Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser

Cam Fraser
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"Men, Sex, and Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.

  1. FEB 13

    #280 Stop Having Fear-Based Sex (with Caitlin V)

    On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Caitlin V, a sex and relationship coach, YouTuber, HBO Max host, and author of "Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger," outlines her decade of work primarily with men experiencing performance anxiety. She emphasizes shifting from performance and comparison to an experiential focus on pleasure, communication, and treating sexual challenges as data. We also discuss fear, homophobia, and manosphere grifts. Key Points: 05:47 Beyond Premature Ejaculation 13:25 Performance vs Pleasure 19:24 Fear and Masculinity 23:23 Manosphere Grifts 37:44 Fear of Pleasure 42:17 Performance vs Receiving 48:54 Erotic Libraries and Porn

    55 min

  2. FEB 6

    #279 Crystal Pleasure Tools, Ritual, and Healing (with Vanessa Cuccia)

    On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Vanessa Cuccia, founder of Chakrubs and an interdisciplinary musician, shares how a period of healing from a toxic relationship, her work at an adult store, and exposure to crystals at a spiritual gathering sparked the idea of crystal pleasure tools for both pleasure and emotional support. Key Points: 04:30 Making Crystal Toys 11:54 Safety and Contraindications 14:03 Introducing Toys Intentionally 19:58 Ritual Methods and Moon Charging 24:31 Obsidian Anal Plug and Shame 31:21 Curiosity Over Rules 38:59 Depth Versus Play 42:23 Pressure Free Pleasure

    52 min

  3. JAN 30

    #278 Bad Marriage Advice Debunked: Communication, Conflict Repair, and Collaboration (with Monica Tanner)

    This episode of #mensexpleasure features marriage, relationship, and intimacy coach Monica Tanner, who shares her background, including her parents’ divorce at 12, 23 years of marriage, and her work helping couples build connection and intimacy while aiming to reduce divorce. We discuss common marriage breakdown areas—communication, sex, money, and parenting—and how sex issues can feel larger when overall connection is weak, particularly for men who often experience closeness through physical intimacy. Key points: 02:16 Why Marriages Fail 12:49 Debunking Marriage Cliches 18:16 Collaboration Over Compromise 24:13 Modern Gender Roles 29:19 Three Step Request Method 39:01 Repair Is One Way Street 45:16 Eight Sentence Repair Script

    51 min

  4. JAN 23

    #276 Addressing AI-Generated Deepfake Abuse (with Noelle Martin)

    On this episode of the #mensexpleasure, host Cam Fraser delves into the issues surrounding AI-generated deepfake abuse, featuring insights from guest Noelle Martin, a PhD candidate, lawyer, and global activist. Noelle sheds light on the harmful impacts of deepfake technology, particularly on women and girls, and discusses Australia's position and challenges in addressing online image-based abuse. The conversation highlights the importance of scrutinizing and enforcing regulations, the role of tech companies, and the need for a multifaceted approach including education, legal action, and grassroots activism. Cam and Noelle address the societal and cultural aspects underpinning this abuse, offering both despair and hope through advocacy and legal reforms. Key points: 03:17 Challenges in Enforcing Online Safety Laws 06:50 Global Nature of Image-Based Abuse 10:48 Educational Approaches and Challenges 25:44 Societal and Cultural Issues 36:19 Call to Action and Conclusion

    40 min

  5. JAN 16

    #275 Climax Control and Performance Enhancement with the MOR Starter Kit (with Jeff Bennett)

    On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Jeff Bennett, founder and CEO of Morari Medical, returns to answers questions about his personal and professional background, his passion for improving men's sexual health, and the evolution of his company. Jeff shares significant milestones, including receiving FDA clearance for their product, which aims to enhance sexual performance by delivering mild electrical stimulation to the perineum. He discusses the challenges and triumphs in getting regulatory approval, the intricacies of product development, and the importance of patient safety and confidentiality. Jeff also highlights the company's strategic marketing efforts, their focus on couples in committed relationships, and future plans to expand internationally. The episode delves into the technical aspects of the product, the motivations behind it, and the broader implications of advancing sexual health and wellness. Key points: 04:12 FDA Approval Process 25:55 Navigating Regulatory Challenges 28:54 Personal Journey and Entrepreneurial Insights 35:08 Setting Realistic Expectations 37:42 App Integration and Data Privacy 43:50 Target Market and Future Plans

    47 min

  6. JAN 9

    #274 What's Happening to Our Boys? (with Lee Chambers)

    On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Lee Chambers discusses his diverse roles as a father, educator, psychologist, and author, while emphasizing his fascination with human behavior and interaction. He shares his journey of understanding masculinity, gender dynamics, and generational perspectives on these issues. Lee's experiences, including overcoming a severe health challenge and exploring personal and professional growth, have shaped his insights. The discussion touches on the motivations behind Male Allies UK, challenges faced by teenage boys in today's digital world, and the importance of creating supportive environments for personal development. Cam and Lee delve into the complexities of competitiveness and the psychological and social impacts of modern technology on young people. Key Points:06:15 Reflections on Competitiveness12:14 Navigating Modern Masculinity21:06 Challenges of Young Men Today24:29 The Influence of Technology and Social Media32:19 The Importance of Offline Interaction for Boys47:51 Teenage Loneliness and AI Companions55:26 Economic Concerns and Future Uncertainty59:29 Reflecting on the Pandemic's Impact

    1h 2m

  7. JAN 2

    #273 Geddings Osbon: Inventor of the Penis Pump (with Callum Fraser)

    On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Cam is joined by his brother Callum to explore the story of Geddings David Osbon, an automotive shop worker from South Carolina who invented the penis pump. Key points: 01:33 Geddings' Early Life and Family 09:50 The Birth of the Penis Pump 17:52 Challenges and Acceptance 25:33 FDA Approval and Market Breakthrough 30:05 Family Legacy and Business Expansion 43:09 Third Generation and Modern Era 44:52 Reflections and Final Thoughts

    51 min

  8. 12/26/2025

    #272 Improving Intimacy and Communication in Your Relationship (with Isiah McKimmie)

    In this episode of #mensexpleasure, Isiah McKimmie, a couples counselor and sexologist with 15 years of experience, discusses strategies for helping individuals and couples build healthier relationships and improve their sex lives. Isiah emphasizes the importance of discussing difficult topics outside the bedroom in low-stakes situations to foster better communication inside the bedroom. She highlights the impact of sexual challenges on overall well-being and offers insights into addressing common issues such as mismatched libidos, sexual dysfunction, and emotional disconnection. The discussion also covers the benefits of engaging in playful activities to bond with partners and new approaches to therapy, including couples retreats designed to provide a relaxing yet insightful experience. The conversation is rich with practical advice and underlines the need for empathy, structured communication, and creative solutions in nurturing intimate relationships. Key Points: 02:39 Two-Way Street of Sexual Dysfunction 09:51 Games and Activities to Improve Intimacy 15:57 Navigating Mismatched Libidos 22:53 Understanding Rejection Sensitivity in Relationships 23:45 The Need for Non-Sexual Physical Intimacy 29:02 Exploring the Erotic Menu Concept 32:53 Introducing Couples Retreats for Relationship Enhancement 37:50 Addressing Anxiety and Pressure in Romantic Getaways

    46 min
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