Justin Baldoni

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  1. The Power of Speaking Out: FKA twigs on Healing and Accountability

    10/28/2024

    The Power of Speaking Out: FKA twigs on Healing and Accountability

    TW: This episode discusses domestic violence.  In this special episode, we sit down with singer-songwriter, dancer, actress, and model FKA twigs to explore her journey of healing, resilience, and reclaiming self-worth. In 2020, twigs courageously went public with allegations of domestic violence against her ex-partner Shia LaBeouf. As her legal battle approaches, she reflects on her decision to seek justice and shares her thoughts on the upcoming trial, emphasizing the importance of holding men accountable, no matter their status or success.   Twigs offers profound insights into her experience as a survivor, shedding light on how emotional manipulation can consume one’s entire psyche and leave lasting effects on both mind and body. She discusses the challenges of leaving an abusive relationship and the lifelong process of rebuilding trust and reclaiming every dimension of one's identity.  Released during the final week of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, this conversation serves as a powerful call for empathy, accountability, and cultural change. Whether you’re looking for inspiration or practical tools to navigate difficult relationships and your own healing journey, twigs’ voice will resonate deeply—reminding us that recovery is not linear, but with time and self-compassion, it is possible. If you or someone you know has experienced domestic or sexual violence, help is available. Find the support you need for yourself, a friend, a colleague, or a family member: nomore.org/help TIMECODES: (02:55) Introducing FKA twigs   (04:25) Leaving her abuser and feeling isolated   (13:49) Ongoing physical and mental effects of abuse   (21:41) Speaking out ahead of the trial   (35:16) Recognizing narcissism and abuse patterns   (46:33) How men can help by embracing vulnerability   (52:48) Relearning trust after abuse   (1:01:45) Acceptance, healing, and impact on humanity   (1:05:55) Being Man Enough   QUOTES: "One of the most painful things was realizing that I wasn't special ... It could have really been anyone. It was just bad luck that I got a part in a film." - twigs  "It really takes time to learn how to be me again. And I can say now, me was and is great, so I really want to be me." - twigs  "I used to thrive out of fear ... But now I embrace the darker, artistic sides of myself. Life doesn’t have to be all sparkles and rainbows — there’s a balance." - twigs  "Blaming someone for being in an abusive relationship is like blaming them for getting hit by a car — it just happened to them." - Liz  SUPPORT MAN ENOUGH https://manenough.com/newsletter  https://manenough.com/books  https://boyswillbehuman.com  FOLLOW THE HOSTS Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://twitter.com/feministabulous http://www.elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath  https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://twitter.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://www.jameyheath.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 12m
  2. Alok Vaid-Menon: The Urgent Need for Compassion

    07/26/2021

    Alok Vaid-Menon: The Urgent Need for Compassion

    Do you know who you are outside of who you have been told you should be? Acclaimed gender non-conforming writer, performer, and speaker, ALOK, shares their story, and the stories of those who came before them, with an urgency that invites us to step into our power and the power of interdependence. As the creator of the growing movement to degender fashion, ALOK is helping others move beyond the binary into full expression. In a conversation filled with wisdom, historical insight, and radical mercy, ALOK challenges us to value compassion over comprehension, to try harder for each other in the name of love, and reminds us that learning is a sign of being alive. We want your feedback on season 1. Please click here to let us know what you think: bit.ly/manenoughsurvey The Man Enough Podcast, produced by Wayfarer Studios, P&G Studios, in partnership with Cadence13, an Audacy company Launch Partner: P&G HOSTS: Justin Baldoni, Liz Plank, and Jamey Heath JOIN THE MAN ENOUGH COMMUNITY: Instagram: https://instagram.com/wearemanenough TikTok: https://tiktok.com/wearemanenough Facebook: https://facebook.com/wearemanenough Subscribe to our newsletter for behind the scenes, updates, and new episodes: https://manenough.com/newsletter Read the book: https://manenough.com/books FOLLOW THE HOSTS: Justin Baldoni Instagram: https://instagram.com/justinbaldoni Justin Baldoni TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justinbaldoni Justin Baldoni Facebook: https://facebook.com/justinbaldoni Justin Baldoni Twitter: https://twitter.com/justinbaldoni Text Justin: +1 (310) 845-6909 Liz Plank: https://instagram.com/feministabulous Liz Plank TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@lizplank Liz Plank Facebook: https://facebook.com/feministabulous Liz Plank Twitter: https://twitter.com/feministabulous Site: http://www.elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath Instagram: https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ Jamey Heath TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath Jamey Heath Twitter: https://twitter.com/jamey_heath_ Jamey Heath Facebook: https://facebook.com/jameyjaz Site: http://www.jameyheath.com/ ALOK ALOK Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alokvmenon/ ALOK Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AlokVMenon/ ALOK Twitter: https://twitter.com/alokvmenon ALOK youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCG_G2mCoGdNUIOPaPrgorHg Follow: https://manenough.com/podcast #ManEnough #ALOK #Gender PRODUCED BY: Wayfarer Studios: https://www.wayfarerstudios.com Wayfarer Studios YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/WayfarerEnter... P&G Studios Executive Producers: Justin Baldoni, Jamey Heath, Tarah Malhotra-Feinberg, Marc Pritchard, Carrie Rathod, Chris Corcoran Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 10m
  3. Break the Pattern: Creating Positive and Healthy Relationships with Kimya Motley and Dr. Alduan Tartt

    08/12/2024

    Break the Pattern: Creating Positive and Healthy Relationships with Kimya Motley and Dr. Alduan Tartt

