The Better Man Podcast

Dean Pohlman
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  • Health & Fitness
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The Better Man Podcast is a podcast redefining what it means to be better as a man. In it, we'll discuss how to balance success with our overall well-being, take on a more comprehensive understanding of fitness to include our physical, mental, and emotional well-being, and strive to align our actions with who we are at our cores. We can be successful and proud of who we are without sacrificing our core values or our well-being. Dean Pohlman is known as THE yoga expert for men. His unique fitness-centric, strength-based approach to yoga—exemplified in his yoga workouts, programs, books, videos, blogs, and more—has helped to transform the lives of hundreds of thousands of men [and women] worldwide. Join Dean as he explores the habits, mindsets, tools, and tactics that lead to health, happiness, and fulfillment for men. You'll hear interviews with world-class experts who pull back the curtain and share their proven strategies for taking your body and mind to the next level. More significantly, we'll discuss the challenges they faced that truly tested them on an emotional level, and work to better understand what they did to work through those events, and how it helped them to grow for the better. Learn how to implement new habits sustainably and realistically. Discover systems and processes that will empower you to hit your biggest goals. And be prepared to go deep beyond the world of physical fitness, to explore the mental, spiritual, and emotional aspects of health that will truly allow you to thrive. Get inspired and get ready. The Better Man Podcast is a conversation to help you become the better version of yourself. Dean Pohlman Founder / CEO of Man Flow Yoga Best-selling Author of Yoga Fitness for Men & Yoga for Athletes Co-Producer of Body By Yoga Series

  1. 4d ago

    176: Tidying Up Your Life with The Tidy Dad (Tyler Moore)

    If you're a dad, especially if you have younger kids, then you know how quickly your home can go from clean and organized to a chaotic disaster.    Whether you realize it or not, this physical clutter takes a toll on you - emotionally, mentally, and spiritually (even if you have a high tolerance for clutter, which is something I was not born with).    With Father's Day around the corner, and as a dad of two young kids myself, I invited the PERFECT guest for today's Father's Day themed show:    Tyler Moore aka The Tidy Dad!   Tyler is a public school teacher, best-selling author of Tidy Up Your Life: Rethinking How to Organize, Declutter, and Make Space for What Matters Most, and perhaps most impressive, is that he's a father of three living in a 700 square foot apartment in New York City.    Squeezing five people (including three children) into a 700 square foot apartment is not easy. He doesn't have the luxury of excess physical space that many of us do.    And yet, his apartment stays cleaner, more organized, and more efficient than the vast majority of living spaces. Mine included.    And you know what?   After Tyler created a system to keep his 700 square foot apartment clean, organized, and useful … he realized how crucial his "tidying up" methods are when applied to other, more important areas of life like his relationships, his career, and his overall life.    This is a fantastic episode even if you're not a dad, even if you live in a spacious home, and even if your living space isn't cluttered.    Here's what Tyler and I discuss:    How to declutter your life according to a dad of three living in a 700 square foot apartment in New York City The vicious way keeping up with the joneses fills your house with useless stuff  How physical decluttering and organization applies to more important areas of your life too    Here's a sneak peek at what's in this episode:    How 30-day experiments can give you a completely new experience of life (without boxing you into a certain identity) (1:58) Why The Tidy Dad spends his mornings with Man Flow Yoga (3:13)  The absolute worst way to start your morning (and you probably do it too) (8:34)  A silly question to ask about your clothes that will give you instant clarity over whether it can be safely donated or kept (14:11)  The strange way certain color clothing gives you a boost of confidence (18:16) How thinking of the rooms in your house as zones can tidy up a cluttered space almost overnight (and why it might address your hidden dissatisfaction) (24:56)  An ingenious "toy" idea for your kids that will be consumed in quick order (41:00)  How to jump off the train that leads to an endless accumulation of stuff (and the sneaky cause of it) (42:41)  Why the simple act of naming stuff around your house means you can tidy it (54:42)  The suffocating "Internalization" trap that men, and particularly fathers, fall into and the simple, yet identity-shattering way out (56:43)  Resources mentioned in this episode:    1. Man Flow Yoga Father's Day Sale: Tidy Dad-approved. If you're seeing this before Monday, June 22, we're currently having our biggest sale of the year. Become a Man Flow Yoga Lifer here: https://manflowyoga.com/fathers-day-2026/    2. Get Tyler's Book: Tidy Up Your Life: Rethinking How to Organize, Declutter, and Make Space for What Matters Most on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Tidy-Your-Life-Rethinking-Declutter/dp/0593797833    3. Read The Tidy Times (Tyler's Substack) and learn how to become more tidy in your day-to-day life: https://tidydad.substack.com/    4. Listen to Tyler's Podcast, Tidy Tidbits, available wherever you listen to podcasts.    5. Follow Tyler on Instagram: @TidyDad (https://www.instagram.com/tidydad/)     6. Check out The Tidy Dad website here: https://thetidydad.com/    7. Man Flow Yoga Events: Find the full list of cities we're coming to here: https://manflowyoga.com/man-flow-yoga-events/

