Are You There, Midlife? It’s Me, Monica. | Balance Hormones Naturally in Perimenopause, Menopause for Women Over 40 Monica Topete | Holistic Health Coach | Perimenopause Educator | Hormone Imbalance Survivor
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The Go-to Podcast for Midlife Women Who Want To Balance Hormones Naturally
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Ugh. I feel so bloated. I’m retaining more water than the Hoover Dam.
What? Not another pimple? It’s like puberty all over again!
Sleep? What’s that like? (I forget.:<)
Umm, I just turned 40….. Aren’t I too young for this?!?
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Hello Friend.
(Can I call you “friend”? ‘Cuz we’re already friends in my head:)
Welcome to Are You There, Midlife? It’s Me, Monica.
I’m Monica Topete, Certified Holistic Health Coach and Hormone Imbalance Survivor. And I’m on a mission to help women in midlife balance their hormones naturally without drugs, doctors (or divorce!)
It wasn’t too long ago when perimenopause came crashing through my door with a ton of luggage (‘cuz she was prepared to stay for A WHILE!)
I remember how overwhelmed, anxious, and pretty much clueless I was about what was happening to my body…and how desperate I was for a diagnosis!
But, after SEVERAL visits to my doctor who gave me a clean bill of health and lab results that came back “within normal range,” I finally decided to take my health into my own hands.
I spent OVER A YEAR combing through PubMed research studies, taking online courses in naturopathy and functional medicine, and becoming my own human guinea pig to crack the hormone code and create a research-based program that really worked to balance my hormones, put the kibosh on perimenopause symptoms, and lose stubborn weight–and keep it off–for more than 10 years!
And now, I want to share it with you.
Join me as I demystify the hormonal transition in midlife and spill the ”tea” on what to expect when you’re expecting perimenopause…and beyond.
From anxiety to insomnia, body fat to funky body odor (yeah, that’s a thing!), I’ll unpack all the ”weird stuff” going on inside our midlife bodies, plus give you the latest science and holistic solutions to balance it all.
Are you tired of dealing with heavy, painful periods that look like a crime scene?…
Or struggling with symptoms like chronic headaches, fatigue, or brain fog that….(Oops! What was I saying again?)...
Are you beyond frustrated doing “all the things” to lose weight—but are still packing on the pounds faster than a sumo wrestler in training?…
Then, you’re in the right place.:)
There is a way you can balance your hormones naturally that doesn’t involve band-aid solutions like antidepressants or birth control pills (which are a BIG mistake! HUGE!)...and that only provide temporary relief without fixing the root problem.
In this podcast, you’ll learn how to:
- End painful periods and PMS
- Improve your sleep and reduce hot flashes and night sweats
- Alleviate hormonal headaches, fatigue, joint pain, and gut issues
- Reduce mood swings and depression (without meds)
- Move the scale on stubborn weight and belly fat
- And talk to your partner about perimenopause (without sounding like you’re totally insane!)
- It’s time to take back control of your hormones and show ‘em who’s boss!
...Without ever stepping foot inside a doctor’s office or resorting to crazy hormone pellets.
No need to make an appointment or even change outta your PJs.
Just come as you are–wherever you are–and listen in as I discuss ALL things hormones and midlife–with a bit of saucy humor.
(‘Cuz laughing is better than crying, unless it makes you pee.:)
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Next Steps:
- Become an AYTML Podcast Insider: https://areyoutheremidlife.com/
- Take my FREE Hormone Quiz: https://bit.ly/HormoneSelfAssessment
- Book a 15-minute Hormone Clarity Call: https://bit.ly/hormonecall
- Submit a Question to be Answered on the Pod: https://www.speakpipe.com/AreYouThereMidlife
- Email Me: monica@monicalanetopete.com
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17 | The Hidden Cause of Hormonal Weight Gain in Women Over 40: Adrenal Fatigue
Hey friend,
Today, I’m continuing my “6 Weeks To Summer” podcast series where I unpack the 7 most common hormonal imbalances in perimenopause and menopause and how they contribute to weight loss resistance.
In today’s episode, I take a deep dive into High Cortisol and Adrenal Fatigue. While many functional medicine practitioners consider adrenal fatigue to be the most common hormonal imbalance for women in midlife, it's not without controversy. In fact, most traditional medicine doctors don’t even recognize adrenal fatigue exists! (More about that on today’s podcast.:)
In today’s episode, you will learn:
Where is the adrenal gland situated and what does it do?
What is the function of adrenal gland hormones?
Cortisol: What does it do and how does cortisol function contribute to adrenal stress?
What's the difference between high cortisol and adrenal fatigue?
What causes cortisol levels to be too high or too low?
What are some elevated cortisol symptoms? Adrenal fatigue symptoms?
