Family Disappeared

Lawrence Joss
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Have you lost contact with your child? What about your parent, or grandparent, sibling, or any other family member? You might be experiencing estrangement, alienation, or erasure. All of these terms speak to the trauma and dysfunction that so many families face. A family is a complex living and breathing system. Each member plays a role in the family dynamic. When families carry generational trauma and/or experience new trauma, challenges, or dysfunction, this can result in a break in the family system. These reaction strategies are habitual and very often interwoven into every aspect of how our family interacts. Hi! I´m Lawrence Joss and I’ve learned that I need to cultivate a spiritual, emotional, and physical relationship with myself in order to have healthy relationships with others and everything in my life. It is my mission to help you create and nurture that relationship with yourself first and provide you with tools that might help you heal and strengthen family relationships. This podcast is an opportunity to explore our healing journey together through the complexities of our families.Welcome to the FAMILY DISAPPEARED podcast.For more information, visit:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

  1. 4D AGO

    Equine Therapy, Polyvagal Theory & Healing Parental Alienation w/ Dr. Rebecca Bailey Part 1 - Episode 128

    Lawrence Joss continues his discussion with Matthew Brickman, a Supreme Court Certified Mediator in Florida. Together, they unpack the role of mediation in family conflict, including how mediators support the process and what to consider when choosing the right professional. Drawing from years of experience, Matthew highlights the value of ongoing learning, self-awareness, and growth in effective mediation. The conversation also explores the emotional realities clients face and the importance of empowerment and agency throughout the mediation journey. Key Takeaways Equine therapy helps individuals learn about their own nervous system.The presence of horses can facilitate emotional safety and connection.Children often project their feelings onto horses, aiding in therapy.Building trust with horses reflects the importance of boundaries in relationships.Humor can be a powerful tool in therapeutic settings.Equine therapy can help navigate high-conflict family dynamics.The process of co-regulation is essential for emotional healing.Horses model the ability to calm down after being startled.Therapy with horses allows access to emotions that traditional methods may not reach.The unpredictability of life is mirrored in the interactions with horses.Chapters 00:00 - Understanding Equine Therapy and Its Context  02:54 - The Role of the Nervous System in Therapy  05:50 - Equine Therapy: A Unique Approach to Healing  08:44 - The Connection Between Horses and Human Emotions  12:05 - Navigating Family Dynamics Through Equine Therapy  14:51 - Practical Applications of Equine Therapy  18:03 - The Impact of Trauma on Children and Families  20:48 - Building Trust and Boundaries with Horses  23:45 - The Unpredictability of Life and Therapy  26:52 - Conclusion: The Healing Power of Horses If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Connect with Dr. Rebecca Bailey: https://polyvagalequineinstitute.com Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    33 min

  2. JAN 5

    Re-Parenting, Legacy & Emotional Inheritance in Parental Alienation Part 2 - Episode 127

    This conversation explores the transformative power of travel and cultural experiences in shaping family dynamics and personal growth. The speakers discuss the impact of parental alienation, the evolution of fatherhood, and the importance of being present in children's lives. They share insights on cultural connections, ancestry, and the significance of community in nurturing relationships. The discussion also delves into the themes of failure, recovery, and the journey of writing a book that encapsulates their experiences. Key Takeaways Travel can provide children with a broader perspective on life.Cultural experiences can strengthen family bonds and connections.Fatherhood is evolving from transactional to transformational.Being present with children is more important than perfection.Understanding ancestry can deepen children's sense of identity.Community plays a crucial role in family dynamics.Personal growth often comes from embracing failure and learning from it.Intentional parenting can help break cycles of alienation.The power of pausing allows for reflection and growth.Sharing stories can inspire others and foster connection.Chapters 00:00 - Navigating Parental Alienation Through Global Experiences  03:32 - Transforming Perspectives on Fatherhood  11:49 - Cultural Connections and Ancestry  15:52 - The Power of Presence and Intentionality  20:51 - Embracing Failure and Recovery  25:20 - Reflections on Change and Community Support  27:11 - Navigating Parental Alienation Through Global Experiences  30:44 - Transforming Perspectives on Fatherhood  39:19 - Cultural Connections and Ancestry  46:01 - The Power of Pausing and Personal Growth  49:02 - Understanding Failure Immunity  52:32 - Hope and Intentional Parenting If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:    Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com  Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss  (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)    Please donate to support PAA programs:  https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    27 min

