71 episodes

Join us every week on a journey to get into the nitty gritty of divorce recovery and reveal why your divorce healing journey is still not working for you–even after you’ve tried all the therapies and read all the books. We emphasize nuance because overcoming challenges after divorce means questioning everything that got us here and using your divorce as a springboard to a better, more resilient (and certainly happier!) you.  I’m Dawn Wiggins, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and EMDR specialist, and I draw on decades of experience to help women navigate the emotional rollercoaster that comes after ending a marriage. Using a little bit of science, a few alternative remedies and emotional release techniques, a whole lot of love, and zero BS, we step out of the victim mindset and into building a new life after divorce.Now’s the time we reclaim your healing journey–and why exactly we struggle to not only heal from past traumas but move beyond them to the ultimate goal: inner peace. Let's transform your pain into strength and take charge of your own narrative. Get ready for a world where we embrace radical self-acceptance by honoring the nuanced differences between us all. That is real self-empowerment, and this is Dear Divorce Diary. 

Dear Divorce Diary My Coach Dawn

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    • 4.8 • 26 Ratings

Join us every week on a journey to get into the nitty gritty of divorce recovery and reveal why your divorce healing journey is still not working for you–even after you’ve tried all the therapies and read all the books. We emphasize nuance because overcoming challenges after divorce means questioning everything that got us here and using your divorce as a springboard to a better, more resilient (and certainly happier!) you.  I’m Dawn Wiggins, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and EMDR specialist, and I draw on decades of experience to help women navigate the emotional rollercoaster that comes after ending a marriage. Using a little bit of science, a few alternative remedies and emotional release techniques, a whole lot of love, and zero BS, we step out of the victim mindset and into building a new life after divorce.Now’s the time we reclaim your healing journey–and why exactly we struggle to not only heal from past traumas but move beyond them to the ultimate goal: inner peace. Let's transform your pain into strength and take charge of your own narrative. Get ready for a world where we embrace radical self-acceptance by honoring the nuanced differences between us all. That is real self-empowerment, and this is Dear Divorce Diary. 

    (S2/70) Me: I'm not interested in divorce. You: But you're a divorce recovery maven! Me: Let me explain...

    (S2/70) Me: I'm not interested in divorce. You: But you're a divorce recovery maven! Me: Let me explain...

    I'm in my radical honesty era...welcome.

    So, yes, I want to talk about shifting the focus from dwelling on divorce to carving a new path. Because dwelling on the negative aspects of divorce not only doesn't help you - it actually does more damage. This is your invitation to channel your energy towards creating your new life path.  Shifting your perspective makes it possible to rise above the challenges (even in the throes of divorce conflict) and adopt a more hopeful, future-focused outlook.
     
    In this convo, we'll delve into how this newfound personal power can be the key to manifesting greatness in life. We'll discuss why it's important to believe in yourself, even when the world around you begs to differ. We'll discuss the cost of self-belief and how to recognize the power you've been ignoring all this time. We'll also focus on why depending on others for solutions can disempower us and the importance of wanting (not needing) help from others. Join us as we walk this path of self-discovery and personal power together.

    "The degree to which a person can grow is directly proportionate to the amount of truth they can accept about themselves without shifting blame upon someone else." 
    –Unknown

    In this episode:
    Uncover the secrets to bouncing back from divorce to personal evolution.Understand how owning your truths can set you free from blame and kindle the healing journey.Master new ways of transforming problem-centric divorce recovery to solution-focused growth.Discern the impact of societal constructs and belief systems in shaping our self-esteem.Explore strategies to unleash your inner power and design a life of fulfillment and abundance. Post Divorce Roadmap - 21 Days of Guided Journaling
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    • 26 min
    (S2/69) A New Path to Divorce Healing: Unveiling Homeopathy to Break Free from Persistent Emotional Pain w/Cailee Anello

    (S2/69) A New Path to Divorce Healing: Unveiling Homeopathy to Break Free from Persistent Emotional Pain w/Cailee Anello

    Have you ever rolled your eyes at "crunchy" healing suggestions like homeopathy? Most people I speak with have NEVER EVEN HEARD OF THIS LIFE CHANGING TOOL!! 

    In this episode, my special guest is Homeopath Cailee Anello, and we unravel the secrets of the mind through Cailee Anello's journey into homeopathy.   A twist of fate led her from a neuroscience path to the realm of holistic healing, leaving her captivated by the profound connection between our mental and emotional well-being. As she delved deeper into the world of homeopathy, Cailee discovered a hidden power that could bring solace to troubled souls and restore balance to weary minds. 

