Wet & Worthy Woman with The Wild Fem

The Wild Fem
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Welcome to the spicy revolution! I'm Charlotte; 5* Podcast Host, Sexual Trauma Survivor, Yoni Massage Therapist & embodiment leader who turned the WORST night of my life into a global movement of women taking back the most taboo & shamed parts of their womanhood as SAFE & sacred. Get ready to turn your sexual shame into unapologetic sensual ALIVENESS so that you can stop playing small & feeling NUMB to pleasure - & finally become the magnetic, radiant, juicy as f**k, wildly powerful woman that society tried to silence. Come alive by becoming the woman they told you NOT to be - Let's go

  1. 2d ago

    144: Bodybuilder to Medicine Woman - Overcoming the Witch Wound With Paula Nogaj

    Stop trying to fix the female body… and start listening to it! In this episode, I’m joined by the beautiful Paula Nogaj — founder of Return to Her, ex-bodybuilder, fitness coach, Reiki Master, womb healer and WILD FEM yoni massage therapist. Paula was my very first 1:1 trauma-informed yoni massage trainee — and after connecting online for YEARS, we finally got to meet in person and have this delicious conversation about the medicine of touch. Inside this episode, we dive into: 🌹 Paula’s journey from bodybuilder & fitness coach to womb healer and bodyworker🔥 What actually shifted for her after learning trauma-informed yoni massage🐚 Her experience of receiving yoni massage — and why being on the other side of the work matters so much✨ What surprised her about giving yoni massage (because it’s not quite what you might imagine!)🌑 The deeper layers that can emerge when we bring physical touch, womb work, energy healing & shamanic tools together🩸 The ways women can disconnect from their bodies after experiences like abortion, shame, trauma and years of self-abandonment💗 Why yoni massage can offer something radically different: permission not to perform🌿 How this work has transformed Paula’s own path as a medicine woman💰 What happened to her business after completing her training — including the EPIC retreat she recently held🔮 Why Paula believes women need to experience this work🌹 And, of course, where you can work with Paula in the UK This conversation is a little window into what can happen when a woman learns how to meet another woman’s body with safety, presence, reverence and absolutely no agenda to make her perform. And if you’ve ever felt the calling to become the woman who holds that space for others… You’re going to want to listen to this one. 🔥 Connect with Paula: https://www.instagram.com/return_to_her_paula_nogaj/ _____________________________________________________________ FACILITATOR TRAINING … BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE : Apply for PRIESTESS training here> https://thewildfem.com/priestess _____________________________________________________________ START HERE > ..  ⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension  (get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)  ⁠🎁⁠ FREE CEREMONY TO START RECONNECTING TO YOUR P***Y: Reconnect, let go of the past trauma, & start to feel SAFE in your body & the bedroom.  ⁠🎁 FREE MEMBERSHIP FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALING ON TELEGRAM: The naughty corner - a free sisterhood space to share, get private podcasts & first access to my new offerings _____________________________________________________________ INSTAGRAM - FOR DAILY WILD WISDOM:⁠  ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠ Stay wet - Love Charlotte xx

