Done with Dieting: Total Health for Women 40+ with Elizabeth Sherman

Elizabeth Sherman
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You’ve tried the diets. You’ve done the research. You know what you’re supposed to do. And you’re still stuck. Done with Dieting: Total Health for Women 40+ is for women who are exhausted by the start-over cycle and ready to understand why nothing has stuck, and what to actually do about it. Host Elizabeth Sherman is a Master Certified Life and Health Coach with 20 years of experience working with women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond. Each episode gets into the real reasons health habits break down in this stage of life, including hormonal shifts, depleted capacity, years of diet history, and a nervous system that never fully gets to rest. This isn’t another wellness show telling you to eat less and move more. It’s a show that helps you understand what’s actually going on in your body and your life, so you can start making changes that hold. New episodes weekly. Start with the 8 Basic Habits guide at elizabethsherman.com/habits.

  1. 17h ago

    285: How Being the Capable One Is Costing You Your Health

    You said you'd make dinner. Then you got home, opened the freezer, saw the chicken still frozen solid, and thought: I cannot do this. So you grabbed the rotisserie chicken from the deli case, put it on plates, and sat there feeling like a fraud for not cooking it yourself. Sound familiar? If you're a capable woman who runs a department, a household, or both, and can handle almost anything, except being reliable with your own health, this episode is going to hit close to home. You've probably decided you're lazy, or that you haven't found the right plan yet, or that something is wrong with you specifically. None of that is true, and this episode explains what's actually happening. Here's the sentence at the center of it: "I just need one more hour in the day." You've said it in the car, to your sister, to yourself at 11pm. Elizabeth makes the case that it's a lie, not one you're telling on purpose, but one you need to be true because the real answer is harder. She walks through exactly where that hour would go if someone handed it to you tomorrow, and why your health keeps getting cut while everything else on your list survives. This is the episode for the woman who is loved, needed, and running on empty, and who's starting to suspect that her follow-through problem was never about time or discipline at all. It won't hand you a system to fix it in five easy steps. It will show you the pattern so clearly you won't be able to unsee it. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN Why your health is the first thing to get cut from your day, and what it has in common with every other thing you drop when you're overloadedThe hidden second half of "I just need one more hour" that you never say out loud, and what it reveals about where your time actually goesWhy saying no fills you with guilt and requires a "good enough" excuse, when the men around you can decline without explaining themselves at allThe Listener Takeaway: Why This Episode Matters If you've spent years quietly ashamed that you can hold together a career, a household, and everyone else's needs but can't stay consistent with a walk or a real dinner, this episode will lift an enormous weight off you. You are not lazy and you are not broken. You are full. And the relief of finally understanding that is real. You get one body and one life, and nobody is coming to hand back the hours you've been giving away. That's a hard thing to hear, and this episode says it with love, not a lecture. You'll walk away seeing your own pattern with a clarity you've never had, and understanding that recognizing it is the first honest step toward actually changing it. RESOURCES Take the free quiz: Why Do Your Healthy Habits Keep Falling Apart? → https://elizabethsherman.com/quizEpisode 243: High Functioning Co-Dependency with Sara Fisk → https://elizabethsherman.com/243Episode 224: When We Ignore Our Own Boundaries → https://elizabethsherman.com/224Hey! I love hearing from you. Send me a text. Let me know what resonated with you. Free Live Class: Why You Know What To Do, But Just Don't Do It Wednesday, September 9 at 1:00 PM ET If you already know what would help and still can't make yourself do it, this hour is for you. It's free, it's live, and you'll walk away with a real answer instead of another generic plan. Tap Here to Save Your Seat If you’re a woman in midlife who wants better health without obsessing over weight, you’re in the right place. I’m Elizabeth Sherman, a life and health coach and host of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast. After coaching hundreds of women, I know the real problem usually isn’t “not enough information” – it’s too much of it, and not knowing where to start. With close to 300 episodes, this show can feel that way too. To make it easy, I created a free Listener’s Roadmap that helps you figure out which episodes are right for you right now. Tell me what you’re struggling with – low energy, emotional eating, stress, sleep, exercise, or all of the above – and I’ll point you to a curated path of episodes and resources to get you moving. Download your free roadmap at https://elizabethsherman.com/roadmap.