    TW: This episode discusses domestic and gun violence.  This inspiring episode focuses on the journey from trauma to healing and loving relationships, featuring a conversation with A Call to Men Chief Communications Officer Kimya Motley, who is a domestic violence (dv) survivor, and psychologist and relationships expert Dr. Alduan Tartt.  Kimya shares her remarkable story of resilience and recovery after surviving repeated violence, emphasizing the importance of recognizing red flags and finding positive role models for healthy manhood.  Dr. Tartt, who also played a pivotal role in Kimya's healing journey, serving as an example of positive masculinity, provides insights into fostering healthy relationships and offers practical advice on breaking the cycle of abuse.  They explore the power of community, policy reform and media representation in an effort to create a safer and more supportive world. Despite the harrowing realities they discuss, this conversation shines a light on the hope and healing that can emerge from even the darkest experiences.  They also discuss IT ENDS WITH US, the new film from Wayfarer Studios and Justin Baldoni, which depicts situations and themes of dv between its two lead characters. The film, which just celebrated its global theatrical premiere, was made in close consultation with our partners at NO MORE and is based on the best-selling novel by Colleen Hoover.  Join a hopeful conversation, providing valuable tools for anyone committed to understanding and combating dv. Watch the video version on our YouTube. If you or someone you know has experienced domestic or sexual violence, help is available: http://nomore.org/ QUOTES: "You don’t just wake up one day to get shot by your husband. There are things that you go through in your life that bring you to that." - Kimya "We have to produce more media where people can see examples of positive manhood because we take it for granted that everyone sees this." - Dr. Tartt "To be man enough means to be your authentic self, not being defined by what other people say you should be or represent as a man, but what does being a man feel like to you?" - Kimya "The most healing came from me sharing my story with other people, hearing women and men come and say, ‘Thank you for sharing that,’ and then they were able to share their stories of abuse, surviving, and men who had a part." - Kimya "Being man enough means being bigger than your pride and admitting that you need help." - Dr. Tartt "The emotional abuse usually sets the groundwork for the physical abuse to then feel normal or even deserved." - Liz ABOUT THE GUESTS Kimya Motley is an educator, activist, and author dedicated to ending violence against women and girls. At A Call to Men, she uses her personal story to inspire change and promote healthy manhood. Her memoir, Born of Violence, gained national attention, and her work has been featured in Essence, Red Table Talks, and more. She co-produced the documentary Intentionally Erased and created violence-prevention trainings for the NFL and MLB. IG: @kimyamotley TikTok: @kimyamotley FB: KimyaNMotley Dr. Alduan Tartt is a psychologist, minister, speaker, and author, recognized as a leading expert in relationships and mental health. He has a PhD in Clinical Psychology and received the NAACP Lifetime Achievement Award for his dedication to empowering youth and families. He's a passionate advocate for redefining masculinity to include emotional expression, compassion, and strength, and he's committed to helping people build healthy, fulfilling relationships. IG: @drtartt drtartt.com YT: DRTARTT1 X: @drtartt MORE MAN ENOUGH https://manenough.com/newsletter  IG: @wearemanenough TikTok: @wearemanenough FOLLOW THE HOSTS Liz Plank IG: @feministabulous TikTok: @lizplank X: @feministabulous http://elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath  IG: @jamey_heath_ TikTok: @jameyheath http://jameyheath.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 28m
  4. Kier Gaines: Becoming Your Own Role Model

    11/22/2021

    Kier Gaines: Becoming Your Own Role Model

    Mental health therapist and digital content creator, Kier Gaines shares about his fears, marriage and fatherhood, how his experiences being raised by powerful women shaped the man he is, and why it’s so important to him to be a part of breaking the stigmas of mental health, especially in the Black community. With his wisdom and magnetic personality, Kier shows that self-awareness, vulnerability, and therapy are not just trendy topics, but are powerful tools that allow us to be confident and comfortable in who we are. New episodes every Monday 🎙️ The video version of every episode and bonus features will always be available at https://ManEnough.com/podcast   The Man Enough Podcast is produced by Wayfarer Studios and presented by Procter and Gamble, in partnership with Cadence13, an Audacy company. JOIN THE MAN ENOUGH COMMUNITY:  https://instagram.com/wearemanenough https://tiktok.com/wearemanenough https://twitter.com/WeAreManEnough https://facebook.com/wearemanenough Subscribe to the Man Enough newsletter for behind the scenes, updates, sneak peeks of new episodes, and positive masculinity content: https://manenough.com/newsletter Read the Man Enough book: https://manenough.com/books FOLLOW KIER GAINES https://www.tiktok.com/@kiergaines https://www.instagram.com/kiergaines https://twitter.com/KierGaines https://www.youtube.com/c/KierandNoemie https://www.kierandthem.com/ FOLLOW THE HOSTS: Justin Baldoni https://instagram.com/justinbaldoni https://www.tiktok.com/@justinbaldoni https://facebook.com/justinbaldoni https://twitter.com/justinbaldoni Text: +1 (310) 845-6909 Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://twitter.com/feministabulous http://www.elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://twitter.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://www.jameyheath.com/ SPECIAL ADVERTISER OFFERS FOR YOU Athletic Greens This episode is brought to you by Athletic Greens, the health and wellness company that makes comprehensive daily nutrition really really simple. ONE tasty scoop of AG1 by Athletic Greens contains 75 vitamins, minerals and whole food-sourced ingredients, including a multivitamin, multi-mineral, probiotic, greens superfood blend and more in one convenient daily serving. To make it easy, Athletic Greens is going to give you an immune supporting FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase when you visit http://athleticgreens.com/MANENOUGH today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 21m
  5. Men Under 30 Ask Men Over 30: Jamey Answers Community Questions

