Forged In Silence Podcast - A Men's Mental Health Podcast

Forged In Silence Podcast
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Addressing the struggles men face but rarely talk about.

  1. JAN 12

    Words, Feelings, and Messy Moments with Matthew Lowe Making Relationships Work

    In this insightful episode, hosts Steve Knapp and Robbie Pike chat with Matthew Lowe explore emotional intelligence (EQ) and its profound effects on relationships. Key discussions include:The Power of Language: How words influence interactions and the value of building a richer emotional vocabulary. Vulnerability and Communication: Emphasizing openness, understanding emotional triggers, and effective dialogue. Balancing Needs: Strategies for self-care alongside relationship dynamics, including conflict resolution and healthy boundaries. Growth Through Feedback: Matthew's tips on using constructive input for personal development. The episode wraps up with practical resources to boost EQ and cultivate stronger, healthier connections. Perfect for anyone seeking deeper relational insights!TakeawaysWords shape our relationships significantly.Emotional intelligence involves recognizing and managing our feelings.Conflict resolution requires understanding both sides' needs.Vulnerability is essential for healthy communication.Expanding emotional vocabulary helps in expressing feelings accurately.Emotional awareness is crucial for personal growth.Balancing self-care with relationship needs is vital.Healthy boundaries prevent emotional burnout.Understanding the difference between needs and wants enhances communication.Feedback is a valuable tool for improving emotional intelligence.Keywordsemotional intelligence, relationships, communication, vulnerability, conflict resolution, emotional vocabulary, self-care, boundaries, feedback, personal growthChapters00:00 Introduction to Emotional Intelligence and Relationships02:41 The Impact of Words on Relationships05:20 Understanding Emotional Responses and Communication08:04 Navigating Conflict and Vulnerability in Relationships10:43 The Role of Emotional Vocabulary in Communication13:25 Increasing Emotional Intelligence and Awareness16:19 Dealing with Breakups and Disappointment19:02 Personal Reflections on Relationships and Needs24:13 Understanding Emotional Needs in Relationships25:17 Metaphors of Connection and Isolation25:58 Breaking Down Emotional Barriers27:39 The Shift from Need to Want29:05 Communicating Vulnerability and Desire30:03 Navigating Language and Meaning in Relationships31:57 The Importance of Consent in Communication33:43 Expressing Needs Without Fear of Rejection35:44 The Role of Semantics in Relationship Dynamics38:00 Courage in Expressing Needs and Boundaries43:03 The Dimensions of Caring46:06 Social Responsibility in Caring47:51 Self-Inhabiting: Balancing Self-Care and Care for Others51:21 Emotional Intelligence: Understanding Sensitivity54:37 Resources for Emotional Growth

    1h 1m

  2. 12/14/2025

    Inside the Mind of a Porn Addict with Jeremy Lipkowitz

    The Unhooked Podcast:  @JeremyLipkowitz  ICF Certified Co-Active Coach, Jeremy Lipkowitz Coaching: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/In the latest episode of the Forged in Silence podcast, hosts Steve Knapp and Robbie sit down with guest Jeremy for an honest discussion on the taboo topic of pornography and its profound effects on men's lives. Jeremy opens up about his personal battle with porn addiction, highlighting the accompanying shame and isolation. The trio explores how it impacts relationships, self-esteem, and intimacy, while stressing the role of mindfulness and constructive shame in the recovery process. Jeremy provides practical advice on reclaiming control, rebuilding connections, and encouraging open conversations about these challenges.TakeawaysPornography is a pervasive issue that many men face but rarely discuss.Shame and guilt often accompany porn addiction, leading to isolation.Recognizing the impact of porn on relationships is crucial for recovery.Healthy shame can serve as a protective factor against harmful behaviors.Mindfulness and meditation are essential tools for overcoming addiction.The journey to recovery can lead to significant personal growth and transformation.Intimacy requires mutual respect and understanding, not unrealistic expectations.Men need to open up about their struggles to alleviate feelings of shame.Recovery is possible, and positive changes can happen quickly.The lessons learned from pornography can distort perceptions of intimacy and consent.Sound bites"You have to answer to yourself.""This is a fantasy, not reality.""You can recover quite quickly."Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Taboo Topic of Pornography03:37 Jeremy's Journey: From Addiction to Recovery05:33 Understanding the Impact of Porn on Relationships18:25 The Cycle of Lust and Its Consequences25:24 Healthy Shame: A Protector in Recovery30:34 Integrity and Self-Reflection36:23 The Journey of Recovery42:00 Mindfulness and Emotional Awareness49:52 Unlearning and Rebuilding Intimacy

