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Lisa A. Romano
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Lisa A. Romano is a globally recognized Breakthrough Life Coach, award-winning author, and a leading expert in emotional recovery. Named the #1 Most Influential Person of 2020 and one of the World's Most Inspiring Women of 2023, Lisa has dedicated her career to helping others break free from the chains of codependency and narcissistic abuse. As the creator of the Conscious Healing Academy, she has developed a groundbreaking approach to emotional recovery that focuses on healing the deep-rooted causes of the false self so as to make a path forward to the authentic self. Lisa's work is driven by her belief in the transformative power of an organized mind. She teaches that true healing begins when individuals can confront and dismantle the subconscious beliefs that keep them trapped in patterns of self-sabotage and emotional pain. Through her coaching, writing, and educational programs, Lisa empowers her clients to awaken to their authentic selves, guiding them on a journey of self-discovery and personal empowerment. With a mission to help others live above the veil of consciousness, Lisa's influence extends far beyond her coaching practice. Her insights and teachings have inspired millions worldwide to take control of their lives, break free from toxic relationships, and embrace a path of self-love and true fulfillment. Contact coach@lisaaromano.com or visit https://www.lisaaromano.com to learn about how Lisa and her team can assist with your expansion of consciousness despite a painful past.

  1. Why Is It So Hard to Set Healthy Boundaries When You Are Codependent

    5D AGO

    Why Is It So Hard to Set Healthy Boundaries When You Are Codependent

    Are you codependent? Were you raised in a dysfunctional family? Were you raised to feel like you needed to hide your true self to avoid punishment or abandonment? In a healthy home, children are raised feeling seen and heard. In unhealthy homes, children are raised to hide their emotions, needs, and wants. Perhaps dad is an alcoholic, and mom is the classic codependent, who sweeps things under the rug. Or, perhaps your family idolized conformity vs authenticity. The key is to understand that, regardless of your parents' intentions, and whether they were aware of the consequences of their parenting style or not, to heal from codependency, abandonment trauma, CPTSD, people pleasing, and low self worth, one must take the time to understand how their inner child perceived how their parents perceived them. In this episode, you will feel like you've been given a warm hug. Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach, gently explains why codependents do not have the ability to set boundaries, and why that is not their fault. The first step on the codependency recovery journey, is to start learning to better understand one's automatic behaviors and the reasons for them.  Lisa has been through this journey herself, and leads other children from dysfunctional families back home to their authentic self, shedding the need for a false self along the way.  Begin Your Healing Journey: Lisa introduces her signature 12 Week Breakthrough Method—a trauma-informed, neuroscience-based coaching program created specifically for adult children of narcissistic, neglectful, or emotionally immature caregivers. Inside the program, you'll be guided through: Brain retraining techniques rooted in neuroscience Inner child healing and self-concept reorganization Neuroscience Backed Journaling prompts and assessments to increase self-awareness Tools to stop subconscious self-abandonment and start living from your true self Embrace shadow work from a higher state of consciousness to experience integration This method has helped thousands heal from complex trauma and break toxic generational patterns, with tools to rewire limiting beliefs and build authentic self-worth. 👉 Learn more: here #CodependencyRecovery #InnerChildHealing #NarcissisticParent #EmotionalNeglect #TraumaInformedHealing #ComplexTrauma #SelfAbandonment #NeuroscienceBasedHealing #DysfunctionalFamily #Codependent #Codependency #ToxicFamily