  2. Aug 18

    284: How Ignoring Your Body Signals Impacts Your Health After 40

    Years ago, Elizabeth stood in a kitchen at a party complaining about brownies, and a woman she barely knew looked over and said, "I guess I just listen to my body," and walked out. Elizabeth thought she was insufferable. She also had no idea what the woman was talking about. She'd been in the fitness world for years. She knew macros and training programs and the protein content of just about anything. And she could not have told you the first thing about what her body was actually saying to her. If you know exactly what you should be doing for your health and still can't get yourself to do it, this episode is going to feel familiar. Because the reason usually isn't a lack of information, and it isn't about trying harder. Somewhere along the way you learned to override what your body tells you, and you got so good at it that you don't even hear it anymore. In this episode, Elizabeth walks through what that override looks like in a real day. Wanting pasta, eating the chicken and salad the plan allows, then standing over the counter eating almonds out of the bag and never feeling satisfied. Resisting the cookies all week and then eating seven of them on a Thursday night. Sitting exhausted on the couch at 8pm and deciding it's "too early" for bed. Biting your tongue for weeks and then coming unglued over a glass left on the counter. Every one of those is your body asking for something, and every one of those is a moment you talked yourself out of hearing it. And here's the part that makes midlife women feel like they're losing it: this used to work. At 30, you could ignore your body and recover fine. Now one bad night of sleep costs you three days, and the strategy you built decades ago has quietly stopped working. Elizabeth explains why that happens in perimenopause and menopause, and what it means for whether you can actually follow through on the things you already know how to do. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN Why "listen to your body" has probably never meant anything real to you, and what the phrase is actually pointing atThe everyday moments you override your body without noticing, across food, movement, sleep, and unspoken stressWhy pushing through worked at 30 and quietly stopped working in your mid-40sWhat your cravings, 3am wake-ups, and afternoon crashes have been trying to tell you the whole timeThe Listener Takeaway: Why This Episode Matters If you've been calling yourself lazy or broken because you know what to do and still don't do it, this episode hands you a more accurate explanation. Your body has been talking to you the whole time. The brain fog, the cravings, the exhaustion, the mood that turns on a dime, none of it means something is wrong with you. Your body is communicating, and you were trained to tune it out, and in midlife that costs you more than it used to. The relief here is that this is learnable. Elizabeth didn't know how to hear her body either, and she does now, and that changed whether she could actually stick with the things she already knew. You are not a different kind of person than the women who seem to do this easily. You just haven't been taught the one thing that makes following through stop feeling like a fight with yourself. RESOURCES Free quiz: Why Do Your Healthy Habits Keep Falling Apart? (elizabethsherman.com/quiz)Episode 254: How to Trust Yourself Around Food Again in Perimenopause (https://elizabethsherman.com/254)Episode 256: Fearing Hunger: How Dieting Trained You to Overeat (https://elizabethsherman.com/256)Episode 252: Nighttime Cravings in Midlife: It's Not a Willpower Problem (https://elizabethsherman.com/252)Hey! I love hearing from you. Send me a text. Let me know what resonated with you. Free Live Class: Why You Know What To Do, But Just Don't Do It Wednesday, September 9 at 1:00 PM ET If you already know what would help and still can't make yourself do it, this hour is for you. It's free, it's live, and you'll walk away with a real answer instead of another generic plan. Tap Here to Save Your Seat If you’re a woman in midlife who wants better health without obsessing over weight, you’re in the right place. I’m Elizabeth Sherman, a life and health coach and host of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast. After coaching hundreds of women, I know the real problem usually isn’t “not enough information” – it’s too much of it, and not knowing where to start. With close to 300 episodes, this show can feel that way too. To make it easy, I created a free Listener’s Roadmap that helps you figure out which episodes are right for you right now. Tell me what you’re struggling with – low energy, emotional eating, stress, sleep, exercise, or all of the above – and I’ll point you to a curated path of episodes and resources to get you moving. Download your free roadmap at https://elizabethsherman.com/roadmap.

