Real Women LIVE

Jessica Stipanovic

Welcome to Real Women LIVE (formerly Sober Living Stories), a podcast where women discover what's possible on the other side of silence.  A show built on the belief that the stories we are most afraid to tell often become our greatest sources of strength, wild possibilities and purpose.   Each week, host Jessica Stipanovic sits down with women who have lived through the moments that changed everything.  From loss, addiction, betrayal, grief, reinvention, family hardship, recovery, and starting over.  These are not surface-level conversations but honest accounts of what happened, what was learned, and what changed when these women found the courage to stop performing, start telling the truth out loud, and own every version of themselves. Real Women LIVE evolved from Sober Living Stories, a podcast rooted in the power of personal transformation. While our foundation remains grounded in raw, honest stories of resilience and hope, the conversation has expanded to include topics that touch women worldwide.     Jessica Stipanovic knows this journey firsthand. Sharing her story publicly changed her life instantly opening doors for her that she never imagined.  She has spent over a decade as a freelance writer, lived alcohol-free for more than 20 years and walked beside hundreds of women as they rediscovered their strength through adversity.  These experiences have shaped how she listens, the type of questions she asks and the kinds of conversations that are created.  The powerful truth when we own ours is that people don't love us less when they know our story, they love us more.  Today, she helps women discover what's possible on the other side of silence, one story at a time. Many guests go on to write books, build communities, launch podcasts, start businesses, and create meaningful impact from the very challenges they once tried to hide. As the founder of The Female Entrepreneur Organization, Jessica Stipanovic provides resources, education, and opportunities to help turn their experiences into purpose-driven platforms. Share your story. Change your life.  New episodes each Tuesday. 

  1. Finding Faith, Purpose, and a New Beginning Through Music

    20h ago

    Finding Faith, Purpose, and a New Beginning Through Music

    Send us Fan Mail Sarah Smith returns to share her spiritual journey from traditional Christianity to finding her own path through sobriety, and how this transformation has influenced her music career spanning over 26 years. • Raised in a Christian family with her mother as choir director and substitute minister • Found first sobriety at 21 when a band leader warned her about the dangers of addiction in the music industry • Spent seven years sober immersing herself in spiritual literature from authors like Wayne Dyer and Deepak Chopra • Experienced a 10-year relapse before finding sustained recovery • Uses music as a conduit for healing, collaborating with fans to transform their stories into songs • Created meaningful works including legacy songs for people facing terminal illness and those grieving loved ones lost to addiction • Maintains sobriety in the music industry through boundaries, self-awareness, and having exit strategies • Recently released compilation album "Shine Bright" featuring favorite tracks from 2012-present • Changed her perspective from seeking help from a higher power to becoming a vessel for divine creativity If you'd like to connect with Sarah or collaborate on songwriting during her winter writing sessions, visit sarahsmithmusic.com or find her on social media platforms @SarahSmithMusic. Support the show Real Women LIVE (formerly Sober Living Stories) Host Jessica Stipanovic is a writer, podcast host, and founder of the Female Entrepreneur Organization.  New Episodes Delivered to Your Inbox → https://www.jessicastipanovic.com/newsletterFollow Real Women LIVE → https://www.facebook.com/realwomenpodcast/Your story matters.

    44 min
  2. God Wrecked My Life - In the Best Possible Way

    09/12/2025

    God Wrecked My Life - In the Best Possible Way

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when liquid courage becomes spiritual bondage? Crystal Cuellar's story illuminates the unexpected path from social drinking to spiritual awakening, revealing how faith became the foundation for her alcohol-free life. Crystal's journey begins at fifteen with that first warm shot of vodka—the moment she discovered alcohol could transform her from the shy girl into someone more outgoing. What started as occasional social drinking evolved into a decade-long pattern of binge drinking that felt completely normal because everyone in her circle lived the same way. Despite not drinking daily, Crystal found herself caught in a cycle—taking periodic breaks, attempting moderation, and investing enormous mental energy to keep alcohol in her life while experiencing mounting consequences: a DWI, increasing anxiety, depression, and the persistent feeling that she wasn't living up to her God-given potential. The turning point didn't arrive as a dramatic rock bottom but as a quiet revelation while sitting alone in her apartment after yet another night of binge drinking. "If I don't stop drinking now, I am going to become an everyday drinker," she realized. This clarity became her line in the sand. Rather than focusing solely on what she was giving up, Crystal shifted her perspective to what she could gain—redirecting her energy toward working out, coaching others, and serving people. She surrounded herself with accountability through her church community, hired a sober coach, and began working with a Christian therapist. Today, Crystal helps women who recognize alcohol is hindering them from fulfilling their purpose.  Her approach combines practical strategies with faith-based principles that empower women to break free from the identity and limitations alcohol has placed on them. Support the show Real Women LIVE (formerly Sober Living Stories) Host Jessica Stipanovic is a writer, podcast host, and founder of the Female Entrepreneur Organization.  New Episodes Delivered to Your Inbox → https://www.jessicastipanovic.com/newsletterFollow Real Women LIVE → https://www.facebook.com/realwomenpodcast/Your story matters.