    21 min
  2. You Might Also Like: Raising Us: A Parenting Podcast

    5D AGO · BONUS

    You Might Also Like: Raising Us: A Parenting Podcast

    Introducing What Healthy Social Media Use Looks Like for Kids | Ash Brandin & Catherine Price | A Kids Co. from Raising Us: A Parenting Podcast. Follow the show: Raising Us: A Parenting Podcast Social media and screen time is becoming a bigger part of family life everyday – from how kids connect and learn, to how many parents manage busy schedules. To help define healthy social media habits, public school teacher and librarian Ash Brandin shares their best tips from recent book Power On: Managing Screen Time to Benefit the Whole Family. Also, award winning health and science journalist Catherine Price provides advice about how kids are experiencing social media today. Both guests break down how social media can impact developing brains, how families can set and tackle realistic boundaries together, and why monitoring healthy habits with tech use matters. Key Takeaways Have confidence and courage to delay when your kids are introduced to social media. Relearn that age does not always equal readiness to be online. Consider alternative methods for your community to stay online and connected with one another, without use of social media. Reflect healthy habits and boundaries with your own social media and devices. Encourage conversations with all members of your family about their own relationships with their devices. ⏱️ Timestamps: Keep the conversation going at home with our FREE Conversation Kit companion guide: https://delivery.shopifyapps.com/-/1d1aa9656f95dc45/8e073e0ac686a340 Follow Ash Brandin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegamereducator Follow Catherine Price on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/catherinepriceofficial New episodes every Tuesday: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AKidsCo Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/raising-us-a-parenting-podcast/id1552286967 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2bIRVxM8hbriNxydkSv6VG Or wherever you get your podcasts. 🔗 START HERE 📌 Get free weekly conversation kits: https://akidsco.com/pages/raising-us 📌 Browse A Kids Co. books that pair with episodes: https://akidsco.com 📌 Follow Elise Hu: https://www.instagram.com/elisewho ABOUT THE SHOW Raising Us | Parenting Podcast for Kids, Tweens, & Conscious Caregivers Award-winning journalist Elise Hu (TED Talks Daily, Forever35) hosts Raising Us, a parenting podcast for grownups raising Big-Question Kids. From puberty and identity to tech and body image, each episode gives you tools to spark real conversations with the kids in your life. Created by A Kids Co. (a family media company) the show blends expert-backed insights with real, lived experiences featuring trusted doctors, educators and purpose-driven public figures sharing age-appropriate advice so you don't have to wing the hard stuff. Follow on: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AKidsCo Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/raising-us-a-parenting-podcast/id1552286967 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2bIRVxM8hbriNxydkSv6VG Or wherever you get your podcasts. If you like parenting podcasts like Good Inside with Dr. Becky, The Longest Shortest Time, Raising Good Humans or Ask Lisa, this podcast is for you. Topics Covered on Raising Us: Parenting kids and tweens Mental health for kids Talking to kids about racism, identity, and inclusion Screen time and social media Puberty, anxiety, and big feelings Building emotional intelligence in families Conscious and values-driven parenting Elise Hu parenting podcast A Kids Co. podcast series Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising. DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to team@podroll.fm.

  3. Why You Stay Loyal to The People Who Hurt You

    JAN 26

    Why You Stay Loyal to The People Who Hurt You

    Everything is fine until it isn't. The moment when you start noticing the twinge in your stomach, and you can't ignore it anymore, marks the threshold of an awakening to what may be the reality of toxic relationships in your life. Codependents are those who sacrifice the self for a toxic one way relationship, whereas a narcissist sacrifices the relationship for the sake of their ego. When a codependent, highly empathic individual begins to awaken, they cannot unsee what they now see: the passive aggressiveness, the stonewalling, disrespect, and minimization.  Many adult children of toxic family systems, are programmed to deny, ignore, and never feel their true feelings. They learned early that connecting with their painful inner reality threatened their connections to others, which triggered a sense of fear and abandonment. Although this is a subconscious pathway, it is possible to awaken from the faulty negative, subconscious childhood programs that are rooted in the fear of abandonment and the experience of emotional neglect.  In this episode, Lisa A. Romano unpacks the subconscious programming behind why so many trauma survivors and codependent personalities stay loyal to people who repeatedly hurt them. From passive-aggressive group chats to unspoken exclusion, emotional manipulation often hides behind denial and "that's just how they are" thinking. But here's the truth: You weren't born to tolerate disrespect — you were programmed to. In this episode, you'll learn: ✨ Why your brain links saying no to abandonment and danger 🧠 How early rejection creates lifelong tolerance for BS 🎭 The difference between overt narcissists and covert "poor me" manipulators ⚔️ Why the first boundary is the hardest step — and how to push through it 🦋 How to reclaim your self-respect and rise above emotional slavery This episode is for you if: ✔️ You make excuses for people who repeatedly disappoint you ✔️ You second-guess your instincts and minimize your own pain ✔️ You feel guilty for cutting people off — even when they hurt you ✔️ You're finally ready to stop walking on eggshells and start walking in truth Begin Your Breakthrough If you're ready to interrupt the subconscious patterns that keep you stuck in people-pleasing and emotional slavery, Lisa's 12 Week Breakthrough Program will guide you step by step into emotional freedom. 👉 Start here: 50% Off the 12 Week Breakthrough Method #CodependencyRecovery #NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalFreedom #SelfRespect #PeoplePleasing #InnerChildHealing #TraumaHealing #NoContactJourney #LisaARomanoPodcast #SelfHelpPodcast #InnerChildHealing #HealingJourney #AdultChildofAlcoholic #ACA #ACOAissues #ToxicFamily #Codependency