  3. Aug 11

    283: How Old Diet Rules Sabotage Your Health Today

    You know what to do. You could probably teach it. You know to eat more vegetables, get to bed earlier, and move your body most days. And you still end up standing in your kitchen at nine o'clock at night, arguing with yourself about whether you're allowed to have the chocolate. If that scene feels a little too familiar, this episode is for you. Here's the part nobody tells you. The reason you can't do the thing you already know how to do has nothing to do with how much willpower or discipline you have. It's that you're carrying a long list of food rules you never actually chose. Somebody handed them to you when you were young, before you had any way to question them, and they've been running quietly in the background ever since. In this first episode of the pillar series, Elizabeth walks through where that second voice in the kitchen came from, why decades of dieting taught you to treat your own hunger as the enemy, and why knowing everything about nutrition has never once been enough to change what you do at night. She makes a claim that gets a little bit of pushback: if you're eating for any reason other than hunger, that's emotional eating, and there is nothing wrong with it. She also names the way exercise quietly turned into the thing you do to pay off what you ate. This one leaves you seeing your own pattern clearly, maybe for the first time. Because once you understand whose voice is doing the arguing at nine o'clock, the whole thing looks different. THE BIGGEST PROBLEM MIDLIFE WOMEN FACE HERE The biggest reason midlife women can't follow through on their health has nothing to do with missing information or a shortage of willpower. It's that decades of diet history installed a set of food rules, absorbed young from a mother, a sister, a boyfriend, or a magazine, that taught them their own body could not be trusted. Hunger got labeled a problem. Cravings got labeled a weakness. Wanting a specific food got treated as proof that something was broken in them. So every food decision turns into an argument between a rule and a body signal, and the woman has already been taught to side against her own body. That is why she can know exactly what to do and still not do it. The information was never the missing piece. The unexamined rules are what's running the show. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN Why a woman who actually trusted her own body wouldn't be standing in the kitchen arguing with herself in the first placeWhere your food rules really came from, and why so many of them contradict each other yet still feel mandatoryThe reason knowing everything about nutrition never turns into doing it, and why more information won't fix itHow exercise quietly became a debt you pay off after eating, and what that does to your sleep, your cravings, and your moodRESOURCES Take the quiz: Why Do Your Healthy Habits Keep Falling Apart? In about three minutes it shows you your specific pattern, the real reason your follow-through keeps breaking down, and what to look at first. Results go straight to your inbox.Episode 233: How to Eat Without Rules Episode 254: How to Trust Yourself Around Food Again in PerimenopauseEpisode 256: Fearing Hunger: How Dieting Trained You to OvereatHey! I love hearing from you. Send me a text. Let me know what resonated with you. Free Live Class: Why You Know What To Do, But Just Don't Do It Wednesday, September 9 at 1:00 PM ET If you already know what would help and still can't make yourself do it, this hour is for you. It's free, it's live, and you'll walk away with a real answer instead of another generic plan. Tap Here to Save Your Seat If you’re a woman in midlife who wants better health without obsessing over weight, you’re in the right place. I’m Elizabeth Sherman, a life and health coach and host of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast. After coaching hundreds of women, I know the real problem usually isn’t “not enough information” – it’s too much of it, and not knowing where to start. With close to 300 episodes, this show can feel that way too. To make it easy, I created a free Listener’s Roadmap that helps you figure out which episodes are right for you right now. Tell me what you’re struggling with – low energy, emotional eating, stress, sleep, exercise, or all of the above – and I’ll point you to a curated path of episodes and resources to get you moving. Download your free roadmap at https://elizabethsherman.com/roadmap.