    40 min
  3. 08/15/2025

    Rewiring the Addicted Brain

    Send us Fan Mail The complexity of addiction extends far beyond what most people understand. Join Jessica Stipanovic and Psychologist Faust Ruggiero, with over 35 years of clinical experience, as they bring profound insight into this challenging territory on the latest Sober Living Stories podcast.  Ruggiero's approach to addiction recovery challenges conventional thinking. "When you talk about addiction, people almost always go right to drugs or alcohol," he explains, before revealing he's identified at least 17 distinct addiction patterns in his latest book. From gambling and food addiction to exercise obsession, these compulsions share fundamental neurological mechanisms despite their surface differences. What sets Ruggiero's methodology apart is his action-oriented framework. "I like to write the way I counsel," he shares. "Let's get all the information about you, let's give you all the information about your addiction, and then let's give you action steps." This practical approach mirrors successful 12-step programs, which are essentially structured action plans for recovery. The family dimension of addiction receives particular attention throughout the conversation. Ruggiero emphasizes that addiction creates ripple effects through entire family systems, with members developing coping mechanisms that often enable continued addiction. "Nobody gets out of this unscathed," he notes, highlighting why recovery must involve healing family dynamics alongside individual healing. Perhaps most hopeful is Ruggiero's perspective on the brain's adaptability. Through consistent practice and proper support, the addicted brain can learn new patterns of satisfaction without extreme stimulation. "Our brains learn and learning is just repetition," he explains, offering a powerful counterpoint to the misconception that addiction represents an unchangeable aspect of identity. In the summer of 2016, Mr. Ruggiero began to develop The Fix Yourself Empowerment Series based on the Process Life Program to help readers address the difficult situations in their lives. He has appeared on television, radio shows, and podcasts, both national and international, to discuss the Process Way of Life. His radio show “Fix It With Faust” debuted in June 2021. On June 8, 2023, the second installment in The Fix Yourself Empowerment Series, The Fix Your Anxiety Handbook, was published. It is also an award-winning publication. In December 2003, The Fix Your Depression Handbook was published. It is the third book in the series. The Fix Your Anger Handbook, the series’ fourth book, was published in May 2024. Ready to begin your journey toward freedom from addiction? Visit faustruggiero.com to learn more about his "Fix Yourself Empowerment Series" and discover resources tailored to your recovery needs. Support the show Real Women LIVE (formerly Sober Living Stories) Host Jessica Stipanovic is a writer, podcast host, and founder of the Female Entrepreneur Organization.  New Episodes Delivered to Your Inbox → https://www.jessicastipanovic.com/newsletterFollow Real Women LIVE → https://www.facebook.com/realwomenpodcast/Your story matters.

    40 min
  4. From Bartender to Author: A Life Rebuilt

    07/14/2025

    From Bartender to Author: A Life Rebuilt

    Send us Fan Mail Wayne Kicklighter shares his 22-year journey of sobriety, from growing up with generational alcoholism to becoming a published author of a daily reflections book called "Peaceful Wisdom: Reflections on God, Life, and Recovery."  His transformation takes us through early party days, living a double life, hitting rock bottom, and ultimately finding a spiritual path to recovery and genuine self-discovery. • Noticed alcoholic behavior in his family growing up, particularly his mother, who showed characteristics he later recognized in himself. • Started drinking and doing drugs as a teenager to escape and fit in, becoming the "center of attention" for bringing party supplies. • Worked as a bartender, feeding his ego with false security from "drinking buddies" rather than real friends. • Lived a "Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde" double life, trying unsuccessfully to balance work with partying. • Attempted repeatedly to "figure out how to live sober without giving up drinking" before truly surrendering. • Experienced three phases of recovery: physical healing, mental transformation, and spiritual awakening. • Found God in recovery after believing his actions were unforgivable and a relationship with God impossible.  • Wrote "Peaceful Wisdom" after retiring in 2021, sharing reflections from walking his dog and meditating. • Started a YouTube channel, Peaceful Wisdom - God, Life, and Recovery - YouTube, featuring weekly videos on reflections from his book.  Find Wayne's book "Peaceful Wisdom: Reflections on God, Life, and Recovery on Amazon or follow his YouTube channel @Peaceful Wiz for weekly reflections. Support the show Real Women LIVE (formerly Sober Living Stories) Host Jessica Stipanovic is a writer, podcast host, and founder of the Female Entrepreneur Organization.  New Episodes Delivered to Your Inbox → https://www.jessicastipanovic.com/newsletterFollow Real Women LIVE → https://www.facebook.com/realwomenpodcast/Your story matters.

