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Dana Kadwell

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  1. 3d ago

    Quick Chat: Respecting the Foundation: When to Preserve, When to Rebuild

    In this Quick Chat, Dana Kadwell reflects on her conversation with Ian Ramirez of Madera Estates and explores the complexities of stepping into a business someone else built, making your own mark, and letting go when someone takes a business in a new direction. Drawing from her experiences with The Graham Mill, McAlister-Leftwich, and The Bradford, Dana shares what she has learned about understanding a business's existing foundation before making changes, knowing when to rebuild systems, and recognizing that what worked in one business may not work in another. She also explores the emotional side of letting go, particularly for founders who have poured years of work into building something of their own. Sometimes, watching someone else change what you created can feel like being erased. But a different approach doesn't necessarily mean a lack of respect for what came before. The question is whether the foundation is still strong enough to support what comes next. In this Quick Chat, Dana discusses growth, ownership, and the importance of knowing when to preserve what exists and when to build something new. Thank you to our amazing sponsors! Aisle PlannerWedding Pro Brite Biz Lead Lock Releventful Event Guard VenueX AIInterested in learning more about The Venue Masterclass? Join us February 21-24 in Tampa, Florida. Learn more here: https://www.thevenuemasterclass.com Follow my new ventures:https://mcalisterleftwich.com/https://thegrahammill.com/

    Quick Chat: Respecting the Foundation: When to Preserve, When to Rebuild
  2. Oct 7

    Quick Chat: Keep Learning, Keep Growing

    In this Quick Chat, Dana revisits her recent conversation with Ian Ramirez of Madera Estates and his simple but powerful advice for venue owners: don’t be complacent. Dana explores what complacency can look like in business, from stopping your education and losing sight of industry trends to becoming too comfortable with the way things have always been done. She shares how joining NACE, building community, and actively seeking education helped her see beyond her own market and ultimately changed the way she approached growth and leadership. But complacency doesn’t only affect businesses. Dana digs into how it can show up in marriages, friendships, and relationships with employees, particularly when we stop taking the time to learn who people are as they grow and change. The goal isn’t to constantly chase the next shiny object or make changes for the sake of change. It’s about staying curious, gathering information, asking better questions, and knowing when it’s time to act. Because businesses plateau, relationships experience friction, and growth stalls when we stop paying attention. Thank you to our amazing sponsors! Aisle PlannerWedding Pro Brite Biz Lead Lock Releventful Event Guard VenueX AIInterested in learning more about The Venue Masterclass? Join us February 21-24 in Tampa, Florida. Learn more here: https://www.thevenuemasterclass.com Follow my new ventures:https://mcalisterleftwich.com/https://thegrahammill.com/

    Quick Chat: Keep Learning, Keep Growing
  3. Sep 30

    Family, Business & the Lines in Between: Origin Story with Ian Ramirez

    Family, Business & the Lines in Between: Origin Story with Ian Ramirez  Dana Kadwell sits down with Ian Ramirez, CSEP, co-owner of Madera Estates, venue coach, sales specialist, and wedding industry speaker, for a candid conversation about what it really takes to build a family-run venue business. Ian shares his unexpected journey from professional opera singer to venue owner, how he transitioned from employee to co-owner of the family business, and what he learned navigating succession, shifting roles, and the complicated dynamics that come with working alongside parents and spouses. They get into the hard stuff: how ownership and operating a business are not the same thing, why equal equity doesn't necessarily mean equal workload, how to establish clear roles and decision-making authority, what happens when business partners have completely different visions for the future, and why regular goal-setting and honest conversations can keep resentment from quietly taking over. Ian also shares what made bringing his husband into the business work, the importance of hiring family members for their actual skill set rather than simply creating a job for them, and the one thing he believes every venue owner needs to avoid: complacency. And, naturally, Dana asks for the craziest wedding story he's ever seen. The answer involves a wedding-day package, a groom, a mistress, printed photographs, and a filing cabinet. You really can't make this stuff up. In this episode: Ian's journey from opera singer to legacy venue ownerNavigating succession in a family businessMoving from employee to ownerWhat happens when business partners have different goalsBringing your spouse into the family businessIan's wildest wedding-day storyListen in for an honest conversation about building a business that can last without letting the business consume the relationships that matter most. Thank you to our amazing sponsors! Aisle PlannerWedding Pro Brite Biz Lead Lock Releventful Event Guard VenueX AIInterested in learning more about The Venue Masterclass? Join us February 21-24 in Tampa, Florida. Learn more here: https://www.thevenuemasterclass.com Follow my new ventures:https://mcalisterleftwich.com/https://thegrahammill.com/

    Family, Business & the Lines in Between: Origin Story with Ian Ramirez
  4. Sep 16