    06/17/2024

    Men Under 30 Ask Men Over 30: Jamey Answers Community Questions

    The hosts tackle what it means to be a provider today, discuss how men can balance financial and emotional support, and explore the evolving roles in relationships. In the spirit of the trend “Guys Under 30 Ask, Guys Over 30 Answer”, Jamey answers audience questions on self-compassion, accountability, and being present in a fast-paced world. From redefining traditional gender roles to maintaining healthy relationships with exes, this episode offers relatable insights and practical advice.  Whether you're seeking self-compassion or reflecting on life's journey, Jamey and Liz provide an engaging discussion on modern masculinity and building fulfilling, balanced lives. TIMECODES: (02:58) Topic Begins: Men Under 30 Ask, Jamey (Man Over 30) Answers (04:57) @lookforrev: “What skills have you learned around self-compassion?” (09:22) @AustinCA03: "Dads who had kids relatively early, how do you maintain balance in your life while also providing for your child and spouse?" (13:58) Theo: "What are the interpersonal or relationship skills you wish you could have learned earlier and how would you have gone about learning them?" (20:37) James: How are expectations of what it means to be a provider changing when we are all struggling in this economy? (25:25) Riley: "What are the positives of getting older?" (31:06) "What can I do to help overcome the voice that's telling me to keep being miserable?" (35:49) Jamey asks Liz: "At what point does it become easier?" (39:31) "Who has been able to maintain strong and healthy relationship with their exes?" QUOTES: "I think you fall in love much more easily when you accept the person that you are trying to be in love with." - Jamey “The voice inside my head that I thought was me for 30 plus years is actually a liar. And in the moments where I feel like that voice is really loud, that's a signal to me that I need to behave differently. Because I think it's hard to change the voice, but if you are treating yourself with compassion and you're treating yourself kindly, then that voice will become less high-pitched.” - Liz “In this day and age where more and more women are being seen and valued for their contributions, as they should, have opportunities more than maybe at one time were afforded to them, I think families have to consult and discuss what providing means. It doesn't just mean financially. Does dad provide for the family emotionally, taking care of the home, watching out for the children, taking them to baseball practice or laundry and dishes?” - Jamey "I feel like friendships, relationships are built in the nothingness, in the mundane stuff, and just the normal stuff." - Jamey "I'm gonna look back at this time and think I was so young. I'm not gonna think about all the insecurities that I have right now about how aging is showing up in my body." - Liz “How we can be better in the world, how we can be better to our parents, our children, our friends, our workmates? When you are fully accountable, then you can have real forgiveness for yourself.” - Jamey “If you can see the end in the beginning, you might think that very thing that you were distressed about, knowing that that's what's going to then get you to the next stage. So I think part of the thing to make life easier is embrace where you are in this day.” - Jamey SUPPORT MAN ENOUGH https://manenough.com/newsletter  https://manenough.com/books  https://boyswillbehuman.com  FOLLOW THE HOSTS Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://x.com/feministabulous http://elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath  https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://x.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://jameyheath.com/ Executive Producers: Justin Baldoni, Jamey Heath, Tarah Malhotra-Feinberg Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    50 min
  6. The Power of Self-Love: Kevin Hines on Turning Brain Pain into Purpose

    08/26/2024

    The Power of Self-Love: Kevin Hines on Turning Brain Pain into Purpose

    TW: This episode discusses suicide and depression In this uplifting episode, we sit down with Kevin Hines, an award-winning speaker and mental health advocate, to explore resilience, hope, and the journey to self-love. At the age of 19, Kevin survived a suicide attempt that forever changed his life. He shares his path from the miracle that saved him that day to now dedicating himself to helping others overcome "brain pain" and find their way to healing. Throughout the conversation, Kevin shares profound insights on the power of empathy, the importance of positive self-talk, and the critical need to reach out for help when it’s needed most. They touch on the complexities of mental health, the impact of childhood trauma, and the transformative effect of forgiveness. He also discusses his advocacy work, including his role in the installation of suicide prevention nets at the Golden Gate Bridge. This is a powerful reminder that no matter how difficult life gets, there is always hope, and that each life holds immense value. Whether you’re seeking inspiration or practical advice on mental health, this conversation is for anyone striving to live a fuller, more compassionate life with the ability to find light in the darkest moments. Don't miss this chance to hear from a man who has turned his pain into a mission to save lives. If you are in Crisis, or struggling with thoughts of suicide please call or text 988 or text CNQR to 741-741 TIMECODES: (01:47) Introducing Kevin Hines (5:11) Kevin Hines' background, challenges he faced growing up, and his life-changing experience at the Golden Gate Bridge.  (12:19) Current state of boys/men and skewed perceptions of suicide (17:45) Moving from self-hate to self-love (24:35) Jamey reflects on his own mother and experiences (28:18) Reframing definitions, perceptions and approach to suicide and people that need help (57:26) Gender trends and differences related to suicide, normalizing struggle for all (1:05:22) The initiative to get suicide prevention nets installed at the Golden Gate Bridge (1:09:51) Exercise to reduce negative self-talk and depression (1:12:15) What does it mean to be “man enough”? QUOTES: "Suicide is not the answer to the problem. It is the problem. You're beautiful just as you are, and you are enough." - Kevin (1:10:50) "We are all human who want the same things. We want to experience joy and love. We want to be seen…We want to build some legacy, to be valued, to make a mark in some way." - Jamey (24:57) "The thoughts are…It's almost like you're on this radio station and you can't change the channel...And it's constant and it's all the time and it is inescapable in many ways…But the solution is not for you to go. It’s to actually ask for help." - Liz (16:48) "Without self-love we cannot give of ourselves to any other human being." - Kevin (14:15) KEVIN HINES LINKS:  Books: The Art of Being Broken, How Storytelling Saves Lives; The Dimly Lit Star - https://kevinhinesstory.com/shop/  Film: The Net - https://TheNetMovie.com  https://www.instagram.com/kevinhinesstory/  https://x.com/KevinHinesStory   http://YouTube.com/KevinHines http://YouTube.com/HinesightsPodcast    SUPPORT MAN ENOUGH https://manenough.com/newsletter  https://manenough.com/books  https://boyswillbehuman.com  FOLLOW THE HOSTS Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://twitter.com/feministabulous http://www.elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath  https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://twitter.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://www.jameyheath.com/ Executive Producers: Justin Baldoni, Jamey Heath, Tarah Malhotra-Feinberg Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 19m
  7. Strength in Unity: Men Supporting Women in Leadership

