Call The Damn Leads

Drewbie Wilson

WELCOME TO "CALL THE DAMN LEADS" "By sales professionals, for sales professionals - Tales of your wildest sales stories and tactics to succeed in your sales career across various industries." Join Drewbie Wilson, a sales veteran with over 20 years of experience, as he brings you insider stories, humor, and actionable strategies to excel in your sales journey. Sales professionals, entrepreneurs, and small business owners striving to enhance their sales, marketing, and personal growth to achieve financial success and time freedom. Wild Sales Stories: Engaging tales of real-life sales adventures. Proven Tactics: Actionable strategies to boost your sales game. Humor: A fun and energetic perspective on the world of sales. Expert Insights: Learn from seasoned professionals in various industries. Podcast Format: Your Host, Drewbie Wilson: With over $15 million in online sales, Drewbie's vast experience spans multiple industries. His journey from a 300-pound weight loss to becoming a sales powerhouse has shaped his perspective on life and success. Get Ready to Crush It in Sales! Ready to dive into the world of sales like never before? Join Drewbie Wilson and his incredible lineup of guests on "Call The Damn Leads." Don't miss out on the insights, humor, and strategies that can take your sales career to new heights.

  1. 2H AGO

    Episode 151 – From Broke to Booked: The Paid Proposal Strategy with Ryan Clark

    In Episode 151, Drewbie sits down with Ryan Clark, a marketer and sales strategist who shares the raw, behind-the-scenes story of how he went from a struggling entrepreneur working grocery store shifts to building a thriving business that allowed him to move to Rio de Janeiro. Ryan breaks down the pivotal moments that forced him to rethink sales, pricing, and messaging—especially after losing his first business with close friends. What followed was a hard-earned lesson in audience building, low-barrier offers, and why selling small first can unlock massive long-term growth. This episode dives deep into Ryan's Paid Proposal Strategy, his viral Cheetah Method for outreach, and why most funnels fail before they ever have a chance to work. If you sell services, coaching, or marketing solutions—and you're tired of long sales cycles and constant rejection—this episode will change how you approach selling.     Episode Highlights Ryan's painful breakup with his first business partners Working a grocery store job while trying to make entrepreneurship work Building an audience for years with almost no results The conversation that sparked Ryan's first scalable offer How Ryan went from $500 offers to $10K in just weeks Why low-ticket offers close faster than high-ticket pitches The origin of the Paid Proposal Strategy How to structure offers that naturally lead to upsells Why most funnels fail before messaging is clear The "Funnel First Fallacy" and how to avoid it Buyer angles, root cause messaging, and the "big idea" Why targeting matters more than clever messaging The Cheetah Method for DM outreach Starting conversations without sounding salesy Market Leaders vs. Market Messiahs Why trust and likability matter more than ever in the AI era     Key Takeaways Selling doesn't start with a pitch—it starts with a conversation. Low-pressure conversations open more doors than perfect presentations. Cheap doesn't mean weak—when positioned correctly. Low-barrier offers create momentum, trust, and long-term clients. If your funnel isn't converting, it's probably the messaging. Generic language leads to generic results. Targeting beats tactics. Talking to the right people at the right stage matters more than the script. Value first always wins. Give before you ask, and people lean in. People buy people. In a crowded, AI-driven world, trust and personality matter more than ever.     The Paid Proposal Strategy (Simplified) Ryan's core framework focuses on: Solving a front-end problem quickly Offering a low-friction entry point Delivering fast, tangible results Creating a clear 3–12 month roadmap Allowing clients to either DIY or continue working together This removes pressure from the sale and positions the upsell as the obvious next step.     The Cheetah Method (DM Outreach) Ryan's outreach philosophy is built on: Hyper-targeting active, relevant prospects Leading with curiosity, not pitching Introducing a simple, intriguing concept Asking permission before continuing Offering value without pressure The goal: start conversations, not force closes.     Market Leader vs. Market Messiah Market Leaders sell expertise Market Messiahs build movements Messiahs create trust, community, belief, and advocacy—not just transactions.     Connect with Ryan Clark 💼 LinkedIn: Search Ryan Clark (Primary platform for content & outreach)  📍 Bonus: If you're feeling adventurous, Ryan is living in Rio de Janeiro—Copacabana Beach optional. 🇧🇷     🎯 Call to Action Call The Damn Leads "By sales professionals, for sales professionals—Tales of your wildest sales stories and tactics to succeed in your sales career across various industries." Join Drewbie Wilson, a sales veteran with over 20 years of experience, as he brings you insider stories, humor, and actionable strategies to excel in your sales journey. Your weekly dose of: Wild Sales Stories: Engaging tales of real-life sales adventures. Proven Tactics: Actionable strategies to boost your sales game. Humor: A fun and energetic perspective on the world of sales. Expert Insights: Learn from seasoned professionals in various industries. Don't miss out on the insights, humor, and strategies that can take your sales career to new heights! Sales professionals, entrepreneurs, and small business owners striving to enhance their sales, marketing, and personal growth to achieve financial success and time freedom. If you'd like to be a guest on our show, please leave your contact information and a brief message selling us on what makes your story worth sharing! https://callthedamnleads.com/pages/podcast Follow Drewbie: https://www.facebook.com/drewbierides Follow Call The Damn Leads: https://www.instagram.com/callthedamnleads

