Healing Betrayed Families

Morgan Ellsworth

Healing Betrayed Families explores how families can recover, rebuild, and strengthen after betrayal. Hosted by Morgan Ellsworth, LAMFT, BCC, CCPS-A, CPC, this podcast offers trauma-informed conversations rooted in both personal and professional insights. Each episode provides practical tools, compassionate insights, and conversations that illuminate what healing looks like for partners, parents, and children impacted by betrayal. Whether you are a betrayed partner, a family member trying to understand, or a professional supporting families, this podcast exists to support you in your journey.

  1. 6h ago

    Episode 22: ADHD and Betrayal in Families with Monifa Ellis-Addie

    In this episode of Healing Betrayed Families, host Morgan Ellsworth sits down with Hali Roderick and Monifa Ellis-Addie to explore how ADHD shows up across every part of the betrayal trauma family system–from the person with problematic sexual behaviors, to the betrayed partner, to the children caught in the middle.  These three discuss what standard betrayal trauma treatment gets wrong when ADHD isn’t factored in, and what it looks like for a family to truly heal when both ADHD and betrayal trauma are part of the picture. This episode emphasizes that healing requires more than insight alone—it requires repeated, embodied experiences of safety. Healing Betrayed Families is designed to support betrayed partners, parents, children, and professionals seeking language, understanding, and a compassionate path forward after relational rupture. Check out Monifa’s website: Banyan Therapy Group  Check out Monifa’s podcast: Hope & Healing Chats Check out Monifa’s Instagram: @intimateanswers Check out Hali’s podcasts: Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal & Rooted and Rising Healing After Betrayal Complete the interest list for the Becoming Together: Mother-Daughter Retreat About the Host Morgan Ellsworth is a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (LAMFT) and Board Certified Coach (BCC) with advanced training in trauma-informed care. She is certified through APSATS as a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Associate (CCPS-A) and Certified Partner Coach (CPC) and works with individuals and families impacted by betrayal trauma. Connect with Morgan @Healing.betrayed.families on Instagram or email her directly at morgan.ellsworth98@gmail.com Visit Morgan’s coaching website For those looking for therapeutic support in Arizona, connect with Morgan at her private practice, Ellsworth Family Therapy Thank you for listening to Healing Betrayed Families.

    41 min
  2. Jun 8

    Episode 21: What Your Child is Really Asking For (Hint: it’s not a lecture!)

    In this episode of Healing Betrayed Families, host Morgan Ellsworth discusses how to navigate difficult conversations with your children. When a question from your child catches you off-guard, there are tools you can use to make sure the child is heard, empathized with, and that their question is answered. Drawing from trauma-informed family systems care, Morgan explains what your child is really asking for when they come to you with difficult questions. This episode emphasizes that you do not need to be a perfect parent, but that meeting your child where they’re at, while not compromising your own health, will lead to the best outcome. Healing Betrayed Families is designed to support betrayed partners, parents, children, and professionals seeking language, understanding, and a compassionate path forward after relational rupture. Complete the interest list for the Becoming Together: Mother-Daughter Retreat About the Host Morgan Ellsworth is a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (LAMFT) and Board Certified Coach (BCC) with advanced training in trauma-informed care. She is certified through APSATS as a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Associate (CCPS-A) and Certified Partner Coach (CPC) and works with individuals and families impacted by betrayal trauma. Connect with Morgan @Healing.betrayed.families on Instagram or email her directly at morgan.ellsworth98@gmail.com Visit Morgan’s coaching website For those looking for therapeutic support in Arizona, connect with Morgan at her private practice, Ellsworth Family Therapy Thank you for listening to Healing Betrayed Families.

    14 min
  3. Episode 20: Your Kids Feel It Too: The Truth About Betrayal Trauma in Families - with Amie Woolsey

    Jun 1

    Episode 20: Your Kids Feel It Too: The Truth About Betrayal Trauma in Families - with Amie Woolsey