    08/19/2024

    Strength in Unity: Men Supporting Women in Leadership

    Hosts Jamey Heath and Liz Plank discuss the significant shifts happening in our society and the crucial role men play in supporting these changes. This moment is a catalyst for broader conversations about gender and racial equality, challenging us to reconsider who gets to lead and whose voices matter. Moving beyond politics, they recognize the cultural crossroads we face right now — a chance for America to reckon with its history and redefine its future.  Liz and Jamey highlight how men are actively dismantling long-standing barriers to equality. They stress the importance for men, the traditional power holders, to actively support women in leadership roles, especially Black women and other historically marginalized people.  Men will make great impact when they recognize women’s contributions and help to break down barriers that have long kept them from positions of power. By standing with them and championing their leadership, men can help shape a future where everyone thrives. This episode encourages all of us, particularly men, to engage in meaningful conversations, challenge the status quo, and work together to build a society that values and uplifts everyone. It is a collective movement toward a more just and inclusive world, where men and women unite in a societal awakening that drives people to build something new together. QUOTES: "The best room is not a room full of women. It's a room full of everybody." – Liz (32:57) "We look for all reasons to keep people down, to oppress, and to not let women (I don't even like saying the word 'let' like it's mine to even give), but to not champion women being in their full glory." – Jamey (20:20) "This is a huge moment for women, for women of color being our leaders and us following them and supporting them." – Liz (5:26) “I need my son and my daughter, other sons and daughters to learn how to see with their own eyes, hear with their own ears, to make an assessment that's borne out of truth, and not just false imitation. Just because my parents thought it, just because someone else said it. It's like really dive in yourself. And I feel like men…the more that we take a good look at ourselves, look at who's in front of us, look at the capacity of people, look at the beauty of people, look at some of the faults…do it with our own eyes and not get caught up in the mob, we become better, and better, and better.” - Jamey (33:02) “it's not men versus women. A lot of people will try and convince you that that's the way that it is. If you give a lot to women, that means you're taking away from men...The other option is men plus women equals even infinity, that when we work together, and we collaborate, and we love each other, and we unite, and we connect, then the world is our oyster. Then we all get more freedom. We all get more possibility. We all get more liberty, and all of the beautiful things that we want in life. And it's a lot more fun...when we get along.” - Liz (31:59) “We're seeing men…[that] are the fruit of all the labor that you have been doing, of so many people who are saying, "Don't ignore us. We have incredible things to say. Get your foot off my neck." And that's what makes me feel proud when I see men of this nature raising money for something 10 years ago would've not. 100 years ago, they would've been in jail for raising money for a Black campaign, or shot and killed.” - Jamey (10:01) SUPPORT MAN ENOUGH https://manenough.com/newsletter  https://manenough.com/books  https://boyswillbehuman.com  FOLLOW THE HOSTS Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://x.com/feministabulous http://elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath  https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://x.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://jameyheath.com/ Executive Producers: Justin Baldoni, Jamey Heath, Tarah Malhotra-Feinberg Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    40 min
  8. Shawn Mendes: Shifting From Self To Service

    06/28/2021

    Shawn Mendes: Shifting From Self To Service

    What happens when we are too concerned with being perceived as the “good guy” that we forget we are human? Award winning singer-songwriter Shawn Mendes shares experiences from his childhood, career and current relationship that have shaped his ideas of masculinity, privilege, and service. With wisdom beyond his years and a calmness that is contagious, Shawn’s vulnerability gives us permission to open up in our own lives and reframe what it means to be human by moving beyond the good guy/bad guy binary. We want your feedback on season 1. Please click here to let us know what you think: bit.ly/manenoughsurvey New episodes every Monday 🎙️ The video version of every episode and bonus features will always be available at https://ManEnough.com/podcast   The Man Enough Podcast is produced by Wayfarer Studios and presented by Procter and Gamble, in partnership with Cadence13, an Audacy company. JOIN THE MAN ENOUGH COMMUNITY:  https://instagram.com/wearemanenough https://tiktok.com/wearemanenough https://twitter.com/WeAreManEnough https://facebook.com/wearemanenough Subscribe to the Man Enough newsletter for behind the scenes, updates, sneak peeks of new episodes, and positive masculinity content: https://manenough.com/newsletter Read the Man Enough book: https://manenough.com/books FOLLOW THE HOSTS: Justin Baldoni https://instagram.com/justinbaldoni https://www.tiktok.com/@justinbaldoni https://facebook.com/justinbaldoni https://twitter.com/justinbaldoni Text: +1 (310) 845-6909 Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://twitter.com/feministabulous http://www.elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://twitter.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://www.jameyheath.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 17m
  9. Modern Dating: Choosing Connection Over Attention With Matthew Hussey

    04/15/2024

    Modern Dating: Choosing Connection Over Attention With Matthew Hussey

    Renowned dating coach and New York Times bestselling author Matthew Hussey brings his expert insights into modern dating, emphasizing the importance of building connections that go beyond superficial interactions. The conversation delves into the common traps of today's dating culture, which often lead people into patterns of avoidance and isolation. We talk about how this is particularly affecting young men and Matthew provides specific tips to help shift our perspectives. Co-host Jamey Heath highlights the importance of prioritizing friendship as a foundation for romantic relationships while co-host Liz Plank vulnerably shares her fear and personal frustration with dating. This set the stage for a healthy debate about whether we should lower our standards or not while looking for our perfect match and the important idea of being 'happy enough' before everything else. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of modern relationships and looking to cultivate genuine connections. Whether you’re actively dating or evaluating your current relationship, you’ll find valuable insights and advice to help you move forward. Matthew's new book, Love Life, is out on April 23, 2024 - you can pre-order at LoveLifeBook.com TIMECODES: (00:00) Episode Begins  (04:45) When is the last time you didn’t feel enough? (10:36) Dating advices men VS women (17:36) Leaving a relationship that doesn't serve you (20:22) Don't confuse anxiety for passion (29:57) The loneliness epidemic (43:15) Sacrifice attention for connection (51:37) Unbearable desire to find love at all cost (58:40) Should we lower our standards? (1:07:53) The concept of "happy enough" (1:15:37) Rapid fire questions (i.e. helpful tips) (1:27:59) Being man enough QUOTES: "If you don't like the culture, you have to be brave enough to create your own." - Matthew Hussey  "We often glorify people who have found a relationship, but there are so many people I've met who are more successful the day they leave their relationship." - Matthew Hussey  "Anxiety can often feel like passion. You get excited about someone, but you don't necessarily know exactly why." - Matthew Hussey  "You'll find the right one faster if you can lose the wrong one sooner." - Matthew Hussey ABOUT MATTHEW HUSSEY: Matthew Hussey is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and coach specializing in confidence and relational intelligence. His YouTube channel is number one in the world for love life advice, with over half a billion views. He writes a weekly newsletter and is the host of the podcast Love Life With Matthew Hus­sey. Hussey provides monthly coaching to the members of his private community at LoveLifeClub.com. Over the past fifteen years, his proven approach has inspired millions through authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables them to find love but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness. He lives in Los Angeles. MATTHEW HUSSEY SOCIAL  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thematthewhussey Website: www.matthewhussey.com SUPPORT MAN ENOUGH https://manenough.com/newsletter  https://manenough.com/books  https://boyswillbehuman.com  FOLLOW THE HOSTS Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://twitter.com/feministabulous http://www.elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath  https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://twitter.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://www.jameyheath.com/ Tags:  #Masculinity #Men #ManEnough #datingtips #relationship #selfworth #loveadvice Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 37m
  10. Karamo Brown: Reframing the Masculine Mentality

