends, and Real-World Skills: A Homeschooled Grad Tells the Truth

    JAN 3

    #153: Prom, Friends, and Real-World Skills: A Homeschooled Grad Tells the Truth

    What happens when a homeschooled kid grows up, skips the “missing out” narrative, and builds a real community of motivated teens who want to create, lead, and launch? In this episode of The Homeschool How To Podcast, I’m joined by Malcolm—a homeschooled graduate who spent years in Classical Conversations (CC) and is now the founder of Teen Mastermind, a fast-growing entrepreneurship community for teens that’s already reaching beyond the U.S. We talk about what homeschooling was actually like from the student perspective—socialization, friendships, motivation, prom/homecoming alternatives, and why Malcolm says he didn’t miss out… he dodged a bullet. You’ll also hear a clear, simple breakdown of the classical education model (grammar, dialectic/logic, rhetoric) and how CC works week-to-week for families considering it. Then we go deeper into the part parents don’t always know how to teach: entrepreneurship. Malcolm shares what he learned from attending business events with his family, why masterminds matter, and how being around the right people can change a teen’s trajectory. If you’ve ever wondered: “Will my kids resent homeschooling?”“How do homeschoolers actually make friends?”“Is Classical Conversations worth it?”“How do I raise a motivated teen with real-world skills?”…this episode is for you. Resources mentioned: theteenmastermind.comteenmastermindlive.comSupport the show Instagram: TheHomeschoolHowToPodcast Facebook: The Homeschool How To Podcast

    38 min
4.8
out of 5
93 Ratings

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I don't claim to know anything about homeschooling, so I set out on a journey to ask the people who do! Join me as I chat with homeschoolers to discuss; "why are people homeschooling," "what are all the ways people are using to homeschool today," and ultimately, "should I homeschool my kids?"

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