    23 min
  2. 5D AGO

    Episode 150 – Why Your Marketing Isn't Working (And What Your Friends Know That You Don't) with Rachel Allen

    In Episode 150, Drewbie sits down with Rachel Allen, an experienced copywriter who's worked across industries—from astrologers to accountants—to unpack what's actually happening in marketing, sales cycles, and buyer trust right now. Rachel shares her unconventional entry into copywriting, including landing her very first client—without knowing what a "nurture campaign" was—and closing a five-figure deal by figuring it out in real time. From there, the conversation dives deep into the intersection of sales, copywriting, psychology, and trust. This episode breaks down why sales cycles have lengthened, why broadcast content is losing influence, and why your marketing might not be converting—even if your strategy "looks good on paper." Rachel delivers sharp insights on AI copywriting, email marketing, unsubscribes, and why the real buying decisions are happening in private conversations, not public comments. If you sell anything high-ticket, relationship-driven, or trust-based, this episode is a must-listen.     Episode Highlights Rachel's first-ever sales call and accidental five-figure close Leaving the U.S. at 22 and starting over in Hong Kong Discovering copywriting through necessity Why copywriting mirrors a real sales conversation The breakdown between marketing promises and sales reality How poor marketing sets sales teams up to fail Why sales teams should drive marketing messaging The truth about AI copywriting and where it actually helps Three foundational questions every piece of copy must answer Why people don't engage with content anymore How trust has shifted to private conversations The real reason your offers aren't converting Why email marketing is not dead How to write subject lines that avoid spam filters The psychology behind unsubscribes (and why not to take them personally) How polarizing your message improves conversion     Key Takeaways Copywriting is sales—written down. If your marketing sounds different from your sales calls, something is broken. Sales teams hold the truth. They hear real fears, objections, and motivations—marketers should be listening. Vibes are not strategy. Clarity beats cleverness every time. Nobody cares about your product—yet. They care about themselves first. Speak to that. Trust has moved offline. People buy based on what their friends say, not what your content claims. If people aren't buying, it's not the algorithm. It's a trust problem. AI separates the good from the great. It replaces "okay" work—but not excellence. Email still works—when done with respect. Bad email marketing ruined email's reputation, not the medium itself. Unsubscribes are not rejection. They're aligned. Strong reactions are better than mild interest. The goal is resonance, not approval.     Rachel's 3 Rules for Better Copywriting Define the exact goal. Not "more leads"—but who, where, why, and at what stage. Make it about the reader. Your perspective doesn't matter until theirs is addressed. Match the level of touch to the price. High-ticket offers require human-to-human connection.     Why Your Content Isn't Converting Rachel explains that modern buyers don't trust broadcast marketing the way they used to. Instead, decisions are made in: Group chats Private messages Emails One-on-one conversations If those people don't trust you—or worse, don't like you—your funnel stalls.     Connect with Rachel Allen 🌐 Website: https://www.boltfromthebluecopywriting.com/ 📧 Email: rachel@boltfromthebluecopywriting.com 💼 LinkedIn: Search Rachel Allen – https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelallenwrites/ Rachel helps businesses create human, trust-driven messaging that converts—without gimmicks, pressure, or empty hype.     🎯 Call to Action Call The Damn Leads "By sales professionals, for sales professionals - Tales of your wildest sales stories and tactics to succeed in your sales career across various industries." Join Drewbie Wilson, a sales veteran with over 20 years of experience, as he brings you insider stories, humor, and actionable strategies to excel in your sales journey. Your weekly dose of: Wild Sales Stories: Engaging tales of real-life sales adventures. Proven Tactics: Actionable strategies to boost your sales game. Humor: A fun and energetic perspective on the world of sales. Expert Insights: Learn from seasoned professionals in various industries. Don't miss out on the insights, humor, and strategies that can take your sales career to new heights! Sales professionals, entrepreneurs, and small business owners striving to enhance their sales, marketing, and personal growth to achieve financial success and time freedom. If you'd like to be a guest on our show, please leave your contact information and a brief message selling us on what makes your story worth sharing! https://callthedamnleads.com/pages/podcast Follow Drewbie: https://www.facebook.com/drewbierides Follow Call The Damn Leads: https://www.instagram.com/callthedamnleads

