Order of Man

Ryan Michler
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We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you're ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.

  1. 2h ago

    What Men's Self-Care DOESN'T Look Like… | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler exposes the trap of "mental masturbation" and breaks down ten ways men deceive themselves into thinking they are engaged in self-care and personal development when they are actually stalling. From buying unused courses and hoarding unread books to hiding behind fitness routines and blaming past trauma, Ryan highlights how noble distractions prevent real growth.  Learn why true self-work requires action, accountability, and execution rather than endless planning or talking. Tune in to audit your habits, eliminate comfortable excuses, stop going at it alone, and build the frameworks and network needed to step up and become the man you were meant to be.    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction & Recapping Real Self-Care 02:10 - 1. Buying Courses You Never Use 02:55 - 2. Doom Scrolling & Social Media Traps 04:20 - 3. Waiting Until You're "Ready" 05:35 - 4. Blaming Others & Making Excuses 07:45 - 5. Going At It Alone 09:55 - 6. Collecting Books You Never Read 12:00 - 7. Chasing Bright & Shiny Objects 14:25 - 8. Talking More Than Doing 17:00 - 9. Hiding in the Gym or Office 18:55 - 10. Quitting When Things Get Hard 21:35 - Self-Assessment Exercise & Scoring 23:30 - Frameworks, Networks & The Iron Council   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

  2. 2d ago

    Protecting Without Steamrolling, Envy of Success, and Becoming a Grandfather | ASK ME ANYTHING

    In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss the value of taking action, embracing imperfection, and questioning the polished images presented on social media. They debate the promise of Elon Musk's flying car before answering listener questions about career opportunities, family priorities, firearm safety, purpose, screen time, and leadership. They also explore handling envy, rebuilding relationships with adult children, and navigating changing interests with teenage kids. Along the way, Ryan and Kipp share practical advice on setting boundaries, communicating honestly, and becoming more intentional as men, husbands, fathers, and leaders. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction: Opening 00:17 - Embracing Stress and Taking Action 04:48 - Why Being Real Matters More Than Being Perfect 07:50 - Elon Musk's Flying Car: Innovation or Showboating? 16:46 - Career Opportunities vs. Family Roots 26:00 - Firearms, Family Safety, and Marriage 30:14 - Restlessness, Ambition, and Finding Purpose 34:58 - Setting Boundaries With Your Phone 40:57 - Leading Difficult Parents in Youth Sports 46:28 - Envy, Success, and Personal Growth 53:25 - Becoming a Better Grandfather 56:54 - When Your Child Wants a Different Path 01:02:03 - The War Room: Brotherhood and Connection 01:04:34 - Closing Thoughts and Call to Action   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

  3. 3d ago

    ANDY STUMPF | A Quiet Professional's Guide to Chaos

    Every man will eventually find himself in water over his head. A business that's sinking, a marriage that's struggling, a season of life where you can't see the shore. Most men panic. They thrash around, burn through their energy, and make emotional decisions they regret for years. The men who make it through aren't stronger or more talented. They stay calm, focus on what they can control, and take the next breath. My guest today, former Navy SEAL Andy Stumpf, knows this better than anyone. We talk about the drownproofing evolution at BUD/S and what it really teaches, why you should have emotional responses but never make emotional decisions, and the "chunking" approach he says is the most useful tool he's ever had. We also get into why most guys who quit regret it for decades, the difference between being a quiet professional and a silent one, why telling the truth is always enough, and what real wealth looks like once you stop chasing more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction & Catching Up 01:10 Master Jiu-Jitsu Competitions & Mindset 02:50 The Reality of Jiu-Jitsu Culture 04:15 Demystifying the BUD/S Drownproofing Test 07:15 Emotional Control in Real-World Situations 09:15 Practical Stoicism and Objectivity 12:00 Leveraging Time to Prevent Emotional Decisions 14:15 Technology Usage and Healthy Digital Boundaries 17:00 Gen-Z and Connectivity Fatigue 19:40 The Quiet Professional vs. Silent Professional 21:30 The Importance of Absolute Truth and Integrity 24:00 Taking Personal Ownership vs. Making Excuses 26:50 The Chunking Strategy for Achieving Goals 33:00 Daily Writing Discipline for Drownproof 35:00 Navigating Regret, Failure, and Pivoting 38:30 Talent vs. Relentless Work Ethic 40:25 Mindset for Survival and Overuse Injuries 43:40 Transitioning Out of Military Service & Identity 46:15 Exploring Aviation and Unforeseen Opportunities 49:30 Authentic Relationships vs. Strategic Networking 51:20 Guarding Your Inner Circle 54:00 Snowboarding, Flying, and Lifelong Learning 55:35 The Surprising Origin of Writing Drownproof 57:40 Measuring Impact Beyond Money 59:45 Redefining Wealth and Financial Freedom   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    ANDY STUMPF | A Quiet Professional's Guide to Chaos

