Family Disappeared

Lawrence Joss
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Have you lost contact with your child? What about your parent, or grandparent, sibling, or any other family member? You might be experiencing estrangement, alienation, or erasure. All of these terms speak to the trauma and dysfunction that so many families face. A family is a complex living and breathing system. Each member plays a role in the family dynamic. When families carry generational trauma and/or experience new trauma, challenges, or dysfunction, this can result in a break in the family system. These reaction strategies are habitual and very often interwoven into every aspect of how our family interacts. Hi! I´m Lawrence Joss and I’ve learned that I need to cultivate a spiritual, emotional, and physical relationship with myself in order to have healthy relationships with others and everything in my life. It is my mission to help you create and nurture that relationship with yourself first and provide you with tools that might help you heal and strengthen family relationships. This podcast is an opportunity to explore our healing journey together through the complexities of our families.Welcome to the FAMILY DISAPPEARED podcast.For more information, visit:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

  1. 4D AGO

    26 Years of Parental Alienation: Anger, Hope & Learning - Episode 131

    In this insightful conversation, Lisa Cohen shares her 26-year journey through parental alienation, detailing the emotional turmoil, the challenges of navigating the court system, and the importance of community support. She reflects on her evolution from anger to acceptance, the role of service in her healing process, and the lessons learned along the way. Lisa emphasizes the need for self-care, resilience, and the hope that one day her children will find their way back to her. This discussion serves as a beacon of hope for those facing similar struggles, highlighting the importance of living a full life while navigating the complexities of family dynamics. Key Takeaways Parental alienation can lead to deep emotional pain and anger.Community support is crucial for healing and resilience.Navigating the court system can be a long and arduous process.Self-care and living a fulfilling life are essential for parents in crisis.Hope exists, but it must be tempered with realism.Service to others can be a powerful tool for personal healing.It's important to embrace life and find joy amidst struggles.Children may not recognize their own challenges due to alienation.The journey of healing is ongoing and requires patience.Every parent's experience with alienation is unique, but shared struggles can foster connection.Chapters 00:00 - Navigating Parental Alienation: A Mother's Journey  02:43 - The Evolution of Pain: From Anger to Acceptance  05:58 - Finding Community: The Power of Support Groups  08:41 - The Long Road: Understanding the Court System  11:57 - Living with Hope: The Reality of Alienation 14:45 - Embracing Life: Finding Joy Amidst Struggles  17:46 - The Role of Service: Helping Others Heal  20:46 - Lessons Learned: Advice for Parents in Crisis  23:42 - The Importance of Self-Care: Living Fully  26:48 - Legacy and Hope: A Mother's Unwavering Love If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Connect with Lisa Cohen: https://www.jump-parenting.org.uk Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    39 min

  2. JAN 26

    5 Reasons Parental Alienation Happens and How Healing Is Still Possible - Episode 130

    Lawrence Joss delves into the complex issue of parental alienation and estrangement, emphasizing that these challenges are not merely family issues but systemic problems that require a broader understanding and intervention. He introduces five key reasons that contribute to these dynamics, drawing insights from therapist Kathy Himlin, who has extensive experience working with families affected by these issues. The conversation highlights the emotional turmoil children face when feeling rejected by a parent, the detrimental effects of prolonged separation, and the role of the legal system in exacerbating these problems. Joss and Himlin discuss actionable steps for parents to repair relationships and the importance of attachment-focused parenting in fostering reconnection. Key Takeaways Parental alienation is a systemic issue, not just a family problem.Children often feel rejected when they reject a parent, indicating an attachment rupture.Time without contact deepens trauma and reinforces feelings of rejection.The legal system can worsen family dynamics by prioritizing litigation over healing.Attachment-focused parenting can help reopen doors to connection.Chapters 00:00 – Parental Alienation Is More Than a Family Problem  01:06 – Who This Episode Is For & Why Awareness Matters  01:55 – Children Reject When They Feel Rejected  03:33 – Understanding Attachment Ruptures in Development  05:04 – Why Time Without Contact Deepens Trauma  07:01 – Foster Care vs. Family Court: A Critical Gap  08:45 – How the Legal System Can Worsen Alienation  09:29 – When Litigation Replaces Healing  10:20 – Attachment-Focused Parenting That Reopens Doors  13:39 – Healing Is Still Possible, Even After Years If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Connect with Dr. Rebecca Bailey: https://polyvagalequineinstitute.com Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    20 min