    23 min
  3. MAR 10

    Episode 149 – Selling from Presence, Not Pressure with Joanna Zhang

    In Episode 149, Drewbie welcomes Joanna Zhang for a deeply reflective and practical conversation about sales, energy, delegation, and what it really takes to scale a business without burning yourself out. Joanna shares her personal evolution—from pushing hard in sales with a transaction-first mindset to shifting into a presence-led, value-driven approach that completely transformed her results. After a personal "soul awakening," Joanna realized that chasing deals from fear and scarcity was blocking growth—not just in sales, but in leadership and life. From there, the conversation expands into one of the biggest challenges sales-driven entrepreneurs face: doing everything themselves. Joanna breaks down how she built a high-performing, specialized operations team, why most business owners become their own bottleneck, and how identifying your zone of genius is the key to sustainable scale. This episode is a must-listen for solopreneurs, founders, and sales leaders who want more time, more energy, and more alignment—without losing control of what they've built.     Episode Highlights Joanna's shift from push-based selling to flow-based sales How intention and energy impact sales outcomes Why transactional selling creates resistance Letting go of scarcity and selling from authenticity Leading teams through energy, not pressure The difference between being busy and being effective Why most business owners resist delegation Building a "genius-focused" operations team How delegating drains less energy than doing everything yourself The hidden cost of control in business growth Becoming a servant leader instead of a controlling one How to stop being the bottleneck in your own business Trust, expectation, and leadership growth Scaling without sacrificing vision or values     Key Takeaways Sales follow intention. Selling from fear repels; selling from presence attracts. Letting go creates momentum. Releasing expectations often unlocks unexpected opportunities. You can't scale while doing everything. Delegation isn't optional—it's foundational. Your energy sets the tone. Teams and clients feel pressure, authenticity, and alignment. Control limits possibility. Trusting others opens doors you can't see alone. There is no perfect person—only a perfect team. Specialization beats self-reliance every time. Sales is a zone of genius for many founders. Protect it by delegating everything else. Leadership is a personal growth journey. Business bottlenecks often mirror internal ones. Delegation is a skill—not a switch. It's learned layer by layer, not all at once. Growth requires courage. You don't need certainty—just the willingness to start.     The Zone of Genius Framework (Shared by Joanna) To identify what to delegate, Joanna recommends mapping your work into four layers: Incompetence – Things you dislike and aren't good at (delegate first) Competence – Things you can do well but don't love Excellence – Things you're great at and enjoy Genius – What's uniquely you and irreplaceable Your goal is to gradually move your time and energy toward the genius zone.     Connect with Joanna Zhang 🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/zhang-joanna/?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=android_app 🎁 Free Resource: How to Feel Less Stuck and Get More Time & Energy Back A practical guide for solopreneurs who do too much themselves and want to scale without burnout. ➡️ (Link to be added in show notes) Joanna helps founders and sales-driven business owners delegate strategically, build specialized support teams, and scale from alignment—not exhaustion.   🎯 Call to Action Call The Damn Leads "By sales professionals, for sales professionals - Tales of your wildest sales stories and tactics to succeed in your sales career across various industries." Join Drewbie Wilson, a sales veteran with over 20 years of experience, as he brings you insider stories, humor, and actionable strategies to excel in your sales journey. Your weekly dose of: Wild Sales Stories: Engaging tales of real-life sales adventures. Proven Tactics: Actionable strategies to boost your sales game. Humor: A fun and energetic perspective on the world of sales. Expert Insights: Learn from seasoned professionals in various industries. Don't miss out on the insights, humor, and strategies that can take your sales career to new heights! Sales professionals, entrepreneurs, and small business owners striving to enhance their sales, marketing, and personal growth to achieve financial success and time freedom. If you'd like to be a guest on our show, please leave your contact information and a brief message sharing what makes your story worth hearing: https://callthedamnleads.com/pages/podcast Follow Drewbie: https://www.facebook.com/drewbierides Follow Call The Damn Leads: https://www.instagram.com/callthedamnleads