    1h 2m

  2. Jun 12

    175: The Case Against Becoming A Better Man

    I've always been suspicious of this idea that becoming more selfish is the path to happiness. It feels like a lie. Especially when you're a father.    But you know what?   After hosting a handful of in-person events this year, I've noticed a silent crisis amongst men: We don't know how to get our needs met. We carry around invisible rucksacks that weigh us down, dim the color and depth of our world, and snatch peace, fulfillment, and joy from our grasp.   My suspicion about doing things that benefit me was an example of this invisible weight. Maybe yours is a productivity hack, a fitness schedule, or a weight loss journey. Defense mechanisms like these are smart and cunning, so they'll dress themselves up in a way that feels like moving forward…    …while you slowly watch your world get duller and less fulfilling around you.    So ponder these questions:   What if there was nothing to fix about yourself?    What if you didn't have to fill every spare second of your schedule to feel like enough?  What if you didn't need to become a better man to be happy and fulfilled and connected?    Join me as I try to answer these existential, yet empowering questions.    Here's a sneak peek at what's in this episode:    Why optimizing only your physical fitness leaves your mental, emotional, and social fitness hanging (0:27)  How the wrong environment can leave past pains and traumas trapped in the physical body (and why giving yourself a break from the daily drudge of your routine makes it easier to let them go) (1:22)  The invisible 60 lb rucksack that modern men carry on their shoulders without experiencing the immense relief that comes by setting it down (3:12)  Why losing weight can't make you happy forever (and what you actually need to do to feel the peace, fulfillment, and joy that's always available) (8:15)  Why you can't out-exercise a bad diet and you can't out-work a negative emotional pattern (and what to do instead to become the man you want) (8:43)  How approaching your emotions as THE solution, instead of the problem, makes all of your goals more achievable and more fun (10:18)  A heavy realization I made after recent Man Flow Yoga Events about why something feels like it's missing in so many lives of middle-aged men (19:00)  Why being selfish (like spending an entire weekend golfing) is perhaps the most counterintuitive, yet effective way to improve your relationships (24:32)  Resources mentioned in this episode:    1. Man Flow Yoga Events: Find the full list of cities we're coming to here: https://manflowyoga.com/man-flow-yoga-events/    2. Man Flow Yoga: Haven't signed up yet? Start your 7-day free trial and see how yoga can eliminate aches and pains better than other types of exercise here: https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7

    29 min

  3. May 29

    174: Fall in Love with your Future with Scott K. (Member Interview)

