In This Patreon Only Episode Part 2: I talk to my friend Melissa Stephens about our journeys to an AuDHD diagnosis, being literal, being too trusting and needing to stay safe, neurodivergent humor, OCD, panic attacks, and phobias. 🎉 Support me in hititng my end of year Patreon goal of 400 paid subscribers! Only $7.99 a month or take advantage of my Special October sale 31% off of an annual membership! Click here to join us! Show Notes Mel's comedy special "Sparkles" On You Tube Mel's Instagram Channel Want to get a weekly wrap-up of the "You Are A Lot" ADHD/AUDHD Podcast with special offers and tips? Click to sign up for the weekly newsletter. Join Jen's New Co-Work Community online! I started something called ☕️The Co-Work Community.It's an online co-working (aka body doubling) space & community for neurodivergent humans! 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