This Tantric Life with Layla Martin

Layla Martin
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This Tantric Life is a podcast created by Layla Martin. The profound conversations throughout This Tantric Life are dedicated to exploring the deep wisdom and practices of Tantra, Sacred Sexuality, and conscious relationships. Join host Layla Martin as she invites her mentors and friends to dive even deeper into the Tantric philosophy and approach that can transform life, intimacy and relationships. Each guest shares their wisdom through deep, thought-provoking conversations that explore the mysteries of conscious living and loving and the opportunity Tantra and Sacred Sexuality present to help us free ourselves. Layla Martin believes Tantra is the last bastion of personal development, and whether you're a seasoned practitioner of Tantra looking to deepen your practice or simply curious about the intersection between spirituality and sexuality, This Tantric Life with Layla Martin is the perfect podcast to guide you on your journey toward a more fulfilling and meaningful life. This Tantric Life with Layla Martin will inspire you to embrace your truth and awaken your full potential as a human being.

  1. 6d ago

    What Happens When You Stop Treating Pleasure As Optional

    Shownotes  How deep intimacy can be the antidote to widespread low-grade depression What Kim put in her online dating profile to magnetize her King How to take the first step toward learning to listen to your body What it took for Kim to go from numb and disconnected to a Tantric wedding at 50 The exact practices that can help you go from body hatred to body love What an extraordinary sexual experience actually feels like Bio Kimberly Phoenix-Coffin is a trauma-informed intimacy, relationship, and Tantra teacher, speaker, co-author, and coach, co-founder of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and host of the Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples podcast. After decades of disconnection shaped by trauma, self-doubt, and survival-based relating, Kim devoted the last decade to deep healing. embodiment, and the reclamation of her body, truth, and life through extensive work with Layla Martin, Mama Gena, Ma Ananda Sarita, and other world-renowned teachers. Her work blends Tantra, nervous system awareness, and somatic, embodiment-based practices, rooted in lived, personal experience. Her story is a journey from numbness to pleasure, from self-doubt to sovereignty, and from disconnection and survival-based relating into a deeply connected, consciously chosen partnership rooted in truth, communication, and erotic aliveness. She brings this work not as theory, but as something she lives daily… in her body, her relationship, her choices, and her leadership. Now, at 50 years old, she lives and teaches what she embodies… guiding individuals and couples into deeper intimacy, honest communication, and full-spectrum aliveness. Together with her partner Roberto, she leads immersive Tantra couples retreats in North Kawartha, Ontario, Canada, designed to reignite the flame that date nights can't… where connection, safety, and erotic aliveness meet. Their work supports couples in rebuilding trust, deepening connection, and awakening erotic intimacy that is both grounded and expansive. Follow Kim on ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠, and ⁠TikTok⁠, and learn more about her work on her ⁠website⁠. If learning about Tantra, embodiment, and conscious partnership lights you up… VITA™ Coaching is your next step ✨   Doors open August 20th, ⁠join the waitlist⁠ to get early access to join and the maximum number of bonuses!Follow Layla! 🌸 ⁠Instagram⁠ 🌐 ⁠Website⁠ 💌 ⁠Weekly Email ⁠ 🎧 Listen on ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ 🎶 Listen on ⁠Spotify⁠ 💋 ⁠MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements⁠ 🔥 For Men: ⁠Men's Sexual Mastery⁠ 🌹 Obliss: ⁠The Sexual Masterclass for Women⁠ Timestamps 00:00:48 - Guest introduction 00:04:14 - The email Kim got from Mama Gena that changed everything 00:04:56 - Discover the ⁠VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification⁠ 00:06:02 - Why fear always speaks the loudest right before you say yes to what you want 00:11:22 - Layla shares what it was like to lead 900 women in Sex Magic on a Broadway stage 00:14:37 - What started to change after Kim bejeweled her p***y 00:18:06 - The practices that helped Kim go from body hatred to body love 00:24:27 - Why Kim chose to bare it all on her eHarmony dating profile 00:27:47 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of ⁠MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir⁠ with code PODCAST at checkout 00:31:56 - What it actually means to "eat the fear, eat the grief, and eat the rage" 00:36:55 - Why learning to listen to your p***y starts with your clothes 00:45:17 - Asking your p***y or testicles this one question can change everything 00:48:56 - An example of exactly how pleasure practices heal trauma 00:58:58 - The one thing Layla always experiences during an extraordinary pleasure practice  01:04:55 - Why deep, conscious intimacy is as psychedelic as plant medicine 01:08:09 - Conclusion