    In this conversation, Morgan is speaking with Amie Woolsey to discuss the often-overlooked impact of betrayal trauma on teens, young adults, and the entire family system. This episode was previously posted on Amie’s podcast “Choose to Be” as part of their series on supporting children through betrayal. In the conversation, Morgan shares both personal and professional insight as someone who experienced betrayal trauma as a teenager and now specializes in helping betrayed families heal through trauma-informed, family-centered care. Together, they explore how children internalize relational rupture, why many trauma responses in teens are misunderstood, and the importance of giving kids language for their experience without overwhelming them with details. They also discuss emotional regulation, family culture, co-regulation versus punishment, and the delicate balance between protecting children and allowing them space to process their own healing journey. This episode is an important reminder that betrayal trauma does not stay contained within the couple relationship. Children are deeply impacted too and healing becomes possible when families create space for honesty, emotional safety, validation, and repair. Read Amie’s Bio Listen to the “Choose to Be” podcast with Amie Woolsey and Alana Gordon Listen to Amie “Empowered Divorce” Podcast Complete the interest list for the Becoming Together: Mother-Daughter Retreat About the Host Morgan Ellsworth is a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (LAMFT) and Board Certified Coach (BCC) with advanced training in trauma-informed care. She is certified through APSATS as a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Associate (CCPS-A) and Certified Partner Coach (CPC) and works with individuals and families impacted by betrayal trauma. Connect with Morgan @Healing.betrayed.families on Instagram or email her directly at morgan.ellsworth98@gmail.com Visit Morgan’s coaching website For those looking for therapeutic support in Arizona, connect with Morgan at her private practice, Ellsworth Family Therapy Thank you for listening to Healing Betrayed Families.

    48 min
  4. May 25

    Episode 19: Foundations of DBT Part 4. Interpersonal Effectiveness: Strong Boundaries, Stronger Relationships

    Welcome to the final episode of the Healing Betrayed Families podcast's DBT Skills series! In this episode, Morgan dives into interpersonal effectiveness, a critical set of skills for enhancing communication and relationships. Morgan emphasizes that these skills play a vital role in healing and relational repair in betrayed families. Mastering interpersonal effectiveness can create safety and help each member of the family system navigate the turbulent relationships after betrayal. By practicing these DBT skills, you can create deeper connections while maintaining your self-respect and values. Thank you for joining us on this journey through the DBT series! Interpersonal Effectiveness Handout Complete the interest list for the Becoming Together: Mother-Daughter Retreat About the Host Morgan Ellsworth is a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (LAMFT) with advanced training in trauma-informed care. She is certified through APSATS as a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Associate (CCPS-A) and Certified Professional Coach (CPC) and works with individuals and families impacted by betrayal trauma. Connect with Morgan @Healing.betrayed.families on Instagram or email her directly at morgan.ellsworth98@gmail.com Visit Morgan’s coaching website For those looking for therapeutic support in Arizona, connect with Morgan at her private practice, Ellsworth Family Therapy Thank you for listening to Healing Betrayed Families.

    41 min
  5. May 21 ·  Bonus

    *BONUS EPISODE* You're invited: Becoming Together Mother-Daughter Retreat, with my mom, Hali Roderick and my sister, Mataia Robinson.

    What does it look like when a mother and daughter do the healing work together? In this special episode, I'm joined by my mom and my sister to pull back the curtain on the Becoming Together Mother-Daughter Retreat, an intimate gathering just outside Sedona, Arizona, designed for moms and daughters who are both actively doing their personal growth work and ready to bring it into their relationship. We talk about the heart behind this retreat, who it's truly for (and who it isn't), what makes it different from a conference or a girls' trip, and why the stunning off-the-grid location near Sedona, AZ is part of the healing itself. If you're a mother or daughter who feels the pull to go deeper in your relationship while honoring your own becoming — this episode is for you. If you're ready for a deeper connection with your daughter(s),⁠ ⁠complete this interest list⁠⁠ for more information about our upcoming retreat - Becoming Together: A Mother Daughter Retreat - hosted by myself and my two daughters near Sedona, Arizona on September 8 - 12th. Check out Mataia's Podcast: Good Day with Tay Check out Hali's Podcasts: Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal Rooted and Rising Healing After Betrayal About the Host Morgan Ellsworth is a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (LAMFT) with advanced training in trauma-informed care. She is certified through APSATS as a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Associate (CCPS-A) and Certified Professional Coach (CPC) and works with individuals and families impacted by betrayal trauma. Connect with Morgan @Healing.betrayed.families on Instagram or email her directly at morgan.ellsworth98@gmail.com Visit Morgan’s coaching website For those looking for therapeutic support in Arizona, connect with Morgan at her private practice, Ellsworth Family Therapy Thank you for listening to Healing Betrayed Families.