    What if you could achieve all of your health goals without using any willpower, discipline, or external motivation?   It might sound too good to be true, but there's a surprisingly simple way to do this: Falling in love with your future.   Something magical happens when you fall in love with your future: You start to appreciate the mistakes you made (or will make) on your health journey instead of beating yourself up over them.    Today's guest, Scott, experienced this first-hand:   After retiring and moving to Hawai'i with his husband, the luxurious life caught up to his belly. One day, he looked in the mirror and hardly recognized himself because he gained so much weight.  Instead of beating himself up over it or worrying how he'll find the discipline to be consistent enough to lose the weight, Scott remembered to fall in love with his future.    Since that moment he looked in the mirror, Scott's done a complete 180. He started yoga and eating right. As his momentum grew, he started resistance training. And today, he's continually tinkering and integrating healthier micro habits into his daily life.   Scott comes loaded with helpful tips and tricks, mindset shifts, and ways to approach your fitness and health from a new perspective.     Here's what Scott and I discuss:   The micro habits Scott built to lose weight in retirement  How to eliminate the need for discipline and sacrifices when becoming healthier  How to create your own philosophies that can hold you up when accountability, discipline, and motivation fail   And more, including…    The spiritual mindset shift Scott went through after not recognizing himself in his mirror (and how this enabled him to be consistent without discipline) (3:11)  The slow and insidious postural destruction that happens when you sit at a desk for work all day (3:34)  Why the "Gravel Hill" technique can stop you from falling off the wagon completely when you feel discouraged or uncomfortable (6:16)  How to recognize your growth when you're miserable in the middle of the discomfort phase (8:16)  Why falling in love with your future unlocks the ability to look forward to stumbling on your fitness journey (9:19)  The counterintuitive reason to put yourself first in your relationship (it sounds weird, but Scott and his husband celebrate 30 years next year!) (16:58)  Why off-the-mat Man Flow Yoga helps ingrain the postural benefits more deeply into your body (and how to easily start doing this) (28:53)  How to start resistance training without stepping foot in the gym or even lifting weights (42:28)  The most effective dieting strategy if you're overweight and over 50 (48:51)  Resources mentioned in this episode:    1. Man Flow Yoga Events: Find the full list of cities we're coming to here: https://manflowyoga.com/man-flow-yoga-events/    2. Man Flow Yoga: Haven't signed up yet? Start your 7-day free trial and see how yoga can eliminate aches and pains better than other types of exercise here: https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7

    56 min

  4. May 22

    173: How To Spot The Good in Bad Belief Systems (And The Bad in Good Belief Systems) with Rafe Kelley

    Our world has become too shackled into "black and white" thinking.    When something is considered "good," the negative trade-offs are ignored and neglected. When something is considered "bad," the good is disregarded and the baby gets tossed out with the bath water.   But the reality is that there's a lot more gray areas than we think. This is particularly true with charged topics like the differences between male and female, between masculinity and femininity.    The truth rarely exists on the extremes. Both sides of an argument have positive and negative aspects to think deeply about. And absorbing an entire belief system while disregarding the "other side" can lead to real disconnection in your relationships and with yourself.    Today's guest, Rafe Kelley (founder of Evolve Move Play), has lived out the consequences of falling into extreme camps. It caused a serious rupture in his marriage. But it's also taught him a valuable lesson:    How to take the good from bad belief systems, separate the bad from good belief systems, and create your own Bespoke Belief System that's unique to you and serves your highest self.    I encourage you to listen to this episode in its entirety. It is a heavily nuanced discussion of some of the hottest cultural topics and it may challenge some of your beliefs. You might feel yourself get pulled into the "cognitive miser" trap that Rafe mentions at the beginning of this episode.    But if you listen with an open mind, you'll get as much from this episode as I did.    Here's what Rafe and I discuss:   The differences between men and women (and why losing our sexual polarity is harmful to everyone) How belief systems based on truth are surrounded by a foundation of falsehoods Why considering beliefs from people you disagree with instead of throwing out anything not in your "camp" is one of the best ways to protect your closest relationships   And more, including…    The danger of falling into traps placed by "cognitive misers" that can mess up your entire belief system (and why a Bespoke Belief System shields you from this) (3:23)  Why do vegans become carnivore people? And how this ideological trap applies to every social media hot button (6:28)  The fundamental problem in society and how we can answer this delicate question responsibly (12:44)  Why does sexuality create so much guilt, shame, and trauma? (And the bizarre role played by living in a society based on Christian values) (21:25)  How we inherited a shame-based relationship with sexuality from the Middle Ages (and why it still exists today) (27:24)   Why misunderstanding the role males and females play leads to frustration in relationship and could even lead to divorce (41:31)  How ideological groups take a grain of truth then encode a false belief system around that seed (and how this wrecked Rafe's marriage) (50:17)   The overlooked negative trade-offs that naturally arise when we treat men and women as the same (and why respecting the differences means seeing differences as complimentary and not about superiority or inferiority) (59:42)     Guest Bio:    Rafe Kelley, founder of Evolve Move Play, pioneers a unique movement philosophy, merging parkour with martial arts and a deep connection to nature, fostering a holistic wisdom practice. With over two decades of teaching experience, he offers transformative retreats, workshops, and online courses worldwide. His work emphasizes the synergy between body, psyche, and environment, inviting exploration of personal potential and the sacred in movement.   Resources mentioned in this episode:    1. Rediscover your true nature through movement, play, and connection on Rafe's website here: https://www.evolvemoveplay.com/   2. Join Rafe's free online forum at: https://coaching.evolvemoveplay.com    3. Follow Rafe on social media below:    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/rafekelley  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolve.move.play/    4. Man Flow Yoga Events: Find the full list of cities we're coming to here: https://manflowyoga.com/man-flow-yoga-events/    5. Man Flow Yoga: Haven't signed up yet? Start your 7-day free trial and see how yoga can eliminate aches and pains better than other types of exercise here: https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7