  2. Jul 26

    Meet the World's #1 Yoni Masseur {NEW Podcast!}

    Shownotes    The #1 piece of advice for men who want to become multi-orgasmic What prostate massage can teach men about sex What happens when men are socialized out of anal pleasure How slowness retrains patterns while intensity causes shutdown Why men need as much safety and self-love as women do The one book Devah says every man should be reading   Bio Devah Curlechéile is a sex, intimacy, and sensual embodiment guide whose journey began in Ireland.    Raised Catholic, he felt from an early age that life held far more than what he had been shown. After graduating with a degree in Neuroscience from Trinity College Dublin, he left Ireland at 25 and began a decades long global quest to explore the deeper mysteries of human potential, consciousness, energy, and healing.   Over 20 years of travel and study, Devah immersed himself in a range of practices, including Reiki, Sound Healing, Tantra, meditation, shamanic medicine, conscious intimacy, EFT, and tantra massage. His path was shaped by various initiations, including breaking his back twice, navigating depression, sitting with large doses of the various Entheogen's, integrating suppressed parts of himself through transformative experiences in Tokyo's conscious kink underground, and studying tantra and tantra massage in Bali with Ma Ananda Sarita.    Along the way, he also discovered the extraordinary potential of intimate connection with himself and others to open transcendent states of consciousness, cosmic orgasm, and deep embodied awakening.   Now based on Kauai, Devah feels deeply called to help others reconnect with the wisdom of their bodies, awaken their senses, and access greater intimacy, healing, and expansion. Known for his compassionate heart, grounded presence, and nurturing approach, he creates spaces where people can feel safe, seen, and held in reverence as they explore, rediscover, and remember these pleasurable dimensions of embodiment.   Follow Devah on Instagram and learn more about his work on his website.   Does learning about Tantra, embodiment, and intimate connection light you up?   VITA™ Coaching is your next step ✨   Doors open soon, join the waitlist to be the first to know when they do! Follow Layla! 🌸 Instagram 🌐 Website 💌 Weekly Email 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women   Timestamps   00:00:47 - Guest introduction 00:03:48 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:07:19 - Why Devah recommends starting with a prostate massage before yoni dearmoring 00:11:13 - What Layla experienced when she saw Devah receive a prostate massage 00:15:00 - How to practice the microcosmic orbit to circulate your sexual energy 00:17:17 - Why grounding matters just as much as transcendence in Taoist Tantra 00:20:06 - Men are being socialized out of anal pleasure 00:26:17 - What self-pleasure on psychedelics can teach you about circulating energy 00:27:40 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:28:35 - What helps men to open up when their bodies are shut down from shame 00:37:52 - What a deeply intentional self-pleasure practice for men looks like 00:43:29 - The shift from dopamine sex to oxytocin sex 00:49:14 - The #1 piece of advice for men learning to become multi-orgasmic 00:57:31 - Why learning things while playing makes you 9x more likely to retain them 01:01:43 - How to worship the entire body before approaching the yoni 01:05:19 - Encouraging consent creates the safety needed for deeper pleasure 01:13:36 - How to hold space for a partner having an emotional experience 01:20:33 - An explanation of the "clock technique" to learn the inside of the yoni 01:25:56 - How Devah's queer sexual experiences made him a better lover to women 01:29:13 - What polarity really means and how to use it energetically 01:31:09 - Conclusion