    06/21/2021

    Karamo Brown: Reframing the Masculine Mentality

    Activist, author, and one of the stars of the hit series “Queer Eye,” Karamo Brown provides humor, insight and truth on this premiere of The Man Enough Podcast. He opens up about his past experiences with abuse, how domestic violence impacts the LGBTQ+ community, as well as the importance of accountability, doing the work to grow and making amends along the way. Karamo’s powerful presence and eye-opening vulnerability invite us to lean into our stories, including our mistakes, with courage and compassion. New episodes every Monday 🎙️ The video version of every episode and bonus features will always be available at https://ManEnough.com/podcast   The Man Enough Podcast is produced by Wayfarer Studios and presented by Procter and Gamble, in partnership with Cadence13, an Audacy company. JOIN THE MAN ENOUGH COMMUNITY:  https://instagram.com/wearemanenough https://tiktok.com/wearemanenough https://twitter.com/WeAreManEnough https://facebook.com/wearemanenough Subscribe to the Man Enough newsletter for behind the scenes, updates, sneak peeks of new episodes, and positive masculinity content: https://manenough.com/newsletter Read the Man Enough book: https://manenough.com/books FOLLOW KARAMO BROWN https://www.instagram.com/karamo https://www.tiktok.com/@karamobrown https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100044171269280 https://twitter.com/Karamo FOLLOW THE HOSTS: Justin Baldoni https://instagram.com/justinbaldoni https://www.tiktok.com/@justinbaldoni https://facebook.com/justinbaldoni https://twitter.com/justinbaldoni Text: +1 (310) 845-6909 Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://twitter.com/feministabulous http://www.elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://twitter.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://www.jameyheath.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 1m
  11. Healing Is Not Linear: Mental Health, Letting Go of Control, and Accountability with Justin, Jamey & Liz

    02/27/2023

    Healing Is Not Linear: Mental Health, Letting Go of Control, and Accountability with Justin, Jamey & Liz

    Justin shares his journey with therapy and mental health. Liz is shifting her focus and letting go of control. Jamey talks about his need for accountability in his professional and personal life. Join us as Justin, Jamey and Liz reflect on where they are now and reflect on their personal growth since the podcast began in 2021.   New episodes every Monday 🎙️ The video version of every episode will always be available on the @wearemanenough YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/WeAreManEnough  The Man Enough Podcast is produced by Wayfarer Studios and presented by Procter and Gamble, in partnership with Cadence13, an Audacy company. Show Notes:  01:07 Episode Starts 05:22 Who Is Man Enough For? 06:27 Liz Reflects  09:55 Healing Is Not Easy 15:11 Becoming A Better Man 24:54 Jamey’s Rules for Life  29:16 No Victims, Only Volunteers  31:53 Audience Reflection Quotes: “In the best relationships you’ll feel both comforted and challenged.” - Liz Plank  “Healing is not linear” - Justin Baldoni  “The greatest form of activism is self-activism” Justin Baldoni (quoting Emily Baldoni)  “I have to treat myself the way I want others to treat me” - Justin Baldoni “Bring thyself to account each day before thou art summoned to a reckoning” - Jamey Heath (quoting Baháʼu'lláh) “There are no victims there’s just volunteers” - Liz Plank (quoting Robert Anthony) Subscribe to the Man Enough newsletter for behind the scenes, updates, sneak peeks of new episodes, and positive masculinity content: https://manenough.com/newsletter Read the Man Enough book: https://manenough.com/books Order the Boys Will Be Human book: https://boyswillbehuman.com  FOLLOW THE HOSTS: Justin Baldoni https://instagram.com/justinbaldoni https://www.tiktok.com/@justinbaldoni https://facebook.com/justinbaldoni https://twitter.com/justinbaldoni Text: +1 (310) 845-6909 Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://twitter.com/feministabulous http://www.elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://twitter.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://www.jameyheath.com/ #personalgrowth #mentalhealth #accountability #mindfulness #physicalhealth #exercise #reflect #growth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    38 min
  12. Understanding Men and Their Trauma with Dr. Gabor Maté