    34 min
  6. May 18

    Episode 18: Foundations of DBT Part Pt 3. Emotional Regulation: Taking Back Control of Your Emotions

    In this episode, we delve into emotional regulation, a crucial skill for everyone, especially those navigating betrayal trauma or recovery journeys. This episode serves as a foundational guide to understanding and managing emotions, making it ideal for both adults and children. Key Concepts: Understanding Emotions: Emotions provide valuable information about our experiences, similar to a car's dashboard. They signal when something is off and help us communicate with ourselves and others. The Importance of Emotional Regulation: Learning to identify, name, and manage emotions is essential for personal well-being and healthy relationships. Challenges in Regulation: Factors like biology, lack of education, and environmental reinforcement can complicate emotional regulation. Practical Skills: Feelings Wheel: Use this tool to identify and articulate your emotions. Understanding secondary and primary emotions can enhance self-awareness. Mindfulness Check-In: Regularly assess where you feel emotions in your body to create space between feelings and reactions. Model for Describing Emotions: Analyze emotions through a step-by-step process to understand their origins and impacts. Opposite Action: Identify the opposite of the emotion you’re feeling and create an actionable plan to invite in a more positive feeling. Takeaway Message: Emotional regulation is a skill that can be developed with practice. Everyone, especially those in betrayed families, can benefit from learning these techniques to improve their emotional awareness and relationships. Join us next week for the final episode in our DBT series, where we'll explore interpersonal relationships. Emotional Regulation Handout About the Host Morgan Ellsworth is a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (LAMFT) with advanced training in trauma-informed care. She is certified through APSATS as a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Associate (CCPS-A) and Certified Professional Coach (CPC) and works with individuals and families impacted by betrayal trauma. Connect with Morgan @Healing.betrayed.families on Instagram or email her directly at morgan.ellsworth98@gmail.com Visit her website Healing is not about rushing forgiveness or restoring appearances. It’s about restoring safety, agency, and dignity, one relationship at a time. Thank you for listening to Healing Betrayed Families.

    25 min
  7. May 11

    Episode 17: Foundations of DBT Part 2. Distress Tolerance: Surviving the Storm

    In this episode of Healing Betrayed Families, we dive into the crucial topic of distress tolerance as part of our ongoing DBT Skills series. Building on last week’s foundational episode on mindfulness, we explore practical skills for managing emotional pain and distress. If you haven't listened to the previous episode, we encourage you to pause and catch up for a comprehensive understanding. Key Concepts: Understanding Distress Tolerance: Learn how to cope with emotional pain by accepting your reality, thereby preventing distress from turning into suffering. SUDS Thermometer: We introduce the Subjective Units of Distress Scale (SUDS) to help you gauge your emotional state and identify when it’s time to take action. Recognizing Symptoms of Stress: Gain insights into physical, emotional, and behavioral signs of stress, emphasizing the importance of awareness and acknowledgment in your healing journey. Practical Skills: STOP Skill: A powerful acronym to help you pause, assess, and proceed mindfully in moments of distress. TIPP Skills: Techniques for quickly altering your emotional state through temperature changes, intense exercise, paced breathing, and progressive muscle relaxation. Radical Acceptance: Explore the concept of fully accepting your reality to regain control over your emotions and circumstances. Takeaway Message: This episode equips you with essential tools to navigate emotional distress effectively. Whether you’re experiencing trauma or relational challenges, the skills discussed aim to empower you in your healing journey. Join us next time as we continue our DBT series with a focus on emotional regulation, perfect for those looking to deepen their emotional awareness. Thank you for listening! Distress Tolerance Handout About the Host Morgan Ellsworth is a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (LAMFT) with advanced training in trauma-informed care. She is certified through APSATS as a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Associate (CCPS-A) and Certified Professional Coach (CPC) and works with individuals and families impacted by betrayal trauma. Connect with Morgan @Healing.betrayed.families on Instagram or email her directly at morgan.ellsworth98@gmail.com Visit her website Healing is not about rushing forgiveness or restoring appearances. It’s about restoring safety, agency, and dignity, one relationship at a time. Thank you for listening to Healing Betrayed Families.

    27 min

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Healing Betrayed Families explores how families can recover, rebuild, and strengthen after betrayal. Hosted by Morgan Ellsworth, LAMFT, BCC, CCPS-A, CPC, this podcast offers trauma-informed conversations rooted in both personal and professional insights. Each episode provides practical tools, compassionate insights, and conversations that illuminate what healing looks like for partners, parents, and children impacted by betrayal. Whether you are a betrayed partner, a family member trying to understand, or a professional supporting families, this podcast exists to support you in your journey.

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