  4. Aug 4

    282: Why You Resent Your Health Routine Even When You're Showing Up

    You're showing up. You're doing the workouts, sending the emails, reaching out to friends, eating the way you're supposed to eat. And yet something feels off. The results aren't coming. The friendships aren't deepening. The business isn't growing. And underneath all of it is a quiet, low-grade resentment you can't quite name. This episode is about what's actually driving that feeling. Not a lack of effort. Not bad luck. A belief most of us have been carrying since childhood that doing the right things automatically earns us what we want. And the way that belief quietly runs your health, your relationships, and your life without you realizing it. Elizabeth shares a personal story from a recent night in Mexico that stopped her cold: catching herself judging her husband, then recognizing the exact same pattern in herself. What followed was an honest look at where this expectation comes from, what it costs midlife women specifically, and what it actually takes to start getting the results you want. This one will make you uncomfortable in the best possible way. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN Why doing everything "right" can still leave you stuck, and what's actually missingWhere the belief that effort automatically earns results comes from, and why midlife is when it stops workingWhat self-pity actually looks like from the inside (hint: it doesn't feel like self-pity at all)The real reason women in midlife struggle to build friendships, grow their businesses, and make their health habits stickWhy seeing a pattern in yourself is not the same as being able to move through it aloneThe Listener Takeaway: Why This Episode Matters If you've been doing the things and still not getting the results, this episode will give you a completely different explanation for why. Not a discipline problem. Not a willpower problem. A conditioned belief that was installed in you long before you had any say in it, and that has been quietly running in the background ever since. Understanding that is the first step toward something actually changing. Most women who listen to this episode will recognize themselves in it immediately. The waiting. The quiet resentment. The sense that something is unfair but you can't quite put your finger on what. This episode names that clearly and honestly, and points you toward the one shift that makes everything else possible: recognizing that the life you want is not going to arrive on its own. You are the one who has to build it. And that is not a punishment. It's just how it works. RESOURCES Take the free quiz to find out what's really getting in your way: https://elizabethsherman.com/quiz Episode 245: Self-Pity, Sabotage & Self-Soothing: https://elizabethsherman.com/self-pity-sabotage-self-soothingEpisode 159: Fault vs Responsibility: https://elizabethsherman.com/fault-vs-responsibilityEpisode 160: Ex-Good Girl with Sara Fisk: https://elizabethsherman.com/sara-fisk Hey! I love hearing from you. Send me a text. Let me know what resonated with you. Free Live Class: Why You Know What To Do, But Just Don't Do It Wednesday, September 9 at 1:00 PM ET If you already know what would help and still can't make yourself do it, this hour is for you. It's free, it's live, and you'll walk away with a real answer instead of another generic plan. Tap Here to Save Your Seat If you’re a woman in midlife who wants better health without obsessing over weight, you’re in the right place. I’m Elizabeth Sherman, a life and health coach and host of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast. After coaching hundreds of women, I know the real problem usually isn’t “not enough information” – it’s too much of it, and not knowing where to start. With close to 300 episodes, this show can feel that way too. To make it easy, I created a free Listener’s Roadmap that helps you figure out which episodes are right for you right now. Tell me what you’re struggling with – low energy, emotional eating, stress, sleep, exercise, or all of the above – and I’ll point you to a curated path of episodes and resources to get you moving. Download your free roadmap at https://elizabethsherman.com/roadmap.

  5. Jul 28

    281: Leaking, Pressure, and Hip Pain: It's Not Just Aging

    Leaking, pressure, and hip pain: it's not just aging. If you've been quietly living with any of those symptoms and assuming it's just what happens to women's bodies over time, this episode is going to change that story. Dr. Mary Alice Vetter is a doctor of physical therapy who specializes in pelvic floor care, and what she sees in her practice every day is women who were told their symptoms were normal, not treatable. She calls them "the usuals." Her patients get sent home with a diagnosis, a shrug, and the expectation that they'll just manage around it. Most of them have been doing that for years. This conversation covers the full picture of pelvic floor health in midlife, including what prolapse actually is, who it affects, what the symptoms are, and why so many of those symptoms get misread as hip problems, back problems, or just aging. It also covers the connection between estrogen, menopause, and pelvic floor dysfunction, which is something most women have never been told. And if you've ever been told to do your Kegels and wondered why they're not helping, or suspected they might actually be making things worse, Mary Alice addresses that directly. The answer is probably not what you were expecting. She works virtually, so geography is not a barrier. You'll find her information in the show notes below. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN What pelvic floor dysfunction actually looks like in midlife women, including the symptoms that have nothing to do with leaking that most women are completely missingWhy prolapse is far more common than women think, what the different types are, and what your options are beyond just "waiting to see if surgery is necessary"Why Kegels might not be the answer, and what Mary Alice actually prescribes first to every single patient regardless of what's going onThe Listener Takeaway: Why This Episode Matters Most women over 40 who are dealing with pelvic floor issues have been told some version of "this is just what happens." They leave their doctor's appointments without a real explanation, without a path forward, and often with a low-level shame about something they didn't cause and don't know how to fix. This episode removes the information gap and replaces it with something more useful: a clearer picture of what's actually happening in the body, what the options are, and the knowledge that what feels embarrassing to talk about is actually incredibly common and very treatable. If any part of your body has been talking to you in ways you've been ignoring, this episode gives you the language, the framework, and the permission to stop waiting. RESOURCES Dr. Mary Alice Vetter, Cornerstone Pelvic Health: @cornerstonepelvichealth on InstagramFree 3-minute quiz: find out what's getting in the way of your health follow-throughEpisode 208: Menopause Survival Guide Pt. 1 — Why We Feel StuckEpisode 209: Menopause Survival Guide Pt. 2 — The Lifestyle Shifts That Actually WorkEpisode 205: How Body Image Changes in MidlifeEpisode 280:  Why "Having to Go" Isn't Just About Water Hey! I love hearing from you. Send me a text. Let me know what resonated with you. Free Live Class: Why You Know What To Do, But Just Don't Do It Wednesday, September 9 at 1:00 PM ET If you already know what would help and still can't make yourself do it, this hour is for you. It's free, it's live, and you'll walk away with a real answer instead of another generic plan. Tap Here to Save Your Seat If you’re a woman in midlife who wants better health without obsessing over weight, you’re in the right place. I’m Elizabeth Sherman, a life and health coach and host of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast. After coaching hundreds of women, I know the real problem usually isn’t “not enough information” – it’s too much of it, and not knowing where to start. With close to 300 episodes, this show can feel that way too. To make it easy, I created a free Listener’s Roadmap that helps you figure out which episodes are right for you right now. Tell me what you’re struggling with – low energy, emotional eating, stress, sleep, exercise, or all of the above – and I’ll point you to a curated path of episodes and resources to get you moving. Download your free roadmap at https://elizabethsherman.com/roadmap.

