Social Skills Coaching

Patrick King

While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now... Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.

  1. Vulnerability's Timing: Share, Don't Spill

    2D AGO

    Vulnerability's Timing: Share, Don't Spill

    Unlock the secret to becoming more likable by mastering vulnerability's timing in our latest episode! You'll learn how to share modest pieces of your truth that align perfectly with the conversation at hand, as backed by a 2015 study showing increased likability from well-timed self-disclosures. Discover when and how to pause after sharing to let your words sink in, fostering deeper connections without overwhelming others or losing authenticity. 00:01:02 Share, Don’t Spill 00:02:24 Tip 73: Share What’s Relevant 00:03:32 Tip 74: Stop Before You Explain The Science of Charisma: 174 Small Behavioral Tweaks For Charm, Likability, and Rapport (Backed By Research) (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 45) By Patrick King https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPKZFMGC 174 science-backed micro-behaviors to feel more confident, connect faster, and become effortlessly likable—without changing your personality. Forget vague advice like “be confident” or “just be yourself.” The Science of Charisma turns decades of psychological and behavioral research into practical, low-effort adjustments that quietly transform how people experience you. In The Science of Charisma, internationally bestselling author Patrick King distills research on attention, perception, warmth, and social dynamics into 174 small behavioral tweaks you can apply immediately. Learn how to avoid awkward moments, create natural rapport, and make conversations feel easy—without performing, oversharing, or trying to impress. This book reveals why charisma isn’t about talking more or standing out—it’s about timing, attention, and how you handle tiny moments most people overlook. Discover the subtle science behind likability and connection, including: Why the “spotlight effect” makes you feel more awkward than you actually are How shifting attention outward instantly reduces social anxiety The small conversational behaviors that build trust without effort Why correcting people damages rapport—even when you’re right How micro-pauses, tone, and pacing change how confident you appear Surprisingly small shifts → outsized social results: Show up imperfectly without losing credibility Keep conversations flowing without carrying them Repair social friction before it becomes awkward Give compliments that actually land Recover quickly from social missteps instead of overthinking If social confidence has ever felt mysterious or inconsistent, this book gives you the missing manual. Every tip is grounded in real research, and every tactic is practical enough to use in your very next interaction. Stop guessing what charisma is supposed to be—and start using the science of how connection actually works.

    7 min
  2. Schrödinger's Cat: How Thought Experiments Challenge Your Beliefs

    APR 22

    Schrödinger's Cat: How Thought Experiments Challenge Your Beliefs

    Patrick King explores how thought experiments, like Schrödinger's cat, challenge our beliefs and assumptions. Learn to question your own knowledge and open the door to new ideas and perspectives. Discover the power of systematic thinking in understanding complex issues. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 1:39 The Struggle for Knowledge 3:12 Thought Experiments Overview 5:49 Virtues and Drawbacks of Thought Experiments 7:22 Types of Thought Experiments 9:57 Philosophical Implications of Thought Experiments 12:04 Historical Examples of Thought Experiments 15:12 Schrödinger's Cat Explanation 18:21 Critical Thinking Through Thought Experiments 21:29 Newton's Cannon Example 23:33 Practical Applications and Benefits Learn To Think Using Thought Experiments: How to Expand Your Mental Horizons, Understand Metacognition, Improve Your Curiosity, and Think Like a Philosopher (Clear Thinking and Fast Action Book 5) By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/ThoughtExpKing Use the mental tools that the world's greatest thinkers used to generate epiphanies, explore the world, and hone their reasoning. In traditional education, you're taught to recite and regurgitate. Going a step farther, you might learn some critical thinking skills. But what about applying them in the most audacious, fascinating, and inquisitive ways possible with thought experiments? Philosophical and exploratory thinking pushes your boundaries and opens new worlds. Learn to Think Using Thought Experiments is about how to analyze, perceive, and interact with information and situations - all in your mind and imagination. It poses a hypothetical and forces you to engage it and answer questions and reason through arguments you've never known. This book will confuse, frustrate, and ultimately improve your thinking prowess like nothing else, on account of being thrown into the mental deep end. Challenge yourself and you will grow. Improve critical thinking by applying it in innovative and novel ways. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. Become more naturally curious, inquisitive, and Sherlock Holmes-like. - The curious case of two cats and what they teach us about uncertainty. - What choosing between 1 and 5 people says about you. - Why this entire world might just be a dream or simulation. - What a javelin has to do with infinite. - How Zeno's tortoise represents the point where reality and numbers diverge. - How Chinese logicians, beetles, fish, and monkeys demonstrate different angles of reality and perception. Learn to thrive in uncertain situations and contemplate more thoroughly and deeply. Thought experiments are a classic tool that everyone can use, and they enable us to explore more abstract situations and reason through them. Master thought experiments and you can master simply dealing with difficult, uncertain, impossible, or confusing questions and situations. Use the same models and tools that Einstein, Plato, Socrates, Galileo, and Lao-tzu used - and see your thinking prowess grow exponentially. This is the fifth book in the “Clear Thinking and Fast Action” series as listed below: 1. The Science of Getting Started: How to Beat Procrastination, Summon Productivity, and Stop Self-Sabotage 2. The Art of Clear Thinking: Mental Models for Better Reasoning, Judgment, Analysis, and Learning. Upgrade Your Intellectual Toolkit. 3. 10-Minute Philosophy: From Buddhism to Stoicism, Confucius and Aristotle - Bite-Sized Wisdom From Some of History’s Greatest Thinkers 4. Practical Intelligence: How to Think Critically, Deconstruct Situations, Analyze Deeply, and Never Be Fooled 5. Learn To Think Using Thought Experiments: How to Expand Your Mental Horizons, Understand Metacognition, Improve Your Curiosity, and Think Like a Philosopher 6. Take Rapid Action: Get Productive, Motivated, & Energized; Stop Overthinking & Procrastinating 7. Relentless Focus: 27 Small Tweaks to Beat Procrastination, Skyrocket Productivity, Outsmart Distractions, & Do More in Less Time If you're looking to sharpen your social skills and communication abilities with a dose of philosophy and critical thinking, Patrick King's channel is the place to be! Dive into engaging thought experiments like Schrödinger's Cat and explore how they can enhance your self-improvement journey. Join us for insightful tips on conversation and communication that will take your social interactions to the next level.

