Relative Chaos

Erin (Kelly) Banta, Megan Kelly, Cat Kelly, Clare Kelly & Emma Kelly
  • 5.0 (8)
  • Personal Journals

Relative Chaos is five sisters — spanning mid-20s to almost 40, single to mom of three, from CEO to still figuring it out — having the conversations that usually stay in the group chat. We talk about the stuff that matters and the stuff that absolutely does not — with the kind of honesty that only comes from people who've known you your entire life. Conversations about ambition, motherhood, relationships, the messy realities of adulting, what we're reading, what we're spiraling about, and the small unhinged moments that somehow turn into the best conversations. Some of it will make you think. Most of it will make you laugh. Everyone needs someone who will hype you up and keep you honest all in the same breath. That's what sisters are for. And if you don't have one, you can borrow ours. For all the moments, to be discussed.

Episodes

  1. Jun 1

    Birth Order, Brutal Rejuvenation & How Your Siblings Shape Who You Are

    All five sisters are in the chat for this one. We get into birth order, eldest daughter trauma (or lack thereof), and what growing up in a big family actually does to you — the roles you never asked for, the comparisons you couldn't avoid, and the siblings who shaped you before you even knew it was happening. Turns out the oldest got off easy, the middle child's therapist has notes, and the youngest has thoughts. Plus: relationship advice from the elders that actually worked and TBLs all around.

    1h 19m

  2. May 20

    Fixing Gravity, Body Image in the Instagram Era & the May Lineup We've Been Waiting For

    Fresh off a blepharoplasty (aka a bleph) and looking a little bit like Zorro, Erin arrives ready for a full show-and-tell. What starts as a reveal turns into a candid conversation about cosmetic procedures, body image, and whether Instagram has completely distorted the way we see ourselves. Clare finally tells the dog story — including Dad’s deal, the puppy that never came, and the negotiation tactic only an older sister could finagle. The May book lineup gets its moment, Clare’s LA trip is thoroughly dissected, and the shared-calendar phase of her relationship is officially confirmed. Plus: TBLs, side hustles, and an introvert identity crisis. All our TBLs: https://shopmy.us/relativechaos/shelves May Calendar: Rivals Season 2 — TV show on Hulu/Disney+, premiered May 15. Based on Jilly Cooper's Rutshire Chronicles.  Elsie Silver — Fever Dream — out May 19.  Annabelle Monaghan — Dolly All the Time — May 2026. R.S. Grey — Our Secret Summer — out May 5.

    1h 5m

  3. May 14

    Real Talk on Pregnancy, Birth, and Being a Mom

    Sisters on this Episode: Erin, Megan & Cat Cat has some exciting news that's going to make our family a little bit bigger. She comes in with every burning question a first-time mom has, and Erin and Megan keep it completely real. Delivery stories, postpartum depression, losing yourself a little and finding your way back — no glossing over the hard parts, but plenty of the things that actually help and the moments that remind you why it's all worth it. With six kids under eight between them, they have a lot to say and hold nothing back: the joy, the overwhelm, and everything you wish someone had told you going in. Plus all the things we're trying, buying and loving this week. Find them here Books Recs:  The Deal (Off-Campus Book 1)Expecting Better by Emily OsterMom's on Call

    1h 1m

  4. May 4

    What It Means to Be a Loving Critic, Adult Tantrums & the Thought Bubbles That Define Us

    Erin, Megan, Cat and Clare get into what it actually means to be a loving critic, and why the older you get, the fewer you have. When do you actually start feeling like an adult? (Spoiler: you don't.) Plus, we play the thought bubble game (three words that sum up each sister) and get into everything we're trying, buying, and loving this week.

    1h 7m

  5. Apr 28

    Adult Pro Max, Hibachi Gate and What Actually Makes a Marriage Work

    Sisters on this episode: Erin, Megan, Cat Erin comes back from vacation with a new concept to discuss — adult pro max. What does it actually mean to operate at the highest level of adulthood? How do you split that with a partner without losing your mind or your marriage? And what actually makes someone attractive in your 30s versus your 20s? Plus: what happens when your sister suggests hibachi for your 40th birthday, the inherent rizz of Harry Styles, and everything we're trying, buying, and loving.

    48 min

  6. Apr 28

    Welcome to Relative Chaos: Fairy Smut, a Situationship to Relationship & Brain Exercises Keeping Us Sane

    Erin, Megan and Clare chat hot takes on the Love Story show (skip if you’re over it!), Clare's new relationship (total PGOM!), manifesting and why every woman needs a partner who will "yuck it up" with her. Plus: a detour into fairy smut and our current obsessions

    42 min
  • 6 Episodes

Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
8 Ratings

About

Relative Chaos is five sisters — spanning mid-20s to almost 40, single to mom of three, from CEO to still figuring it out — having the conversations that usually stay in the group chat. We talk about the stuff that matters and the stuff that absolutely does not — with the kind of honesty that only comes from people who've known you your entire life. Conversations about ambition, motherhood, relationships, the messy realities of adulting, what we're reading, what we're spiraling about, and the small unhinged moments that somehow turn into the best conversations. Some of it will make you think. Most of it will make you laugh. Everyone needs someone who will hype you up and keep you honest all in the same breath. That's what sisters are for. And if you don't have one, you can borrow ours. For all the moments, to be discussed.

Information

  • Creator
    Erin (Kelly) Banta, Megan Kelly, Cat Kelly, Clare Kelly & Emma Kelly
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    6
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Relative Chaos
  • Show Website
    Relative Chaos

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