    12/12/2022

    Understanding Men and Their Trauma with Dr. Gabor Maté

    Men aren’t toxic, they’re traumatized. Renowned physician, author and speaker Dr. Gabor Maté talks about internalized rage, our toxic world culture, childhood trauma and reframing our approach to mental illness. With over 40 years of clinical experience and personal development, Maté takes us to school on our misconceptions about the traumas and “toxicity” within us as he gently reminds us that we are much more connected than we are led to believe.      New episodes every Monday 🎙️ The video version of every episode and bonus features will always be available on the @wearemanenough YouTube channel ( https://youtube.com/WeAreManEnough ) and at https://ManEnough.com/podcast    The Man Enough Podcast is produced by Wayfarer Studios and presented by Procter and Gamble, in partnership with Cadence13, an Audacy company. The Myth Of Normal  Dr Gabor Maté’s newest book The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, is a groundbreaking investigation into the causes of illness, a bracing critique of how our society breeds disease, and a pathway to health and healing. The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture -- https://drgabormate.com/book/the-myth-of-normal/ About Dr.Gabor Maté: A renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several books, including the New York Times bestseller The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and has co authored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in over thirty languages. Show Notes  00:00 Episode Begins  02:32 Introducing Dr.Gabor Maté 03:43 Who qualifies "enough-ness?" 12:58 How does our culture impact women and men's health differently?   23:20 The Answer to Chaos is Harmony  25:33 The Culture Has Deprived Men  34:15 When do we begin believing the world is against us? 36:31 Vulnerability is Brave 44:14 Reframing Mental Illness 48:16 Mother's don't chose to get stressed 49:40 How do we achieve human empowerment? 55:20 Rage in the body 58:47 Recovering from Trauma 01:04:00 Owning your own healing  01:08:05 What does it mean to be man enough? Key Quotes from the Episode:  Healing is actually about growth, it's about becoming whole and for most of us, that's a lifelong proposition - Dr. Gabor Maté Guest Social Links:  Instagram:@gabormatemd Twitter: @DrGaborMate JOIN THE MAN ENOUGH COMMUNITY:  https://instagram.com/wearemanenough https://tiktok.com/wearemanenough https://twitter.com/WeAreManEnough https://facebook.com/wearemanenough https://youtube.com/WeAreManEnough Subscribe to the Man Enough newsletter for behind the scenes, updates, sneak peeks of new episodes, and positive masculinity content: https://manenough.com/newsletter Read the Man Enough book: https://manenough.com/books Order the Boys Will Be Human book: https://boyswillbehuman.com  FOLLOW THE HOSTS: Justin Baldoni https://instagram.com/justinbaldoni https://www.tiktok.com/@justinbaldoni https://facebook.com/justinbaldoni https://twitter.com/justinbaldoni Text: +1 (310) 845-6909 Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://twitter.com/feministabulous http://www.elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://twitter.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://www.jameyheath.com/  #mentalhealth #happiness #joy #mindset #anxiety #goodvibesonly Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 16m
  13. Healthline: No More Silence

    11/08/2021

    Healthline: No More Silence

    For Men’s Health Awareness Month (November), we are partnering with Healthline.com on a special content series, "No More Silence", a 4-episode video series exploring different aspects of men’s health, why men avoid speaking up for their physical and mental well-being, and how we can create a world where more men are empowered to seek treatment. Enjoy the audio of all four episodes here in one single listen and visit http://healthline.com/nomoresilence to watch the video versions. With special guest Yolo Akili Robinson, award-winning writer, healing justice worker, founder, and executive director of BEAM (Black Emotional and Mental Health Collective), we invite you to join us in looking at men's relationship to health. The panel provides personal insight to help break the silence and stigmas around seeking professional care. They discuss how we can all do better at creating spaces for men, boys, and masculine folks to have compassion for themselves, practice vulnerability, and take actions toward a healthier tomorrow.  TW: body dysmorphia, sexual abuse, intimate partner abuse New episodes every Monday 🎙️ The video version of every episode and bonus features will always be available at https://ManEnough.com/podcast   The Man Enough Podcast is produced by Wayfarer Studios and presented by Procter and Gamble, in partnership with Cadence13, an Audacy company. JOIN THE MAN ENOUGH COMMUNITY:  https://instagram.com/wearemanenough https://tiktok.com/wearemanenough https://twitter.com/WeAreManEnough https://facebook.com/wearemanenough Subscribe to the Man Enough newsletter for behind the scenes, updates, sneak peeks of new episodes, and positive masculinity content: https://manenough.com/newsletter Read the Man Enough book: https://manenough.com/books HEALTHLINE http://healthline.com/nomoresilence https://www.instagram.com/healthline/ https://twitter.com/Healthline https://www.facebook.com/healthline https://www.youtube.com/c/HealthlineMedia FOLLOW YOLO AKILI https://www.beam.community/yoloakili https://www.instagram.com/yoloakili/ https://twitter.com/YoloAkili FOLLOW THE HOSTS: Justin Baldoni https://instagram.com/justinbaldoni https://www.tiktok.com/@justinbaldoni https://facebook.com/justinbaldoni https://twitter.com/justinbaldoni Text: +1 (310) 845-6909 Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://twitter.com/feministabulous http://www.elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://twitter.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://www.jameyheath.com/ SPECIAL ADVERTISER OFFERS FOR YOU Headspace Headspace is your convenient dose of mediation, mindfulness, and sleep exercises to relieve stress and anxiety and help you get a good night's sleep, all in one app - making it easy to catch your breath and make time for your mental health. Justin and Liz have both been using it for a long time and highly recommend it. Go to http://headspace.com/MANENOUGH and get one month FREE of their entire meditation library. Athletic Greens This episode is also brought to you by Athletic Greens, the health and wellness company that makes comprehensive daily nutrition really really simple. ONE tasty scoop of AG1 by Athletic Greens contains 75 vitamins, minerals and whole food-sourced ingredients, including a multivitamin, multimineral, probiotic, greens superfood blend and more in one convenient daily serving. To make it easy, Athletic Greens is going to give you an immune supporting FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase when you visit http://athleticgreens.com/MANENOUGH today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    59 min
  14. Change the Norm: Men’s Role in Holding Each Other Accountable