What kind of cortisol test is best?: Cortisol blood test vs cortisol saliva test
Plus, I share 3 of my favorite fast fixes to balance cortisol levels just in time for summer!
If you’re experiencing symptoms like chronic fatigue, difficulty sleeping, uncontrollable salt or sugar cravings, and unexplained weight gain–all while feeling tired AND wired–then this episode is for you!
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Next Steps:EP 15 | Hypothyroidism And Weight Gain: 3 Healthy Hacks To Help Shed Those Extra Poundshttps://pod.fo/e/240c5fEP 14 | Is Estrogen Dominance Causing Your Hormonal Weight Gain? 3 Quick Tips To Move The Scalehttps://pod.fo/e/23e32f
EP 12 | Perimenopause Weight Gain: Are Your Hormones To Blame?https://pod.fo/e/23bc62
EP 5 | Can I Check My Hormone Levels Without A Doctor?https://pod.fo/e/22fc41
EP 2 | Why Does My Blood Test For Hormones Keep Coming Back “Normal?”https://pod.fo/e/2297e8
Take my FREE Hormone Quiz: https://bit.ly/HormoneSelfAssessment
Shop my Favorite Hormone Balancing Supplements And Save 5% or More on Every Order (Enter promo code EUQ1741):https://www.iherb.com/me/HormoneBalance
Book a FREE Hormone Clarity Call: https://bit.ly/HCprecall
Email Me: monica@monicalanetopete.com
*Disclaimer: Information provided in this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The information is not intended or implied to supplement or replace professional medical treatment, advice, and/or diagnosis. I share the strategies that have worked for me and you are advised to do your own research and speak to your medical provider for care.
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16 | Can We Just Cuddle?: 3 Ways to Naturally Boost Low Libido in Women Over 40 (And Men!) Part 1
"I’ve had a long day. I'm just too tired."
"I'm too stressed out right now. I have so much on my mind."
"I need a shower.” I’m feeling bloated.” “Can we just cuddle instead?”
Sound familiar?
If your low libido or lack of desire to have sex has started to become a more frequent thing….If your lack of intimacy or connectedness with your husband or partner is impacting the quality of your relationship…then, girl, help is on the way!
On today’s episode, I’m joined once again by my husband, Rick, as we continue our special “Love & Hormones” Spring Series (continuing every other Thursday throughout June.)
Warning: This episode features a candid discussion about sex and intimacy and may include explicit content not suitable for children.
In this episode, we’re jumping into the deep end of sex and intimacy to tackle 3 of the top 6 causes of low libido in women over 40 (and men) including:
Bad sleep hygiene
Poor stress management
A sedentary lifestyle
Plus, we’ll share some fast fixes for these low libido causes, as well as tips to improve intimacy for couples.
From hormone-balancing supplements for high cortisol levels and insomnia to the best exercises to do to increase your libido, you won’t want to miss this very practical, very tactical episode.
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Next Steps:
7 | What Husbands Should Know About Perimenopause (And Menopause) https://pod.fo/e/232c2410 | "Why Do I Hate My Husband?"--Relationship Advice for Couples Navigating Hormonal Imbalancehttps://pod.fo/e/237f2e
13 | Why Am I Not in The Mood?--4 Myths About Low Libido in Women https://pod.fo/e/23c7db
Take my FREE Hormone Quiz: https://bit.ly/HormoneSelfAssessment
Shop my Favorite Hormone Balancing Supplements And Save 5% or More on Every Order (Enter promo code EUQ1741): https://www.iherb.com/me/HormoneBalance
Book a FREE Hormone Clarity Call: https://bit.ly/HCprecall
Record a Question to be Answered on the Podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/AreYouThereMidlife
Become an AYTML Podcast Insider: https://areyoutheremidlife.com/
Email Me: monica@monicalanetopete.com
*Disclaimer: Information provided in this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The information is not intended or implied to supplement or replace professional medical treatment, advice, and/or diagnosis. I share the strategies that have worked for me and you are advised to do your own research and speak to your medical provider for care.
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15 | Hypothyroidism And Hormonal Weight Gain: 3 Healthy Hacks To Help Shed Those Extra Pounds
Hey friend,
Today, I’m continuing my “6 Weeks To Summer” podcast series where I unpack the 7 most common hormonal imbalances in perimenopause and menopause and how they contribute to weight loss resistance.
In today’s episode, I’m taking a deep dive into Hypothyroidism. While some studies suggest up to 40% of the population suffers from at least some level of underactive thyroid, women are actually the most susceptible to developing hypothyroidism. In fact, the risk for women is about 10 times higher than for men!
In this episode, you will learn:
- What is the thyroid gland and just why the heck it's so important?
- The many causes of hypothyroidism, including top contributing lifestyle factors
- Common Hypothyroidism symptoms such as thyroid hair loss, thyroid fatigue, and thyroid inflammation
- What are Tsh levels, t3 and t4 free? And how is hypothyroidism diagnosed?