    23 min
  4. MAR 5

    Episode 148 – Negotiation Lessons from the Buyer's Side with Ted Stephany

    In Episode 148, Drewbie flips the script and brings in someone from the other side of the table—professional buyer and sourcing expert Ted Stephany—to unpack what actually happens inside procurement conversations and why most sales professionals unknowingly sabotage their own deals. Ted shares his journey from being a tech sales rep who was taught to "go around procurement" to becoming a procurement leader himself—and why that advice was completely wrong. With firsthand experience on both sides of the deal desk, Ted explains why sales and procurement are far more aligned than most sellers realize. This episode dives deep into negotiation psychology, deal planning, silence, questioning strategies, and how to turn procurement into your internal champion instead of your biggest obstacle. If you've ever lost momentum late in a deal, discounted too fast, or talked yourself out of leverage—this conversation will change how you sell.     Episode Highlights Ted's transformation from seller to procurement leader Why "going around procurement" is terrible advice The biggest misunderstanding sales pros have about buyers How misalignment inside buying teams kills deals Why selling value to only the end user isn't enough Questions every seller should ask sourcing and procurement How procurement can help you shorten the deal cycle Turning buyers into internal cheerleaders Why salespeople talk themselves out of leverage The power of silence in negotiations Why "best and final offer" usually backfires How discounting too early weakens your position Using time as a negotiation lever Planning concessions before the negotiation starts The danger of hedging language ("I think," "maybe," "we'll see") How to get buyers to advocate for your proposal internally Simple negotiation tweaks that create massive results     Key Takeaways Procurement is not the enemy. Buyers and sellers are more aligned than most sales pros think. Sell to the entire buying team—not just the end user. Different stakeholders value different outcomes. Bring procurement in early. Early involvement shortens deal cycles and uncovers landmines. Silence is a negotiation weapon. Six seconds of silence can completely shift leverage. Have a plan before you negotiate. Unplanned concessions lead to unnecessary discounts. "Best and final" often kills collaboration. Negotiation is a conversation, not a shutdown. Confidence beats hedging language. Uncertainty invites pressure and further concessions. Time is negotiable. Deadlines should be engineered—not demanded. Create internal champions. Get buyers to sell your proposal for you. Small tweaks create massive gains. Negotiation mastery is about refinement, not reinvention.     Connect with Ted Stephany 🌐 Website: https://www.tedstephany.com Ted shares insights on negotiation strategy, procurement dynamics, and sales effectiveness—helping sellers and buying teams create better, faster, more collaborative deals.       🎯 Call to Action Call The Damn Leads "By sales professionals, for sales professionals - Tales of your wildest sales stories and tactics to succeed in your sales career across various industries." Join Drewbie Wilson, a sales veteran with over 20 years of experience, as he brings you insider stories, humor, and actionable strategies to excel in your sales journey. Your weekly dose of: Wild Sales Stories: Engaging tales of real-life sales adventures. Proven Tactics: Actionable strategies to boost your sales game. Humor: A fun and energetic perspective on the world of sales. Expert Insights: Learn from seasoned professionals in various industries. Don't miss out on the insights, humor, and strategies that can take your sales career to new heights! Sales professionals, entrepreneurs, and small business owners striving to enhance their sales, marketing, and personal growth to achieve financial success and time freedom. If you'd like to be a guest on our show, please leave your contact information and a brief message sharing what makes your story worth hearing: https://callthedamnleads.com/pages/podcast Follow Drewbie: https://www.facebook.com/drewbierides Follow Call The Damn Leads: https://www.instagram.com/callthedamnleads

