And Now Love Podcast

Cynthia Marks
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Yearning for love that goes beyond fleeting emotions? Longing to unlock your true potential and build fulfilling relationships? Join Cynthia Marks on a transformative journey guided by the groundbreaking teachings of her late husband, Dr. Bernard Bail. Dr. Bail believed love was not just a feeling, but a cornerstone of human existence, woven into the very fabric of our dreams. Each episode delves into his ”Love, Dreams, Imprint” paradigm, offering a roadmap to navigate the emotional landscape and rewrite the limiting narratives ingrained within us. Dive into the mystical realm of dreams and decipher their hidden messages. Uncover the unconscious patterns, or ”imprints,” shaping your reality, and learn to break free from their hold. Renowned experts join Cynthia, illuminating love’s multifaceted nature, from self-love to romantic and familial bonds. Discover Dr. Bail’s practical tools for healing past wounds, cultivating joy, and forging connections that transcend distance and time. Together, we embark on a mission to rewrite the script of love, transforming it from a fleeting feeling into a potent force for personal and collective transformation. ”And Now, Love” is your sanctuary for exploration, your laboratory for growth. Find your haven, join the conversation, and embark on a journey with immeasurable rewards. Listen now and discover the love that has the power to rewrite your story.

  1. 5D AGO · VIDEO

    Love, Trust, and Transformation: A Day at the Downtown Women's Center with Guest Amy Turk

    What If Homelessness Isn’t a Choice—But a Trauma We Refuse to See? What if the most dangerous myth about homelessness is that people choose it—or deserve it? In this powerful episode of the And Now Love podcast, Cynthia Marks (Holistic Psychoanalysis Foundation) speaks with Amy Turk, CEO of the Downtown Women’s Center, about women’s homelessness on Skid Row and how trauma-informed care, trust, and dignity create real change.  Amy shares how the Downtown Women’s Center began in 1978 after its founder met Rosa, a woman left without support after mental health institutions were defunded, and how the organization grew from a day center into housing, health services, employment pathways, and advocacy. They discuss why women’s homelessness is rising (about 30% of the unhoused population; ~22,000 women in LA on any given night), the role of gender-based violence and chronic trauma, and why “real change happens at the pace of trust.”  The conversation covers outreach strategies tailored to women’s safety, supportive housing that includes long-term clinical and medical support (with a 98% housing-retention rate), the social enterprise “Made by DWC,” and policy solutions like rent subsidies, prevention funding, and investing in affordable/public housing.  Amy also explains funding challenges (about 60% government-funded and increasingly precarious), why cuts may increase homelessness, and how listeners can help through volunteering, donating from the DWC wishlist, and calling elected officials to support housing.  Visit: downtownwomenscenter.org   Host: Cynthia Marks, creator/host of And Now Love. Featured Guests: Amy Turk, Chief Executive Officer at Downtown Women's Center   Core ideas: biomarkers, epigenetics, pregnancy and trauma research Episode length: 50:08   Follow our socials: Instagram / / andnowlove.podcast Facebook / / And Now Love Podcast Youtube / / @AndNowLovePodcast TikTok / / and.now.love.podc Timestamps: 00:00 Radical Care Meets Deep Psychology (Cynthia’s Introduction) 01:59 How the Downtown Women’s Center Began: Rosa, Skid Row & a Daytime Sanctuary 04:47 What Women Need Most: Trauma, Violence, and the Rising Numbers 06:46 Change Happens at the Pace of Trust: Trauma-Informed Support in Action 11:11 Advocacy & Systems Change: Taking the Fight Upstream to DC 16:38 Supportive Housing That Works: Long-Term Care + Health & Mental Health Services 17:58 Work as Healing: The ‘Made by DWC’ Social Enterprise & Employment Pathways 20:44 ‘It’s Not What’s Wrong With You’: Trauma-Informed Care, Therapy Options & Women’s Safety 25:31 Street Outreach That Actually Connects: Building Trust, One Woman at a Time 38:37 A Day at DWC: Breakfast, Showers, Case Management, and Community Activities 40:24 When the Day Center Closes: The Hardest Part Is Nightfall 41:51 Permanent Housing & Campus Expansion: 119 Units, 500 Supported, +97 More 42:52 How Homelessness Accelerates Aging: Stress, Trauma, and Health Decline 44:27 Day Programs That Create Exits: Financial Literacy, Certifications, and Dignity 46:38 Keeping Families Together: Kids, Reunification, and the Housing Bottleneck 50:36 Funding Cuts & Rising Need: Why More People Will Be Turned Away 53:46 Policy Fixes That Work: Rent Subsidies, Prevention, and Basic Income 56:55 Why Supportive Housing Sticks: Relationships, Healthcare, and Advocacy 01:00:53 Love as Leadership: Trauma-Informed Culture and Hiring the Right People 01:03:29 How You Can Help: Volunteering, Smart Donations, and Calling Officials 01:06:32 Rewriting Trust & Identity After Homelessness: Healing, Breathwork, and Hope 01:09:23 Final Thanks & How to Find Downtown Women’s Center