    When dealing with persistent symptoms or past traumas, homeopathy offers a safe and gentle approach, emphasizing the need to align with the body's natural healing mechanisms. It underscores the importance of not suppressing symptoms and instead guiding them out of the body. Furthermore, homeopathy also encourages an exploration of childhood attachment wounds and patterns, which often play a key role in adult relationship issues. The aim is to break free from the fear-filled mindset towards health and embrace the body's natural healing process.
    Step into the world of holistic health with Cailee Anello, a functional nutritionist and a classically trained homeopath. Cailee's journey embarking into this field was an unplanned plot twist that evolved from an unexpected injury. But as fate would have it, this event led her to discover the principles of homeopathy and functional nutrition. Infused with an inherent interest in psychology, Cailee has dived deep into human design readings and built an enriching career intended for healing the mind and body. With her profound knowledge and experience, she's become a beacon of guidance for many (including me!) seeking natural ways to enhance their health.
    "Homeopathy is a gentle nudge towards healing, a way to boost your vitality and remove what's blocking your body's natural healing mechanism." - Cailee Anello
    In this episode, you will be able to:
     Uncover what Homeopathy is and how it functions as an individualized and gentle approach to healing.Explore the vital role of homeopathy in confronting persistent symptoms and past traumas.Discover the key to determining the fitting remedy and potency tailored to your unique needs in homeopathy.Realize the comprehensive impact of homeopathy on your overall health and harmony.Visit Cailee Anello's website to learn more about her services and book a consultation: www.caileeanello.com
    Follow Cailee Anello on Instagram for informative posts and stories about homeopathy and healing: @caileeanello

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    • 57 min
    (S2/68) Tackling the Deepest Truth of Your Divorce...That You'd Rather NOT Acknowledge

    (S2/68) Tackling the Deepest Truth of Your Divorce...That You'd Rather NOT Acknowledge

    Ok this episode is deeeeeeep...like really deep. We are going to explore things like free will vs. fate and the truth behind this path you are walking. If you are ready to uncover the enormous PRIZE hidden in your pain, grab your tea and join me in considering why it often requires immense pain for us to surrender fully to God. This soul-stirring convo will lead us to the fascinating idea that God is more interested in our sanctification (what the hell is sanctification?!) than our comfort, a revelation that can help us find comfort even in our suffering and discover a clear path through the pain.

    Do you ever wonder about spiritual matters and try to make sense of it? Like: is astrology actually valid? Or how to reconcile free will with God's plans? Let's uncover these mysteries together. We'll be discussing the thought-provoking idea of a higher purpose, and how it often tangles with our own free will and aspirations. We'll also delve into the power of manifestation and the methods to raise our vibrations, becoming co-creators of positivity and goodness in our lives.

    Finally, we'll touch upon the transformative power of humility, vulnerability, and connection, drawing inspiration from the work of Brene Brown. Her insights on shame, vulnerability, and connection are potent tools to counter feelings of inadequacy. We'll also discuss Jackie Hill Perry's perspectives on being broken and remade, a viewpoint that can help us comprehend the link between humility and our divine purpose. Together, we'll discover that our purpose is greater than our pain and the path to healing is paved with connection and vulnerability. So, join me in this heartfelt conversation, and let's find purpose amidst pain, together.

    Post Divorce Roadmap - 21 Days of Guided Journaling
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    • 30 min
    (S2/67) Overcoming Your Money Stress: A Vulnerable Convo about Unshakable Security and Money Mindset

    (S2/67) Overcoming Your Money Stress: A Vulnerable Convo about Unshakable Security and Money Mindset

    Well, love, I got brave...really brave, and I decided to talk about allll the money things. The topic of money often brings up big big feelings, and its importance is often magnified due to its tie-in with our survival and status. I definitely reference the Barbie movie more than once because...it's so relevant to how we think about money. Although money is currently a source of stress for you, it can also be a powerful vehicle for growth and change when approached with the right mindset.
    For funsies, we talk quite a bit about free or low-cost ways of healing your mind-body. For instance:
    Take advantage of my (temporarily) free Immersive journaling program.Learn about fasting and its healing benefits from Dr. Mindy Pelz, and consider incorporating it into your healing journey. Check out her free resources on fasting.Explore bilateral stimulation techniques, such as left-right tapping or EFT tapping, to delve into the subconscious mind and promote healing. Search for YouTube channels that provide free tutorials on these techniques.Consider investing in one-on-one coaching for accountability and guidance in your healing journey. While it may be more expensive, it can provide valuable support and guidance and usually saves you money and time in the long run.Look for creative ways to generate income...I just saw this happen in a FB group for moms and was impressed!Remember that the best moments in life often have nothing to do with money. Focus on cultivating connections with loved ones, finding joy in simple experiences, and prioritizing your overall well-being and security.Recognize that true security comes from a deep knowing and connection with yourself, others, and a higher power. Tap into these sources of security to find peace and stability."Believe in your ability to innovate and create. You are here to create abundance, whether financial or in your relationships. Embrace your creative self and watch the abundance flow". - Dawn Wiggins

    Post Divorce Roadmap - 21 Days of Guided Journaling
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    • 26 min
    (S2/66) Self love & self care - what the hell are they and how do you do it?