    24 min
  4. Managing the People and Relationships That Drain Your Energy

    JAN 19

    Managing the People and Relationships That Drain Your Energy

    Do you leave certain conversations feeling drained, anxious, or foggy? Do you notice that some people you speak to have a way of causing you to feel dread? If so, you may have just encountered an energy vampire, someone who literally survives through controlling your consciousness through language, tone, body movements, innuendos, and comments that cause you to wonder what their true intentions are. In this deep and practical episode, Lisa A. Romano, trauma-informed life coach and codependency recovery expert, reveals how to recognize, neutralize, and heal from energetic drain in relationships. You'll learn how energy vampires operate, how trauma wires your nervous system to attract them, and—most importantly—how to stop giving your energy away. Lisa also explores the shadow side of codependency, showing how even caring, selfless people can unknowingly drain others when they haven't healed their inner wounds. In this episode, you'll discover: ⚡ The 6 main types of energy vampires — from emotional dumpers to subtle saboteurs 💔 Why unresolved trauma makes you vulnerable to energetic hijacking 🧠 The neuroscience of emotional contagion and why boundaries protect your nervous system 🪞 How to tell if you're the one draining others—and how to stop 🌿 Practical energy-clearing tools: the "psychological condom," breath resets, and somatic boundaries ✨ The balance between compassion and discernment—loving others without abandoning yourself This episode is for you if: ✔️ You feel exhausted or irritable after helping others ✔️ You struggle to say no without guilt ✔️ You're healing from toxic, narcissistic, or draining relationships ✔️ You're ready to reclaim your emotional sovereignty and peace Begin Your Breakthrough Lisa's 12 Week Breakthrough Program offers the neuroscience-based roadmap to reprogram subconscious people-pleasing patterns, strengthen emotional boundaries, and reconnect with your authentic self. 👉 Start your healing journey: here #EnergyVampires #CodependencyRecovery #EmotionalBoundaries #Narcissism #InnerChildHealing #EmotionalHealing #SelfAwareness #TraumaHealing #LisaARomano #EmotionalRecovery #ToxicRelationships #12WeekBreakthrough #narcissists #narcissisticabuserecovery #empath

    37 min
  5. Neuroscience of Trauma: Healing Emotional Wounds in Adult Children

    JAN 11

    Neuroscience of Trauma: Healing Emotional Wounds in Adult Children

    When you are an adult child of emotional neglect, or were raised in an alcoholic, narcissistic, or unpredictable home, you are not aware of how your brain wires the nervous system to be locked in survival mode. Daughters and sons of toxic parents learned to survive through hypervigilance, scanning the faces, moods, and body movements of those around them. This type of scanning, codes the brain for survival and fear anticipation.  The problem is, adult children from abusive, neglectful or toxic homes do not know this has occurred. From within the ego system, the little self assumes that what it feels, anticipates and experiences is all there is. This is why so many well meaning, and fully committed adult children who seek inner growth, personal development and healing, are baffled by why they feel so stuck.  Being prepared saves your brain energy, but when you are emotionally wounded in childhood, you do not know how your brain keeps you stuck in survival, and unable to escape, thereby locking you into loops of self sabotaging behaviors regardless of how often you hear your conscious mind screaming for something new and improved.    You'll learn: • Why trauma trains the brain to predict danger (and pick the same partners/jobs) • How insecure attachment, fawning & people-pleasing sabotage manifestation • The role of the default mode network, metacognition & observer consciousness • Practical tools to down-regulate, update your "inner algorithm," and choose new codes • How to trust divine intuition without bypassing the science Next step Start healing your inner child today with Lisa's 12 Week Breakthrough Program. Not sure where to begin?  Take the free quiz and see your best path.→ visit Email coach@lisaaromano.com  You are enough. Namaste. #traumahealing #manifestation #nervoussystem #predictivecoding #shadowwork #selfworth #lisaaromano