  3. JAN 19

    Equine Therapy, Polyvagal Theory & Healing Parental Alienation w/ Dr. Rebecca Bailey Part 2 - Episode 129

    In Part 2 of this conversation, Lawrence Joss continues his dialogue with psychologist and Polyvagal Equine Institute founder Dr. Rebecca Bailey, exploring how equine therapy and everyday interactions with animals support nervous system regulation and healing in the context of parental alienation and family trauma. Drawing from decades of clinical work, Dr. Bailey shares powerful stories that show how horses mirror emotional states, challenge rigid narratives, and create moments of connection, humor, and perspective. Together, they highlight why healing doesn’t always come through talking, how safety and consent shape meaningful therapeutic work, and how parents can continue parenting, even without access, by focusing on regulation, connection, and inner stability. Key Takeaways Equine therapy offers unique access points for emotional healing.Personal relationships with animals can enhance emotional regulation.Co-regulation is essential for emotional well-being and therapy.Horses can help individuals process trauma without delving into past experiences.Therapists must prioritize informed consent and safety in equine therapy.The evolution of equine therapy practices reflects changing societal needs.Reality clarification can help families understand their dynamics better.Co-regulation can occur between humans and horses, fostering emotional connection.Future equine therapy practices should focus on high standards and training.Therapists should empower clients to be experts in their own emotional regulation.Chapters 00:00 - Introduction to Equine Therapy and Emotional Regulation 02:48 - Personal Experiences with Animals and Emotional Connection 05:47 - The Role of Horses in Therapy and Co-Regulation 08:58 - Understanding Trauma and the Therapeutic Process 11:53 - The Evolution of Equine Therapy Practices 14:53 - Co-Regulation and Its Importance in Therapy 17:47 - Anecdotes and Insights from Equine Therapy Sessions 20:52 - Future of Equine Therapy and Coaching 24:03 - Concluding Thoughts on Emotional Healing and Connection If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Connect with Dr. Rebecca Bailey: https://polyvagalequineinstitute.com Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    30 min

  4. JAN 12

    Equine Therapy, Polyvagal Theory & Healing Parental Alienation w/ Dr. Rebecca Bailey Part 1 - Episode 128

    This conversation explores the profound impact of equine therapy on emotional healing, particularly in the context of family dynamics and parental alienation. The discussion highlights how working with horses can help individuals understand their nervous systems, build trust, and navigate complex emotions. Through engaging stories and insights, the speakers illustrate the unique therapeutic process that equine therapy offers, emphasizing the importance of co-regulation, humor, and the unpredictability of life in the healing journey. Key Takeaways Equine therapy helps individuals learn about their own nervous system.The presence of horses can facilitate emotional safety and connection.Children often project their feelings onto horses, aiding in therapy.Building trust with horses reflects the importance of boundaries in relationships.Humor can be a powerful tool in therapeutic settings.Equine therapy can help navigate high-conflict family dynamics.The process of co-regulation is essential for emotional healing.Horses model the ability to calm down after being startled.Therapy with horses allows access to emotions that traditional methods may not reach.The unpredictability of life is mirrored in the interactions with horses.Chapters 00:00 - Understanding Equine Therapy and Its Context  02:54 - The Role of the Nervous System in Therapy  05:50 - Equine Therapy: A Unique Approach to Healing  08:44 - The Connection Between Horses and Human Emotions  12:05 - Navigating Family Dynamics Through Equine Therapy  14:51 - Practical Applications of Equine Therapy  18:03 - The Impact of Trauma on Children and Families  20:48 - Building Trust and Boundaries with Horses  23:45 - The Unpredictability of Life and Therapy  26:52 - Conclusion: The Healing Power of Horses If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Connect with Dr. Rebecca Bailey: https://polyvagalequineinstitute.com Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    33 min