    26 min
  3. Navigating the Trust Spectrum: From Dynamic Agents to Earned Faith in a Shifting Environment

    APR 15

    Navigating the Trust Spectrum: From Dynamic Agents to Earned Faith in a Shifting Environment

    00:02:58 Stimulus Generalization as a Mechanism for Learning to Trust 00:03:26 Trust in Close Relationships 00:03:57 More Is Better 00:08:42 Attitudinal Effects of Mere Exposure How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth: Make People Reveal Their True Thoughts and Intentions Without Them Even Knowing It (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 12) By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/ExtractInfo https://www.amazon.com/dp/B093ZRPCDK Learn to quickly read people and draw conclusions from seemingly innocent and easy questions. Some people are forthcoming, and others are not so much. Either they are guarded, or they are deliberately hiding something. Well, whatever the case, this book is how you crack them and learn exactly what they aren’t saying. Tips from FBI interrogators, psychologists, and famous lawyers. How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth turns you into an expert reader of intentions, behavior, thoughts, and emotions. The tips in this book are used by professionals to extract valuable knowledge worth millions of dollars.You’ll read about body language, speed reading, thin slicing, and every other technique that has been scientifically proven. The goal of this book is to arm you with tools to uniquely understand and peel back the layers on people before they even know it. No one will be a puzzle to you anymore. How to subtly direct a conversation to exactly what you want. Exactly what to look and listen for. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. Protect yourself from those trying to probe you. The value of knowing how to extract information is in understanding human nature. That is the true purpose of this book. Once you know how people think, and what patterns tend to form, you’ll be armed with a powerful tool for the rest of your life.

    10 min
  4. Ditching Small Talk: Finding Depth and Direction Through Engaging Conversation 🎧

    APR 8

    Ditching Small Talk: Finding Depth and Direction Through Engaging Conversation 🎧

    00:00:44 Create Motion 00:05:48 Joseph Campbell 00:06:39 The Hero Cycle Better Small Talk: Talk to Anyone, Avoid Awkwardness, Generate Deep Conversations, and Make Real Friends By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/2Q5CWQM https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0871N22LF Networking events suck, but they can suck less. What to say and when to say to be likable, connect, and make a memorable impression. Actionable and applicable verbal maneuvers for just about every phase of conversation. From hello to goodbye, with strangers or old friends, you'll learn how to simply go deeper. . NO MORE: interview mode, awkward silence, or struggling to hold people’s attention. Better Small Talk is a unique read. Imagine the following situation: you've just put on your name tag, and you're approached by a stranger. What do you say? Nice weather today. No, we can do better than this. Learn better small talk to avoid awkwardness, put people at ease, and build real rapport. . Learn to open people up without them even realizing it. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. He suffered for years as a shy introvert and managed to boil human interaction down to a science - first for himself, and now for you. . You'll learn exact dialogues, responses, phrases, and questions to use. •How to tell captivating stories and what to actually focus on. •Four ways to warm yourself up and prepare for even the most unpredictable conversations. •Instantly setting a tone of friendship and openness with strangers. •Common and subtle conversational habits you need to stop right now . Become someone who is magnetic and who can make new friends in any situation. Simple conversation is the gatekeeper to friendships, your dream career, romance, and overall happiness. The ability to connect with anyone is an underrated superpower. People will be more drawn to you without even knowing why, and never again people will people be bored talking to you. You’ll never run out of things to say when you master these conversation tactic.

