Men’s Sexual Mastery

Benjamin Timby and Ian Hawks
  • 5.0 (3)
  • Sexuality
  • Updated Daily

Men’s Sexual Mastery is a men’s holistic sexual education community dedicated to awakening, aligning, and empowering every brother into his fullest sexual potential. Our training programs are designed to reprogram the limited conditioning of sexuality we received as young men through porn and virtually nonexistent sexual education.

  1. 4d ago

    How to Last Longer and Prolong Lovemaking | Men's Sexual Mastery Ep. 54

    Most men dealing with premature ejaculation or wanting to last longer in bed have one thing in common: a lack of education in alternate ways of experiencing their sexual energy. They learned from porn that sex means constant movement, constant stimulation, and a rock-hard erection from start to finish. That model doesn't just shorten lovemaking. It cuts off access to everything that makes sex actually worth having. This episode covers the stillness practice: why remaining inside your partner without movement is one of the most powerful tools available for prolonged lovemaking, what happens to sexual energy when you stop and let it integrate, and why your erection partially softening is not a failure but a sign the practice is working. Ben and Ian also break down the staircase model for building arousal across a full session, the goal-orientation trap that most men fall into even when they think they're being a good lover, and how semen intention finally becomes livable inside a real relationship. If you've tried everything for premature ejaculation or you're just hitting a ceiling on what's possible in the bedroom, this is the reframe that most men never encounter. It's not about performance. It's not about discipline. It's a skill set that gets trained, and it changes things in ways that stay. The men who work through this don't just last longer, they experience a level of transformation both in the bedroom and in life that they never knew was possible. Want to go deeper? Join our free community at skool.com/menssexualmastery — access resources, discussion threads, and connect with brothers doing this work. #prematureejaculation #semenretention #erectiledysfunction #sexualhealth #menshealthpodcast #sexualmastery #mensexualmastery #performanceanxiety #nofap #masculinity #menswork #intimacy #sexualenergy #masculinedevelopment #personaldevelopment

    24 min

  2. May 25

    Your Sexual Energy Is Spiritual Energy | Men's Sexual Mastery Ep. 53

    Sexual energy and spiritual energy are the same thing. Taoist medicine, the yogic lineages, and Ayurveda have said this for thousands of years, and men who go through the actual practices confirm it through direct lived experience. When you start treating your sexual energy as the most potent fuel available to you, something fundamental shifts in how you move through the world. The reason so many men hit a wall when they start this work is that this energy doesn't add anything new. It amplifies what's already there. If you're carrying cognitive dissonance, shame, or a gap between who you say you are and how you're actually living, cultivating more of this energy is going to make that gap impossible to ignore. That's not a problem. That's the whole point. The men who stay in this work long enough find that what gets cleared out of the way eventually leads to something they can only describe as union, with themselves, with their partners, and with something larger than either. Presence is the mechanism underneath all of it. The default mode network, the part of your brain that's constantly narrating, analyzing, and protecting, is what keeps you disconnected from your own body and from the women in your life. Breathwork, retention practices, conscious self-pleasure, all of it is building toward one thing: a man who can actually be here. And when you bring that level of presence into partnership, what becomes possible in lovemaking is something most men have never touched. The energy, when contained and cultivated over months and eventually years, functions like a permanent low-dose amplifier. Meditations are deeper. Sleep requirements drop. The quality of attention available in every area of your life changes. Men who've been at this long enough don't describe it as a practice anymore. They describe it as who they are. Want to go deeper? Join our community at skool.com/menssexualmastery to access resources, discussion threads, and connect with brothers doing this work. #sexualenergy #semenretention #spirituality #masculinedevelopment #menswork #sexualmastery #mensexualmastery #menshealthpodcast #nofap #sexualhealth #intimacy #breathwork #personaldevelopment #highperformancemen #sexualleadership