    24 min
  5. MAR 3

    Episode 147 – Warm Marketing Wins: Building Community, Trust, and Sales with Billy Sammons

    In Episode 147, Drewbie sits down with Billy Sammons to break down one of the most overlooked—and most powerful—sales strategies out there: warm marketing through genuine community engagement. Billy shares his unconventional journey from teacher to real estate professional and how standing out in an oversaturated market forced him to rethink traditional selling. Instead of cold calls and pushy tactics, Billy built his business by helping local businesses shine—creating simple video commercials, podcasts, and content that spotlighted community owners and, in return, positioned him as a trusted local authority. Over the last 15 years, this approach has snowballed into referrals, partnerships, massive local reach, and unexpected opportunities—from charity galas to high-level business relationships—all without being salesy or aggressive. If you've ever struggled with call reluctance, felt awkward following up, or wondered how to grow without burning out on cold outreach, this episode is a masterclass in value-first selling.     Episode Highlights Billy's transition from teaching to real estate and entrepreneurship Why real estate (and sales) is one of the most saturated markets How helping local businesses became Billy's competitive advantage The power of warm marketing vs. cold outreach Why giving without expectation creates long-term leverage Creating video commercials with nothing but a phone, mic, and tripod Using podcasts and interviews to build real relationships Turning local business owners into referral partners How community trust compounds over time Why most people burn out trying to "give" without focus A simple system to get contacts into your CRM in as little as five days Overcoming camera shyness and call reluctance Asking better questions instead of pitching Leveraging YouTube, social media, email, DMs, and text messages Why sharing community content boosts email open rates Niching down to beat big-box competitors How value-based follow-up eliminates the fear of "bothering people" Reframing fear: "They need me" Future-framing ROI for business owners' time Turning one video into multiple pieces of content Why consistency beats perfection in marketing     Key Takeaways Warm marketing beats cold outreach when done intentionally. Helping first builds trust faster than selling first. Community is an unfair advantage. Local relationships compound in ways cold leads never will. You don't need expensive gear to start. A phone, a mic, and a tripod are enough to build authority. Value-first follow-up eliminates sales resistance. People welcome messages that help them, not pitch them. Camera shyness is a competitive edge—for those who push past it. Most won't do it, which means you should. Focus prevents burnout. Giving without intention leads to frustration; systems create results. Sales fear disappears when your motive is service. When you believe you're helping, confidence follows. Content multiplies relationships. One video can create visibility across platforms for weeks. Warm marketing shortens trust-building time. Borrowed credibility accelerates buying decisions. Strong communities create strong businesses. When local businesses win, everyone wins.     Connect with Billy 🌐 Website: https://www.livelocalmoremarketing.com 🎯 Free Resource: Five-Day Warm Marketing Challenge 📚 Content: Blog, LinkedIn, and training resources available on the site Billy helps sales professionals and business owners grow through community-based marketing that builds trust, authority, and long-term relationships—without cold calls or sleazy tactics.     🎯 Call to Action Call The Damn Leads "By sales professionals, for sales professionals - Tales of your wildest sales stories and tactics to succeed in your sales career across various industries." Join Drewbie Wilson, a sales veteran with over 20 years of experience, as he brings you insider stories, humor, and actionable strategies to excel in your sales journey. Your weekly dose of: Wild Sales Stories: Engaging tales of real-life sales adventures. Proven Tactics: Actionable strategies to boost your sales game. Humor: A fun and energetic perspective on the world of sales. Expert Insights: Learn from seasoned professionals in various industries. Don't miss out on the insights, humor, and strategies that can take your sales career to new heights! Sales professionals, entrepreneurs, and small business owners striving to enhance their sales, marketing, and personal growth to achieve financial success and time freedom. If you'd like to be a guest on our show, please leave your contact information and a brief message sharing what makes your story worth hearing: https://callthedamnleads.com/pages/podcast Follow Drewbie: https://www.facebook.com/drewbierides Follow Call The Damn Leads: https://www.instagram.com/callthedamnleads