    59 min

  3. 12/07/2025

    The Gold Beneath the Clay: A Journey to Self-Compassion with Jerred Endsley

    Keywords self-compassion, mental health, mindfulness, emotional awareness, men's issues, personal growth, vulnerability, emotional intelligence, healing, self-care Summary In this episode, Steve Knapp and Jerred Endsley discuss the importance of self-compassion, particularly for men who often struggle with vulnerability and emotional expression. They explore how societal expectations can lead to emotional repression and the need for men to connect with their feelings. Jerred shares insights from his experience as a social worker and psychotherapist, emphasizing the significance of mindfulness and compassion in healing. The conversation also touches on practical steps for developing self-awareness and compassion, encouraging listeners to take small, manageable steps towards emotional well-being. Takeaways Self-compassion is essential for emotional health. Men often feel pressured to suppress their emotions. Awareness is the first step towards self-compassion. Self-compassion is not indulgence; it's necessary for well-being. Feelings should not be viewed as liabilities. The journey to self-compassion involves uncovering inner worth. Small practices can lead to significant changes in self-awareness. It's important to ask ourselves what we truly need. Mindfulness can help us connect with our emotions. Healing requires acknowledging and feeling our emotions. Titles Sound bites "Feelings are not liabilities." "What is it that I truly need?" "What I resist persists." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Forged in Silence 11:25 Exploring Self-Compassion 15:43 Self-Compassion in Incarcerated Youth 22:07 The Clay Buddha: Uncovering Inner Worth 26:55 The Balance of Self-Care and Compassion 32:27 The Power of Self-Compassion 36:09 Navigating Discomfort and Emotions 42:19 Understanding Emotional Liabilities 47:39 The Cost of Emotional Repression 52:42 Building Self-Awareness for Compassion

    1h 1m

  4. 12/07/2025

    BroRevement With Daniel Ratchford

    Keywordsmental health, family conflict, personal growth, emotional numbness, happiness, self-awarenessSummaryIn this conversation, Daniel Ratchford discusses his journey through emotional numbness and conflict within his family, particularly during the holidays. He reflects on a decade of struggles and the realization that life could be better, leading him to seek change for himself and his relationships.TakeawaysIt just became like the hamster wheel, just numb and just not feeling anything.Around the holidays, was always at war with my kids.I didn't know what happiness was.I needed to get out of my way.Life is better than this.My wife wanted me to live this way.I saw myself going to war with my kids.The people who are closest to me were affected.Realization is the first step towards change.Personal growth requires self-awareness.Sound bites"was always at war with my kids""I didn't know what happiness was""life is better than this"Chapters00:00 Introduction to Grief and Men's Mental Health00:45 Finding Healing and Community

    50 min

  5. 11/22/2025

    Exploring Rites of Passage and Rituals with Kylan Bain

    Keywords Forged in Silence, masculinity, mental health, rites of passage, community, connection, elders, social media, knowledge transfer, shared experiences Summary In this episode of the Forged in Silence podcast, host Steve Knapp engages in a deep conversation with Kylan Bain about the challenges men face, the importance of shared experiences, and the role of rites of passage in cultural identity. They discuss how social media impacts connection and the need for community through rituals. Kylan shares insights from his research on knowledge transfer from elders to younger generations, emphasizing the significance of storytelling and experiential learning. The conversation concludes with a call to action for men to reach out for help and foster connections in their lives. Takeaways Shared experiences are crucial for men's mental health. Rites of passage help define cultural identity. Elders play a vital role in knowledge transfer. Social media can create a false sense of connection. Community rituals foster belonging and support. Experiential learning is essential for personal growth. Storytelling is the strongest tool for knowledge transference. Men today often lack clear leadership figures. The ideal presented in media is often superficial. Creating spaces for connection is more important than ever. Sound bites "There's an innate need for belonging." "The ideal is completely superficial." "We are all addicts of some sort." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Forged in Silence Podcast 09:16 The Importance of Shared Experiences 09:41 Exploring Wisdom from Elders 19:15 Rite of Passage and Masculinity 29:43 Cultural Identity and Modern Challenges 31:36 Navigating the Darkness of Identity 33:08 The Search for Masculinity and Mentorship 35:00 The Crisis of Leadership in Modern Society 36:44 The Illusion of Connection in Social Media 40:27 Building Community Through Shared Experiences 43:53 Rituals as Pathways to Connection and Learning 51:18 Bonding Through Shared Struggles and Experiences

    57 min

  6. 11/16/2025

    The Hardest Work You'll Ever Do With Justin Jacobs.