  2. Sep 3

    143: How to Blow Up Your Healing Business & Be a Full-Time Witch

    What if the reason your healing business isn’t paying you enough… isn’t because you need another course, another certification, or more followers? Maybe you need to charge more, get hands-on, and stop playing by someone else’s blueprint. In this episode, I’m getting VERY real about what it actually took for me to turn my work into a full-time livelihood — & why I believe hands-on healing is going to become more & more valuable, in a world drowning in AI, algorithms & online courses. ✨ We’re talking about: Why £30 workshops and £11 self-led courses probably aren’t going to create the freedom you’re craving (unless you have a very big audience) The uncomfortable maths of building a healing business that actually pays you - STOP PLAYING SAFE. Charge more. Where you might be unconsciously following someone else’s business blueprint instead of creating the work you’re actually here to create Why I think the future of healing is deeply embodied, hands-on and human Why becoming a powerful healer also means learning how to SELL If you’ve been dreaming of leaving your day job, making serious money from your healing work, and becoming a woman who is truly devoted to her medicine… Consider this your sign. 🐍 You don’t need to add more noise to the internet. You need to become impossible to ignore. Ready to become a Yoni Massage Practitioner? 🐍 If something in this episode had you thinking… “F*ck. THIS is the work I’m here to do.” Then I want to introduce you to PRIESTESS. My 12-week practitioner training for women who are ready to stop consuming healing information and start becoming the practitioner. Inside PRIESTESS, I’ll teach you my trauma-informed approach to Yoni Massage — combining hands-on bodywork, nervous-system safety, feminine embodiment and deep somatic healing. This is for the woman who wants to: ✨ Build a healing business that actually pays her✨ Work deeply and intimately with women’s bodies✨ Create transformation that goes beyond another Zoom call✨ Develop the confidence, skills and embodiment to hold women through profound healing✨ Create a premium hands-on service that can become the foundation of her business✨ Build a body of work that feels uniquely hers — rather than copying somebody else's blueprint Because I don't want to train you to become another practitioner doing what everyone else is doing. I want to teach you how to become the woman who carries the medicine. PRIESTESS begins Feb 2027 and includes a 5-day in-person intensive here in Tenerife alongside the 12-week practitioner journey. If your whole body just went YES… Come and meet me inside PRIESTESS. 🐍🔥 [JOIN PRIESTESS →] START HERE > ..  ⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension  (get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)  ⁠🎁⁠ FREE CEREMONY TO START RECONNECTING TO YOUR P***Y: Reconnect, let go of the past trauma, & start to feel SAFE in your body & the bedroom.  ⁠🎁 FREE MEMBERSHIP FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALING ON TELEGRAM: The naughty corner - a free sisterhood space to share, get private podcasts & first access to my new offerings _________________________________________________________ INSTAGRAM - FOR DAILY WILD WISDOM:⁠  ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠ _________________________________________________________ PLEASURE PRODUCTS I LOVE -  💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.   💦 Free-bleed Blankets - Code ‘CHARLOTTELITTLE’ for 10% off Squirt & bleed without stress, I LOVE this for making love during my bleedhttps://free-bleed.com/?ref=wildfem  _________________________________________________________ Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

  3. Aug 27

    142: Good Girl To Dominatrix Energy with Amy White - Stop Hiding Your Needs

    This week I’m joined by Amy White, founder of Temple of the Feminine, to talk about pleasure, power, kink, feminine embodiment — and what becomes possible when a woman stops performing the version of herself she thinks men will love. In this delicious conversation, we dive into: 🖤 The good girl cage — how to recognise when she’s secretly running your relationships, sexuality, business and entire life… and why even the spiritual world can reinforce her. 🔥 From pleasing to demanding — what happens when we stop asking “How can I be more desirable?” and start asking “What do I actually f*****g want?” 👑 Your inner dominatrix — how to awaken this archetype & stop thinking your needs are too much 💋 Taking your power back with men — moving beyond being the “easygoing” woman who gives, accommodates and pleases, and learning to ask for more. 🐆 Becoming the woman who knows she can have more — more pleasure, more choice, more honesty, more devotion and a LOT less performing. This one is for the recovering good girls. The women who are done shrinking their desires to stay lovable. She doesn't want to be good anymore. She wants to be FREE. Press play. 🖤🔥 Find Amy:Temple of the Feminine — https://www.templeofthefeminine.com/Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/templeofthefeminine CONNECT WITH CHARLOTTE: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/ START HERE > ..  ⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension  (get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)  ⁠🎁⁠ FREE CEREMONY TO START RECONNECTING TO YOUR P***Y: Reconnect, let go of the past trauma, & start to feel SAFE in your body & the bedroom.  ⁠🎁 FREE MEMBERSHIP FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALING ON TELEGRAM: The naughty corner - a free sisterhood space to share, get private podcasts & first access to my new offerings _________________________________________________________ FACILITATOR TRAINING … BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE : Apply for PRIESTESS training here> https://thewildfem.com/priestess _________________________________________________________ PLEASURE PRODUCTS I LOVE -  💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.   💦 Free-bleed Blankets - Code ‘CHARLOTTELITTLE’ for 10% off Squirt & bleed without stress, I LOVE this for making love during my bleed _________________________________________________________ Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

