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Modern dating sucks, but it shouldn't have to. That's why Ilana Dunn is here to help you feel less alone and more empowered in your dating life. On Tuesdays, Ilana interviews expert guests to answer your biggest questions about dating and relationships. On Thursday’s "Unfiltered" episodes, anonymous guests share what they have been through, how they got through it, and what they wish they knew when going through their experience.

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Seeing Other People Ilana Dunn

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Modern dating sucks, but it shouldn't have to. That's why Ilana Dunn is here to help you feel less alone and more empowered in your dating life. On Tuesdays, Ilana interviews expert guests to answer your biggest questions about dating and relationships. On Thursday’s "Unfiltered" episodes, anonymous guests share what they have been through, how they got through it, and what they wish they knew when going through their experience.

Follow along @seeingotherpeople on Instagram!

    Solo Q&A: Surviving the Holidays, Situationships, Approaching Someone IRL & More

    Solo Q&A: Surviving the Holidays, Situationships, Approaching Someone IRL & More

    Happy Thanksgiving! In this episode I answer listener questions about how to enjoy the holidays when you're single, how to get over a situationship when you're in the same friend group, what to do if the idea of going on a date causes so much anxiety, tips for bonding with your significant other's family, advice for believing your healthy relatioship is real, what to do when things ended but you see them every time you go to the gym, and more.
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    • 44 min
    Make Your Own Dating Rules with Eli Rallo

    Make Your Own Dating Rules with Eli Rallo

    I’m joined by Eli Rallo, writer, content creator, host of the podcast Miss Congeniality, and Author of “I Didn’t Know I Needed This” coming out next Fall, 2023. Eli and I discuss how to create your own rules that work for you in dating, what to do if you get ghosted, and combatting loneliness and seasonal depression. Eli shares how she manifested her boyfriend and teaches us a Manifestation 101 lesson. We answer listener questions about making new friends in a new city, moving in with your partner, accepting that you went off on someone and said things you regret, and more. 
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    Unfiltered: How to Make a Relationship Last with Keith & Juliet Giglio

    Unfiltered: How to Make a Relationship Last with Keith & Juliet Giglio

    I’m joined by my college professor, Keith Giglio, and his wife, Juliet Giglio, a husband-wife screenwriting duo who met cute in an elevator while attending NYU Grad Film school (and have produced films including A Cinderella Story, Return to Halloweentown, Disney’s Tarzan & more). We chat about their first novel and my personal favorite book ever, THE SUMMER OF CHRISTMAS, a holiday romcom that so many love stories can relate to. We hear about how they got married while still in school, how they supported each other in their careers, what led them to team up, and how they’ve navigated working together and raising a family all while maintaining a healthy and loving relationship. Keith and Juliet share their secret to staying together, early signs they’ve noticed that someone’s relationship won’t work out, what’s led to some of their friends getting divorced, and more.
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    • 45 min
    Saving Modern Dating with Dateable's Julie and Yue

    Saving Modern Dating with Dateable's Julie and Yue

    I’m joined by Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu, hosts of Dateable podcast. We’re chatting all about why dating sucks and how we each can make it better. We discuss the biggest mistakes singles are making in their dating lives, the importance of focusing on the positives when dating, how we can turn each date into a learning experience, what we’ve learned from our past, and more. 
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    • 56 min
    Unfiltered: Getting Ghosted Led Me to Meet the Love of My Life

    Unfiltered: Getting Ghosted Led Me to Meet the Love of My Life

    I’m joined by a 29-year-old woman who tells us how got ghosted after dating someone for months whom she met through her parents. We talk about the red flags she noticed retrospectively, when things shifted, and how he went about ghosting her. We hear what getting back into dating after this experience was like, and how it ultimately led her to reconnect with her now partner and the love of her life, who she had previously written off because of distance.

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    • 52 min
    How to Tell if a Guy is Interested In You with Jake Tuff

    How to Tell if a Guy is Interested In You with Jake Tuff

    I’m joined by my friend Jake Tuff who opens up about a breakup that he just went through. We hear what he’s learned from going through it, what his breakup recovery looks like, and if he has any regrets about how everything went down. He talks about moving to a new place and starting over when you don’t know many people, learning his love language, and how he navigates his many female friendships when he’s in a relationship.  Jake answers listener questions about what guys think of the phrase “If he wanted to, he would,” if guys are generally bad at texting, for sure signs that a guy is interested in you, if sleeping with a guy too early on makes them less interested in dating longterm, what it means if he’s suddenly avoiding your stories, and more. 
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Customer Reviews

4.5 out of 5
399 Ratings

399 Ratings

michellepillepich ,

so relatable!

Ilana is like a chill best friend who is so great to listen to and encouraging while also being real with you!

Believe it! Coach ,

Great insights

This podcast is great for all around advice and insights into the dating world. I learned so much from the episode on being friends with exes. Thank you for the great guests and topics of interest.

D.N. Harris ,

Solid podcast

Pragmatic advice from the perspectives of real people dealing with the intricacies of dating and relationship-building. A solid podcast!

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