    1h 13m

  5. May 15

    172: Gentle Strength Parenting with Vince Benevento (Boys Will Be Men author & therapist)

    There are a lot of ways that fathers get in their own way of being a great parent. Sometimes it wears the mask of "self-improvement." Sometimes it gamifies your presence. And sometimes, it's a desire to overcorrect your parents' mistakes.   In many ways, it's much harder to be a father today than ever before too.    Gender roles are more fluid than they were in previous generations (but there's still value in distinguishing gender roles). Fathers are forced to feel through their feelings when it comes more naturally to think through them. And balancing the climate of your home, the relationship with your partner, and your responsibilities at work can lead to burnout.    That's why I was personally excited for today's follow-up discussion with Boys Will Be Men author and therapist and fellow father, Vince Benevento.    Vince answers all my toughest questions around:   The Gentle Strength method to become a stronger, and gentler, parent  How to be better at accepting yourself as you are today instead of who you'll become after hitting another milestone  How to better divvy up the balance of traditional and modern gender roles to best benefit your entire home    And more, including…    Why modern fathers have unique challenges previous generations didn't have (and how to better balance your responsibilities without burning out) (4:28)  How your tone, anxiety, and sense of urgency seeps into your climate at home even when it originates from work (6:38)  The insidious "Destination Mindset Trap" that stifles your presence when parenting (7:15)  Why men in particular are prone to gamifying being present (and why you might be blinded to how this interrupts presence) (9:25)  The best thing you can do if you have too much free time that will show you why you're more isolated than you acknowledge (11:43)   The real reason workaholics struggle in relationships that precedes working long hours and doing fulfilling work (17:25)  Why new parents have a tendency to overcorrect their parents' mistakes (and why this overcorrection backfires) (27:47)  Why the word "self-improvement" is a sneaky way you hold yourself back (40:44)  3 characteristics of "Gentle Strength" that make you a better parent in your children's eyes (even after you've drifted apart from your kid) (42:00)    Guest Bio:    Vince Benevento is the Director and Founder of Causeway Collaborative, leading and providing direct service for all three specialized teams. A licensed professional counselor, he holds a BA in Psychology from Wesleyan University and an MA in School Counseling from Fairfield University.   Vince began his career as an in-home therapist for adolescents and families at the Wheeler Clinic in Plainville, Connecticut, a regional behavioral health services provider. From there, he entered the corporate world, where he worked as a professional recruiter and honed his career-counseling skills. With this valuable experience under his belt, Vince transitioned back to individual and community-based counseling as an employment specialist for the Kennedy Center, one of Connecticut's largest and most highly regarded community organizations. At the Kennedy Center, Vince worked to find meaningful jobs for unemployed adults with psychiatric diagnoses and criminal histories. He joined Freudigman & Billings in 2010 as an educational therapist and completed a year-long internship in the Weston High School guidance department, where he initiated and co-led weekly support groups for at-risk-students. In 2012, Vince brought his skills and experiences together to start Causeway Collaborative.   Vince's work experience, whether in the corporate world or in counseling, is united by a single purpose: to help students, young professionals, and those who are struggling to plan for the future and to realize their potential.   Vince recently published the book, Boys Will Be Men: 8 Lessons for the Lost American Male too.    Resources mentioned in this episode:    1. Buy Vince's book, Boys Will Be Men: 8 Lessons for the Lost American Male on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Boys-Will-Be-Men-American/dp/1959170317    2. Follow Vince on Instagram: @vince_benevento_LPC   3. Visit Vince's company, Causeway Collaborative, here: http://www.causewaycollaborative.com/    4. Or, check out Vince's personal website (for speaking and coaching) here: https://www.sharperformen.com/    5. Man Flow Yoga Events: Find the full list of cities we're coming to here: https://manflowyoga.com/man-flow-yoga-events/    6. Man Flow Yoga: Haven't signed up yet? Start your 7-day free trial and see how yoga can eliminate aches and pains better than other types of exercise here: https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7