  4. Aug 20

    141: Why Women Need to Dance - Get Out of Your Head & Into Your Body With Chloe De Sousa

    HELD - Couples yoni massage ceremony THIS WEEKEND (Aug 23rd - claim the last spots) In this juicy conversation, I’m joined by the utterly wild Chloe De Sousa — love & intimacy coach, ecstatic movement mentor, DJ, and founder of BODY SONG — to talk about how dance quite literally saved her life, and why I believe movement is such a powerful part of reclaiming our sexuality. Inside this episode, we dive into: ✨ How dance became Chloe’s pathway out of survival and into a life of joy, intimacy, expression and freedom 🐆 Why so many women feel terrified to take up space and be seen… and how to finally get out of your head and into your body 💃 How reclaiming movement can help us reclaim our sexuality, sensuality and feminine expression after shame or trauma 🫦 Why we can bring the same embodied freedom we experience on the dance floor into our intimate relationships 👀 How to stop treating sex like a performance and start letting your body actually lead 🔥 The connection between dance, nervous system regulation, sexuality and feeling SAFE enough to surrender This conversation is for the woman who knows there is a version of her underneath all the conditioning who wants to MOVE. FEEL. EXPRESS. TAKE UP SPACE. And maybe… she’s been waiting for permission. Baby, you don’t need permission. You need to turn the music up. 🔥 Find Chloe & dance with her: @feral.grace START HERE > ..  ⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension  (get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)  ⁠🎁⁠ FREE CEREMONY TO START RECONNECTING TO YOUR P***Y: Reconnect, let go of the past trauma, & start to feel SAFE in your body & the bedroom.  ⁠🎁 FREE MEMBERSHIP FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALING ON TELEGRAM: The naughty corner - a free sisterhood space to share, get private podcasts & first access to my new offerings _________________________________________________________ INSTAGRAM - FOR DAILY WILD WISDOM:⁠  ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠ ____________________________________________________________ FACILITATOR TRAINING … BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE : Apply for PRIESTESS training here> https://thewildfem.com/priestess _________________________________________________________ PLEASURE PRODUCTS I LOVE -  💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.   💦 Free-bleed Blankets - Code ‘CHARLOTTELITTLE’ for 10% off Squirt & bleed without stress, I LOVE this for making love during my bleed https://free-bleed.com/?ref=wildfem  _________________________________________________________ Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