    27 min
  5. The Power of Sober Motherhood

    06/10/2025

    The Power of Sober Motherhood

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when a mother's fierce love for her children collides with the unrelenting grip of alcoholism? In this raw and moving conversation, Jenny breaks her silence to share a 16-year journey of motherhood in recovery that will resonate with anyone who has ever struggled to be present for those who need them most. With honesty, Jenny takes us back to the toughest days of battling a disease she knew nothing about while raising a one-year-old and three-year-old, praying each morning not to drink, only to surrender by afternoon. "The only thing more powerful than a mother's love is alcoholism," she reflects after hearing someone speak those words, which resonated so deeply in her own heart at the time.  After exhausting every alternative—from hypnosis and psychiatry to vitamin regimens—Jenny found her way to the solution she'd been most resistant to: a 12-step program that offered not just sobriety but a complete transformation. The results speak volumes: a 26-year marriage, a son who is thriving at university, and a beautiful daughter who trusts her mother completely with her questions about alcohol. Perhaps most powerful is Jenny's message to mothers currently struggling: what your children truly need isn't your physical presence at all costs, but "a sober, healthy, emotionally stable mother." The community of women she found became family, holding her babies during meetings and teaching her how to navigate motherhood without alcohol. Today, she's gone from being the one who needed constant help to being a pillar of strength for others. Whether you're personally touched by addiction or simply interested in stories of profound human transformation, Jenny's journey offers hope that even our most overwhelming challenges can become the foundation for our most meaningful contributions. Listen now and witness how recovery doesn't just save lives—it changes family legacies for generations to come. Support the show Real Women LIVE (formerly Sober Living Stories) Host Jessica Stipanovic is a writer, podcast host, and founder of the Female Entrepreneur Organization.  New Episodes Delivered to Your Inbox → https://www.jessicastipanovic.com/newsletterFollow Real Women LIVE → https://www.facebook.com/realwomenpodcast/Your story matters.

    47 min
  6. From School Shooting Survivor to Healing Advocate: Melissa's Message

    03/04/2025

    From School Shooting Survivor to Healing Advocate: Melissa's Message

    Send us Fan Mail Surviving a school shooting and witnessing the tragic loss of her brother could have defined her path, but instead, these challenges fueled her passion for nursing and healing. Melissa Armstrong's story is nothing short of inspiring.  She opens up about her chaotic childhood with addicted parents to finding peace and purpose as a nurse, health coach, wife, and mother. Throughout the episode, we uncover the profound impact of stress and trauma on both mental and physical health. With insights from experts, we delve into the significance of the mind-body connection and explore alternative healing methods such as EMDR therapy. Melissa's narrative illustrates the importance of acknowledging past traumas while striving for holistic well-being, offering hope and strategies for listeners seeking their healing paths. The conversation also emphasizes the transformative power of neuroplasticity and therapeutic practices. By sharing her experiences, Melissa illustrates how reclaiming her authentic self has allowed her to create a healthier environment for herself and her family.  This episode is a testament to the belief that healing is possible for everyone.  I encourage listeners to prioritize their health and explore the resources Melissa generously shares to aid their pursuit of clarity and emotional freedom. To connect and your free gifts from Melissa Armstrong;  https://www.instagram.com/holistichealthbymelissa www.holistichealthbymelissa.com Support the show Real Women LIVE (formerly Sober Living Stories) Host Jessica Stipanovic is a writer, podcast host, and founder of the Female Entrepreneur Organization.  New Episodes Delivered to Your Inbox → https://www.jessicastipanovic.com/newsletterFollow Real Women LIVE → https://www.facebook.com/realwomenpodcast/Your story matters.

    40 min
  7. Trading Happy Hours for Sunsets: Health Coach Danette's Life Re-Imagined