  3. Jul 12

    Why Energy, Consciousness, and Polarity are Keys to Better Sex

    Shownotes    Why men have been led to misunderstand what the masculine actually is What the first stage, second stage, and third stage of relationship look like Why a deeply safe person can activate an unsafe nervous system The 3 things men need to address to heal the pain between genders Why love and relationships are in an evolutionary moment right now A simple embodied practice to drop into your masculine or feminine   Bio John Wineland is a world renowned author, teacher, and speaker. For nearly two decades, he has guided thousands of men and women in the realms of masculine and feminine embodiment, sexual polarity, and sacred intimacy.   His best selling book, From The Core: A New Masculine Paradigm for Leading with Love, Living Your Truth & Healing the World, has been translated into five languages and continues to support men around the world.   His next book, Evolutionary Love, releases in late 2026 and lays out the four pillars of a new approach to romantic partnership, sexual artistry, and the practice of love itself. John is the host of The Embodied Relationship Experience, the #1 podcast on relationships and sacred intimacy. His teachings blend energetic and practical approaches, offering profound insights into leadership, polarity, and conscious relationships.   Follow John's work on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook and learn about his new women's program The Body of Love and membership platform The Embodied Relationship Experience.   Does learning about Tantra, conscious partnership, and sacred sexuality light you up?   VITA™ Coaching is your next step ✨   Doors open soon, join the waitlist to be the first to know when they do! Follow Layla! 🌸 Instagram 🌐 Website 💌 Weekly Email 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women   Timestamps   00:00:47 - Guest introduction 00:03:00 - What Layla and John learned from dating each other 00:04:57 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:05:56 - Why men have been led to misunderstand what the masculine actually is 00:09:30 - What true nervous system regulation really requires 00:11:47 - The polarity practice John does with men in the desert 00:15:25 - What Achilles, Gilgamesh, and Beowulf taught John about masculinity 00:20:06 - How men with active feminines change relationships 00:24:04 - What polarity truly is and how it connects with consciousness and energy 00:28:55 - Almost everything between men and women is a call for love 00:29:29 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:34:29 - Why the greatest masculine practice is simply being a yes to what is 00:40:28 - Why the concept of polarity has gotten a bad reputation 00:46:23 - Breaking down first stage, second stage, and third stage of relationship 00:58:12 - How to carry consciousness into sex 01:07:50 - Why a deeply safe person can activate an unsafe nervous system 01:09:07 - Layla's realization that men are not okay 01:17:22 - 3 things men must address to in order to heal their collective wound 01:27:12 - What it will take to finally heal the pain between men and women 01:28:56 - John guides a simple embodiment practice to drop into your masculine or feminine 01:33:59 - Conclusion

  4. Jun 28

    From 25 Years of Sexual Repression to Being Multi-Orgasmic

    Shownotes    How to go from sexual shame to cosmic, multi-orgasmic sex Why orgasm should be non-negotiable in your relationship How fear of sexuality impacts a developing nervous system The most common relationship problem women face What it looks like to leave religion and embrace spirituality How to become multi-orgasmic after years of shutdown, no matter your age   Bio Talaina is a sexual liberation guide and relationship coach who helps individuals and couples move beyond shame and shutdown into their deepest capacity for pleasure, intimacy, and authentic connection.   She transformed her own loving, but nearly sexless, marriage into a deeply connected, thriving relationship that is now a powerhouse of intimacy, emotional depth, erotic vitality, and orgasmic bliss.    By unraveling layers of repression shaped by religious conditioning, family dynamics, and societal messaging, she reclaimed her body, her desire, her voice – and ultimately, her life.   Now, she guides others into intimacy that is fully expressed, deeply connected, and truly alive. Talaina's work integrates nervous system regulation, advanced biofeedback technology, erotic awakening, and spiritual growth to create profound, lasting transformation.   She believes a liberated life is what happens the moment you stop abandoning your truth… and start living it fully and freely.   Follow Talaina on YouTube and Instagram, and if you want to connect with her directly, you can email her at talainataff@gmail.com. Follow Layla! 🌸 Instagram 🌐 Website 💌 Weekly Email 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women   Timestamps   00:00:50 - Guest introduction 00:03:48 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:05:56 - Being taught that sex was something to be ashamed of 00:09:20 - How fear can become embedded in your nervous system 00:11:00 - What led to Christianity becoming a system of social control 00:13:08 - How fear of sexuality impacts a developing nervous system 00:15:25 - How long it took for Talaina to unravel the religious conditioning she received 00:18:02 - The moment Talaina realized she needed to address her sexual repression 00:24:05 - How Talaina became multi-orgasmic after years of shutdown 00:27:49 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:28:35 - What shifted in Talaina's marriage after 25 years of sexual struggle 00:31:30 - How to begin creating a shared language around sex 00:34:40 - Why VITA™ Coaching changed everything for Talaina 00:38:35 - How sex can naturally unlock deeper spiritual states 00:43:20 - The most common relationship problem women face 00:48:15 - What happens when you discover your body's orgasmic potential 00:52:40 - Why the spiritual component of VITA™ Coaching matters so much 00:54:01 - Conclusion

