Tori DaCosta spent decades climbing the ranks at a Fortune 50 company while keeping some of her story tucked in her back pocket. Then in midlife, she decided it was time to write it down. Her debut book, "No Name B*****d: How Our Lives Teach Us What We Can Control, Manage, and Influence," became the framework she now teaches leaders, and it started with a question so many women over 40 will recognize: what would I even write about? I don't have a story. In this episode, Tori and Aransas talk about the courage it takes to put your story into the world after years of editing yourself, and why the people you tell (and don't tell) about a big, brave dream matter. Tori breaks down her signature control, manage, influence framework and shows how it applies to marriage, parenting, corporate projects, and the daily grind of building a second act while holding down a demanding full-time job. What You'll Learn: -Starting over during menopause and midlife career reinvention — how Tori built a second career as an author and speaker while staying full-time at a Fortune 50 company -How to change careers after 40 without leaving what you've built — the control, manage, influence framework for balancing a corporate job with a creative second act -Building confidence after 40 — how Tori rebuilt trust in a writing gift she hadn't used in decades -Midlife dreams women protect from naysayers — why Tori was selective about who she told before the book was finished, and what she calls allies, amplifiers, and auditors -Women over 40 career change and team building — how Tori assembled a director of operations, a publicist, and a soon-to-be virtual assistant to support her growing second act -The quarterly reset practice — Tori's 13-week personal and professional planning rhythm, used instead of New Year's resolutions Midlife reinvention women can use today — Tori's practical sleep and screen boundary (shutting down at 8pm) for protecting emotional bandwidth Resources and Links: Tori's website: journeystone.com (also toridacosta.com) Book: "No Name B*****d: How Our Lives Teach Us What We Can Control, Manage, and Influence" Instagram / Facebook: @ToriDacostaLeadership LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toridacosta/ About Tori DaCosta: Tori DaCosta is a business leader, coach, bestselling author, and speaker dedicated to helping people lead themselves with clarity, confidence, and intention. As a leader at a Fortune 50 company and founder of Journeystone LLC, she brings a grounded, experience-driven perspective to helping others step into their fullest potential. Her award-winning debut book, "No Name B*****d: How Our Lives Teach Us What We Can Control, Manage, and Influence," blends personal story with a practical framework readers can use to reflect on their own lives and extract actionable insight. Her mission is to help people take ownership of their growth, lead themselves well, and create meaningful outcomes for their teams, organizations, and communities. About Your Host: Aransas Savas is a wellbeing and leadership coach specializing in helping women over 40 navigate midlife transitions, career changes, and second-act reinvention. With 20+ years of behavioral research experience partnering with companies like Disney, Weight Watchers, and Best Buy, she hosts The Uplifters Podcast, featuring women doing transformative work in the second half of their lives. Aransas brings both research rigor and personal experience to conversations about courage capital, midlife transformation, and building meaningful second acts. Connect with Aransas: Instagram: @aransas_savas Podcast Instagram: @the_uplifters_podcast TikTok: @theuplifterspodcast Facebook: Aransas Savas Website: theuplifterspodcast.com YouTube: @theuplifterspodcast LinkedIn: Aransas Savas Keywords: perimenopause career change, women over 40, midlife reinvention, menopause second act, starting over at 40, women changing careers 40s, midlife transition women, second half of life, courage capital, midlife transformation, women entrepreneurs over 40, female founders midlife, midlife purpose women, second act career women, women 40s new career, building confidence after 40, midlife dreams women, starting over during menopause, women over 40 success stories, midlife awakening women Get full access to The Uplifters at www.theuplifterspodcast.com/subscribe