  3. 12/29/2025

    Re-Parenting, Legacy & Emotional Inheritance in Parental Alienation Part 1 - Episode 126

    Lawrence Joss engages in a deep conversation with Charles Achampong about the transformative experience of taking a family trip around the world. They explore themes of parenting, reparenting, emotional inheritance, and the impact of travel on family dynamics. Charles shares insights on legacy, the importance of cultural exposure, and the challenges of navigating family connections, especially in the context of parental alienation. The discussion highlights the lessons learned from their journey and the lasting effects on their children's development and understanding of the world. Key Takeaways Traveling can significantly influence children's perspectives and resilience.Legacy is about the experiences and memories we create with our children.Emotional inheritance includes the coping mechanisms and feelings passed down through families.Understanding one's ancestry can enrich a child's sense of identity.Traveling as a family can strengthen bonds and create lasting memories.Children can adapt and thrive in new environments, given the right support.The importance of allowing children to express their emotions and experiences.Cultural exposure can broaden children's understanding of the world.Planning and communication are key when making significant family decisions.Reintegration into daily life after travel can present challenges for families.Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting and Reparenting 02:43 The Impact of Travel on Family Dynamics 05:54 Understanding Legacy and Emotional Inheritance 09:57 Navigating Family Connections and Ancestry 13:57 The Challenges of Traveling with Children 17:56 Lessons Learned from a World Trip 21:06 The Importance of Cultural Exposure 23:40 The Decision to Take a Family Sabbatical 27:53 Reintegration into Daily Life 32:01 Reflections on Fatherhood and Parenting 35:47 Conclusion and Call to Action If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    37 min

  4. 12/22/2025

    Surviving the Holidays with Parental Alienation, Grief & Healing - Episode 125

    Lawrence Joss discusses the emotional complexities surrounding the holidays, particularly for those experiencing parental alienation and estrangement. He emphasizes the importance of acknowledging feelings of grief, loneliness, and frustration while also highlighting coping strategies such as having a plan, seeking community support, and reframing negative thoughts. Joss encourages listeners to create new traditions and find ways to connect with loved ones, even in their absence, while practicing self-care and compassion during this challenging time. Key Takeaways The holidays can amplify feelings of joy and pain.It's important to acknowledge the struggles of parental alienation.Having a plan for the holidays can help mitigate emotional distress.Resentment can be harmful; finding ways to address it is crucial.Creating new traditions can help in coping with loss.Community support is vital during the holidays.Self-care practices are essential for emotional well-being.Triggers are inevitable; being prepared can help manage them.Reframing negative thoughts can shift your perspective.It's important to remember that the holiday season is temporary.Chapters 0:00 - Welcome And Holiday Theme  1:44 - Memories and Mixed Gratitude  2:44 - How Holidays Amplify Joy and Pain  4:35 - Stages of Alienation and Planning Ahead  7:05 - Service and Hope as an Antiseptic  8:36 - Naming Invisible Loss and Emotions  10:18 - Forgiveness Work and Releasing Resentments  12:05 - Anticipating Triggers and Setting Boundaries  15:10 - Communicating Needs and Seeking Consent  18:08 - Self-Care Planning and Safe People  20:10 - Creating New Rituals and Continuing to Live  22:28 - Reframing Painful Holiday Stories  24:20 - Shame, Self-Forgiveness, and Repair  26:04 - Commemorating Loved Ones From Afar  28:12 - Closing Wishes and Community Reflection If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    31 min