  6. Jul 21

    280: Why "Having to Go" Isn't Just About Water (part 2 of Chris's Story)

    Chris noticed the bathroom trips increasing first. More frequency, more urgency, and a ready explanation sitting right there: she'd started drinking a lot more water. Made sense. Case closed, as far as she was concerned. Except it kept going. Her body started feeling different as she lost weight, so that got filed under weight loss too. Then constipation showed up, and she was eating more vegetables than she ever had. None of it added up on its own, and none of it seemed serious enough to mention to anyone. She's a nurse. She goes to her appointments. She was paying closer attention to her body than she ever had in her life, and she still spent years explaining away symptoms that had a name she didn't know to ask for. That name is pelvic organ prolapse. Chris talks through what it actually felt like: the frequency, the pressure when sitting, the moment a doctor said the word and she immediately pictured women decades older than herself. She talks about trying a pessary ring and hating it, about deciding to have surgery, and about the shame that kept her from telling anyone outside her husband and her coach. She also shares something her own doctor told her that reframed the whole thing: losing fat means losing estrogen, and estrogen is part of what supports the pelvic floor. Weight loss, perimenopause, and pelvic floor strength were all happening in her body at once, and no one had ever connected those dots for her before. What You'll Learn: Why urinary urgency and frequency during weight loss or perimenopause can point to something other than hydration or hormones aloneHow fat loss affects estrogen levels, and why that matters for pelvic floor supportWhat the three stages of prolapse progression can look like day to day, including symptoms that don't involve painWhy so many women, including women in medicine, never get asked about their pelvic floor at a routine examWhat You Can Do Right Now: At your next appointment, ask directly: is there any sign of pelvic organ prolapse, and how is my pelvic floor doing? Don't wait for the question to come to you. If the answer feels rushed or dismissive, that's information too, and it may be worth finding a provider who will actually engage with it. Caught early, at stage one or stage two, prolapse can often be improved with the right pelvic floor therapy. Chris's case had already progressed past that point by the time it was named. The Listener Takeaway: Chris knew her body better than most people do. She still needed someone else to name what was happening before she could act on it. If something in your body has felt off in a way you've been quietly explaining away, that's worth a direct conversation with your doctor, not another few months of your own theories. Resources: Episode 279: Chris's full story, from her first appointment to over 100 pounds lostEpisode 281: pelvic floor specialist Dr. Mary Alice Vetter joins the show to go deeper on what to ask and what to doTake the Free Quiz to see what might be getting in your wayHey! I love hearing from you. Send me a text. Let me know what resonated with you. Free Live Class: Why You Know What To Do, But Just Don't Do It Wednesday, September 9 at 1:00 PM ET If you already know what would help and still can't make yourself do it, this hour is for you. It's free, it's live, and you'll walk away with a real answer instead of another generic plan. Tap Here to Save Your Seat If you’re a woman in midlife who wants better health without obsessing over weight, you’re in the right place. I’m Elizabeth Sherman, a life and health coach and host of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast. After coaching hundreds of women, I know the real problem usually isn’t “not enough information” – it’s too much of it, and not knowing where to start. With close to 300 episodes, this show can feel that way too. To make it easy, I created a free Listener’s Roadmap that helps you figure out which episodes are right for you right now. Tell me what you’re struggling with – low energy, emotional eating, stress, sleep, exercise, or all of the above – and I’ll point you to a curated path of episodes and resources to get you moving. Download your free roadmap at https://elizabethsherman.com/roadmap.