- Hypothyroidism medication: Do you need to be on it for life?
- How thyroid issues specifically affect your metabolism and cause thyroid weight gain
Plus, I’ll share 3 healthy hacks to optimize your thyroid function just in time for summer!
If you’re dealing with stubborn hormonal weight gain that just won’t budge or a thyroid test with results “within normal range,” this episode is for you.
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Next Steps:EP 14 | Is Estrogen Dominance Causing Your Hormonal Weight Gain? 3 Quick Tips To Move The Scalehttps://pod.fo/e/23e32f
EP 12 | Perimenopause Weight Gain: Are Your Hormones To Blame?
https://pod.fo/e/23bc62
EP 2 | Why Does My Blood Test For Hormones Keep Coming Back “Normal?”
https://pod.fo/e/2297e8
Take my FREE Hormone Quiz: https://bit.ly/HormoneSelfAssessment
Book a FREE Hormone Clarity Call: https://bit.ly/HCprecall
Become an AYTML Podcast Insider: https://areyoutheremidlife.com/Record a Question About Your Hormones To Be Answered on The Podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/AreYouThereMidlife
Shop My Favorite Hormone Balancing Supplements And Save 5% or More on Every Order (Enter promo code EUQ1741):
https://www.iherb.com/me/HormoneBalance
Email Me: monica@monicalanetopete.com
*Disclaimer: Information provided in this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The information is not intended or implied to supplement or replace professional medical treatment, advice, and/or diagnosis. I share the strategies that have worked for me and you are advised to do your own research and speak to your medical provider for care.
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14 | Is Estrogen Dominance Causing Your Hormonal Weight Gain? 3 Quick Tips To Move The Scale
Hey friend,
Today, I’m continuing my “6 Weeks To Summer” podcast series where I unpack the 7 most common hormonal imbalances in perimenopause and how they contribute to weight loss resistance.
In today’s episode, I’m taking a deep dive into Estrogen Dominance. The most common hormone imbalance in women in perimenopause, Estrogen Dominance affects an estimated half of all women in the U.S. over age 35! (Including yours truly.:)
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:
What is your estrogen to progesterone ratio and why it is important
What causes high estrogen in women?
What causes low progesterone?
What are some Estrogen Dominance symptoms?
Can Estrogen Dominance cause weight gain?
And can high estrogen symptoms or low progesterone symptoms resolve on their own?
Plus, I’ll share 3 quick tips to help you reverse estrogen dominance and move the dial on stubborn weight gain just in time for summer!
If you’re dealing with hormonal symptoms that just won’t go away or lab test results that say your estrogen and progesterone levels are “within normal range” even though you know something’s just not right, this episode is for you.
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Next Steps:EP 12 | Perimenopause Weight Gain: Are Your Hormones To Blame?https://pod.fo/e/23bc62
Take my FREE Hormone Quiz: https://bit.ly/HormoneSelfAssessment
Book a FREE Hormone Clarity Call: https://bit.ly/HCprecall
Become an AYTML Podcast Insider: https://areyoutheremidlife.com/
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Record a Question to be Answered on the Podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/AreYouThereMidlife
Shop my Favorite Hormone Balancing Supplements And Save 5% or More on Every Order (Enter promo code EUQ1741):https://www.iherb.com/me/HormoneBalance
Email Me: monica@monicalanetopete.com
*Disclaimer: Information provided in this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The information is not intended or implied to supplement or replace professional medical treatment, advice, and/or diagnosis. I share the strategies that have worked for me and you are advised to do your own research and speak to your medical provider for care. -
13 | Why Am I Not in The Mood?--4 Myths About Low Libido in Women
Hey friend,
Can I call you ‘friend”? Cuz I already feel like we’re friends in my head.
So just between us….
…How’s your sex life?
No, I mean really….How Is Your Sex Life?
If your answer on a scale of 1-10 is somewhere between 5 and non-existent, girl, you are not alone!
On today’s episode, I’m joined once again by my husband, Rick, as we continue our special “Love & Hormones” Spring Series (continuing every other Thursday throughout May and June.)
Warning: This episode features a discussion about sex and intimacy and may include explicit content not suitable for children. (So… you may want to listen to this one through your headphones…or at least make sure the kids are out of the house before turning on your speakers!)In this episode, you will learn:
The cause of low libido in women in midlife
Why sex is important in marriage satisfaction
Self-image issues and other libido killers
What is “responsive desire” and how can it improve your sex life?
How sexual desire works in men vs. women
How menopause affects sex drive…and can sexual desire come back?
Plus, Rick and I get very candid about our ups and downs in the bedroom during the last 26+ years (no pun intended) including how we weathered dry spells, issues with aging and body image, and how we’re still working to keep things fresh.