  5. Aug 13

    140: How to Have Sacred Sex When Your Partner Isn’t Spiritual

    What if your man/partner doesn’t do “self development”... but you want sex that feels f*****g profound? In this episode, I’m talking about: Why you don’t need a tantric man to experience deep, sacred intimacy.The trap of becoming your partner’s sex coach, teacher & spiritual facilitator — and why that can kill the polarity you’re craving.Why men can feel emasculated when they constantly feel like they’re “getting it wrong.”The vulnerability of actually telling him what you need… instead of silently hoping he’ll magically know.Why saying “slower,” “more connected,” “more sacred” isn’t always enough — and how to actually help him feel what you mean.What happens when you stop holding a f*****g workshop in your bedroom and start meeting each other on equal ground.The surprisingly simple secret to bringing your partner into your world of sacred sexuality Why intimacy becomes SO much deeper when you’re both vulnerable, curious and learning together.And why sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do in the bedroom… is stop trying to make it spiritual. You don’t need a partner who knows all the language. You need to feel like you’re in it together. ♡ And THAT is exactly why I created HELD — an intimate online yoni massage ceremony for couples who are craving slower, safer, deeper connection. ♡ Sunday, August 23rd♡ LIVE online — replay available♡ 7–9:30pm UK time For couples who are craving more emotional depth, exploring sacred sexuality, wanting to reconnect after disconnection, curious about learning yoni massage together, or simply longing for intimacy that feels slower, safer & more sacred. JOIN HELD HERE - https://thewildfem.com/held START HERE > ..  ⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension  (get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)  ⁠🎁⁠ FREE CEREMONY TO START RECONNECTING TO YOUR P***Y: Reconnect, let go of the past trauma, & start to feel SAFE in your body & the bedroom.  ⁠🎁 FREE MEMBERSHIP FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALING ON TELEGRAM: The naughty corner - a free sisterhood space to share, get private podcasts & first access to my new offerings _________________________________________________________ INSTAGRAM - FOR DAILY WILD WISDOM:⁠  ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠ _________________________________________________________ FACILITATOR TRAINING … BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE : Apply for PRIESTESS training here> https://thewildfem.com/priestess _________________________________________________________ PLEASURE PRODUCTS I LOVE -  💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.   💦 Free-bleed Blankets - Code ‘CHARLOTTELITTLE’ for 10% off Squirt & bleed without stress, I LOVE this for making love during my bleed https://free-bleed.com/?ref=wildfem  _________________________________________________________ Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

  6. Aug 6

    139: Process Your Past Life & Set Yourself Free with Amandine Bliocq

    BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE : Apply for PRIESTESS training here > 2027 waitlist OPEN NOW - ⁠https://thewildfem.com/priestess⁠ I truly believe our bodies remember everything... even the stories our minds can't explain. What if the fear, shame, grief or patterns you've been carrying didn't even begin in this lifetime? This week I'm joined by one of the most extraordinary women I've ever received healing from. Amandine is a sex therapist, energy channel, a WILD FEM yoni massage practitioner & soul guide who has an incredible gift for helping women release the past that's still living inside their bodies. In this episode we explore... ✨ Why your body may be carrying memories far older than this lifetime. 🔥 How past life experiences can unconsciously shape your sexuality & self-worth today. 🌹 Why the womb & yoni hold some of the deepest emotional and energetic memories 🖤 What actually happens during an energy channeling & past life release session. ⚡ The terrifying vision that surfaced during one of my own sessions with Amandine... and what it changed forever. 🐍 Amandine's wild journey from corporate life into fully trusting her soul's work as a healer. ❤️ How yoni massage became one of the most powerful tools in her healing practice after training with me this year. If you've ever felt like you're carrying something you can't explain... this conversation might just change the way you see yourself forever. CONNECT WITH AMANDINE ON INSTAGRAM: English account: https://www.instagram.com/journey.through_the_heart/ French account: https://www.instagram.com/latraverseeducoeur/ _________________________________________________________ START HERE > ..  ⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension  (get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)  ⁠🎁⁠ FREE CEREMONY TO START RECONNECTING TO YOUR P***Y: Reconnect, let go of the past trauma, & start to feel SAFE in your body & the bedroom.  ⁠🎁 FREE MEMBERSHIP FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALING ON TELEGRAM: The naughty corner - a free sisterhood space to share, get private podcasts & first access to my new offerings _________________________________________________________ INSTAGRAM - FOR DAILY WILD WISDOM:⁠  ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠ FACILITATOR TRAINING … BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE : Apply for PRIESTESS training here> https://thewildfem.com/priestess _________________________________________________________ PLEASURE PRODUCTS I LOVE -  💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.   💦 Free-bleed Blankets - Code ‘CHARLOTTELITTLE’ for 10% off Squirt & bleed without stress, I LOVE this for making love during my bleed _________________________________________________________ Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

  7. Jul 30

    138: Make Love To Men In Tantric Ways That Change EVERYTHING!!!