    (S2/66) Self love & self care - what the hell are they and how do you do it?

    Let's face it, societal expectations and cultural pressures can make the journey toward self-love, and self-care feel like walking a tightrope (cue Barbie movie). Today we dive into the whys and hows as I share the story of a client who had to Google what self-love and self-care were - highlighting just how common this is. Join us as we redefine self-care...because (this part is shocking) it doesn't always feel good!! Yes, it is an act of kindness you shower on yourself, but let's sift through strategies that foster self-love in the ways YOU need.


    The truth is too many of us struggle to receive love. And there are some very good reasons for this. What if one secret to unwrapping the gift of life post-divorce lies in the mysterious vibration of 528 Hertz? We are going to pull back the curtain on the power of self-love and self-care post-divorce. In this riveting episode, we break down complex concepts like the emotions and sensations of love and the role that the frequency of 528 Hertz plays in shaping an abundant and vibrant life. We'll also examine how having children can serve as a mirror, teaching us to project this love toward ourselves.


    Now, imagine transforming your post-divorce life into a journey of self-healing. In the final chapter of this episode, we reflect on the transformative power of inner child work and the compelling concept of parts work. We delve into my personal experiences, share strategies I've employed, and explore how you can harness the power of self-love to create a brighter future for yourself. This is not just another podcast episode; it's an invitation to redefine your journey, foster self-love, and unlock the potential within you. Tune in for a life-changing conversation.

    Self-Care Checklist


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    • 32 min
    (S2/65) From Post Divorce Stagnation to Breakthrough: Navigating Plateaus in Your Healing Process

    (S2/65) From Post Divorce Stagnation to Breakthrough: Navigating Plateaus in Your Healing Process

    So you've been down the internet rabbit holes and comparing your progress to everyone else's and feeling stuck, defeated, frustrated, confused...generally over it. Today is the day we tackle those plateaus, walls, and hamster wheel moments that are inevitably part of the healing journey. Together, we're going to explore how to identify when you're in the right spot, what tools you need to progress, and how to adjust your approach to gain momentum. Remember, healing isn't linear, and the tools that worked at the beginning of your journey might need to be replaced as you evolve.

    Can you unravel your life's intricate details? Our conversation dives into the power of nuance in your healing journey, revealing that those unique aspects of your life and story could be the key to your next breakthrough. We explore many healing modalities, including EMDR, EFT, homeopathy, and immersive journaling, all while cementing the importance of self-care and a solid support system. Navigating post-divorce life is a journey of discovery: learning about yourself, your needs, and the tools that will help you grow.

    Taking a leap forward can feel intimidating, but you don't have to do it alone. We understand how daunting it can be to seek a healer or start a new therapy. We're here to hold space for you, emphasizing the importance of self-care basics like sleep, nutrition, and hydration as your foundation for healing. If you're feeling stuck or nervous about taking the next step, join us for this transformative discussion. It could be the sign you need to understand those little nuances better and take the leap forward on your healing journey.

    "When you feel like you're on a hamster wheel, getting nowhere, it's a sign that you need a next-level tool or strategy to break through to the next level of healing." -Dawn Wiggins.
    Unravel the complexities and bottlenecks that are slowing you downDiscover the power of discerning the need for simplistic remedies or specialized strategies in your healing journey.Explore the nuances and distinct aspects tied to YOUR journeyLearn about the importance of discovering suitable spaces for healing and have an open-minded approach toward *different* tools and healers.
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    • 28 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
26 Ratings

26 Ratings

Bona and Team Capsho ,

Uplifting listen

Dawn is a true companion for support and healing for those navigating the complexities of divorce. Her empathy and insight are guiding her listeners from resentment to peace and recovery. This podcast is akin to a warm hug and a roadmap for those on the journey to happiness and self-worth.​

From Bona and Team Capsho

Wenben💕 ,

So great! Women and men- Be open and listen!

Listening to the podcast episode and it hits so real and puts words and depth to something I know to be true deep down but didn’t have expression for.

Dottie’s place ,

Wide breadth of information for those that are divorced or married

A mentor once suggested a book to me that he wished he had read when he was happily married. I see that in this podcast. While there are some specifics for divorce, it also helps navigate issues before you get there (ie confronting past trauma). Great information from what sounds like a well-read psychologist with plenty of clinical experience.

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