    55 min

  6. May 8

    171: Your Journey Doesn't Have To Be Perfect (Member Interview: Alan S.)

    Despite what your mind visualizes when you're thinking about your fitness and health journey, reality is never as picture perfect.    You'll have various setbacks that threaten your confidence. You might struggle with mental health issues that ruin your consistency. And you might even go years without progressing towards a healthier, happier, and leaner version of yourself.    And you know what?   This happens to everyone, including former fitness professionals like today's guest, Man Flow Yoga Member Alan.    Alan started his career in the fitness industry as a gym manager and group fitness instructor.    But after spending a few years climbing the ranks of the gym and putting his body into what he thought was the best shape its been in, life threw Alan a wicked curveball:    He suffered a mini-stroke!    You would think that a mini-stroke would force Alan to take his health even more seriously, but it actually caused him to fall off the wagon. Shortly after, he was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, ADHD, and chronic depression - something he struggled with his entire life, but was only diagnosed with as an adult.    Alan didn't let this defeat him. Instead, he realized that a perfect fitness journey didn't exist, and started building his health and fitness back brick-by-brick. He started walking, then rowing, and then in October 2024 his journey took a quantum leap:    He joined Man Flow Yoga, which caused a snowball effect to his health and fitness. Today, he's stronger, happier, more resistant, and healthier than at any other point in his life.    His story shows you that your fitness journey will be full of peaks and valleys. And that the only way to fail is to give up completely.    Here's what Alan and I discuss:    How Alan utilized different medications to keep himself grounded when his mental health swayed  Why overthinking is the #1 threat to your health journey How to be okay with the ebbs and flows of your health journey (so one mistake or misstep doesn't cancel out years of progress)    And more, including…    How Alan suffered a TIA (a mini-stroke) when he thought he was at the fittest of his life (3:33)  Why overthinking can sabotage your health journey (even after beating a major health complication) (6:36)  The best type of journaling to try if you have a bipolar disorder diagnosis (22:22)  Think you're "bad" at something? Use the power of "yet" to instantly make progress (22:32) How to borrow motivational energy from your family when you're too depressed to exercise for yourself (25:50)  Why Man Flow Yoga enabled Alan, a former group fitness coach, to prioritize his health when HIIT, strength training, pilates, walking, and rowing didn't (33:33)  Going through a seismic career change? Alan shares why Man Flow Yoga can help save you from drowning in new stress (39:21)  Why relying on "negative motivation," while it can be helpful when you're starting, becomes a trap that keeps you stuck (and how to transmorph it into positive motivation) (43:58)  The #1 overlooked reason behind why it's easier to be consistent with Man Flow Yoga compared to any other type of fitness modality (45:22)   Resources mentioned in this episode:    1. Man Flow Yoga Events: Alan credits the 2025 DC event as a pivotal step on his journey. If you want to come to a 2026 in-person event, find the full list of cities we're coming to here: https://manflowyoga.com/man-flow-yoga-events/    2. Man Flow Yoga: For Alan, Man Flow Yoga was the ONLY fitness modality that made him prioritize his health when HIIT, strength training, pilates, walking, and rowing didn't.    What if you're the same?    There's only one way to find out:    Start your 7-day free trial and see why Man Flow Yoga works where other fitness modalities fail: https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7