  5. Jun 14

    How Divine Masculinity Unlocks Better Sex and Deeper Love

    Shownotes    How spiritual growth can translate directly into better sex The #1 thing every man should do when he wakes up in the morning Why sports pressure was easier for Brenden than being in conflict with his partner A simple daily practice that can change everything for men How to bring out the best in a man as a woman Why you need to be whole in yourself to experience true masculinity and femininity   Bio Brenden Durell is a breathwork and somatic facilitator, intimacy guide, author, and co-founder of Oríkao, a ceremonial grade heirloom cacao brand sourced from indigenous communities in the Amazon. He has spent over 14 years working at the intersection of embodied practice, plant medicine traditions, traditional Tantra, and sacred sexuality. Known for his ability to bridge ancient wisdom with modern life, Brenden guides individuals and couples into a more intimate relationship with themselves and the people they love.   His work lives in the body: in the breath, in presence, in the places we've learned to armor ourselves against feeling. Rooted in the principles of traditional Tantra and sacred sexuality, he helps people dissolve the walls that keep them from experiencing life and love more fully, reclaiming their body as a place of power, pleasure, and presence.   Brenden has been featured in Forbes, Men's Health, and has appeared on multiple seasons of Netflix's Too Hot to Handle. He is the founder of The Golden Room, a global community for those committed to deeper nervous system health, conscious living, and authentic connection. He is also a devoted father and partner currently raising his daughter between Peru and the United States.   You can follow Brenden's work on Instagram and on his website.   @brendendurell (IG), brenden.durell (YouTube) Follow Layla! 🌸 Instagram 🌐 Website 💌 Weekly Email 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women   Timestamps   00:00:45 - Guest introduction 00:02:16 - How Layla and Brenden first met 00:04:09 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:06:28 - What Brenden learned from teaching on a reality TV show 00:07:32 - Our society is sex forward but intimacy terrified 00:08:26 - How an invitation into intimacy can still impact people who are far from that world 00:10:44 - The part of reality TV that takes advantage of people for entertainment 00:15:56 - Layla shares her experience teaching on Netflix's Too Hot to Handle 00:17:07 - How Brenden showed up as the divine masculine for Layla during filming 00:17:27 - What the divine masculine truly is to Brenden 00:19:43 - Brenden describes what presence feels like in his body and mind 00:22:27 - Layla shares one of the great feminine arts she learned from Alison Armstrong 00:25:14 - What Brenden's partner does to make him feel more loved than he ever has 00:25:58 - This is one of the greatest acts of love a woman can offer in partnership 00:27:25 - Why sports pressure was easier for Brenden than being in conflict with his partner 00:28:36 - More men would thrive in relationship if they weren't afraid of this one thing 00:29:35 - A lot of Brenden's partner's requests that help her come out of her spirals are simple 00:30:48 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:32:18 - Why Brenden's relationship has been the greatest lesson for him in intentional living 00:35:15 - How Brenden translates all his personal growth and spiritual work into lovemaking 00:39:40 - Why men need to stay big, not get smaller, to serve 00:41:08 - This is the moment a man decides to come into spiritual work 00:43:12 - What Brenden sees as the reason men have changed so drastically 00:51:02 - What makes Brenden's flavor of divine masculine different than most men's 00:51:27 - You need to be whole in yourself to finally experience true masculinity and femininity 00:53:01 - The #1 thing Brenden would have every man do when he wakes up in the morning 00:55:03 - A simple practice that can change everything for men 00:56:14 - How to bring out the best in a man as a woman 01:00:47 - Brenden shares about his experience inside Layla's program, Men's Sexual Mastery 01:05:01 - The cycle Layla has observed of High Priestesses, Kings, and Queens 01:05:34 - Conclusion