  5. JAN 5

    Re-Parenting, Legacy & Emotional Inheritance in Parental Alienation Part 2 - Episode 127

    This conversation explores the transformative power of travel and cultural experiences in shaping family dynamics and personal growth. The speakers discuss the impact of parental alienation, the evolution of fatherhood, and the importance of being present in children's lives. They share insights on cultural connections, ancestry, and the significance of community in nurturing relationships. The discussion also delves into the themes of failure, recovery, and the journey of writing a book that encapsulates their experiences. Key Takeaways Travel can provide children with a broader perspective on life.Cultural experiences can strengthen family bonds and connections.Fatherhood is evolving from transactional to transformational.Being present with children is more important than perfection.Understanding ancestry can deepen children's sense of identity.Community plays a crucial role in family dynamics.Personal growth often comes from embracing failure and learning from it.Intentional parenting can help break cycles of alienation.The power of pausing allows for reflection and growth.Sharing stories can inspire others and foster connection.Chapters 00:00 - Navigating Parental Alienation Through Global Experiences  03:32 - Transforming Perspectives on Fatherhood  11:49 - Cultural Connections and Ancestry  15:52 - The Power of Presence and Intentionality  20:51 - Embracing Failure and Recovery  25:20 - Reflections on Change and Community Support  27:11 - Navigating Parental Alienation Through Global Experiences  30:44 - Transforming Perspectives on Fatherhood  39:19 - Cultural Connections and Ancestry  46:01 - The Power of Pausing and Personal Growth  49:02 - Understanding Failure Immunity  52:32 - Hope and Intentional Parenting If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:    Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com  Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss  (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)    Please donate to support PAA programs:  https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    27 min

  6. 12/29/2025

    Re-Parenting, Legacy & Emotional Inheritance in Parental Alienation Part 1 - Episode 126

    Lawrence Joss engages in a deep conversation with Charles Achampong about the transformative experience of taking a family trip around the world. They explore themes of parenting, reparenting, emotional inheritance, and the impact of travel on family dynamics. Charles shares insights on legacy, the importance of cultural exposure, and the challenges of navigating family connections, especially in the context of parental alienation. The discussion highlights the lessons learned from their journey and the lasting effects on their children's development and understanding of the world. Key Takeaways Traveling can significantly influence children's perspectives and resilience.Legacy is about the experiences and memories we create with our children.Emotional inheritance includes the coping mechanisms and feelings passed down through families.Understanding one's ancestry can enrich a child's sense of identity.Traveling as a family can strengthen bonds and create lasting memories.Children can adapt and thrive in new environments, given the right support.The importance of allowing children to express their emotions and experiences.Cultural exposure can broaden children's understanding of the world.Planning and communication are key when making significant family decisions.Reintegration into daily life after travel can present challenges for families.Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting and Reparenting 02:43 The Impact of Travel on Family Dynamics 05:54 Understanding Legacy and Emotional Inheritance 09:57 Navigating Family Connections and Ancestry 13:57 The Challenges of Traveling with Children 17:56 Lessons Learned from a World Trip 21:06 The Importance of Cultural Exposure 23:40 The Decision to Take a Family Sabbatical 27:53 Reintegration into Daily Life 32:01 Reflections on Fatherhood and Parenting 35:47 Conclusion and Call to Action If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    37 min