    58 min

  7. May 1

    170: Winning Your Mind Before Stepping Foot in Battle with Mark Divine (Retired Navy SEAL Commander)

    If you're not training your mind, then someone else is training it for you.  Without your awareness, knowledge, or consent. And you only notice how deeply entrenched your conditioning when shit hits the fan.    Mark Divine (retired Navy SEAL Commander, best-selling author, and CEO of SEALFIT and Unbeatable Mind) returns to the Better Man podcast for a beautiful example of showing courageous vulnerability in today's show.    Because despite writing five books on mental and emotional health…    Despite being a retired Navy SEAL Commander and successfully founding multiple companies…    And despite having perhaps the most intense morning routine you'll ever hear about…    … shit still hit the fan for Mark, which reminds us that perfection isn't possible and to never get complacent.    Mark's one of my favorite guests. And you'll see why when you listen to this show.    Here's what Mark and I discuss:    Mark's exact 4-hour long morning routine (and the "shit hit the fan" story behind why Mark makes it so intense)  How to start a mental strength practice and use it to improve your emotional intelligence and resilience  How to bounce back after going through major setbacks without losing yourself   And more, including…    Why Zen monks break a sweat when they meditate - and easy-to-follow steps for beginners to train your mind to concentrate (2:58)  The "barbell curls for your brain" mindset shift that makes you look forward to meditation (even if you suck at it) (5:25)  How to train your mind like a Navy SEAL (and why you must rewire your brain or someone else will) (15:27)  Why training your mind to become "One Mind" allows you to perceive more than others think possible, to create with almost unlimited potential, and to stay young for as long as you need (19:21)  A simple practicing mistake almost all men make when trying to learn something new (23:28)  How gamifying your goals hijacks your mind and practically forces you to achieve them (24:52)  How to tap into a river of consciousness dating back thousands of years and "borrow" its energy by repeating ancient mantras (33:40)  Why the best way to "rewrite" memories of your past is to create memories of your future (44:20)  An extreme real life example of the imminent danger posed to and others by letting your emotions drive your actions (52:03)  Why doing the work Mark describes in this episode, work that can change your life in ways you can't even imagine right now, won't make you perfect (1:00:51)    Guest Bio:   Dr. Mark Divine|PHD is a retired Navy SEAL Commander, New York Times Best-Selling Author, Founder / CEO of SEALFIT and Unbeatable Mind, founder of multiple million-dollar businesses, lifetime Martial Artist, Ashtanga Yoga teacher, and host of the Unbeatable Mind podcast (recently rated #1 health podcast and #30 overall on itunes).   The U.S. Navy selected him to create a nationwide leadership and mental-performance program for the SEALs, designed to help elite teams excel under extreme stress.   Resources mentioned in this episode:    1. Find Mark's programs, coaching, books, and podcast on his site here: https://markdivine.com/    2. Man Flow Yoga Events: We just announced new locations for 2026 in-person events. Find the full list of cities we're coming to here: https://manflowyoga.com/man-flow-yoga-events/    3. Man Flow Yoga: Haven't signed up yet? Start your 7-day free trial and see how yoga can eliminate aches and pains better than other types of exercise here: https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7