  5. 12/15/2025

    False Allegations & High-Conflict Mediation w/ Matthew Brickman Part 2 - Ep124

    Lawrence Joss continues his conversation with Matthew Brickman, a Supreme Court Certified Mediator in Florida. They delve into the intricacies of mediation, discussing its purpose, the role of mediators, and how to select the right one. Matthew shares insights from his extensive experience, emphasizing the importance of continuous learning and personal growth in the field of mediation. The conversation also touches on the emotional aspects of conflict resolution and the significance of empowering individuals during the mediation process. Key Takeaways Mediation provides a structured environment for conflict resolution.The transition from emotional to business-like relationships is crucial in mediation.Understanding the four Ds of conflict: dismissed, disrespected, disvalued, disenfranchised.Mediation is often mandatory before court proceedings in many states.Choosing the right mediator involves research and personal fit.Continuous education and experience are vital for effective mediation.Mediators should empower clients to navigate their conflicts.High conflict situations often require separate rooms during mediation.Mediation can save time and money compared to court proceedings.Personal growth and emotional intelligence are essential in conflict resolution.Chapters 0:39 - Introducing Matthew Brickman 1:49 - Community and Resources for Parents 2:02 - Owning Mistakes and Elevating Kids 4:24 - What Mediation Is and Isn’t 6:27 - From Romance to Business: Kid Inc 8:50 - The Four D’s of Conflict 10:49 - States, Statutes, and Mandatory Mediation 13:43 - Why Courts Push Mediation 16:05 - With or Without Attorneys 20:03 - Neutrality, Bias, and Trust 22:08 - How to Choose a Mediator 31:16 - Continuous Learning and Fit If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Connect with Matthew Brickman: https://ichatmediation.com/⁩ Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    40 min

  6. 12/08/2025

    False Allegations & High-Conflict Mediation w/ Matthew Brickman Part 1 - EP123

    Lawrence and Matthew delves into the complexities of family dynamics, particularly focusing on the impact of parental relationships on children. It highlights a troubling incident where a mother instructs her child to make false accusations against the father, leading to legal repercussions and involvement from child services. The discussion emphasizes the emotional and psychological toll such situations can have on families. Key Takeaways The influence of parental relationships on children's behavior.False accusations can lead to serious legal consequences.The role of child services in family disputes.The emotional impact of family dynamics on children.Communication breakdowns can escalate conflicts between parents.Support systems are crucial in navigating family issues.Understanding the legal framework surrounding child custody disputes.The importance of maintaining a stable environment for children.The psychological effects of parental conflict on children.The need for open dialogue in co-parenting situations.Chapters 0:00 – Opening: The Healing Journey & Welcome  2:02 – Why Picking The Right Mediator Matters  3:10 – Matthew’s Background In Family Mediation  4:26 – When Amicable Turns Into A Bloodbath  7:06 – False Allegations And DCF At The Door  10:50 – Covert Alienation In Our Body Language  12:42 – First-Time Crisis: What To Do  16:30 – From Shock To Service: Becoming A GAL  20:00 – Therapy As A Safe Conversation Space  23:15 – Kids Surviving By Saying What You Want  26:00 – Shift Focus: Build Children, Not Cases  30:00 – Adult Children, Lingering Impacts & New Norms  37:00 – Winning Peace By Letting Go  40:00 – Mediating Between Ex And Son  43:05 – Reflection, Resources, And Closing If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Connect with Matthew Brickman: Website: https://ichatmediation.com/⁩ Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    53 min

  7. 12/01/2025

    Systemic Parental Alienation, Family Hierarchy & Survival w/ Dr. Azzopardi Part 2 - Episode 122