  6. May 31

    Mama Gena's Top Teachings About Orgasm

    Shownotes    Why orgasm doesn't have to mean climax (and what it does mean) Mama Gena's story of failing her final test for a sexuality class The best approach for a woman who is struggling to orgasm Why women have the ability to turn on anytime, under any circumstance What an extended massive orgasm practice is How having your own pleasure practice makes dating better   Bio Regena Thomashauer, better known as Mama Gena, is a pioneering voice in women's empowerment, a bestselling author, teacher, feminist icon, and the founder and CEO of the School of Womanly Arts, which began in her living room in 1998 and has since grown into a global movement.   For more than three decades, Regena has devoted her work to restoring what has been systematically stripped from women: our connection to the body, our desires, our emotional lives, and our right to want more. At the heart of her teaching is a radical truth: pleasure is a form of power. And when a woman is fully expressed – in her body, her desires, her voice – she moves differently. She tolerates less and expects more. The stakes of her life become visible, and she responds accordingly.   This work is rooted in lived experience, decades of research, and the real-world results of hundreds of thousands of students. It has changed the way women relate to themselves, the standards they hold, and the lives they are willing to claim. Regena is the author of five books, including the New York Times bestseller P***y: A Reclamation, and has been widely recognized as a leading voice in modern feminism.   Regena's approach is both deeply personal and unmistakably collective. In a culture that shames our bodies and suppresses our emotions, her work serves as a vital antidote that offers not only tools for survival, but a pathway to turn-on, truth, and full-bodied liberation. Her conviction: that the feminine, long suppressed, is the force that will change everything. These teachings don't just challenge the status quo. They transform it.  Sign up to pre-order Regena's new book here. Learn more about Mama Gena on her website and follow her on Instagram. Follow Layla! 🌸 Instagram 🌐 Website 💌 Weekly Email 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women   Timestamps   00:00:55 - Guest introduction 00:02:57 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:05:48 - Why Mama Gena calls the school she trained at the Vatican  00:08:24 -  Mama Gena recommends all men and women plug into their orgasmic power 00:11:14 - Exactly how orgasm birthed who Mama Gena is today 00:15:50 - When you build pleasure, time and space changes 00:19:33 - The goddess is in every woman and baby girl 00:22:42 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:27:18 - Mama Gena shares the highest number of hand-delivered orgasms she's had in one day 00:29:21 - Why orgasm doesn't have to mean climax (and what it does mean) 00:36:21 - Mama Gena reveals who her daily pleasure practice partner is 00:39:20 - Why women have the ability to turn on anytime, under any circumstance 00:48:10 - Why being able to turn yourself on is useful inside of long term relationships 00:50:45 - Mama Gena's story of failing the final test for a sexuality class 00:52:18 - The degree to which you love yourself is the degree to which you can love your orgasm 00:57:14 - Mama Gena's main goal in returning to school was to get better with a p***y 01:03:53 - The best approach for a woman who is struggling to orgasm 01:08:40 - Why whore energy is potent, valuable, sacred, wild, and liberating 01:11:11 - What an extended massive orgasm practice actually is 01:17:34 - How courtesan nights encourage pleasure in a culture that resists it 01:22:18 - Conclusion

  7. May 17

    Four Pillars That Transform Conflict and Pain Into Deeper Intimacy

    Shownotes    How to transform difficult moments in a relationship into turning points What distinguishes an abusive relationship from a partner with trauma How reclaiming your sexuality can take your partnership to a new level The four pillars that have helped Aubrey and Brian move through challenges The one question to ask yourself when you feel triggered by your partner What makes conflict the same as rebuilding your muscles at the gym Bio Brian Butts and Aubrey Slaver are relational and shadow alchemists devoted to the art of sacred partnership. Blending parts work, archetypal awareness, and practical communication tools, they have navigated religious deconstruction, addiction, separation, and infidelity and have come out on the other side loving each other more than they ever thought possible. They use radical honesty, safety, and conscious communication as the pillars of their growth.
   They are currently launching a relationship podcast and developing a framework to help couples transform conflict into connection. With a shared mission to normalize raw, honest relating, they are devoted to helping couples deepen intimacy, decode their stories, create safety, and cultivate a more alive and fulfilling union.   You can follow Aubrey, Brian, and their shared work on Instagram. Follow Layla! 🌸 Instagram 🌐 Website 💌 Weekly Email 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women   Timestamps   00:01:20 - Guest introduction 00:02:43 - Layla's advice for staying in a relationship that's incredibly hard 00:05:42 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:10:52 - Aubrey and Brian talk about what shaped their early idea of marriage 00:14:28 - Brian shares his mother wound and how it created deep conflict 00:19:52 - A joyful relationship enhances your happiness, it doesn't create it 00:23:00 - The shift for Aubrey that helped her find a way out of constant conflict 00:27:46 - Layla explores what a narcissistic defense mechanism is 00:31:52 - How to transform difficult moments in a relationship into turning points 00:36:20 - Why separating allowed Aubrey and Brian to become themselves again 00:37:59 - [AD] MOOD Sex Magic - Podcast coupon code + 2 free sticks: [MOOD Sex Magic] 00:46:18 - Brian shares what made him want to do the work in the relationship 00:47:35 - What distinguishes an abusive relationship from a partner with trauma 00:50:52 - Aubrey shares what reclaiming her sexuality inside VITA Coaching gave to her 00:59:10 - The four pillars that have helped Aubrey and Brian move through challenges 01:04:00 - If you can't be honest with yourself, you can't work with your truth in partnership 01:07:44 - Aubrey and Brian share what made them choose to return to each other 01:13:08 - The one question to ask yourself when you feel triggered by your partner 01:18:23 - Aubrey shares her experience inside The VITA™ Coaching Certification 01:21:57 - What marriage means to Aubrey and Brian after all the work they've done 01:25:29 - Brian and Aubrey share what they're most grateful for in their relationship 01:29:37 - Conclusion