    Keywords mental health, emotional expression, personal growth, self-awareness, communication Summary The conversation delves into the challenges of expressing one's thoughts and emotions, emphasizing the importance of addressing internal struggles to prevent them from festering and causing harm. It highlights the difficulty of this work but underscores its necessity for personal growth and mental well-being. Takeaways This work is the hardest thing that you'll ever do in your life. If we carry it around with the extent of our lives, it will continue to affect us. Unexpressed emotions can lead to mental health issues. Addressing internal struggles is crucial for personal growth. Communication is key to overcoming emotional burdens. Self-awareness helps in recognizing the need to express feelings. Ignoring emotions can lead to a festering problem. Finding new perspectives can aid in emotional expression. It's important to confront rather than suppress feelings. Emotional expression is a vital part of mental well-being. Sound bites "this work is the hardest thing that you'll ever do in your life." "if we carry it around with the extent of our lives." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Men's Grief Coaching 00:29 The Power of Light and Healing

    49 min

  7. 11/09/2025

    Color of Noise Mic Therapy

    Color of Noise IG: https://www.instagram.com/con_colorofnoise/YouTube Channel: @ColorOfNoise  Website: https://colorofnoise.com/SummaryIn this conversation, Bruce shares a personal experience involving law enforcement and a domestic situation. He discusses the challenges he faced when trying to assert his rights over his property while dealing with the complexities of domestic violence dynamics. The conversation highlights the difficulties men may encounter in such situations and the legal implications that can arise.TakeawaysThe police often prioritize the safety of individuals over property rights.Domestic violence can complicate legal situations significantly.Men may face biases in domestic disputes, affecting their legal standing.Understanding the law is crucial when dealing with property disputes.Emotional dynamics play a significant role in domestic violence cases.It's important to remain calm and collected when interacting with law enforcement.Legal advice is essential in navigating complex domestic situations.Personal safety should always be a priority in confrontations.The perception of threat can influence police actions and decisions.Communication with law enforcement can be challenging in tense situations.Sound bites"The cops are waiting for me.""This is my house, I'll show you the title.""Do not go onto your property."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Forged in Silence Podcast00:56 Legal Battles - The Fight for Justice#mensmentalhealth #musicastherapy

    1h 1m

  8. 11/03/2025

    Conflict is an opportunity for deeper connection.

    Keywordsconflict, relationships, communication, emotional intelligence, gender differences, resolution, reconnecting, personal growth, vulnerability, healthy conflictSummaryIn this conversation, the hosts explore the complexities of conflict in relationships, focusing on how men and women experience and handle conflict differently. They discuss personal experiences, the importance of communication, and the need for reconnection after disagreements. The conversation emphasizes the significance of understanding emotional responses, the role of apologies, and the necessity of addressing resentment to foster healthier relationships.TakeawaysConflict is an opportunity for deeper connection.Avoiding conflict can lead to resentment and disconnection.Healthy communication is essential for resolving conflict.Reconnection after conflict strengthens relationships.Understanding gender differences in conflict resolution is crucial.Apologies should acknowledge the impact of actions, not dismiss feelings.Emotional awareness is key in navigating conflict.Conflict can be messy but is necessary for growth.Setting boundaries during conflict can help both parties.Practicing vulnerability in conflict leads to healthier outcomes.Sound bites"Conflict is messy and uncomfortable.""A real apology goes a long way.""Conflict is about finding common ground."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Conflict09:54 Personal Experiences with Conflict21:23 Understanding Conflict Dynamics27:34 Navigating Conflict with Care28:34 The Power of Reconnection in Relationships30:15 Understanding Conflict as an Opportunity34:27 Reparenting Ourselves for Healthy Conflict35:50 The Importance of Mutual Buy-In in Conflict Resolution40:04 The Art of Reconnecting After Conflict44:30 Navigating Emotional Responses in Conflict48:45 The Role of Apologies in Conflict Resolution

    57 min
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