  7. Jul 14

    279: 100 lbs Down - A Client Story

    Chris has been on a diet since she was eleven years old. Keto, Atkins, Weight Watchers, the five-bite diet, and about a dozen things in between. She lost weight on every single one of them. She also gained it back every time. When she found this podcast and eventually started working with Elizabeth, she was not expecting anything different. She'd done the plans. She knew what plans could do, and what they couldn't. What she didn't expect was that somewhere in the process, the weight would stop being the point. In this episode of Done with Dieting, Elizabeth talks with Chris, a long-term client and former listener, about what 100 pounds of weight loss actually looks like from the inside. Not the plan. Not the food rules. The real shift: the one that happened when Chris stopped treating her eating as a discipline problem and started understanding what was actually driving it. If you've ever thought that real, lasting change isn't available to you because you've failed at it enough times to have evidence, this conversation is going to challenge that belief. Chris is a nurse. She is smart, informed, and spent decades doing everything she was supposed to do. And she still couldn't make it stick, until she understood why. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN Why women who know exactly what to do still can't make it stick, and what's actually getting in the wayWhat changes when weight loss stops being the goal, and why that shift is what finally made the results last for ChrisHow decades of people-pleasing and putting everyone else first shows up in your eating, and what it looks like when that pattern starts to changeWhy Chris, a nurse with full access to medical knowledge, still couldn't see what was happening in her own body until she had outside supportThe Listener Takeaway: Why This Episode Matters Most weight loss content gives you information you already have. Another plan, another set of rules, another promise that this time will be different if you just follow the steps correctly. Chris's story is not that. She'd followed the steps. Many times. What changed was not the plan. What changed was her understanding of why food had been doing a job she didn't know it was doing, and what happened when she found other ways to meet those needs. If you've been carrying quiet shame about not being able to make your health habits stick, this episode is going to reframe what that struggle actually means. It doesn't mean you lack commitment. It means you've been solving the wrong problem. Chris figured that out. This is her telling you what that looked like, in plain language, with no performance. RESOURCES Take the free quiz to find out which pattern is getting in your wayDone with Dieting: Beyond Overeating Program — the program Chris started with before moving into 1:1 coachingEpisode 246: Is It OK to Want to Lose Weight? — If Chris's story stirred something in you about your own desire to lose weight and whether you're "allowed" to want that, this episode addresses that question directly and without shame.Episode 161: People Pleasing and Self-Care — Chris talks about how people-pleasing ran her life before this work. This episode goes deeper into exactly how saying yes to everyone else first quietly destroys your health habits.Episode 186: Breaking Through Midlife Weight Loss Barriers — If you heard Chris's results and thought "that's not possible for me," this episode unpacks the real reasons midlife weight loss feels impossible, and why it doesn't have to be. Hey! I love hearing from you. Send me a text. Let me know what resonated with you. Free Live Class: Why You Know What To Do, But Just Don't Do It Wednesday, September 9 at 1:00 PM ET If you already know what would help and still can't make yourself do it, this hour is for you. It's free, it's live, and you'll walk away with a real answer instead of another generic plan. Tap Here to Save Your Seat If you’re a woman in midlife who wants better health without obsessing over weight, you’re in the right place. I’m Elizabeth Sherman, a life and health coach and host of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast. After coaching hundreds of women, I know the real problem usually isn’t “not enough information” – it’s too much of it, and not knowing where to start. With close to 300 episodes, this show can feel that way too. To make it easy, I created a free Listener’s Roadmap that helps you figure out which episodes are right for you right now. Tell me what you’re struggling with – low energy, emotional eating, stress, sleep, exercise, or all of the above – and I’ll point you to a curated path of episodes and resources to get you moving. Download your free roadmap at https://elizabethsherman.com/roadmap.