    36 min

  3. May 18

    Replacing Porn with Sexual Fulfillment | Men's Sexual Mastery Ep. 52

    Most men trying to break free from porn are losing because they're using the wrong strategy. Resistance doesn't dissolve the pattern. It feeds it. Ben and Ian lay out a different approach: stop fighting it and start replacing it with something that actually outperforms it. This episode covers how to identify what chronic porn use is doing for you beneath the surface, what it means to replace the habit rather than just suppress it, and why the solo cultivation practice is the specific mechanism that rewires the nervous system when nothing else has held. There's also a direct case made for running a short elimination experiment, just one to two weeks, to build the reference point most men never give themselves. The shift men report from that window alone is consistent enough that it speaks for itself. Find us on Instagram @mens.sexual.mastery and join our free brotherhood community at skool.com/menssexualmastery. #pornaddiction #semenretention #nofap #menswork #sexualmastery

    43 min

  4. May 12

    Accountability is the Silver Bullet feat. Mischa Byruck | Men's Sexual Mastery Ep. 51

    Most men assume the path to a better sex life runs through more skill. Mischa Byruck, a men's integrity and accountability coach who's worked with hundreds of powerful leaders, argues the opposite. Accountability, not technique, is what actually reconnects a man to his intimacy. This conversation is the one the men's work world largely isn't having. Mischa breaks down the real difference between hurt and harm, why consent is one pillar of six and not the whole structure, and what shared reality actually means in the context of repair. He names why the men who cause the most damage in relationship are often the ones who've built their identity around never being at fault, and what it looks like to build an accountability practice that makes it genuinely safe for the people around you to tell you things you don't want to hear. If you've done the men's work, the retreats, the breathwork, the therapy, and something still isn't moving in your intimate life, this is probably why. Find Mischa at evolve.men and on Instagram @mischabyruck. Find us on Instagram @mens.sexual.mastery and join our free brotherhood community at skool.com/menssexualmastery. #menswork #accountability #intimacy #sexualmastery #masculinedevelopment

    1h 9m

  5. May 4

    When the Predator is Sleeping Next to You: Sexual Distortion and What Men Have to Do About It | Men's Sexual Mastery Ep. 50

    Most men's development spaces will condemn the men involved in the CNN rape academy story and move on. This conversation didn't. In this episode Ean Wood (Founder of Rising Men) Dr. Aspen Percival (Naturopathic doctor and pelvic health specialist) and MSM co-founder Ian Hawks sat down together to get to the root of the shadow of unintegrated sexuality in men. How does a man become capable of this? What does that tell us about what we need to do differently for the men and boys who are at risk for repeating the same patterns? Every man has some version of the story: he was exposed to pornography or something confusing happened to him at young age and there was no safe space to process it. He kept it hidden and it grew in the shadows. The men in that CNN story were not born predators. At some point they were exposed to programming that made them this way. And if you follow it upstream far enough, you find an 11-year-old who is right now standing at the same crossroads without anyone to show him the way through. What we're doing in this work offers a unique perspective. When men understand what their sexual energy is, how to work with it, these sexual distortions can be healed, and replaced with sexual fulfilment in a way that is safe and beneficial for both the men and their partners. This shift doesn't just change a man's private experience. It changes how he shows up for his partner, his kids, and every woman he encounters moving through the world. This is the antidote very few are speaking to: the world will continue to produce the same results until we as men integrate our sexuality and support the young men coming into the world in the same. That's what this work is all about. What comes up for you in this conversation? Share your thoughts in the comments below. Connect with Ean Wood and Rising Man: Instagram: instagram.com/seedingmasculinity Community: skool.com/men-rising/about Connect with Dr. Aspen Percival: Website: draspenpercival.com Instagram: instagram.com/dr.aspenpercival Connect with Men's Sexual Mastery: Instagram: @mens.sexual.mastery Community: skool.com/menssexualmastery Apply for our next Group Training: https://www.menssexualmastery.com/application #sexualhealth #menswork #masculinity #masculinedevelopment #sexualmastery #mensexualmastery #menshealthpodcast #pornaddiction #sexualenergy #intimacy #marriedmen