If you’ve been struggling at all with libido, sex, or intimacy in your relationship, you won’t want to miss this very juicy episode!
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Next Steps:
EP 7 | What Husbands Should Know About Perimenopause (And Menopause) https://pod.fo/e/232c2410 | "Why Do I Hate My Husband?"--Relationship Advice for Couples Navigating Hormonal Imbalancehttps://pod.fo/e/237f2e
Take my FREE Hormone Quiz: https://bit.ly/HormoneSelfAssessment
Book a FREE Hormone Clarity Call: https://bit.ly/HCprecall
Record a Question to be Answered on the Podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/AreYouThereMidlife
Become an AYTML Podcast Insider: https://areyoutheremidlife.com/
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Shop my Favorite Hormone Balancing Supplements And Save 5% or More on Every Order (Enter promo code EUQ1741): https://www.iherb.com/me/HormoneBalance
Email Me: monica@monicalanetopete.com
*Disclaimer: Information provided in this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The information is not intended or implied to supplement or replace professional medical treatment, advice, and/or diagnosis. I share the strategies that have worked for me and you are advised to do your own research and speak to your medical provider for care. -
12 | Perimenopause Weight Gain: Are Your Hormones to Blame?
Hey friend,
Pop quiz: What comes first: hormonal imbalance or weight gain?
According to the latest research, 99% of all weight loss resistance in women can be traced to a hormonal cause.
Today, I’m kicking off my “6 Weeks To Summer” podcast series and unpacking the connection between hormones and weight gain in perimenopause.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:
How do hormones cause weight gain?
What is the primary purpose of hormones?
What hormones cause weight gain or weight loss resistance
Plus, we’ll discuss 7 of the most common hormonal imbalances among midlife women including:
Thyroid issues
Adrenal fatigue
High cortisol levels
Estrogen Dominance
Low Progesterone
High Estrogen
Low Estrogen
Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS)
If you’re a woman in your late 30s or older who has been struggling with rapid weight gain or weight that just won’t budge no matter what you do, this episode is for you.
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Next Steps:EP 1 | How Do I Know If I'm In Perimenopause?https://pod.fo/e/2297e9
Take my FREE Hormone Quiz: https://bit.ly/HormoneSelfAssessment
Book a FREE Hormone Clarity Call: https://bit.ly/HCprecall
Become an AYTML Podcast Insider: https://areyoutheremidlife.com/
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Record a Question to be Answered on the Podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/AreYouThereMidlife
Shop my Favorite Hormone Balancing Supplements And Save 5% or More on Every Order (Enter promo code EUQ1741):https://www.iherb.com/me/HormoneBalance
Email Me: monica@monicalanetopete.com
*Disclaimer: Information provided in this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The information is not intended or implied to supplement or replace professional medical treatment, advice, and/or diagnosis. I share the strategies that have worked for me and you are advised to do your own research and speak to your medical provider for care.
Customer Reviews
Very helpful
As a “mid-lifer” myself, I was so happy to come across this podcast. The content is great! The episode about the “healthy” foods was so helpful. Thank you.
Hello Mid life it’s me Monica
This pod cast was excellant!! It was concise, informative, and very educational!! I loved the signs and symptoms, who knew there was so many, but she condensed them to three!! Mostly, I enjoyed Monica sharing her journey !!!!! She is living her best life now, obviously, all of her research and life experience has definitely paid off! Susan Fissell Lab tests no one EVER talks about…. Invaluable, informative, so interesting and important to know! Susan Fissell BHRT…. Again, so informative.. the good the bad, the ugly… but so important to know… no FDA regulations… yikes! SF OMG….. had not heard the Halle Berry incident… beyond tragic and beyond criminal that the Medical profession is rendered helpless regarding diagnosing and further more treating perimenopause!!! Again, so very educational and needed! Susan Fissell Foods that affect hormones excellant! Yes, the food pyramid is criminal :whole grains, fruits, dairy, soy, seed oils, night shades, lectins. etc etc.. thank you for your relevant research about food and hormones! To bring awareness, to inform the misinformed and guide people to eat and live a healthier, happier, lifestyle!! Susan Fissell Staggering the lack of incredient gatekeeping regarding supplements !!! Again….. criminal! SF Ok your husband absolutely rocks!!! What patient, kind, open minded, understanding man he is!!! Thank God, he’s exactly like mine!!! SF
Another excellent and informative podcast about hormones!! Your research is definitely on the cellular level, which helps explain the symptomology of imbalances and rationale in great detail!!! So very helpful for anyone who is experiencing these symptoms and suffering !! SF
Educational and fun!
Monica shares a wealth on information in her fun, educational podcast. Her witty humor is entertaining but the real value is in her informational content. Us midlife women need all the help we can get! Hormones can be super confusing!
Thanks Monica 🩷