    1h 16m

  8. Apr 24

    How To Radically Change Your Internal Dialogue with Ted Phaëton

    Today's guest, Emmy-winning meteorologist turned podcast host and productivity coach, Ted Phaeton, knew something was missing in his life.    He had a great career.    He got the recognition he craved.    But he didn't have true autonomy and freedom and it was eating at him.    Ted realized he became too attached to his identity as a meteorologist. Meteorology wasn't his only skill. He's also honed and mastered a productivity system that led to winning an Emmy in meteorology without missing his kid's games.    Ted also knew that most men live lives of quiet desperation. He knew there was a male loneliness epidemic sweeping across the country. And he knew the wicked cycle (which comes natural to men) of how loneliness leads to taking on too much which leads to overwhelm and further isolation.    Ted wanted to help these men connect with other men like them. And so, he created new identities that he could lean on for wisdom.    The result?    He started The Modern Man Podcast and became a productivity and time mastery coach.     This episode is packed with helpful tips about creating a more fulfilling life, getting more done in less time (so you can spend more time on the important things in life like family), and how to radically change your internal dialogue and get out of your own way.    Listen now.    Here's what Ted and I discuss:    Why removing "discipline" from your vocabulary can make you consistent almost overnight  How to "visit" the little version of you to get clearer on your life mission Plus, Ted shares some of his most effective and useful time mastery and productivity hacks    And more, including…    How to elevate your capacity to hold life and virtually eliminate drowning in overwhelm (4:09)  How to "sit in" multiple identities and pull wisdom from the most relevant one instead of being chained to a single one (6:51)  Why time blocking has been the most effective way for Ted to feel more present (try it if you also struggle to be in the moment) (14:19)  The "Tools of Time" secret that allows you to better bend time to your will (23:14)  How to start time blocking without whiteknuckling your calendar, getting overwhelmed, and quitting before it creates more time in your day (24:47)  How a "Should Detox" frees you from the mental burden of your internal dialogue and creates more time in your day to do the things you want (26:13)  The "Value Connection" trick that rewires your thinking patterns and creates motivation out of thin air by swapping a few words (26:55)  Why reducing friction (instead of beating yourself up with discipline) is a more successful long-term strategy for doing hard things that are easy to skip (32:06)  The "Habit Stack" method that makes building healthier habits so simple that your brain might immediately disregard it (but if you try it, you'll agree) (35:13)  Why the 10,000 hour rule popularized by Malcolm Gladwell has silently crushed more men's spirit and drive than perhaps any other idea (38:20)     Guest Bio:   Ted Phaëton is an Emmy Award-winning broadcaster and host of The Modern Man, a top 2% globally ranked podcast dedicated to helping men unlock their full potential. As a performance architect, he specializes in the Ops Audit, helping high-achieving entrepreneurs and leaders implement the Optimized Performance Systems required to master their time and scale their impact. Ted provides the proven frameworks and discipline necessary for men to lead with purpose and reclaim their freedom. Resources mentioned in this episode:   1. The Modern Man Podcast: If you liked what Ted was putting down in today's episode, head to his website to listen to The Modern Man Podcast he hosts and the Noble Knights men's group he leads: https://TheModernManPodcast.com    2. Man Flow Yoga Events: We just announced new locations for 2026 in-person events. Find the full list of cities we're coming to here: https://manflowyoga.com/man-flow-yoga-events/    3. Man Flow Yoga: Haven't signed up yet? Start your 7-day free trial and see how yoga can eliminate aches and pains better than other types of exercise here: https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7

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The Better Man Podcast is a podcast redefining what it means to be better as a man. In it, we'll discuss how to balance success with our overall well-being, take on a more comprehensive understanding of fitness to include our physical, mental, and emotional well-being, and strive to align our actions with who we are at our cores. We can be successful and proud of who we are without sacrificing our core values or our well-being. Dean Pohlman is known as THE yoga expert for men. His unique fitness-centric, strength-based approach to yoga—exemplified in his yoga workouts, programs, books, videos, blogs, and more—has helped to transform the lives of hundreds of thousands of men [and women] worldwide. Join Dean as he explores the habits, mindsets, tools, and tactics that lead to health, happiness, and fulfillment for men. You'll hear interviews with world-class experts who pull back the curtain and share their proven strategies for taking your body and mind to the next level. More significantly, we'll discuss the challenges they faced that truly tested them on an emotional level, and work to better understand what they did to work through those events, and how it helped them to grow for the better. Learn how to implement new habits sustainably and realistically. Discover systems and processes that will empower you to hit your biggest goals. And be prepared to go deep beyond the world of physical fitness, to explore the mental, spiritual, and emotional aspects of health that will truly allow you to thrive. Get inspired and get ready. The Better Man Podcast is a conversation to help you become the better version of yourself. Dean Pohlman Founder / CEO of Man Flow Yoga Best-selling Author of Yoga Fitness for Men & Yoga for Athletes Co-Producer of Body By Yoga Series

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