    44 min

  6. Apr 27

    Blue Balls: What It Is, What's Myth, and How to Actually Deal With It | Men's Sexual Mastery Ep. 49

    If you've ever been left with that aching pressure after a session that didn't finish, you know blue balls isn't a myth. The discomfort is real. What's a myth is that ejaculation is the only exit, and that you're helpless to it. Ben and Ian break down what's actually happening in the body, why sympathetic nervous system lock is the real driver behind the discomfort, and what to do about it. The tools covered include breath-based nervous system regulation, the reverse Kegel, testicular massage, and the seven out of ten rule that prevents the pressure from building in the first place. These are the practices that make blue balls both manageable in the moment and progressively less frequent over time. Find us on Instagram @mens.sexual.mastery and join our free brotherhood community at skool.com/menssexualmastery.

    33 min

  7. Apr 20

    Attracting Your Dream Partner | Men's Sexual Mastery Ep. 48

    Most men looking for a long-term partner are asking the wrong question. They're asking how to find her, when the real question is who they're being when she shows up. This episode is a direct look at that gap, why the hunt repels what you actually want, and what it takes to become the man worth calling in. Ian and Ben both share the real stories of meeting their partners. Ian in a period of deep celibacy, semen intention, and devotional practice, so grounded in himself that when Aspen said no to a first date, he was genuinely unbothered. He waited four to six months, stayed open without being attached, and she came back around on her own terms. Ben met Taylor during MSM's first live immersion in Austin, a house full of brothers, music, and mission so alive that she told him she'd never seen a man with friendships like that. She wore a promise ring. He held the line for two months, mostly through Ian's accountability. She eventually took it off herself. Neither story happened because of strategy. It happened because both men were genuinely full. There's a specific practice from Uncle Vince Chafin shared at the Sacred Sons Leadership Summit that unlocks all of this: write down every quality you want in your ideal partner, then cross out "ideal partner" and write your own name. Read the list again. That's the work. If you're single and looking for the real deal, this episode will reorient you. The answer isn't outside you. It was never outside you. Want to go deeper? Join our free community at skool.com/menssexualmastery for resources, discussion threads, and connect with brothers doing this work. #masculinity #menswork #attractingwomen #semenretention #polarity #masculinedevelopment #personaldevelopment #highperformancemen #intimacy #sexualenergy #relationshipadvice #menshealthpodcast #sexualmastery #nofap #mensexualmastery

    35 min

  8. Apr 13

    How to Introduce Semen Retention Into Your Relationship | Men's Sexual Mastery Ep. 47

    If you've started practicing semen retention and want to bring that containment into partnered sex, you've probably already hit a wall. Your partner doesn't understand it, or she resists it, and suddenly a practice that was transforming your life feels like a source of tension in your relationship. That resistance is more common than you think, and it's almost never coming from where you think it is. This episode breaks down where it actually comes from, how to have the conversation so she becomes a partner in the practice, how to use your presence and your voice so she never has to wonder if you're satisfied, and how to find the middle path so this work deepens your relationship instead of straining it. Find us on Instagram @mens.sexual.mastery and join our free brotherhood community at skool.com/menssexualmastery. #semenretention #sexualmastery #marriedmen #masculinity #intimacy

    30 min
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Men’s Sexual Mastery is a men’s holistic sexual education community dedicated to awakening, aligning, and empowering every brother into his fullest sexual potential. Our training programs are designed to reprogram the limited conditioning of sexuality we received as young men through porn and virtually nonexistent sexual education.

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  • Creator
    Benjamin Timby and Ian Hawks
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    54
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Benjamin Timby and Ian Hawks
  • Show Website
    Men’s Sexual Mastery

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