    Inside this episode, I'm blowing up one of the biggest blind spots in conscious sexuality... We spend years learning how we want our yoni to be touched... but are we loving his body with the same depth, reverence and presence? ❤️‍🔥 Inside, I share: Why the fastest way to a man's heart isn't what you've been told...What men confessed they were secretly aching for during the tantric massage sessions I gave them.The wild upgrade that happened in my own marriage when I brought conscious, sacred touch to my husband's c**k.The surprising emails men send me every single week.Why giving him the sacredness you crave is often how you begin receiving it too.How to become the kind of lover who doesn't just turn him on... but helps his nervous system finally exhale. If you've been craving deeper intimacy, more devotion, and sex that feels spiritual instead of performative... Press play. This one might change everything. START HERE > ..  ⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension  (get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)  ⁠🎁⁠ FREE CEREMONY TO START RECONNECTING TO YOUR P***Y: Reconnect, let go of the past trauma, & start to feel SAFE in your body & the bedroom.  ⁠🎁 FREE MEMBERSHIP FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALING ON TELEGRAM: The naughty corner - a free sisterhood space to share, get private podcasts & first access to my new offerings INSTAGRAM - FOR DAILY WILD WISDOM:⁠  ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠ FACILITATOR TRAINING … BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE : Apply for PRIESTESS training here> https://thewildfem.com/priestess PLEASURE PRODUCTS I LOVE -  💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.   💦 Free-bleed Blankets - Code ‘CHARLOTTELITTLE’ for 10% off Squirt & bleed without stress, I LOVE this for making love during my bleedhttps://free-bleed.com/?ref=wildfem  Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

  8. Jul 23

    137: Everything I Believed About Feminine Energy Was Wrong

    For years, I thought feminine energy meant becoming softer. Speaking slower.Moving more gracefully.Being sensual.Wearing flowing dresses.Living in my "divine feminine." But beneath all of that... ...my heart was still armoured. In this episode, I'm sharing the hardest lesson I've learned on my own healing journey: that true feminine softness has nothing to do with how you look or how you move. It's about whether your body actually feels safe enough to receive. ✨ Inside this episode we'll explore: The hidden armour that keeps women disconnected from love, pleasure and intimacyWhy your nervous system—not your mindset—decides what you're available to receiveHow emotional protection becomes stored physically within the bodyWhy softening isn't something you perform... it's something you experience somaticallyThe connection between your heart, your pelvic bowl and your capacity to receive love If you've ever wondered why you've done all the inner work but still struggle to fully receive love, intimacy or pleasure... This episode might completely change the way you understand feminine energy. 🌹 Ready to experience this work for yourself? If this episode speaks to something deep within you, WISE NECTAR is my guided at-home yoni de-armouring journey, designed to help you gently soften, release stored armour and begin reconnecting with your body in the safety of your own home. Explore WISE NECTAR here:https://thewildfem.com/wise-nectar ✨ Feeling called to facilitate this work for other women? PRIESTESS is my 3-month trauma-informed Yoni Massage Practitioner Training, where you'll learn to safely guide women through profound somatic healing, nervous system regulation and sacred yoni massage. Our next training begins 11th October 2026, and at the time of this episode, only 2 places remain. If your soul is whispering, "This is the work I'm here to do," I'd love to welcome you. Learn more or apply here:https://thewildfem.com/priestess - Join me on Instagram for a daily dose @thewildfem - here - Join my FREE membership (The Naughty Corner) for women on Telegram - here With volcanic love, Charlotte xx

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Welcome to the spicy revolution! I'm Charlotte; 5* Podcast Host, Sexual Trauma Survivor, Yoni Massage Therapist & embodiment leader who turned the WORST night of my life into a global movement of women taking back the most taboo & shamed parts of their womanhood as SAFE & sacred. Get ready to turn your sexual shame into unapologetic sensual ALIVENESS so that you can stop playing small & feeling NUMB to pleasure - & finally become the magnetic, radiant, juicy as f**k, wildly powerful woman that society tried to silence. Come alive by becoming the woman they told you NOT to be - Let's go

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