  8. Jul 7

    278: 5 Health Rules I Think Are Complete BS

    You have probably been following the same health rules for decades. Eat less, move more. Hit your calorie goal. Keep your body guessing. And if none of it is working the way it used to, you have likely been blaming yourself. This episode is here to tell you the rules are the problem, not you. In episode 278, Elizabeth Sherman calls out five of the most persistent health myths still circulating in midlife wellness spaces, and makes the case for why each one is actively working against women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s. These are not fringe ideas from obscure corners of the internet. These are the rules most of us absorbed before we were old enough to question them, and they are still showing up in articles, on social media, and in the advice women give each other every single day. This is not a gentle reframe. Elizabeth names the specific rules, where they came from, why they fall apart for midlife women, and what to think about instead. If you have ever done everything right and still felt like your body was not cooperating, this episode is going to explain a lot. By the end of this episode, you will have a clearer picture of what has actually been getting in your way, and a more honest starting point for what to do next. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN Why the 1200 calorie rule is an arbitrary number that has nothing to do with your actual body, your size, your hormones, or your activity levelHow eat less, move more oversimplifies the hormonal and metabolic reality of midlife, and why chronic restriction can work directly against the results you are chasingWhat exercise is actually for at this stage of life, and why using it to burn off food is costing you more than it is giving youWhy body size is one of the least useful health measures you have access to, and what to pay attention to insteadThe Listener Takeaway: Why This Episode Matters Most women in midlife are not struggling because they lack information. They are struggling because they are working from a set of rules that were never designed for their bodies, their hormones, or their lives. This episode gives you permission to put those rules down, not as a shortcut, but because they have been misdirecting your energy for years. When you stop trying to make broken rules work, you free up a lot of capacity to focus on what actually does. The relief in this episode is real and immediate. But it also points to something deeper. Knowing which rules to let go of is a start. Understanding why the right behaviors still do not stick, even when you know what they are, is where the real work begins. That is exactly what Elizabeth walks you through in the free resource linked below. RESOURCES Take the free quiz to find out what is getting in your way8 Habits That Healthy People Do and Why They Don't Stick (free guide) Hey! I love hearing from you. Send me a text. Let me know what resonated with you. Free Live Class: Why You Know What To Do, But Just Don't Do It Wednesday, September 9 at 1:00 PM ET If you already know what would help and still can't make yourself do it, this hour is for you. It's free, it's live, and you'll walk away with a real answer instead of another generic plan. Tap Here to Save Your Seat If you’re a woman in midlife who wants better health without obsessing over weight, you’re in the right place. I’m Elizabeth Sherman, a life and health coach and host of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast. After coaching hundreds of women, I know the real problem usually isn’t “not enough information” – it’s too much of it, and not knowing where to start. With close to 300 episodes, this show can feel that way too. To make it easy, I created a free Listener’s Roadmap that helps you figure out which episodes are right for you right now. Tell me what you’re struggling with – low energy, emotional eating, stress, sleep, exercise, or all of the above – and I’ll point you to a curated path of episodes and resources to get you moving. Download your free roadmap at https://elizabethsherman.com/roadmap.

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You’ve tried the diets. You’ve done the research. You know what you’re supposed to do. And you’re still stuck. Done with Dieting: Total Health for Women 40+ is for women who are exhausted by the start-over cycle and ready to understand why nothing has stuck, and what to actually do about it. Host Elizabeth Sherman is a Master Certified Life and Health Coach with 20 years of experience working with women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond. Each episode gets into the real reasons health habits break down in this stage of life, including hormonal shifts, depleted capacity, years of diet history, and a nervous system that never fully gets to rest. This isn’t another wellness show telling you to eat less and move more. It’s a show that helps you understand what’s actually going on in your body and your life, so you can start making changes that hold. New episodes weekly. Start with the 8 Basic Habits guide at elizabethsherman.com/habits.

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