    22 min
  6. FEB 26

    Episode 146 – Process Beats Talent: Why Sales Execution Wins with Jonny Holsten

    In Episode 146, Drewbie sits down with Jonny Holsten, founder of Bridge Selling, to break down one of the most misunderstood truths in sales: great results don't always come from great conversations—they come from great execution. Jonny shares a wild sales story about a "terrible-on-the-phone" rep who shattered company records by hiring a full-time assistant out of his own pocket to handle follow-ups. The story opens the door to a deeper conversation about follow-up, permission-based selling, sales process, and why most reps unknowingly create more work for themselves by skipping fundamentals. From the missing metric in sales execution, to the critical connection between marketing and sales messaging, to why AI won't replace real human conversations anytime soon—this episode is a masterclass in how sales professionals and leaders can shorten sales cycles, increase close rates, and eliminate wasted effort. If you've ever felt busy but not productive, confident dialing but unsure what to do once someone says "yes," or frustrated with inconsistent results, this episode will hit home.     Episode Highlights A record-breaking sales rep who hired his own assistant to handle follow-up Why follow-up works—but shouldn't replace proper call execution The danger of not asking for next steps on sales calls Permission-based sales vs. one-call-close mentality How Jonny transitioned from marketing messaging to sales execution coaching The critical bridge between marketing and sales conversations Why most companies don't actually define what a "good sales call" is The missing metric: scoring sales execution, not just outcomes Why 68% of sales reps go into calls with no plan How process builds confidence and eliminates call reluctance AI in sales: powerful tool or overhyped distraction? Why human conversations will matter more—not less—in the AI era     Key Takeaways Fortune is in the follow-up—but execution comes first. If you don't ask for next steps, you're creating unnecessary work. Sales isn't one-size-fits-all—process creates consistency. Marketing and sales must speak the same language to win. Most "bad leads" are actually mishandled conversations. Define what must happen on every sales call. Confidence comes from knowing exactly what to do when someone says "yes." Shorter sales cycles come from better qualification, not more calls. AI should reduce admin—not replace human connection. The reps who master execution will dominate the next decade of sales.     Connect with Jonny 🌐 Website: BridgeSelling.com 🔗 LinkedIn: Jonny Holsten (Jonny with no "H") Jonny helps sales teams and leaders tighten execution, align marketing and sales messaging, and build repeatable, scalable sales processes that actually work.   🎯 Call to Action Call The Damn Leads "By sales professionals, for sales professionals - Tales of your wildest sales stories and tactics to succeed in your sales career across various industries." Join Drewbie Wilson, a sales veteran with over 20 years of experience, as he brings you insider stories, humor, and actionable strategies to excel in your sales journey. Your weekly dose of: Wild Sales Stories: Engaging tales of real-life sales adventures. Proven Tactics: Actionable strategies to boost your sales game. Humor: A fun and energetic perspective on the world of sales. Expert Insights: Learn from seasoned professionals in various industries. Don't miss out on the insights, humor, and strategies that can take your sales career to new heights! Sales professionals, entrepreneurs, and small business owners striving to enhance their sales, marketing, and personal growth to achieve financial success and time freedom. If you'd like to be a guest on our show, please leave your contact information and a brief message sharing what makes your story worth hearing: https://callthedamnleads.com/pages/podcast Follow Drewbie: https://www.facebook.com/drewbierides Follow Call The Damn Leads: https://www.instagram.com/callthedamnleads

