Sh!t I told my Hairdresser : Comedy Podcast About Hair, Celebrity chaos & the wild life inside salons

Jason Townsend and Jack Abernethy Beverly Hills celebrity hairdressers spilling the tea

A Hilarious Behind-the-Scenes Hairdresser Podcast Step into the wild world of hairstylists with Shit I Told My Hairdresser, the comedy podcast that spills the tea on outrageous behind-the-scenes stories from the salon chair to Hollywood sets. Hosted by Jason and Jack, two veteran Beverly Hills hairstylists with over 30 years of experience, we share everything the beauty industry doesn’t want you to know. From working behind the chair to styling hair for TV shows, movies, press junkets, commercials, photo shoots, and celebrity events, we’ve seen it all — and we’re telling the stories clients and hairdressers usually keep secret. Expect hilarious salon confessions, jaw-dropping celebrity encounters, cringe-worthy hair disasters, and outrageous moments from the entertainment industry. Born during the chaos of Covid, this podcast is your perfect escape from negativity with raw, unfiltered laughter and unbelievable hair industry stories. If you love comedy podcasts, hairstylist stories, celebrity drama, or just need a break from the real world — we’ve got you covered. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. The Dark Side of High-End Salons: Drugs, Alcohol, Secrets & Stuttering

    JAN 25

    The Dark Side of High-End Salons: Drugs, Alcohol, Secrets & Stuttering

    Anya joins Jack and Jason for a no-filter episode of Shit I Told My Hairdresser that hits everything from fake hair products and shady beauty education to the real reality of working behind the chair with a speech impediment. They talk stuttering in the salon, how clients and strangers react, and why confidence matters more than “perfect” speech—especially in an industry obsessed with image. Then it gets wild: Anya breaks down the high-end Williamsburg Brooklyn salon scene—cash-only days, motorcycles in the salon, nonstop partying, strip club nights, and the toxic “rockstar stylist” lifestyle people glamorize but don’t understand. They also get into drug and alcohol culture in salons, including what really happens in “cool” luxury spaces, hair shows, and education programs that pay trash and sell lies. And if you think that’s the peak… wait until Costa Rica: mud wrestling, heavy partying, a fight with locals, guns, and a Corona bottle to the face that left Anya stitched up—plus the dark truth about how these stories happened before everyone had a camera in their pocket. This one’s for every stylist who’s ever felt judged, underestimated, or told they “can’t” do it. hairdresser podcast, stuttering, speech impediment, salon culture, fake hair products, beauty industry, hair education, toxic salon, Williamsburg Brooklyn salon, drugs in salons, hair show stories, celebrity stylist, hairstylist life. Give a follow on instagram https://www.instagram.com/shititoldmyhairdresser/ If you would like to be on the show or share a story with visit our website and leave us a voicemail or email https://shititoldmyhairdresser.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    43 min
  2. Fire the Client : Blowouts to Blacklists and setting boundaries for toxic clients with Alejandro

    JAN 18

    Fire the Client : Blowouts to Blacklists and setting boundaries for toxic clients with Alejandro

    What happens when clients cross the line—and expect you to stay quiet because they’re “paying”? In this episode, we break down the real reasons hairstylists fire clients and why bad behavior in the salon is no longer tolerated. From clients blasting phone calls on speaker, to entitlement, false accusations, boundary violations, and emotional manipulation, this conversation exposes the ugliest side of salon culture that no one prepares stylists for. Our guest shares firsthand stories from behind the chair—being overstimulated by loud clients, dealing with disrespect during consultations, navigating false claims, and finally choosing self-respect over steady money. We talk about why “loyal” clients aren’t always good clients, how toxic behavior drains your energy and business, and what actually happens when stylists stop people-pleasing. This episode is a must-listen for hairstylists, salon owners, and beauty professionals who are burned out, underpaid, and tired of being treated like servants instead of skilled professionals. If you’ve ever asked yourself “Is this client worth it?”—this episode gives you the answer. hairstylist podcast, bad clients, firing clients, toxic salon clients, salon boundaries, hairstylist burnout, beauty industry stories, salon etiquette, behind the chair Give a follow on instagram https://www.instagram.com/shititoldmyhairdresser/ If you would like to be on the show or share a story with visit our website and leave us a voicemail or email https://shititoldmyhairdresser.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    53 min
  3. Honduran Hairdresser Elizabeth Townsend AKA Jason's Mom!

    JAN 11

    Honduran Hairdresser Elizabeth Townsend AKA Jason's Mom!

    Jason sits down with his mother, Elizabeth Townsend—a Honduran immigrant and veteran hairdresser with 47 years behind the chair—to share the real, unfiltered truth about building a long-term career in the beauty industry. Elizabeth recounts immigrating from Honduras to California as a teenager, starting her hairdressing career in the late 1960s, and building a loyal clientele without social media, influencers, or modern marketing. She shares how consistent work ethic, saving money, and smart decisions allowed her to turn hairdressing into long-term financial stability and real estate wealth. The conversation also exposes the hidden health risks of hairdressing, including long-term exposure to hair color chemicals and the link to cancer—an issue rarely discussed openly in the salon industry. Elizabeth shares her personal experience battling cancer multiple times and why today’s stylists need to take chemical safety seriously. From old-school salon culture and unforgettable client stories to lessons on resilience, money, and longevity, this episode is a must-listen for hairdressers, beauty professionals, immigrants, and anyone building a career from the ground up. Give a follow on instagram https://www.instagram.com/shititoldmyhairdresser/ If you would like to be on the show or share a story with visit our website and leave us a voicemail or email https://shititoldmyhairdresser.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    47 min
  4. The Beauty School Myth - Why "Salon Ready" is a LIE!