    23 min
  6. How to Find Your Purpose After Trauma

    JAN 5

    How to Find Your Purpose After Trauma

    If you were raised in a dysfunctional, toxic home, and you struggle today with codependency, self-worth, and relationships, it is easy to lose a sense of meaning and purpose in life. Childhood trauma arrests the mind in a state of hypervigilance, worry, and fear. And although that is not your fault, if this is your experience, until we stop, look within, and take the time to integrate the past with the now, our future becomes a copy of the past, like it or not.  There is great hope for the one willing to go within. Lisa A. Romano gently unpacks why so many of us feel stuck chasing something outside ourselves—while the real answer lives in the now. Through neuroscience, psychology, and spiritual wisdom, she shows how trauma wires the brain to equate authenticity with danger, creating the illusion of separation from your highest self— and how to integrate, regulate, and come home to who you truly are. You'll learn: • Why the brain's prediction machine keeps you looping old stories • How the ego clings to identities (both "I'm great" and "I'm broken") to feel safe • Using mindfulness & metacognition to quiet the default mode network • Practical ways to down-regulate the nervous system and end the inner war • The first veil to break: "I am separate from my true self" • How integration (not perfection) creates purpose, peace, and presence Chapters 00:00 Welcome – If meaning feels out of reach 02:12 Trauma, neurology & the illusion of self 06:45 The first veil: separation from the higher self 10:18 Why your brain resists authenticity (safety vs. unfamiliar) 14:30 Ego identities on both ends of the spectrum 18:40 Mindfulness, observer mode & metacognition 22:55 Integration over fragmentation: ending the inner war 27:40 Rewiring shame & reclaiming self-worth 32:10 Unity, love-consciousness & true purpose in the now 36:50 Your next steps + resources Take the next step Ready for a map to rewire your mind and reconnect to your true self? Join Lisa's 12 Week Breakthrough Program to heal at the subconscious level, regulate your nervous system, and integrate your higher self into daily life. 👉 Start here: here Need guidance on which program fits you best? Email coach@lisaaromano.com. You are enough! #purpose #meaningoflife #consciousness #traumahealing #shadowwork #innerpeace #egodeath #mindfulness #selflove #lisaaromano #12weekbreakthrough #innerchildhealing #selfhelppodcast #selflove #selfgrowth #personalgrowth #healingjourney #selfhealing #adultchildrenofalcoholics #adultchildrenofalcoholics #dysfunctionalfamily #codependency

    22 min
  7. How Childhood Trauma Rewires Your Brain Traps You in a False Identity Neuroscience of Identity

    12/29/2025

    How Childhood Trauma Rewires Your Brain Traps You in a False Identity Neuroscience of Identity

    Why do we get stuck on the path of healing—even when we know what to do? In this profound and spiritually charged episode, Lisa A. Romano explores what it truly means to break through the veil—the illusion of the false self that trauma and programming have built around our consciousness. Lisa reveals how trauma rewires the brain to associate authenticity with danger, causing us to abandon our true selves and live from the ego's illusion of safety. Through the lens of neuroscience, psychology, and spirituality, she helps listeners understand why healing requires more than insight—it requires reprogramming the mind and meeting the shadow self head-on. In this episode, you'll learn: ✨ How trauma wires the brain for survival over truth and authenticity 🧠 Why the brain mistakes the unfamiliar (like love or peace) as unsafe 💫 What "breaking the mirror of self" means on a neurological and spiritual level 🪞 How to detach from false identity—"I'm not my thoughts, not my fears, not my name" 🌌 Why ego death is necessary for spiritual rebirth and emotional freedom ⚡ How to move from survival into thriving through conscious awareness and metacognition This episode is for you if: ✔️ You feel spiritually stuck even after years of self-work ✔️ You struggle to let go of people, habits, or beliefs that no longer serve you ✔️ You crave emotional freedom and want to understand why your brain resists change ✔️ You're ready to see beyond the illusion of self and live as an extension of consciousness Begin Your Breakthrough Lisa's 12 Week Breakthrough Program gives you the neuroscience-based roadmap to rewire your subconscious mind, calm your nervous system, and reconnect with your true self beyond trauma and illusion. 👉 Start your journey today: https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp #TraumaHealing #SpiritualAwakening #EgoDeath #ShadowWork #InnerChildHealing #Consciousness #NeuroscienceOfHealing #TraumaRecovery #SubconsciousMind #CodependencyRecovery #HealingJourney #LisaARomanoPodcast #YouAreEnough #12WeekBreakthrough