    23 min
  7. FEB 24

    Episode 145 – Selling Creativity, Trust, and Process with Alex Gore

    In Episode 145, Drewbie sits down with Alex Gore—architect, entrepreneur, and co-founder of F9 Productions—to explore what sales really looks like in creative, high-stakes industries where trust, timing, and process matter more than pressure. Alex shares one of his craziest sales stories involving a skeptical client who didn't believe his firm could deliver—until Alex flipped the script and put the entire relationship on the line with a bold, confidence-driven offer. That single decision turned into one of the most successful projects his firm has ever completed. From architecture and construction to business-to-business sales, this episode breaks down why pushing harder doesn't always close deals, why follow-up beats force, and how selling the process—not just the outcome—is often the key to winning complex, high-ticket clients. If you sell to busy decision-makers, creatives, business owners, or anyone who needs to trust you before they buy, this episode will change how you approach sales conversations.     Episode Highlights Alex's wild sales story involving a skeptical modern-home client How removing risk can instantly increase trust Why creatives don't think of themselves as salespeople (but must be) The hidden danger of relying only on word-of-mouth How Alex and his partner learned sales by attending meetings together Why timing—not rejection—kills most deals The biggest mistake B2B sellers make with follow-up Selling to busy owners who don't respond right away Why pushing too hard can permanently kill relationships Permission-based sales and long-term relationship building Understanding the real problem your client is trying to solve Why different clients need completely different sales conversations The power of demonstrating solutions instead of just explaining them Visual, auditory, emotional, and logical decision-makers in sales Why complex problems must be sold as a process, not a promise The "Ferrari engine in a Bronco" analogy for unrealistic expectations Why luxury always has a cost—and shortcuts don't exist Current architectural trends clients keep asking for     Key Takeaways Trust closes deals faster than pressure. Removing risk can outperform aggressive closing tactics. Creatives are in sales—whether they admit it or not. You can't do creative work without selling it first. Timing matters more than talent. A "no" today is often just the wrong moment—not rejection. Follow-up is a competitive advantage. Most sellers lose simply because they stop too early. Sales is about solving their problem—not yours. Clients don't always know how to articulate what they truly need. Different problems require different messaging. Selling a forever home is not the same as selling speed or compliance. Demonstration beats explanation. Showing how you solve problems builds certainty faster than words. People decide differently. Visual, emotional, logical, and auditory buyers all need different approaches. You're often selling the process—not the outcome. Complex results require trust in how you'll get there. Luxury and affordability rarely coexist without compromise. If it were easy, everyone would already be doing it.     Connect with Alex 🏗️ Architecture & Projects: Find F9 Productions on LinkedIn 📈 Coaching for Architects & Engineering Firm Owners: 🌐 https://f9productions.com/ Alex helps firm owners increase profitability while reducing the time and chaos required to run their businesses.     🎯 Call to Action Call The Damn Leads "By sales professionals, for sales professionals – Tales of your wildest sales stories and tactics to succeed in your sales career across various industries." Join Drewbie Wilson, a sales veteran with over 20 years of experience, as he brings real stories, real strategies, and real conversations about what it actually takes to win in sales. Your weekly dose of: Wild Sales Stories Proven Sales Tactics Real-World Lessons Humor & Perspective Expert Insights Across Industries If you enjoyed this episode, share it with someone who's great at what they do—but struggles to sell it. 🎙️ Want to be a guest? Submit your story here: https://callthedamnleads.com/pages/podcast 📲 Follow Drewbie: https://www.facebook.com/drewbierides 📸 Follow Call The Damn Leads: https://www.instagram.com/callthedamnleads And remember— 📞 Pick up the phone. Call the damn leads.