    06/10/2024

    Change the Norm: Men’s Role in Holding Each Other Accountable

    The hosts tackle the complex and sensitive issue of men’s violence against women, sparked by the disturbing P. Diddy video that recently emerged. They delve into the broader implications of such behavior, examining how men can hold each other accountable, how celebrity and power play in allowing this behavior, and the societal structures that perpetuate these cycles of abuse.  Jamey shares a visceral reaction to seeing women be brutally mistreated (03:11), discussing the conflicting feelings of rage and the need for non-violent responses. Liz highlights the importance of listening to women and understanding their experiences without shifting the focus to male emotions (07:37). They discuss the necessity of creating safe spaces for men to seek help before resorting to violence, emphasizing proactive education for young boys to foster respect and empathy (12:27). Men are urged to consider their roles in preventing abuse and supporting victims, with a poignant reminder of the need for systemic change and personal accountability. The conversation closes with resources for those in need of support (see http://nomore.org) and a call to action for ongoing dialogue and education (27:48). TIMECODES: (01:38) P. Diddy’s violence and its broader implications  (03:17) Personal reactions and emotional impact, the human impact of witnessing such violence (05:07) What do we do with these feelings? How do we hold men accountable?  (06:00) The effect of aggressive male reactions on female victims they love - how to be more helpful (10:03) How power plays into men getting away with violence, men around them staying silent (12:41) Training young boys to see women as valuable, to see themselves as gentle creatures and not violent ones (13:35) Quick to condemn when we see it, but no serious consequences (Trump, Cosby, R. Kelly, Weinstein) (19:51) Why women get into violent relationships and stay - “You love the person by the time they're doing it” (23:41) The importance of videos like this spreading even though they’re horrific, and how valuable it is to talk about this (27:48) Resources for people experiencing abuse and for men that feel like they might be violent to get help before they cause harm (http://nomore.org)    QUOTES: "How do we hold each other accountable as men when we see other men do things of this nature?" - Jamey Heath "We have to train our young boys to see women, to see themselves as gentle creatures and not violent creatures." - Jamey Heath "When a woman is treated like an animal, we have to address it. We have to stop it." - Jamey Heath "We reward men who are extremely uncaring and who get to where they're at by hurting people." - Liz Plank "I went to a Trump rally for women and I asked, ‘What would you say to 7 out of 10 women have an unfavorable view of Donald Trump?’ And one woman's answer really stuck with me: "I think 7 out of 10 women have an unfavorable view of a lot of men. So I'm still going to vote for him." This idea that the bar is so low for what we expect from men in our society, that even women will want to put this person in power even though he is a violent person towards women.” - Liz Plank "It's tricky because you have someone who's in a position of power who's paying people's bills. It's your job, it's your livelihood…We should say something, but I've got a family to uphold." - Jamey Heath SUPPORT MAN ENOUGH https://manenough.com/newsletter  https://manenough.com/books  https://boyswillbehuman.com  FOLLOW THE HOSTS Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://x.com/feministabulous http://elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath  https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://x.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://jameyheath.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    35 min
  15. Creating Positive Self-Expression and Body Image with StyleLikeU’s Elisa and Lily

    11/06/2023

    Creating Positive Self-Expression and Body Image with StyleLikeU’s Elisa and Lily

    Lily Mandelbaum and Elisa Goodkind, the mother-daughter duo behind the groundbreaking digital media platform “StyleLikeU,” join us for a truly inspirational conversation about body positivity (25:07), self-love, confidence, and the beauty of embracing "what's underneath."  Tune in for an exciting announcement: StyleLikeU is partnering with Man Enough to release a new season of the popular What’s Underneath series, titled “What’s Underneath: Masculinity.” (11:42) For the first time in StyleLikeU’s history the series will exclusively focus on men and masculinity!  Pulling from a shared belief in the connective power of vulnerability and truth (15:24), this collaboration is set to redefine the conversation around men and masculinity, challenging stereotypes, and encouraging self-expression all while calling men in, not out. Join us for thought-provoking discussions with Steve-O, Jidenna, Colton Underwood, and others as we explore themes like body image, sex addiction, sports culture, mental health, and much more.  This special season of What’s Underneath will debut on November 9th with video episodes available on StyleLikeU's YouTube channel and extended podcast interviews right here on The Man Enough Podcast feed.  Watch this episode on YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/LZWjW526uoA Sign up for the Man Enough newsletter to get full video episodes it and positive masculinity news every Monday: http://manenough.com/newsletter The Man Enough Podcast is produced by Wayfarer Studios and presented by Procter and Gamble, in partnership with Cadence13, an Audacy company. Timecodes:  (00:10) - It’s time we recognize eating disorders in men  (04:52) - When was the last time Lily & Elisa didn’t feel enough? (11: 42) - Man Enough x StyleLikeU Season Announcement! (15: 24) - How Lily and Elisa founded “StyleLikeU” (23:15) - How Elisa’s relationship to her body affected Lily growing up (25:07) - The power of owning your body  (30:21) - Cultural Beauty Standards  (42:27) - How Lily found self-acceptance  (51:23) - How society heightens our insecurities  (55:31) - What does it mean to be Man Enough? Quotes: “I think all things should and can appeal to men, not just things you find in a men's book, but things that appeal to women as well.” - Jamey Heath “Two people could be wearing the same outfit, but if one person is really owning who they are…that’s what makes you stop and stare.” - Lily Mandelbaum “We learned through all these interviews that the unifying thread between everybody that we were drawn to interview wasn't about their clothing at all, it was about their sense of comfort in their skin.” - Lily Mandelbaum About StyleLikeU StyleLikeU is a radically honest media company powering a self-acceptance revolution. Their mission is to fundamentally change how people see themselves and others. Their video series such as, The What’s Underneath Project, Closets, Dispelling Beauty Myths and more connect people through the healing power of vulnerability, truth sharing, and the unshakeable bravery to be yourself. Founded by mother-daughter duo, Elisa Goodkind and Lily Mandelbaum. Instagram: @stylelikeu Youtube: StyleLikeU Guest Links LILY Instagram: @lilymandelbaum ELISA Instagram: @elisagoodkind Support Man Enough Man Enough Newsletter: https://manenough.com/newsletter Man Enough book: https://manenough.com/books Boys Will Be Human book: https://boyswillbehuman.com  Follow The Hosts Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://twitter.com/feministabulous http://www.elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath  https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://twitter.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://www.jameyheath.com/ #boys #men #masculinity #manenough #man #bodypositivity #bodyimage #selflove #beauty #norms #love #fashion #style #masculinity #men #eatingdisorder Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 3m
  16. 65 Justin and Emily Baldoni