    1h 10m

  2. FEB 13 · VIDEO

    Biology of Trauma: Dr. Tracy Bale on Epigenetics, Mental Health, and the Maternal Imprint

    Does our emotional history begin at birth, or is it written in the womb? Join Cynthia Marks as she sits down with world-renowned neuroscientist Dr. Tracy Bale to explore the profound "Mother’s Imprint." While psychoanalysis has long discussed the psychological blueprint formed by the mother, Dr. Bale provides the groundbreaking biological evidence: how the emotional and physical state of expectant parents can create epigenetic "tags" that shape their offspring—influencing everything from stress responses to predispositions for mental health disorders. This episode bridges the gap between psychoanalytic theories and hard science, offering a fascinating look at the biological narrative behind our emotional lives. Discover the critical role of biomarkers in diagnosing mental health and the "mind-blowing" science of how we carry the stories of those who came before us.

    1h 25m
  3. Maternal Mental Health Now: The Truth About Perinatal Anxiety & Depression with Kelly O’Connor

    FEB 6 · VIDEO

    Maternal Mental Health Now: The Truth About Perinatal Anxiety & Depression with Kelly O’Connor

    In this essential episode of And Now Love, Cynthia Marks speaks with Kelly O’Connor, Executive Director of Maternal Mental Health Now, about the reality—and treatability—of perinatal mood and anxiety disorders. Kelly shares her own early postpartum experience, from feeling disconnected and overwhelmed to the crushing pressure of breastfeeding expectations that left her feeling like she was “failing.” Together they unpack why this isn’t rare: perinatal depression and anxiety affect a significant portion of new parents, yet shame and silence keep many from getting help. Kelly explains common risk factors, and also why even “perfect on paper” support systems don’t guarantee protection. They discuss why the medical system often screens but can’t refer, and how cultural stigma and fear of child welfare involvement can prevent Black and Brown families from speaking up. Kelly outlines how Maternal Mental Health Now is changing the system through provider trainings, free online courses, and peer support programs like Sana Sana, including specialized groups for queer parents and Black NICU moms. The episode ends with a hopeful reframe: the goal isn’t perfection—it’s being a good enough parent, supported by community, education, and love.

    43 min
  4. Idealization: The Rose-Colored Glasses We Can’t Take Off with Dr. Loren Weiner

    JAN 30 · VIDEO

    Idealization: The Rose-Colored Glasses We Can’t Take Off with Dr. Loren Weiner

    In this episode, Cynthia Marks is joined again by Dr. Loren Weiner to explore idealization—the unconscious tendency to see people, institutions, and even leaders as far more perfect than they are. Loren explains that idealization is normal early in life because a baby must experience caregivers as “good enough” to feel safe, but it becomes a problem when we can’t tolerate truth, nuance, or ambivalence. Through Dr. Bernard Bail’s imprint theory, they describe how an infant takes in a mother’s unprocessed material and then wrongly concludes, “I caused it,” which fuels guilt and keeps parents on a pedestal. The conversation shows how idealization spreads beyond family into teachers, celebrities, partners, bosses, and political leaders—and how its flip side, devaluation, creates black-and-white thinking. Cynthia shares how she idealized her parents for decades and how dreamwork helped her open the door to reality without her world collapsing. Loren illustrates the pattern through vivid dream examples—rockstar parents in a limo, a missing phone, and being “too stoned” to feel—revealing how we stay disconnected from ourselves to keep the illusion intact. The takeaway is empowering: when you learn to read your dreams, you gain the flexibility to see the full picture and make healthier choices in love and life.

    52 min
  5. Casa de Los Angelitos: A Home for Pregnant Women in Crisis Featuring Rebecca Binny

    JAN 23 · VIDEO

    Casa de Los Angelitos: A Home for Pregnant Women in Crisis Featuring Rebecca Binny

    In this episode of And Now Love, Cynthia Marks welcomes Rebecca Binny, Vice President of Casa de Los Angelitos, a nonprofit maternity home supporting pregnant women in crisis since 1986. Rebecca explains how Casa began as a community-funded, five-bedroom home and why the need is immediate—many pregnant women facing homelessness, substance use, domestic violence, or trafficking have nowhere safe to go. They talk about what truly helps traumatized mothers in a short window of time: not “fixing” them, but creating a safe, dignified environment where community, mentorship, and consistent care can begin to soften the guardedness. Rebecca shares how Casa supports moms through pregnancy and the first months postpartum, including therapy requirements, sobriety expectations, and practical help like transportation, car seats, and newborn support. A powerful section explores reunification with children impacted by foster care and the deep pain of separation—along with the hope that long-term mentoring can bring families back together. The conversation widens into a bigger cultural message: women deserve respect, education, childcare support, and the confidence to advocate for themselves. They close by connecting empowerment to inner life—how slowing down, listening inward, and even beginning to notice dreams can help people reclaim their authentic selves.