  4. Oct 16

    What Self-Care for Men Actually Looks Like | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler confronts the growing cultural hostility toward men and dismantles the superficial social media fluff around male "self-care." Instead of empty buzzwords, Ryan delivers ten actionable, non-negotiable daily habits every man must cultivate to lead himself, protect his household, and stand as a true ambassador for masculinity.  From waking up with deliberate intention and physically conditioning the body to maintaining financial stewardship, living by a strict moral code, and embracing intentional hardship, this episode provides the exact framework men need to reclaim focus and master their lives. Pick two habits and start building today. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Reclaiming Masculinity in a Hostile Culture 06:30 - Defining Real Self-Care for Men 08:30 - Rule 1: Wake Up With Intention 11:55 - Rule 2: Train Your Mind, Body, and Soul 14:40 - Rule 3: Read for Application, Not Status 18:40 - Rule 4: Join a Real Brotherhood 21:40 - Rule 5: Track Your Budget and Buy Back Time 25:40 - Rule 6: Be Present in Your Home 26:40 - Rule 7: Own Your Mistakes 27:20 - Rule 8: Accept and Process Your Emotions 29:40 - Rule 9: Live by an Unshakable Code 33:20 - Rule 10: Do Difficult Things With Purpose 35:20 - Pick Two Practices and Take Action     Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    What Self-Care for Men Actually Looks Like | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

  5. Oct 14

    Firing Your Friend, Leading Your Family When in Doubt, and Talking to Your Dad Before It's Too Late | ASK ME ANYTHING

    In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss the importance of living intentionally, making the most of time with loved ones, and taking responsibility for personal decisions. They debate the death penalty and the public broadcasting of executions before answering listener questions about dating after divorce, fatherhood after children leave home, staying consistent when progress slows, and handling workplace disappointments. The conversation also explores firing a friend who isn't performing, the value of honest feedback, and why clear communication matters in difficult situations. Finally, they discuss how fathers can encourage their children to embrace outdoor adventures and family experiences.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Opener 00:50 - Making the Most of Life and Time with Loved Ones 03:04 - The Death Penalty and Public Executions 10:33 - Attention, Incentives, and Personal Responsibility 14:37 - Dating After Divorce: When Should Your Kids Meet Someone New? 21:11 - Fatherhood After Your Children Leave Home 27:23 - Staying Consistent When Results Stop Being Exciting 32:22 - Drifting Through Life vs. Acting Intentionally 34:27 - Shackleton's Expedition and the Power of Intentionality 39:55 - Pride vs. Knowing Your Worth at Work 48:55 - The Importance of Honest Feedback 53:54 - Hiring Your Best Friend: Can You Fire Him Without Losing the Friendship? 01:02:01 - Why Uncertainty Creates Stress 01:05:42 - Getting Your Teenager Interested in Outdoor Adventures   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    Firing Your Friend, Leading Your Family When in Doubt, and Talking to Your Dad Before It's Too Late | ASK ME ANYTHING