    01/28/2025

    Trading Happy Hours for Sunsets: Health Coach Danette's Life Re-Imagined

    Send us Fan Mail Picture this: leaving behind the confines of a corporate cubicle and trading it for the open road, a van, and a trusty canine companion. That's exactly what Danette Deichmann did, and her story is inspiring. In our latest episode of Sober Living Stories, Danette opens up about her transformative life experience of swapping a life dominated by social drinking for one fueled by spontaneous adventures, health, and self-discovery. With her first year of alcohol-free living on the horizon, Danette shares the pivotal moments that led her to embrace a healthy lifestyle while living life as a full-time nomad. Her journey is filled with captivating tales of freedom, personal growth, and the new career she's gained. The conversation doesn't stop there. We explore the courage it takes to make significant life changes, especially when alcohol is deeply woven into social and professional environments. Danette emphasizes the crucial support from communities and shares practical strategies she employed to safeguard her sobriety, like opting for non-alcoholic beverages and harnessing meditation and breath work to manage stress. Beyond her narrative, Danette offers wisdom on empowering others to take incremental steps toward healthier living. From adjusting social media habits to prioritizing morning walks and quality sleep, her insights as a health and optimization coach provide a valuable guide. Whether contemplating a major lifestyle shift or just seeking inspiration, this episode offers perspectives that could enrich your journey. Connect with Danette: Email: healthcoachdanette@gmail.com Instagram: @danettermay Website: danettedeichmannwellness.com Support the show Real Women LIVE (formerly Sober Living Stories) Host Jessica Stipanovic is a writer, podcast host, and founder of the Female Entrepreneur Organization.  New Episodes Delivered to Your Inbox → https://www.jessicastipanovic.com/newsletterFollow Real Women LIVE → https://www.facebook.com/realwomenpodcast/Your story matters.

    29 min
  8. Designing A New Life: Jessica Summer's Comeback Story

    12/03/2024

    Designing A New Life: Jessica Summer's Comeback Story

    Send us Fan Mail  How does a successful fashion designer find herself in the throes of addiction, battling homelessness, and rising again to help others find their path?  In this episode, we sit down with Jessica Summers, a mom and former boutique owner whose life fell apart after complications during childbirth led her to rely on prescription pills. That dependence spiraled into street drugs and eventually homelessness. Jessica shares her raw, honest story to shed light on how addiction can take hold of even the most seemingly “normal” lives. Jessica opens up about losing everything to addiction and how she fought her way back. She talks about the emotional and physical toll of postpartum struggles and how being dismissed by her healthcare providers left her vulnerable. In her darkest moments, she found strength through a small, still voice that guided her toward hope and healing. Her journey is proof that even the toughest battles can be won. Jessica’s recovery wasn’t just about getting clean—it was about rebuilding her life. With the help of compassionate care and dual diagnosis treatment, she learned that addiction isn’t a moral failing but a disease that requires understanding and support. Today, she’s an author, speaker, and cognitive behavioral therapy coach, using her story to inspire others to reclaim their power and find renewal, no matter how hopeless life might seem. Her upcoming book, The Road to Now: From Tragedy to Triumph, is a must-read for anyone facing similar struggles. Click the link below to learn more and get your copy. https://a.co/d/j00V4RO To connect with Jessica Summers: www.jessica-summers.com http://linkedin.com/in/jessica-summers-b12680182 https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100080486230656&mibextid=LQQJ4d Support the show Real Women LIVE (formerly Sober Living Stories) Host Jessica Stipanovic is a writer, podcast host, and founder of the Female Entrepreneur Organization.  New Episodes Delivered to Your Inbox → https://www.jessicastipanovic.com/newsletterFollow Real Women LIVE → https://www.facebook.com/realwomenpodcast/Your story matters.

    50 min

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Welcome to Real Women LIVE (formerly Sober Living Stories), a podcast where women discover what's possible on the other side of silence.  A show built on the belief that the stories we are most afraid to tell often become our greatest sources of strength, wild possibilities and purpose.   Each week, host Jessica Stipanovic sits down with women who have lived through the moments that changed everything.  From loss, addiction, betrayal, grief, reinvention, family hardship, recovery, and starting over.  These are not surface-level conversations but honest accounts of what happened, what was learned, and what changed when these women found the courage to stop performing, start telling the truth out loud, and own every version of themselves. Real Women LIVE evolved from Sober Living Stories, a podcast rooted in the power of personal transformation. While our foundation remains grounded in raw, honest stories of resilience and hope, the conversation has expanded to include topics that touch women worldwide.     Jessica Stipanovic knows this journey firsthand. Sharing her story publicly changed her life instantly opening doors for her that she never imagined.  She has spent over a decade as a freelance writer, lived alcohol-free for more than 20 years and walked beside hundreds of women as they rediscovered their strength through adversity.  These experiences have shaped how she listens, the type of questions she asks and the kinds of conversations that are created.  The powerful truth when we own ours is that people don't love us less when they know our story, they love us more.  Today, she helps women discover what's possible on the other side of silence, one story at a time. Many guests go on to write books, build communities, launch podcasts, start businesses, and create meaningful impact from the very challenges they once tried to hide. As the founder of The Female Entrepreneur Organization, Jessica Stipanovic provides resources, education, and opportunities to help turn their experiences into purpose-driven platforms. Share your story. Change your life.  New episodes each Tuesday.