  8. May 3

    What a Tantric Orgasm Actually Feels Like (and How to Get There)

    Shownotes    The real reason premature ejaculation happens How a Tantric orgasm feels different than a default orgasm Why pushing your body during sex actually blocks pleasure How to train your body for deeper pleasure and sexual experiences How to bring breast activation into your lovemaking experiences The power of yin versus yang in sexual experiences   Bio Diana Richardson is widely regarded as a leading contemporary authority on human sexuality and conscious intimacy. A bestselling author on Tantra, her work centers on the union of sex and meditation, and on practical ways this sacred connection can transform intimate life. After completing a law degree, she became a disciple of the Indian mystic Osho in 1979, initiating a lifelong exploration of sexuality, love, and meditative awareness, further influenced by the teachings of Barry Long. Integrating these influences through lived experience, Diana developed Generative Sex, also known as Cool Sex, an evolutionary and sustainable approach to intimacy. This distilled wisdom is shared through her practical Love Keys, presented in her bestselling book, The Heart of Tantric Sex. For over 30 years, Diana has guided more than 15,000 couples in week-long residential retreats in Switzerland, and she is now launching a Rekindle online course based on these highly successful live retreats.   You can follow Diana's work on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Discover her online course here and her books and live retreats here. Follow Layla! 🌸 Instagram 🌐 Website 💌 Weekly Email 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women   Timestamps   00:00:52 - Guest introduction 00:03:08 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:05:06 - Diana describes how Tantric orgasm feels different than default orgasm 00:07:09 - When you don't think about orgasm as a goal, you can stay more present 00:07:48 - How a flow state compares to an orgasmic state 00:09:18 - How sex in our culture has become as aspect of the mind instead of the body 00:11:20 - You can't make an orgasmic state happen, you can only prepare the ground 00:12:14 - How to train your body for sexual experiences 00:14:49 - Why it's important to bring your body into your everyday life 00:18:12 - What it looks like in everyday life to make your own body the priority 00:18:57 - [AD] MOOD Sex Magic - Podcast coupon code + 2 free sticks: [MOOD Sex Magic] 00:20:34 - Why being in your mind can make you feel like you control the universe 00:22:46 - Why it's important to trust our body's intelligence 00:24:15 - Diana shares the deconditioning process she experienced with Tantra 00:27:40 - Why pushing your body during sex actually blocks pleasure 00:29:05 - Intensity during sex can come from a fear of loss of erection 00:30:53 - Why language around the penis and vagina matters 00:33:46 - The one thing Diana sees that helps women open into an orgasmic state 00:38:38 - The 3 elements Osho says are required for a blissful state 00:40:15 - The most valuable thing Diana wants women to know 00:42:17 - How to bring breast activation into your lovemaking experiences 00:46:40 - The real reason premature ejaculation happens 00:51:50 - The power of yin versus yang in sexual experiences 00:53:28 - What Diana finds in men who are willing to try a new way of making love 00:57:55 - Why Diana and her partner approach sex in a softer way 01:01:52 - Conclusion

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This Tantric Life is a podcast created by Layla Martin. The profound conversations throughout This Tantric Life are dedicated to exploring the deep wisdom and practices of Tantra, Sacred Sexuality, and conscious relationships. Join host Layla Martin as she invites her mentors and friends to dive even deeper into the Tantric philosophy and approach that can transform life, intimacy and relationships. Each guest shares their wisdom through deep, thought-provoking conversations that explore the mysteries of conscious living and loving and the opportunity Tantra and Sacred Sexuality present to help us free ourselves. Layla Martin believes Tantra is the last bastion of personal development, and whether you're a seasoned practitioner of Tantra looking to deepen your practice or simply curious about the intersection between spirituality and sexuality, This Tantric Life with Layla Martin is the perfect podcast to guide you on your journey toward a more fulfilling and meaningful life. This Tantric Life with Layla Martin will inspire you to embrace your truth and awaken your full potential as a human being.

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