    10 min
  5. Shift Your Perspective, Solve Your Conflicts: Mastering Empathy & NLP for Workplace Harmony 🎧

    APR 2

    Shift Your Perspective, Solve Your Conflicts: Mastering Empathy & NLP for Workplace Harmony 🎧

    00:00:18 Hello listeners 00:01:31 Let’s begin by asking, what is empathy, anyway? 00:11:49 Summary The Power of E.Q.: Social Intelligence, Reading People, and How to Navigate Any Situation By: Patrick King Your success in life will depend on how good you are with people. Sorry, that's the harsh truth. But the good news is that this is a trainable skill - and this book is an amazing start. Make a smashing first impression and make people crave your presence. The Power of E.Q. is as practical as a book can be. You will get techniques to use immediately on the people around you, and you will suddenly realize how much you have been missing! You will gain a deep understanding of emotional intelligence and the small signs behind what people are thinking and feeling. Imagine how much more easily you could make friends or befriend business partners if you could analyze them better. Read and analyze people with such stunning accuracy that they will be shocked. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real-life experience. Find the shortcuts to connecting with people in record time.conversational intelligence and how to empathize in 4 stepshow to step outside of your own perspective and read the emotions of otherscold reading and being an expert at finding "clues" about peopleunderstanding emotions and how to label yourself and othershow high-quality questions will make you seem like a mind reader Gain a deeper understanding of human nature.

    13 min

  6. MAR 25

    Decoding the Mind: Personality Traits, Intuition & The Power of Body Language 🧠🗣️

    Social Skills Coaching

    31 min
  7. Taming the Digital Beast: Mastering Media Consumption for Productivity & Growth

    MAR 18

    Taming the Digital Beast: Mastering Media Consumption for Productivity & Growth

    00:00:29 Hello listeners, welcome to Social Skills Coaching 00:01:04 Limit Consumption for More Production. 00:03:36 1. Survey your information consumption. 00:03:39 2. Remove at least 50 percent of the least valuable content 00:03:50 3. View descriptions of information pieces as pitches for your time and attention. 00:03:57 4. Say no more often. 00:04:01 5. Consider cutting entire information forms from your life. 00:04:07 6. Monitor how much of any one information source you’re consuming. 00:12:50 The 40-70 Rule popularized by Colin Powell Take Rapid Action: Get Productive, Motivated, & Energized; Stop Overthinking & Procrastinating By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/takerapidactionking https://www.amazon.com/dp/B082YZ95LV Practical, psychological methods to turn your thoughts into reality, instead of endless avoidance and laziness. Transform from struggling with getting off your butt, to a machine of productivity and self-discipline. Create an action bias in your life -- starting now. How to break inertia, overthinking, paralysis, sloth, and insecurity. Take Rapid Action deconstructs the psychology of laziness and why tomorrow always sounds like a better idea. This book is many things at once: a shot of motivation, a spark of fire, an understanding of your brain, and a list of techniques to get into motion. This is one of the most valuable skills you’ll ever gain, because only action matters in life, not good intentions.

    16 min
  8. Navigating the Tightrope: Self-Disclosure, Oversharing and The Art of Authentic Connection

    MAR 11

    Navigating the Tightrope: Self-Disclosure, Oversharing and The Art of Authentic Connection

    00:00:00 Hello listeners 00:01:39 Set the Mood - Divulging 00:03:24 Sharing More 00:13:47 No Judging 00:21:40 In 1997, Arthur Aron found 00:26:59 Self-Entertaining and Amusement 00:37:07 Takeaways How to Engage, Connect, & Captivate: Become the Social Presence You've Always Wanted To Be. Small Talk, Meaningful Communication, & Deep Connections By: Patrick King http://bit.ly/EngageConnectKimg https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0952B32XQ Stop cringing at small talk. Become more charismatic. Turn surface interactions into deep connections. Hi, what’s your name, what do you do, what are your hobbies, and where do you come from? We can do so much better than that. It’s time to take your interpersonal relationships into your own hands and learn how to connect with anyone. Not a generic book of one-liners or ice-breakers. Proven principles for social success and likability. This book is not just common sense advice you might find on the Internet. This is where you learn to socialize from the ground up. This is where you will start to get compliments on your social skills and level of charisma. The knowledge in this book can change every aspect of your life; romantically, professionally, and of course socially. The most likable people in the world sail through life quite smoothly . this can be you as well. How to confidently walk into a room full of strangers, and walk out with a bunch of new friends. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. A comprehensive overview of how to become supremely likable. •The top conversational landmines you are probably stepping on. •How to do most of the work in a conversation before it even begins. •How to go deep from the get-go instead of staying in small talk. •How to make your life a series of engaging, funny stories. •Being more spontaneous and witty on command. •Channeling charisma like you never have before. How to never run out of things to say and also avoid interview mode. Verbal strategies for any purpose you might have.

    40 min
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While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now... Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.

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  • Creator
    Patrick King
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    254
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Patrick King
  • Show Website
    Social Skills Coaching

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