    24 min
  8. The ACOA Blind Spot: 5 Patterns Keeping You Stuck & The Road Back to You

    12/22/2025

    The ACOA Blind Spot: 5 Patterns Keeping You Stuck & The Road Back to You

    Why do so many high-functioning adults secretly feel "something's wrong"—even when life looks fine on paper? In this empowering episode, Lisa A. Romano uncovers the ACOA blind spot: the predictable patterns that form when alcoholism (or "dry" alcoholism) and emotional neglect shape a family system. You'll learn the five core patterns that keep adult children and grandchildren of alcoholics stuck—and the practical roadmap for getting your power, clarity, and self-respect back. The 5 patterns you'll recognize: Reality Denied — Gaslighting and minimization train you to distrust your own signals Feelings Weren't Safe — Emotions got linked to danger, so you muted your inner compass Survival Roles = Identity — Caretaker/hero/scapegoat/lost child replace authentic selfhood Wired for Chaos — The brain's predictive coding + hypervigilance keep you on high alert Internalized Shame — The hidden "I'm the problem" lens that sabotages love and worth You'll also learn: How to bring the prefrontal cortex online and soothe Amy the amygdala & Harry the hippocampus Journaling and mindfulness practices that reorganize the mind and rebuild self-trust Language to spot covert denial, dry alcoholism, and narcissistic dynamics—fast This episode is for you if: No one in your family talks about addiction, yet dysfunction is obvious You're praised for being "strong," but feel unseen, anxious, or chronically not enough You keep tolerating disrespect or pick partners who exploit your caretaking You're ready to identify the hole in the wall—and finally fix it Begin Your Breakthrough Lisa's 12 Week Breakthrough Program gives you a step-by-step, neuroscience-based path to calm your nervous system, reprogram subconscious patterns, and rebuild a self-concept rooted in worthiness. 👉 Start your journey: https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp #ACOA #AdultChildrenOfAlcoholics #IntergenerationalTrauma #CodependencyRecovery #EmotionalNeglect #InnerChildHealing #NervousSystemRegulation #OrganizedMind #Boundaries #LisaARomanoPodcast #YouAreEnough #codependency #emotionalhealing  #healingchildhoodtrauma #innerchildwork

    21 min
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Lisa A. Romano is a globally recognized Breakthrough Life Coach, award-winning author, and a leading expert in emotional recovery. Named the #1 Most Influential Person of 2020 and one of the World's Most Inspiring Women of 2023, Lisa has dedicated her career to helping others break free from the chains of codependency and narcissistic abuse. As the creator of the Conscious Healing Academy, she has developed a groundbreaking approach to emotional recovery that focuses on healing the deep-rooted causes of the false self so as to make a path forward to the authentic self. Lisa's work is driven by her belief in the transformative power of an organized mind. She teaches that true healing begins when individuals can confront and dismantle the subconscious beliefs that keep them trapped in patterns of self-sabotage and emotional pain. Through her coaching, writing, and educational programs, Lisa empowers her clients to awaken to their authentic selves, guiding them on a journey of self-discovery and personal empowerment. With a mission to help others live above the veil of consciousness, Lisa's influence extends far beyond her coaching practice. Her insights and teachings have inspired millions worldwide to take control of their lives, break free from toxic relationships, and embrace a path of self-love and true fulfillment. Contact coach@lisaaromano.com or visit https://www.lisaaromano.com to learn about how Lisa and her team can assist with your expansion of consciousness despite a painful past.

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