    05/16/2021

    65 Justin and Emily Baldoni

    This week on Couple Things, we got to chat with Justin and Emily Baldoni. You may be familiar with Justin from the hit show "Jane the Virgin", but he's gone on to direct and produce movies and he also just released a brand new book. The book is called "Man Enough: Undefining My Masculinity", so we dove into the topic of masculinity along with so many other subjects. Here are a few other topics that we cover: Defining Masculinity Their proposal Putting in the hard work in relationships Is there “the one?" Faith and spirituality Self-reflection and criticism Keeping your marriage healthy and growing Relationship advice for their kids Here are a few places that you can learn more about Justin and Emily: Check out Justin's Book ▶ https://www.amazon.com/Man-Enough-Undefining-My-Masculinity/dp/0063055597 Justin's TED Talk ▶ https://www.ted.com/talks/justin_baldoni_why_i_m_done_trying_to_be_man_enough?language=en Justin's Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/justinbaldoni/?hl=en Emily's Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/emilybaldoni/?hl=en Emily's Company Amma ▶ https://www.instagram.com/weareamma/?hl=en If you haven’t yet, please rate Couple Things and subscribe to hear more. Follow us on Instagram to keep the conversation going at https://www.instagram.com/couplething... And if you have suggestions/recommendations for the show, send us your ideas in a video format – we might just choose yours! Email us at couplethingspod@gmail.com. We're supported by the following companies that we love! Check them out below: Verb ▶ Receive 30% off Verb’s best-selling bundles! This is a great way to try their most delicious flavors. Go to https://www.verbenergy.com/EASTFAM or use code EASTFAM at checkout to claim this deal. This discount is only valid for their bundles so try them out! Cord Blood Registry ▶ Harness the possibilities by going to https://www.cordblood.com right now. Use code CPLE to get $500 dollars off the collection and a free preservation kit. Once again, that code is CPLE. Go to https://www.cordblood.com and get your free preservation kit today. FAN MAIL ADDRESS: Shawn and Andrew East 750 N San Vicente Blvd., East Tower, 11th Floor, Los Angles, CA 90069 Follow My Instagram ▶ http://www.instagram.com/ShawnJohnson... Like the Facebook page! ▶ http://www.facebook.com/ShawnJohnson​... Follow My Twitter ▶ http://www.twitter.com/ShawnJohnson​​... Snapchat! ▶ @ShawneyJ Follow AndrewsTwitter ▶ http://www.twitter.com/AndrewDEast​​​​​​ Follow My Instagram ▶ http://www.instagram.com/AndrewDEast​... Like the Facebook page! ▶ http://www.facebook.com/AndrewDEast​​... Snapchat! ▶ @AndrewDEast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    59 min
  17. Breaking Free: Drake Bell Talks Trauma and His Truth

    04/08/2024

    Breaking Free: Drake Bell Talks Trauma and His Truth

    Trigger Warning: This episode discusses sexual abuse of a minor.  Renowned actor and musician Drake Bell opens up about his struggles with past abuse, the complex road to accountability, and the ongoing journey towards healing. The conversation is a powerful reflection of the strength found in vulnerability and the transformative power of speaking one’s truth.  Co-host Jamey Heath shares his own story of abuse as a child, opening the door for Drake to share more about the scars left by his abuse as a young actor on Nickelodeon, which he revealed on the MAX docuseries Quiet on Set: The Dark Side of Kids TV. As he battles with the shadows of his past, co-hosts Justin Baldoni, Liz Plank and Jamey discuss the need for Drake to take accountability for his own actions, delving into his truths and the personal resolve to mend the broken pieces.  In this episode:  How the abuse affected Drake’s relationship with his parents and his ex-wife Confronting betrayal by those Drake admired and who were in positions of power Taking accountability for his actions  The struggle to trust and love again   Finding hope on the other side of healing Drake's vulnerability provides a roadmap for navigating through trauma with honesty and accountability, illuminating a path for others in search of healing and forgiveness. This episode was recorded on March 30, 2024.  If you or someone you know has experienced sexual abuse, help is available. Call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673 or go to the NO MORE Global Directory at nomoredirectory.org to find support. TIMECODES (00:00) Episode begins  (04:13) When was the last time you didn't feel enough? (08:00) Background information on Drake's story and Jamey opens up about his assault (13:00) Letters of support for Brian Peck's during trial (17:36) Rehab and decided to share his story (34:23) How trauma affected Drake and things he could have done better (43:59) Allegations against Drake and holding him accountable (1:07:43) Men who have been abused can become abusers (1:14:19) Message to fans who are attacking his accuser online (1:19:57) Blurred lines in relationships (1:22:55) Drake on why shouldn't pressure people and public figures to speak out (1:26:39) Creating a safe space for himself & healing (1:37:20) What does it mean to you to be Man Enough? QUOTES “What happened to me doesn't have to define who I am.” - Drake “I was crying when I watched your episode…I'm under a blanket on the plane crying because I’m feeling for you. I'm remembering mine. And it doesn't leave. But it doesn't have to control me anymore.” - Jamey “One of the byproducts of trauma that you've experienced (not an excuse) is boundary issues. 30% of all men who have been abused become abusers.” - Justin “Even in moments of weakness, you need to be able to discern and and recognize…you can't just blame a moment of weakness for why you got in your car when you were drunk and you crashed into somebody and hurt them.” - Drake “As a woman I feel safe when men are acknowledging their mistakes, not when they are minimizing.” - Liz ABOUT DRAKE BELL Drake Bell is a 37-year-old American actor and musician from Newport Beach, CA. He got his rise to fame as a child actor in the 1990s on the popular Nickelodeon shows “The Amanda Show,” which aired for three seasons starting in 1999, and “Drake & Josh,” which aired for four seasons starting in 2004. He has starred in films such as, “Yours, Mine & Ours,”(2005), “Drake & Josh Go Hollywood” (2006), “Superhero Movie” (2008), and more. Bell has over five albums released, and is best known for his songs “Found a Way," “I Know”, and his recently released single called “I Kinda Relate." Bell currently resides in Mexico City where he has a large fan base supporting his music. DRAKE LINKS Instagram:@drakebell Tiktok: @drakebell X (Twitter): @drakebell SUPPORT MAN ENOUGH https://manenough.com/newsletter  https://manenough.com/books  https://boyswillbehuman.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 44m