    53 min
  6. From Gangs to Community: Father Greg Boyle on Kinship

    JAN 16 · VIDEO

    From Gangs to Community: Father Greg Boyle on Kinship

    In this moving episode of And Now Love, Cynthia Marks sits down with Father Greg Boyle, founder of Homeboy Industries, to explore what healing looks like when a community chooses tenderness over judgment. Father Greg shares how Homeboy began at Dolores Mission in the middle of eight warring gangs—and how burying young people pushed him to build jobs, training, and a “movement” rooted in kinship. He explains why people arrive “barricaded behind a wall of shame,” and why the only thing that scales that wall is tenderness—a place to feel safe, seen, and cherished. The conversation reframes “bad behavior” as a language that points to the “thorn underneath,” inviting curiosity instead of condemnation. They discuss mental health as the defining health issue of our time, and why society should make health assessments—not moral judgments—about violence and hatred. Father Greg describes “clear love” (not tough love), and how Homeboy sets boundaries while staying connected and compassionate. The episode closes with a bold invitation: build compelling communities where there is “no daylight” between us—because none of us are well until all of us are well.

    1h 3m
  7. Don’t Mind Me: Rewriting the Mental Health Story with Mädchen Amick

    JAN 9 · VIDEO

    Don’t Mind Me: Rewriting the Mental Health Story with Mädchen Amick

    In this candid and deeply human conversation, Cynthia Marks sits down with Mädchen Amick—actress, director, writer, and co-founder of the inclusive mental health foundation Don’t Mind Me—to talk about what happens when a family is forced to navigate a system that doesn’t work. Mädchen shares how her son Sylvester’s first major episode in college thrust their family into emergency rooms, misdiagnoses, and a long search for truly qualified mental health care. She explains why mental illness remains so stigmatized, and how education helped her separate “my son talking” from “his disorder talking,” shifting the entire family dynamic. Together they explore the staggering lack of access, the predatory cost of treatment, and why the brain needs real time to heal—more like recovery from a heart attack than a quick fix. Mädchen describes Don’t Mind Me’s mission: vetted resources, scholarships for treatment, and an ambitious brick-and-mortar “holistic campus” that bridges the gap between crisis stabilization and long-term recovery. She offers practical guidance for families—stay loving, stay present, and don’t confuse fear with leadership. The episode closes with a message of collective responsibility: mental health is not “them and us”—it’s all of us, together.

    57 min
  8. Tom Paris on the Masculine: Why Men Must Treat Women Well

    12/30/2025 · VIDEO

    Tom Paris on the Masculine: Why Men Must Treat Women Well

    In this thoughtful return episode, Cynthia Marks welcomes Dr. Tom Paris, a retired psychotherapist whose practice centered on dreamwork and the teachings of Dr. Bernard Bail. Together they explore “the masculine” through the lens of the mother’s imprint—the emotional and unconscious material a fetus absorbs while “marinating” in a mother’s inner life. Tom explains how the imprint becomes a lifelong survival strategy: we learn early to monitor and manage the mother’s emotional state, often at the expense of knowing who we truly are. From there, the conversation expands into power, privilege, and why gender inequality persists—sometimes reinforced by both men and women through culture, fear, and the comfort of the status quo. Cynthia and Tom discuss father involvement in pregnancy, how men can be supported to develop emotional fluency, and why mothers also need permission to raise sensitive boys. They connect personal change to cultural change: progress often comes in small steps, with backlash, and requires courage. The episode ends with a hopeful invitation—use your dreams to know yourself, clear the “trash,” and build a world where men and women share equal space.

    49 min
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Yearning for love that goes beyond fleeting emotions? Longing to unlock your true potential and build fulfilling relationships? Join Cynthia Marks on a transformative journey guided by the groundbreaking teachings of her late husband, Dr. Bernard Bail. Dr. Bail believed love was not just a feeling, but a cornerstone of human existence, woven into the very fabric of our dreams. Each episode delves into his ”Love, Dreams, Imprint” paradigm, offering a roadmap to navigate the emotional landscape and rewrite the limiting narratives ingrained within us. Dive into the mystical realm of dreams and decipher their hidden messages. Uncover the unconscious patterns, or ”imprints,” shaping your reality, and learn to break free from their hold. Renowned experts join Cynthia, illuminating love’s multifaceted nature, from self-love to romantic and familial bonds. Discover Dr. Bail’s practical tools for healing past wounds, cultivating joy, and forging connections that transcend distance and time. Together, we embark on a mission to rewrite the script of love, transforming it from a fleeting feeling into a potent force for personal and collective transformation. ”And Now, Love” is your sanctuary for exploration, your laboratory for growth. Find your haven, join the conversation, and embark on a journey with immeasurable rewards. Listen now and discover the love that has the power to rewrite your story.

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  • Creator
    Cynthia Marks
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    53
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2023 All rights reserved.
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    And Now Love Podcast