    22 min
  8. FEB 19

    Episode 144 – Rejection, Resilience, and Real Estate Mastery | Joel Friedland

    In Episode 144, Drewbie sits down with Joel Friedland, a 44-year veteran of industrial real estate who built his career the hard way—door by door, conversation by conversation, rejection after rejection. Joel shares how he got started at just 22 years old during a brutal recession, learned directly from a legendary mentor, and went on to personally knock on thousands of doors across more than 16,000 industrial buildings in the Chicago area. Along the way, he faced extreme rejection—including being physically thrown out of a building—but never stopped showing up. This episode is a powerful reminder that success in sales and investing isn't about shortcuts—it's about reps, consistency, leverage, and long-term thinking. Joel also dives into how he trains interns, builds leaders, invests wisely, and even celebrates big wins through an unexpected passion: gardening. If you're struggling with rejection, prospecting fatigue, or figuring out how to turn sales income into lasting wealth, this conversation will reframe how you look at the grind.     Episode Highlights How Joel landed his first real estate job during a recession with 17% interest rates Why door-to-door cold calling became the foundation of his 44-year career The infamous story of being physically thrown out of a building early on Why rejection loses its power after enough reps How Joel has knocked on every industrial building in Chicago—multiple times Leveraging interns to scale prospecting without losing quality How Joel mentors young salespeople through real-world exposure Role-playing, live field training, and weekly feedback systems Turning intern-found leads into real property acquisitions How syndication works and how investors participate in deals Why not every "no" is permanent The importance of forgiveness and emotional detachment in sales Why numbers never lie—and why consistency always wins Celebrating deals through gardening and long-term growth metaphors The surprising parallel between planting and prospecting Simple, timeless advice on diversification and protecting your earnings     Key Takeaways 1. Rejection is part of the process—not a verdict. Getting rejected thousands of times doesn't mean you're failing; it means you're doing the work. 2. Reps create mastery. Expertise comes from repetition. Joel's success is built on decades of consistent action. 3. Leverage multiplies results. Training interns allowed Joel to scale his prospecting while creating future leaders. 4. Not every "no" is permanent. People who rejected you once often don't even remember it later—show up again. 5. Sales skills compound over time. Cold calling today can lead to ownership, investments, and generational wealth tomorrow. 6. Mentorship accelerates growth. Joel's career was shaped by learning directly from someone who had already succeeded. 7. Celebrate wins in ways that align with your values. Success doesn't have to look flashy—meaningful rewards create lasting fulfillment. 8. Sales and investing follow the same rules. Plant the seeds, nurture them consistently, and give them time to grow. 9. Diversification protects what you've earned. Never risk everything on one deal—spread exposure to reduce downside risk. 10. Simple systems outperform shortcuts. Long-term success is built on fundamentals done well, not gimmicks.     Connect with Joel 🔗 Website: https://britproperties.com 🏢 Focus: Industrial real estate investing & property acquisition 📍 Market: Chicago & surrounding areas     📣 Call to Action 🎙️ Call The Damn Leads "By sales professionals, for sales professionals." Each week, Drewbie Wilson—sales vet with 20+ years in the game—brings you real stories, proven strategies, and no-BS conversations to help you win in sales and business. Expect a wild mix of: Real Sales Stories – entertaining, raw, and honest Proven Tactics – fundamentals that actually work Humor & Energy – because sales life is a rollercoaster Expert Advice – from people who've lived it 👉 Want to be a guest? Pitch your story here: https://callthedamnleads.com/pages/podcast     Follow Drewbie 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drewbierides 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/callthedamnleads

    23 min
4.8
out of 5
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WELCOME TO "CALL THE DAMN LEADS" "By sales professionals, for sales professionals - Tales of your wildest sales stories and tactics to succeed in your sales career across various industries." Join Drewbie Wilson, a sales veteran with over 20 years of experience, as he brings you insider stories, humor, and actionable strategies to excel in your sales journey. Sales professionals, entrepreneurs, and small business owners striving to enhance their sales, marketing, and personal growth to achieve financial success and time freedom. Wild Sales Stories: Engaging tales of real-life sales adventures. Proven Tactics: Actionable strategies to boost your sales game. Humor: A fun and energetic perspective on the world of sales. Expert Insights: Learn from seasoned professionals in various industries. Podcast Format: Your Host, Drewbie Wilson: With over $15 million in online sales, Drewbie's vast experience spans multiple industries. His journey from a 300-pound weight loss to becoming a sales powerhouse has shaped his perspective on life and success. Get Ready to Crush It in Sales! Ready to dive into the world of sales like never before? Join Drewbie Wilson and his incredible lineup of guests on "Call The Damn Leads." Don't miss out on the insights, humor, and strategies that can take your sales career to new heights.

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