  6. Oct 14

    IAN WENDT | Brotherhood Isn't a Luxury

    Men today are lonelier, more exhausted, and more divided than ever, and most of them won't reach out for help until their world is already falling apart. Today I sit down in person with Ian Wendt to talk about why brotherhood is a necessity and not a luxury. We get into the isolation of men, the decline of the institutions that used to bring us together, and why so many guys only show up once their wife has pushed them through the door. From there, we go into the bigger picture: the forces working to divide us along the most emotional lines possible, why nuance is where the truth lives, how algorithms build our lenses for us, and what it means to be in the world but not of it. Ian also shares what it cost him to speak up when silence would have been easier, and why becoming a father made that choice for him. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Episode Introduction 03:00 Montana Knife Gift 04:53 Growing Up and Hunting Aspirations 11:08 Why Connection is a Necessity, Not a Luxury 17:53 Exhaustion, the Rat Race, and Apathy 22:36 The Men's Mental Health Crisis and Brotherhood 27:11 The Agenda to Isolate Men 34:24 Manufactured Distractions and National Court Cases 41:29 Social Media Algorithms and False Narratives 46:16 The Demoralization of Truth and Society 48:43 Dissecting the True Purpose of Conspiracies 58:24 Politicians, Empty Influencers, and the Future 01:05:26 Leveraging the Digital World Without Being Consumed   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    IAN WENDT | Brotherhood Isn't a Luxury

  7. Oct 9

    Modern Vulnerability is a Scam | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down why the popular concept of "vulnerability" is being misconstrued in modern culture . By definition, vulnerability means susceptibility to harm and weakness - traits that undermine a man's core responsibility to protect, provide, and preside . Rather than glorifying weakness for sympathy, men should replace vulnerability with humility, honesty, and discernment . Ryan explains how to identify weaknesses to shore them up, share truthful struggles only with trusted brothers who have earned your trust, and avoid the twin traps of total isolation or emotional leaking . Plus, learn details about the upcoming Order of Man War Room event focused on overcoming five foundational fears every man faces . SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction: The Problem with "Vulnerability" 02:19 - Defining Vulnerability: Why It Means Weakness 03:10 - The Castle Analogy: Shoring Up Defenses 04:46 - What to Use Instead: Humility and Honesty 07:00 - The Dopamine Trap of Modern Vulnerability 08:00 - Applying Humility in Real Life 10:00 - Living in Honesty and Dealing in Reality 15:36 - Discernment: Who Has Earned Your Trust? 19:12 - Protecting the Skeleton Key 21:00 - The Two Dangers: Walled Off vs. Leaking 26:40 - Order of Man War Room Invitation   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    Modern Vulnerability is a Scam | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

  8. Oct 7

    A Cheating Friend, Earning Back Your Wife's Trust, and When Keeping the Peace Becomes Cowardice | ASK ME ANYTHING

    Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle six questions about friendship, marriage, parenting, career, preparedness, and personal growth. They discuss how to confront a friend who is cheating, rebuild credibility after repeatedly abandoning self-improvement efforts, and navigate a teenager's decision to skip college for the trades.  They also explore the line between healthy preparedness and obsession, maintaining boundaries in a co-parenting situation, and whether loyalty to an employer is still worthwhile. Throughout the episode, Ryan and Kipp return to a common theme: consistency, responsibility, and taking ownership of your choices rather than waiting for circumstances or other people to change.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 13:46 - Confronting a Friend Who Is Cheating 18:44 - Rebuilding Credibility Through Consistency 33:07 - College vs. the Trades 42:21 - Preparedness vs. Paranoia 48:58 - Parenting Across Two Households 53:10 - Is Employer Loyalty Worth It? 1:06:18 - The Case for Taking Action Now 1:08:13 - War Room Announcement   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    A Cheating Friend, Earning Back Your Wife's Trust, and When Keeping the Peace Becomes Cowardice | ASK ME ANYTHING
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We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you're ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.

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  • Creator
    Ryan Michler
  • Years Active
    2015 - 2026
  • Episodes
    1.6K
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    Copyright © Order of Man 2024
  • Show Website
    Order of Man

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