Out of the Blue - The Podcast: Finding the Way Forward

Vernon West

Out of the Blue-the Podcast features interviews with inspirational survivors of traumatic out of the blue events who have overcome unimaginable challenges, sharing their stories of resilience and triumph. By sharing these stories, "Out of the Blue" aims to create a community where others who have faced similar hardships can find solace and strength as together, we find the way forward.

  1. 12/22/2025

    Healing Grandparent Alienation Through Surrogate Bonds with Donna Skora

    On the day her grandson was born, Donna Skora received a single text message that would end all contact and bring years of quiet grief. From that rupture, Donna created Surrogate Grandparents USA, a nationwide community where elders and families build trusted, intergenerational bonds.  We unpack the human cost of grandparent alienation, why silence teaches the wrong lessons to kids, and how control, fear, and cultural trends toward isolation fuel a growing estrangement crisis. Donna shares why one-sided therapy narratives can harden divides and what real repair looks like when conversations stall. Then we pivot to solutions – you’ll hear exactly how Surrogate Grandparents USA works: clear guidelines, safety practices, background checks, slow trust building, and a welcoming private community that supports long-term, healthy connections. Two powerful success stories bring the model to life: a 140-mile bond sustained by steady visits, holidays, and everyday texts; and a nine-year family journey that wove babysitting, sleepovers, and celebrations into the fabric of daily life. Along the way, we explore broader inclusion – parents who want more nearby support, grandparents with room for more love, and young adults who have aged out of foster care searching for stable, caring adults. The takeaway is hopeful: when biology breaks down, community can still carry love forward. Surrogate Grandparents - USA: https://www.facebook.com/groups/SurrogateGrandparentsNorthAmerica https://www.instagram.com/surrogate_gp_usa Support the show Support the show Out Of The Blue: For more: outoftheblue-thepodcast.org For exclusive content: patreon.com/podcastOOTB

    48 min
  2. 12/11/2025

    How Hitting Bottom Became a Calling with Dr. Nicole Labor

    Give up medicine, stay a junkie. A freeing thought followed by the shock of conscience changed everything for Dr. Nicole Labor. Nicole takes us inside the real mechanics of addiction and recovery, from the double life of a high-achieving medical student using drugs to the slow, steady rebuild that turned a bottom into a calling. Together we walk through the moments most people skip: how unprocessed trauma and genetic risk met early alcohol use, why “high functioning” is a seductive lie, and what happens when detox alone can’t hold. Nicole shares the relief and terror of telling the truth, the humility of relapsing, and the surprising force of a sponsor’s simple authenticity. We unpack the “cake recipe” for the 12 steps, which include "ingredients" like honesty, open-mindedness, and willingness, plus the coaching role a sponsor plays to turn process into lasting change. Then we widen the lens: Codependency, Al-Anon, and the “three Cs” reframe control and boundaries for anyone caught in someone else’s chaos. We also explore the neuroscience of recovery. Nicole’s journey comes full circle as she returns to the historic home of Dr. Bob Smith, now writing protocols, educating communities, and translating hard-won wisdom into clear, evidence-based care. For more on Dr. Nicole Labor: https://linktr.ee/theaddictsdoc https://www.theaddictsdoc.com Support the show Out Of The Blue: For more: outoftheblue-thepodcast.org For exclusive content: patreon.com/podcastOOTB

    48 min
  3. 11/11/2025

    Instinct and Inspiration Behind Music with Sal Baglio

    A song can change a life, and sometimes it waits decades to do it. Sal Baglio, the lead vocalist and guitarist behind Boston legends The Stompers, traces his creative path shaped by family, grief, grit, and a Hollywood surprise that rewired his future. Sal opens up about the way songs “hover” before landing, why he never writes by formula, and how honoring the mystery keeps the music honest. He shows how instinct, not industry, has always been his compass. The conversation opens up further as Sal shares his battle with depression, the toll of medication, and the season he quit performing to work in addiction recovery. Out of nowhere a call from Hollywood changed everything: Adam Sandler wanted to put his song “American Fun” in a movie. That out-of-the-blue sync revived his sense of purpose. The episode also talks about community and competition in the Boston music scene – how bands sharpened each other, how humility grows with time, and why being a “good hang” matters as much as chops. Sal tells hard-won stories of opening for giants, getting booed by the wrong crowd, and returning stronger. The most moving moment arrives with his mother’s final days: a mutual exchange of forgiveness that closes the circle. It’s a reminder that music isn’t just performance; it’s presence. For more on Sal: https://theamplifierheads.com Support the show Out Of The Blue: For more: outoftheblue-thepodcast.org For exclusive content: patreon.com/podcastOOTB

    52 min

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Out of the Blue-the Podcast features interviews with inspirational survivors of traumatic out of the blue events who have overcome unimaginable challenges, sharing their stories of resilience and triumph. By sharing these stories, "Out of the Blue" aims to create a community where others who have faced similar hardships can find solace and strength as together, we find the way forward.

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