  7. 12/22/2025

    Surviving the Holidays with Parental Alienation, Grief & Healing - Episode 125

    Lawrence Joss discusses the emotional complexities surrounding the holidays, particularly for those experiencing parental alienation and estrangement. He emphasizes the importance of acknowledging feelings of grief, loneliness, and frustration while also highlighting coping strategies such as having a plan, seeking community support, and reframing negative thoughts. Joss encourages listeners to create new traditions and find ways to connect with loved ones, even in their absence, while practicing self-care and compassion during this challenging time. Key Takeaways The holidays can amplify feelings of joy and pain.It's important to acknowledge the struggles of parental alienation.Having a plan for the holidays can help mitigate emotional distress.Resentment can be harmful; finding ways to address it is crucial.Creating new traditions can help in coping with loss.Community support is vital during the holidays.Self-care practices are essential for emotional well-being.Triggers are inevitable; being prepared can help manage them.Reframing negative thoughts can shift your perspective.It's important to remember that the holiday season is temporary.Chapters 0:00 - Welcome And Holiday Theme  1:44 - Memories and Mixed Gratitude  2:44 - How Holidays Amplify Joy and Pain  4:35 - Stages of Alienation and Planning Ahead  7:05 - Service and Hope as an Antiseptic  8:36 - Naming Invisible Loss and Emotions  10:18 - Forgiveness Work and Releasing Resentments  12:05 - Anticipating Triggers and Setting Boundaries  15:10 - Communicating Needs and Seeking Consent  18:08 - Self-Care Planning and Safe People  20:10 - Creating New Rituals and Continuing to Live  22:28 - Reframing Painful Holiday Stories  24:20 - Shame, Self-Forgiveness, and Repair  26:04 - Commemorating Loved Ones From Afar  28:12 - Closing Wishes and Community Reflection If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    31 min

  8. 12/15/2025

    False Allegations & High-Conflict Mediation w/ Matthew Brickman Part 2 - Ep124

    Lawrence Joss continues his conversation with Matthew Brickman, a Supreme Court Certified Mediator in Florida. They delve into the intricacies of mediation, discussing its purpose, the role of mediators, and how to select the right one. Matthew shares insights from his extensive experience, emphasizing the importance of continuous learning and personal growth in the field of mediation. The conversation also touches on the emotional aspects of conflict resolution and the significance of empowering individuals during the mediation process. Key Takeaways Mediation provides a structured environment for conflict resolution.The transition from emotional to business-like relationships is crucial in mediation.Understanding the four Ds of conflict: dismissed, disrespected, disvalued, disenfranchised.Mediation is often mandatory before court proceedings in many states.Choosing the right mediator involves research and personal fit.Continuous education and experience are vital for effective mediation.Mediators should empower clients to navigate their conflicts.High conflict situations often require separate rooms during mediation.Mediation can save time and money compared to court proceedings.Personal growth and emotional intelligence are essential in conflict resolution.Chapters 0:39 - Introducing Matthew Brickman 1:49 - Community and Resources for Parents 2:02 - Owning Mistakes and Elevating Kids 4:24 - What Mediation Is and Isn’t 6:27 - From Romance to Business: Kid Inc 8:50 - The Four D’s of Conflict 10:49 - States, Statutes, and Mandatory Mediation 13:43 - Why Courts Push Mediation 16:05 - With or Without Attorneys 20:03 - Neutrality, Bias, and Trust 22:08 - How to Choose a Mediator 31:16 - Continuous Learning and Fit If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Connect with Matthew Brickman: https://ichatmediation.com/⁩ Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    40 min
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Have you lost contact with your child? What about your parent, or grandparent, sibling, or any other family member? You might be experiencing estrangement, alienation, or erasure. All of these terms speak to the trauma and dysfunction that so many families face. A family is a complex living and breathing system. Each member plays a role in the family dynamic. When families carry generational trauma and/or experience new trauma, challenges, or dysfunction, this can result in a break in the family system. These reaction strategies are habitual and very often interwoven into every aspect of how our family interacts. Hi! I´m Lawrence Joss and I’ve learned that I need to cultivate a spiritual, emotional, and physical relationship with myself in order to have healthy relationships with others and everything in my life. It is my mission to help you create and nurture that relationship with yourself first and provide you with tools that might help you heal and strengthen family relationships. This podcast is an opportunity to explore our healing journey together through the complexities of our families.Welcome to the FAMILY DISAPPEARED podcast.For more information, visit:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

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  • Creator
    Lawrence Joss
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    133
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Family Disappeared
  • Show Website
    Family Disappeared

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