    The conversation delves into the complexities of relationship problems faced by couples, emphasizing the common issues stemming from parenting and intimacy. It highlights the tendency of couples to seek external advice rather than resolving conflicts directly, and critiques the reliance on legal solutions for emotional and relational problems, advocating for a more psychological approach. Key Takeaways Couples often face problems related to parenting or intimacy.Many couples avoid negotiating their issues directly.External influences complicate conflict resolution.Legal solutions are often misapplied to emotional problems.Emotional and relational issues require psychological approaches.Communication is key in resolving marital conflicts.Seeking help from friends or family can lead to confusion.Understanding the root cause of problems is essential.Negotiation skills are crucial for couples.Legal tools do not address emotional needs.Chapter 1:20 - Systems theory meets family courts  2:44 - Family patterns and learned levers  4:16 - Attachment shifts during pregnancy  5:23 - Limits to self-reflection and change  6:59 - Expanding system: courts and professionals  7:52 - How politics shape couple conflict  11:04 - GDP, school pressure, and home stress  13:07 - Navigating legal systems in divorce  15:04 - Reciprocity and influence in relationships  17:05 - No legal fix for emotional needs  19:10 - Prevention through systemic therapy  21:07 - Challenging constructs and parenting norms  23:05 - Journal and master’s on alienation  25:07 - Closing reflections and resources If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Connect with Dr Charlie Azzopardi: Website: https://ift-malta.com/⁩ Courses (IFT Malta): https://ift-malta.com/courses-2/ European Journal of Parental Alienation (EJPAP): https://ift-malta.com/elementor-1206/ Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    32 min

  8. 11/24/2025

    Systemic Parental Alienation, Family Hierarchy & Survival w/ Dr. Azzopardi Part 1 - Episode 121

    Lawrence Joss explores the deeper systemic roots of parental alienation, revealing how alienation unfolds gradually through subtle family dynamics rather than appearing overnight. He and Dr. Charlie unpack how cultural norms, family structures, and early relational patterns shape the roles parents step into, and how those roles can quietly shift power, boundaries, and attachment inside the family system. Key Takeaways Parental alienation is a gradual process.Negative talk about a parent is common in relationships.Cultural norms influence parenting roles significantly.In some cultures, mothers are primarily caregivers.Fathers often take on structural roles in parenting.Understanding alienation requires a cultural lens.Parental roles can vary widely across different societies.The dynamics of family relationships are complex.Emotional care is often seen as a mother's role.Structural care is typically associated with fathers.Chapters 0:00 – Safety, Survival & Early Alienation Patterns  2:05 – What the Systemic Lens Reveals  5:40 – When Problems Become Relational  9:20 – Cultural & Structural Pressures on Families  11:55 – Alienation as a Gradual Process  14:40 – Boundary Breakdowns & Role Confusion  17:55 – Power Shifts: Children Elevated to Partner Role  21:25 – Why Kids Choose the Unpredictable Parent  25:40 – Subtle Behaviors That Shift Family Hierarchy  28:30 – Parentification & Emotional Oversharing  31:55 – Long-Term Effects on Attachment & Identity  35:50 – Attraction Patterns & the Drama Triangle If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Connect with Dr Charlie Azzopardi: Website: https://ift-malta.com/⁩ Courses (IFT Malta): https://ift-malta.com/courses-2/ European Journal of Parental Alienation (EJPAP): https://ift-malta.com/elementor-1206/ Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    37 min
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Have you lost contact with your child? What about your parent, or grandparent, sibling, or any other family member? You might be experiencing estrangement, alienation, or erasure. All of these terms speak to the trauma and dysfunction that so many families face. A family is a complex living and breathing system. Each member plays a role in the family dynamic. When families carry generational trauma and/or experience new trauma, challenges, or dysfunction, this can result in a break in the family system. These reaction strategies are habitual and very often interwoven into every aspect of how our family interacts. Hi! I´m Lawrence Joss and I’ve learned that I need to cultivate a spiritual, emotional, and physical relationship with myself in order to have healthy relationships with others and everything in my life. It is my mission to help you create and nurture that relationship with yourself first and provide you with tools that might help you heal and strengthen family relationships. This podcast is an opportunity to explore our healing journey together through the complexities of our families.Welcome to the FAMILY DISAPPEARED podcast.For more information, visit:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

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  • Creator
    Lawrence Joss
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    130
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Family Disappeared
  • Show Website
    Family Disappeared

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