    JAN 4

    The Beauty School Myth - Why "Salon Ready" is a LIE!

    Beauty school didn’t fail you by accident — it failed you by design. In this episode of Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser, we break down the biggest lie sold to aspiring hairstylists: the promise that you’ll graduate “salon ready” and make six figures right out of school. Spoiler alert: you won’t. This honest, no-fluff conversation pulls back the curtain on what beauty school actually prepares you for (passing state board) — and what it completely ignores (real-world salon life, income reality, client management, and career longevity). We talk about: • Why most new stylists start as assistants making far less than expected • How beauty schools oversell income potential to boost enrollment • Why real education starts after graduation • The emotional and financial shock new stylists aren’t warned about • Why mentorship matters more than talent • The gap between Instagram fantasy and salon reality • What actually builds a sustainable, profitable hair career This episode isn’t anti-education — it’s pro-truth. If you’re a beauty student, new stylist, salon owner, or educator, this episode will either validate what you already know… or explain why the industry felt so hard so fast. No motivation posters. No fake numbers. Just the truth about how hairstylist careers are really built. beauty school myth hairstylist career advice salon ready lie beauty school reality hairdresser salary truth new hairstylist struggles salon assistant life beauty industry education Give a follow on instagram https://www.instagram.com/shititoldmyhairdresser/ If you would like to be on the show or share a story with visit our website and leave us a voicemail or email https://shititoldmyhairdresser.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    29 min
  5. Trauma Dumping: Why Hairdressers Are Everyone’s Unpaid Therapist

    12/28/2025

    Trauma Dumping: Why Hairdressers Are Everyone’s Unpaid Therapist

    Hairdressers aren’t just cutting hair anymore — we’re absorbing everyone else’s trauma, one appointment at a time. In this episode of Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser, Jason and Jack sit down with licensed therapist and salon consultant Tom Hintelmann, LCSW, to talk about the emotional side of salon life no one prepares you for: trauma dumping. From clients unloading divorces, addiction, family chaos, and life disasters… to stylists burning out because they don’t know how to set boundaries… this episode breaks down why salons have quietly become the front line of mental health — without the training or support. Tom Hintelmann brings real clinical insight to the conversation, drawing from his work with: – hairstylists – salon owners – teams dealing with toxic culture, jealousy, and burnout – individuals navigating stress, anxiety, and emotional overload We cover: • Why hairdressers are treated like “first-line therapists” • How trauma dumping leads to emotional exhaustion and quitting the industry • The difference between listening, empathizing, and over-involving yourself • How to shut down trauma dumping without being rude • Why baby stylists are hit the hardest • How toxic salon culture starts — and how leadership can fix it • When it’s time to refer a client to real mental-health care • Why self-care isn’t selfish (and burnout is real) Plus, the episode goes fully off the rails with: – wild salon stories – mean-girl culture – ego, jealousy, money fights – and a jaw-dropping New York barbershop story that absolutely did not end how you expect If you’re a hairstylist, salon owner, beauty professional, or anyone who’s ever left work feeling emotionally wrecked — this episode will make you feel seen, validated, and maybe laugh a little through the chaos.👤 Guest Expertise Tom Hintelmann Licensed Therapist | Salon & Team-Dynamics Consultant Psychology Today Profile: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/tom-hintelmann-tinton-falls-nj/1211790 Instagram: @performnce_mental_health Working with salons nationwide to improve leadership, communication, culture, and emotional sustainability. 💇‍♀️ Salon Shoutout📸 Instagram: @jazzmeupsalon hairdresser mental health trauma dumping salon salon burnout hairstylist stress beauty industry burnout hairdresser podcast salon culture problems stylist emotional exhaustion mental health for hairstylists Give a follow on instagram https://www.instagram.com/shititoldmyhairdresser/ If you would like to be on the show or share a story with visit our website and leave us a voicemail or email https://shititoldmyhairdresser.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    43 min
4.8
out of 5
20 Ratings

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A Hilarious Behind-the-Scenes Hairdresser Podcast Step into the wild world of hairstylists with Shit I Told My Hairdresser, the comedy podcast that spills the tea on outrageous behind-the-scenes stories from the salon chair to Hollywood sets. Hosted by Jason and Jack, two veteran Beverly Hills hairstylists with over 30 years of experience, we share everything the beauty industry doesn’t want you to know. From working behind the chair to styling hair for TV shows, movies, press junkets, commercials, photo shoots, and celebrity events, we’ve seen it all — and we’re telling the stories clients and hairdressers usually keep secret. Expect hilarious salon confessions, jaw-dropping celebrity encounters, cringe-worthy hair disasters, and outrageous moments from the entertainment industry. Born during the chaos of Covid, this podcast is your perfect escape from negativity with raw, unfiltered laughter and unbelievable hair industry stories. If you love comedy podcasts, hairstylist stories, celebrity drama, or just need a break from the real world — we’ve got you covered. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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