    The Venue Masterclass: The New Wedding Buyer: Trust, Transparency & Better Leads

    Wedding vendors are losing leads for a reason that has nothing to do with talent: buyers don’t trust the process anymore. Adrienna McDermott breaks down the three website and marketing fixes that help venues and other wedding pros stand out in a crowded, skeptical market—and they’re simpler than you think. Adrienna, founder of Ava and the Bee, has 16+ years in the wedding industry as a former bridal boutique owner, planner, and florist. She now uses that insider experience, plus daily research in Reddit, Facebook groups, and Discord, to spot what couples are actually saying before most vendors ever hear it.You’ll discover: Why your website must instantly answer what you do, where you’re located, and whether you’re the right fitHow to explain your process without overwhelming people with too much detail or leaving them guessingWhy transparency around pricing, add-ons, and “how this works” is the fastest way to reduce ghostingHow to use testimonials, FAQs, and simple language to build trust with couples and their parentsWhy the industry is in a “trust recession” and what that means for bookings right now We also dig into the shift in buyer behavior, from longer decision cycles to last-minute fall inquiries, and why the old “book fast or lose your date” pressure no longer works the way it used to. Adrienna shares practical examples for venues, including how to position smaller spaces, micro-wedding packages, and bundled add-ons so you attract better-qualified leads instead of everyone.If you’re a venue owner or wedding pro feeling the slowdown, this conversation gives you a clearer path forward: simplify your message, make the next step obvious, and let your best reviews do more of the selling. Essential listening if you want more trust, better inquiries, and less friction in the booking process. Thank you to our amazing sponsors! Aisle PlannerWedding Pro Brite Biz Lead Lock Releventful Event Guard VenueX AIInterested in learning more about The Venue Masterclass? Join us February 21-24 in Tampa, Florida. Learn more here: https://www.thevenuemasterclass.com Follow my new ventures:https://mcalisterleftwich.com/https://thegrahammill.com/

  5. Jul 15

    The Venue Masterclass: Be Everywhere - The Paid Ads Strategy That Actually Books

    Two leads a week to multiple leads a day — that's the shift paid advertising made for one of Dana's own venues, and it's why she brought in Mark Chapman, the wedding industry's go-to expert on paid ads, to break down what's actually working right now. Mark built his agency after cracking Google Ads for his family's wedding photography business back in 2010. Today his team manages $30 million a year in ad spend for wedding businesses across the country. In this episode, he and Dana get into: Why couples need to see you in multiple places multiple times before they ever fill out an inquiry form — and why boosting a single Instagram post won't cut itHow to budget for ads when cash flow is tight (and why "saving up three months" beats throwing $200 at Google and giving up)Why referrals and paid ads amplify each other instead of competingThe privacy settings quietly messing with your conversion trackingMark's blunt advice for venue owners terrified of getting on camera Plus: Mark's biggest agency win — helping a couple book weddings on a piece of raw land before their venue even existed. Follow along at @McAlisterLeftwich and @TheGrahamMill, and for more from Hustle & Gather, the Venue Masterclass, and our mastermind group, follow @HustleAndGather. For episode updates, follow @GatheredHerePodcast. Thank you to our amazing sponsors! Aisle PlannerWedding Pro Brite Biz Lead Lock Releventful Event Guard VenueX AIInterested in learning more about The Venue Masterclass? Join us February 21-24 in Tampa, Florida. Learn more here: https://www.thevenuemasterclass.com Follow my new ventures:https://mcalisterleftwich.com/https://thegrahammill.com/

    The Venue Masterclass: Be Everywhere - The Paid Ads Strategy That Actually Books
  6. Jul 8

    Origins: "We're All Mad Here": Why You're Never Ready

    Jonathan Aymin started with one San Diego wedding venue and grew CSE into a multi-state venue management company that's now been part of over 6,500 events. He's also the founder of WEVA, the first national wedding and event venue association, host of the VenueRx podcast, and — as of this year — a father of seven. In this episode, Dana and Jonathan get into the messy reality behind the growth: taking on venues with existing contracts and no playbook, going years without an owner's paycheck, and learning to lead a team through chaos without losing your own emotional footing. They talk about the difference between following your passion and following what you're actually good at and can build a business around, why patience is a skill you have to practice on purpose, and how "growing before you're ready" applies as much to kids as it does to venues. Also covered: the loneliness epidemic and why events are the last frontier for real connection, why social media stopped being a connection tool and became TV, the discipline of saying no to good opportunities so you can say yes to the right ones, and why timeline expectations should shift as your team grows. **In this episode:** - Jonathan's path from college party-throwing to staffing to venue ownership- Why "connection" became CSE's core purpose- The chaos of onboarding venues faster than the team was ready for- Owner pay vs. management pay — and why Dana's first distribution didn't come for six years- Using opportunity cost to filter which opportunities are worth the sacrifice- Compartmentalizing family time and work time instead of doing both badly at once- Why a wrong decision beats an unmade one Thank you to our amazing sponsors! Aisle PlannerWedding Pro Brite Biz Lead Lock Releventful Event Guard VenueX AIInterested in learning more about The Venue Masterclass? Join us February 21-24 in Tampa, Florida. Learn more here! Follow my new ventures:https://mcalisterleftwich.com/https://thegrahammill.com/

    Origins: "We're All Mad Here": Why You're Never Ready

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